男孩小卓10岁了，新学期伊始，就被老师劝退回了家，原因是他总在课堂上摆弄下体。

The boy small zhuo 10 years old,At the beginning of the new semester,Was the teacher advised returned home,Reason is that he always in class tinkering with nakedness.

　　愁眉不展的爸妈领他到哈尔滨市儿童医院青春期门诊就诊。经于泓主任询问缘由，小卓的妈妈吞吞吐吐地说出了其中的难言之隐。自今年上半年开始，小卓不知不觉喜欢上了摆弄自己的下体，就是在课堂上课也不避讳同学们。每当他摆弄下体的时候，往往会双眼凝视、十分专注，老师提问也听不到。为此，老师多次找来小卓的家长，孩子的爸妈倍感羞愧、难堪，无法理解儿子的行为。

Even when you are sad parents took him to the children's hospital of Harbin adolescence clinic to see a doctor.In the dark by the director asked the reason,Small zhuo mother hesitantly just tell the one of the secret sorrow.Since the first half of this year began,Small zhuo unconsciously like tinkering with own nakedness,In class is the class also not afraid the classmates.Whenever he tinkering with the nakedness,Often eyes gaze/Very focus,The teacher questions also can't hear.therefore,The teacher found many small zhuo's parents,The child's parents feel ashamed/embarrassed,Can't understand his son's behavior.

　　经诊断，小卓的病症在医学上叫“擦腿综合征”，患童会通过擦腿、夹腿等方式或直接用手摩擦外生殖器来寻求一种“舒服”的感觉。严重将发展成手淫。医生建议从源头上查找诱因，比如是否偷看色情读物或电影，有没有畸形和局部炎症，或其它原因而致性发育提前、性早熟等。

The diagnosis,Small zhuo disease in medical call"Wipe leg syndrome",Having a child with will through the brush leg/Clamp leg etc or direct hand friction genitalia to seek a"comfortable"feeling.Serious will develop into masturbation.The doctor advised from the source to find incentive,Such as whether the peek pornographic books or movies,Any deformity and local inflammation,Or other reasons cause sexual development in advance/Precocious puberty, etc.

　　于泓主任告诫说，为防止尴尬的情况发生，家长和学校应加强对少年儿童的性教育，普及性行为常识，给予孩子正确的性方向和性取向，提高性健康的认知水平和心理需求，莫在进入青春期后埋下隐患。作为家长和老师，应从青少年的成长发育角度出发，理解并掌握他们的心理活动和生理特点，及时予以正确疏导。

In the dark director warned,To avoid embarrassing happens,Parents and schools should strengthen to young children's sex education,Universality behavior common sense,Give children the right sexual orientation and sexual orientation,Improve the cognitive level of sexual health and psychological needs,Mo in after puberty buried hidden trouble.As parents and teachers,The growth of young people from development perspective,Understand and master their psychological activities and physiological characteristics,Timely correct counseling.

　　衣晓峰 巍然 记者 张海霞

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男生下课总去亲漂亮女生的脸 老师该怎么教育 The boy is always to kiss a beautiful girl face the teacher how to education

问：我是一名小学教师。一个男生总是自慰，频率非常高，似乎一闲下来就自慰，这会不会影响到他青春期的发育？会不会使他更容易犯性方面的错误？ ask:I am a primary school teacher.A boy is always masturbation,Frequency is very high,Seems to be idle down when he masturbation,It will affect his adolescent development?Will makes him easier to make sexual error?

　　方刚回复：二者之间没有联系。自慰不是过错，频率高也不是过错，不会带来身体伤害。对性的喜欢，也并不会导致在性方面犯错误，性上犯错与否，同人格的整体成长有关。担心自慰过多会影响身体发育，以及导致犯性错误的想法，来源于对自慰的污名化。但是，这个学生是在公开场所自慰吗？那就要找他谈谈了，讲清楚自慰的一些伦理标准，比如应该是私密的，不应该伤害到自己，等等 6 reply:No association between them.Masturbation is not fault,High frequency is not fault,Will not bring bodily harm.For sex like,Also will not lead to mistakes in sexuality,Sexual mistake or not,With the overall growth of the personality.Too much worry about masturbation affect body development,And lead to sex offender is the wrong idea,From masturbatory infamy.but,This student is in public masturbate?That is about to find him about it,Clear masturbatory some ethical standards,For example should be private,Should not hurt yourself,, etc…[

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