90后不是“职场小怪兽”

After 90 is not"Workplace small monster"

　　70后：我们都是工作狂!

After 70:We are all a workaholic!

　　80后：我们拒绝加班！

After 80:We refuse to work overtime!

　　90后：我们拒绝上班！

After 90:We refuse to work!

　　70后：吃饭时，我们喜欢坐在老板旁边。

After 70:When having a meal,We like to sit by owner.

　　80后：我们最好别坐在老板旁边，那才无拘无束。

After 80:We'd better not sit by owner,That is just unrestrained.

　　90后：我是老板！

After 90:I am the boss!

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　　这是在网上广为流传的一个段子，谐谑却也不乏真实感。不管愿不愿意，每一代人都会被贴上不同的标签。在90后开始大规模进入职场时，更多关注的矛头开始转向这一群会说火星文，敢于说NO的新新人类。

This is the online widespread one joke,Farcicality but also there is no lack of sense of reality.No matter would like to,Each generation will be labeled as different labels.In 90 started mass when workplace,More attention spearhead to begin to turn this group will say Mars text,Dare to say NO new new mankind.

　　从90后“闪辞风波”到“拒订盒饭”，其实事件本不应该被上纲上线，公众的口水更多是被加在90后群体那堆标签所“引领”，正如90后抱怨的那样，“社会如此关注我们这个群体的个性、叛逆，并试图以此间接证明‘90后’的确是‘脑残’、不识趣的一族。”

After from 90"Flash speech disturbance"to"Refused to order lunch box",In fact the event should not be top key link top line,The public the saliva is more is added after 90 of the group as the label"lead",As 90 complain about that,"Social so concerned about our group personality/rebel,An attempt to indirect proof‘After 90’Is really‘Brain damage’/Keep the gens."

　　在网络时代和丰富的物质环境下成长起来的90后的确会带有他们的群体特征，但这种特征更多是由时代教育、社会背景所造成的。而在职场上过于自负、锋芒毕露、目的性强、难以沟通，不愿接受批评、畏惧困难等等是“职场新人”的通病，并非90后独有。

In the Internet age and rich material environment grow up after 90 do with their group characteristics,But this feature is more by the time education/Caused by the social background.And in the workplace too conceited/Fail to show restraint/Purpose strong/Difficult to communicate,Don't want to accept criticism/Fear is difficult and so on"New workplace"The common fault of the,After 90 is not unique.

　　因此，90后不是浑身毛病的“职场小怪兽”，80后、70后，乃至60后们也不是百战不殆的“职场奥特曼”，谁都经历过职场菜鸟的尴尬时光，所以，当90后犯错时，请别再以一个成熟员工的标准来要求他们，给他们“更自由的学习和施展个性的空间，不要扼杀或指责成长中的一点点小叛逆。”

therefore,After 90 is not all the fault"Workplace small monster",After 80/After 70,Even after 60 are also not of awareness"Workplace autom",Who have experienced workplace rookie awkward time,so,When 90 makes a mistake,Please don't again with a mature staff's standard to ask them,Give them"More freedom of learning and cast the space that individual character,Don't kill or blame growing a little rebellious."

　　2012年被称为“90后入职元年”。

In 2012 is called"After 90 the first appointment".

　　近日，一则“90后实习生拒绝帮前辈订盒饭”的微博再次引发公众对90后职场人的热议。一方面，90后作为强调个性独立，拥有创新思维的新新人类，给职场带来新鲜活力；另一方面，他们不能被批评、遇到困难容易放弃，这些90后容易出现的毛病也让管理者倍感头疼。

recently,a"After 90 interns refused to help senior order lunch box"Micro bo reignite the public after 90 workplace thermal discussion.On the one hand,After 90 as emphasized personality independence,With creative thinking of the new new mankind,To workplace bring fresh vitality;On the other hand,They can't be criticized/Difficulty easy to give up,These after 90 is easy to appear the problem also let managers always have a headache.

　　

现状：90后创造力强，追求标新立异 status:After 90 strong creativity,Pursue the unconventional

　　“上班带2个iphone，还带了IPAD，你稍微一不盯紧，她就在办公桌上开始玩。安排给她的工作能拖就拖，实在拖不了，就草草了事。找她谈话，态度挺好，可下次还那样。而且一点不见外，把办公室当家了，天天带一大堆吃的来，从早到晚零食吃不停。” 说起自己的90后新下属，网站编辑袁女士一肚子苦水，“我现在经常得给她做思想工作，都快成政委了。” 袁女士觉得，伴随着互联网长大的90后，比较聪明，接受新鲜事物也很快，但个性叛逆、有点骄傲自大，“不好管”。

"Work with two iphone,With the IPAD,You are a little bit a don't stare tight,She started to play on your desk.Arranged for her work can drag will drag,Really don't drag,Just hurry.Find her conversation,Attitude is good,But the next time that also.And not a little outside,The office was alone,With a lot of every day to eat,From morning till night snacks to eat constantly." Speaking of his 90 new subordinates,Web editor yuen lady full of bitter,"Now I often have to give her to do ideological work,All quick into the commissar." Yuen lady think,Grew up with the Internet after 90,smarter,To accept new things quickly,But the rebellious personality/A little proud,"Bad tube".

　　虽然袁女士遇到的只是个案，但90后自从进入职场就备受争议，其鲜明的个性和强烈的时代特征，既给职场注入了新鲜血液，也给管理者带来了深度思考。此前，英才网联则对90后的职场心态进行了一次调查，结果显示57%的90后憧憬个性化、朋友式的工作氛围，45%的90后会坚持自己的观点和行事风格。

Although yuen woman meet is the case,But after 90 since the workplace is controversial,Its bright individual character and strong characteristics of The Times,Both for workplace injected fresh blood,Also give managers brought deep thinking.after,Talent is WangLian in 90 after the workplace attitude with a survey,The results shows that 57% of 90 vision after personalized/PengYouShi working atmosphere,45% of the 90 will keep your opinions to yourself and style.

　　在前程无忧职场顾问王剑看来，“创造力强”是90后职场新人显著特点，“由于成长在信息爆炸的网络时代，90后比他们的前辈更加见多识广，而且思想更开放和追求个性，追逐‘标新立异’使他们更加会利用创新思维”；而90后之所以更强调自我实现和存在感，则是因为他们生活在我国经济迅速发展的阶段，往往家庭条件较之前有了很大改善，由于其社会角色还未成熟，因此生活压力暂时不大，工作也就不是“谋生”的手段，更多的90后希望通过工作来证明自己的价值。

In 51 job still seems workplace consultant,"Strong creativity"Are the 90 new workplace characteristics,"Due to growth in the information explosion era of Internet,After 90 more informed than their predecessors,And that thought is more open, and the pursuit of personality,chase‘Do STH unconventional or unorthodox’Make them more will use innovative thinking";And after 90 is more stressed self realization and presence,It is because they live in the country's economic rapid development stage,Often family condition has been much improved than before,Because of its social role is not mature,So the stress in your life is temporary,Work is not"Make a living"means,More 90 hope that through work to prove his worth.

　　

专家：新人多做杂事“不是坏事” experts:The couple do more chores"Not bad"

　　“在职场上，新员工尊重老员工、尊重上司的规则不会过时，要想尽快融入职场，得到更多锻炼机会，新员工一定要谦虚谨慎，眼里有活儿，多做些杂事，主动申请增加工作内容，并不是坏事。职场新人在琐碎的工作中坚持下去，也是对他们性格的历练，更成熟更能承受压力。而刚刚走进职场的90后，缺少的就是职场历练。”英才网联网站总编苑航建议。

"In the workplace,New employees respect old staff/Respect the boss's rule is never out of season,To blend in the workplace as soon as possible,Get more chance to exercise,New employees must be modest and prudent,Eyes have work,To do more chores,The initiative to apply for an increase of the work content,Is not bad.New workplace in trivial work stick to it,Also for their character of experience,More mature more can withstand the pressure.And just walked into the workplace after 90,It lacks is work experience."Elite WangLian web editor-in-chief YuanHang Suggestions.

　　人力资源管理咨询顾问董一鸣则认为，90后更看重“尊重”，在类似“订盒饭”事件中，管理者也得反思自己的领导风格是否会碰触到90后的自尊底线。与此同时，企业也得大力加强职业化教育，“90后对于专长、专业和敬业的区分度不明晰，缺乏具体可操作的案例和指导，也会引发对于企业要求的不明晰。我们国内很多企业都是“表现好、做出成绩”，但对于何种表现称之为好表现或何种成绩是本企业推崇的均无量化规定，使职场新人一头雾水。企业需要增加可操作的定性指标,提升职场新人的人际关系处理能力和情商。”

Human resources management consultants DongYiMing is think,After 90 more value"respect",In similar"Order lunch box"event,Managers have to reflect on their own leadership style will touch after 90 self-esteem the bottom line.meanwhile,Enterprise have to strengthen professional education,"After 90 for expertise/Professional and dedicated to distinguish degrees are not clear,The lack of specific operational cases and guidance,Can also cause for enterprise requirements are not clear.We many domestic enterprises are"Behave well/Has made achievements",But for what performance called well or what kind of result is the enterprise esteem the are no quantitative provisions,Make new workplace baffled.Enterprise need to increase operational qualitative index,Improve workplace new interpersonal ability and emotion quotient (eq)."

　　

- 90后职场 After the 90 - work

　　

文科生择业挑战数据分析 The school of arts living employment challenges data analysis

　　谢尔道，在某外资咨询公司从事市场分析工作，今年7月入职

Cher way,In a foreign consulting company is engaged in the market analysis work,July of this year as income

　　特点：工作半年未在公司结交朋友；加班太多会恐慌；不喜欢重复领域的工作；有时觉得批评难以接受

characteristics:Half a year in the company to work without friends;Too much overtime will be panic;Do not like to repeat field of work;Sometimes feel hard to accept criticism

　　从中文系毕业后，谢尔道没有选择文字类的工作，反而“不走寻常路”，与他并不擅长的数字打起了交道，虽然不喜欢外界给90后标签化的解读，但谢尔道坦言，自己选择做数据分析在某一方面的确也印证了90后群体喜欢挑战困难，看重自我成就感的特点。

After graduated from the Chinese department of from,Cher way have no choice text class work,instead"Don't walk unusual way",And he is not good at digital dozen have a crossing,Although don't like the outside world after 90 to label the interpretation of change,But cher tao said,Choose to do the data analysis in one hand is also proved after 90 groups like challenges difficult,The characteristics of the self value sense of achievement.

　　工作近半年，谢尔道没有在公司结交自己的朋友圈，“这可能与我的个性有关，我有点自保倾向。”谢尔道说。

Work nearly half a year,Cher way not in company make their own circle of friends,"This could be a possible problem with my personality,I'm a little self-insurance tendency."Cher tao says.

　　但不愿与同事私交甚深并不代表不善于人际交往或办公室关系不融洽。平日里，同事一块吃饭，谢尔道也会提前去饭店占座，或者张罗着给大家倒茶。

But don't want to colleagues and personal friendship very deep doesn't mean are not good at interpersonal or office relations are not harmonious.daily,Colleague a dinner,Cher way will also go to the hotel in advance of seat,Or scare up a poured tea.

　　加班是让很多90后头疼的问题，他们更希望保留自己的空间。在外企工作的这半年里，加班是谢尔道的常态，“如果加班占据了太多我的个人时间，我会很恐慌。我会有所平衡，看清楚自己究竟想要什么。”在这个阶段，谢尔道更多地将加班视为学习过程，“即使不加班，这部分个人时间也会被用来充电，毕竟面对的是全新的领域，要学的太多。”

Working overtime is to make a lot of after 90 have a headache problem,They are more hope to keep their own space.Working at a foreign company of this six months,Working overtime is cher way normal,"If overtime occupied much my personal time,I will be very panic.I'll have balance,See yourself whether you want."At this stage,Cher way more will work overtime as the learning process,"Even if they do not work overtime,This part of the personal time will also be used to charge,After all, is facing the new field,To learn too much."

　　谢尔道也不喜欢在同样的领域做重复的工作，“我们的行业分得很细，我希望能有做跨行业业务的机会。领导当然不会愿意，但我会直接跟领导沟通，说明自己的想法。”

Cher and the word is not like in the same field do repetitive work,"Our industry share very fine,I hope I can do cross-industry business opportunities.Leadership of course not willing to,But I will directly with the leadership communication,Explain your ideas."

　　“有时候也会觉得批评难以接受。工作没做好自己充满了挫败感，更希望听到的是领导的鼓励而不是指责”，谢尔道坦言，90后对批评会有一些敏感，但并不意味着90后不愿意承担责任。他说，这也是自己吃过几次亏总结出的经验，“现在，我已经能有技巧地表明自己的观点，并让领导也认同了。”

"Sometimes will also feel hard to accept criticism.A work ill done himself filled with frustration,More want to hear is the leading encouragement not accused",Cher tao said,After 90 there will be some of the sensitive to criticism,But this does not mean that after 90 is not willing to take responsibility.He said,This is you eat a few times kui sums up the experience,"now,I have to have the skills to make a point,And let's leaders are also identified with the."

　　

半年学会“收敛性格” Half a year to learn"Convergence character"

　　兰建文， 在IT行业某上市公司从事财务工作，今年7月正式入职

LanJianWen, In the IT industry to a listed company is engaged in the financial work,July formal appointment

　　特点：喜欢单干，说话直来直往，有些工作会拖拉

characteristics:Like to go it alone,Talk straight to keep to,Some work will drag

　　6月开始上班，7月正式入职，回顾近半年来的职场生活，兰建文觉得自己最明显的转变之一是“性格上有所收敛”。兰建文笑称，“以前说话习惯直来直去，刚接手工作时，喜欢单干。常常我一个人把任务干完了，自我感觉良好，但领导、同事觉得不怎么样。”

June to start work,July formal appointment,Review nearly half a year to professional life,LanJianWen feel the most obvious change is one of the"The character is convergence".LanJianWen smile said,"The past speak habit go continuously continuously,Just take over work,Like to go it alone.Often I a person take the task done,You feel good about yourself,But the leadership/Colleagues don't feel."

　　企业财务工作并不像想象那样只要整天对着一堆数据、报表，而是涉及与不同部门、不同人群的沟通，这让兰建文特别头疼，“有些需要与很多人沟通才能完成的工作，因为畏难我会一直拖着。”最近一次，就误事了，“我负责的工作要和客户、供应商对账，需要多方协商，要问的人特别多，我就一直拖，结果查看部门进度时，就我负责的项目没完成。”

Enterprise financial work do not like to imagine that all the day as long as to a pile of data/statements,But with different departments involved/Different groups of communication,It makes LanJianWen special headache,"Some need and a lot of people communication to finish work,Because of the fear of I'll drag."A recent,Is delaying the,"I am responsible for work to and customer/Supplier reconciliation,Multi-lateral negotiation,To ask people much more special,I have been dragged,Results to check the progress of the department,I didn't finish for the assigned project."

　　兰建文觉得，同事和领导对90后群体还是有一些刻板印象，她能做的就是努力工作，逐渐改变他们的观点。

LanJianWen think,Colleagues and leaders to 90 group there are still some stereotypes,She can do is to work hard,Gradually change their point of view.

　　除了在工作中多与同事协商外，在工作之外兰建文也更多融入到团队，月末集体加班时，兰建文给大家叫了外卖，如果领导让我负责规划集体出游事宜，提前订酒店等，我也绝对不会推委，虽然做的时候很累，但看到大家玩得开心，也会很有成就感。

In addition to work in many colleagues and the consultation,In LanJianWen outside of work more into the team,The end of the month when the collective work overtime,LanJianWen give everybody called takeout,If the leadership let I'm responsible for planning collective travel matters,Advance booking hotel, etc,I will not shift responsibility onto others,Although doing very tired,But see everybody had fun,Also will be with a sense of accomplishment.

　　

争 辩 Contend for

　　

HR HR

　　90后敏感、爱质疑，爱挑刺, 讲话过于直接，先关注“自己高兴”，独立思考欲望旺盛。遇到难题喜欢先自己琢磨，畏惧主动沟通，向经验寻求答案。

After 90 sensitive/Love question,Love nagging, Too direct speech,To pay attention to"Himself happy",Independent thinking strong desire.Have problems like to ponder,Fear active communication,To seek the answer experience.

　　不能批评只能哄，所有的领导对事情的评价经常被解读为对人的不满

Can't criticism can coax,All of the leadership to the evaluation of things is often interpreted as on people's discontent

　　对于长辈和同事的态度比较“冷”，人际关系能力需要磨砺。

For elders and his colleagues compared the attitude"cold",Interpersonal skills honed need.

　　

90后 After 90

　　我们有时候的确会喜欢一个人独立完成，遇到问题也希望能自己先想出应对之策。如果能解决问题，独立思考应该被鼓励。讲话直接是我们还没完全从学校的沟通方式转向职场的人际交往习惯。

We sometimes do like a person independently,Encounter problems also hope to their first come up with corresponding solutions.If we can solve the problem,Independent thinking should be encouraged.Direct speech is that we haven't completely from the school means of communication to the workplace interpersonal habits.

　　工作出现问题本来就已充满了挫败感，更希望得到领导的鼓励。如果领导的批评对事不对人，而且如果把不是我的责任也全归结到我们头上，自然要据理力争。

Work problems was already filled with frustration,More hope to get leadership encouragement.If the leadership criticism to things not people,And if the is not my responsibility also all boil down to our head,Natural to fight it out.

　　说不善沟通有点想当然，这也得看企业、分工种。怎么才算“热”？每天一进办公室就笑似乎有点假。

Say a bit poor communication for granted,It also depends on enterprise/Division of labor of.How to just calculate"heat"?Every one into the office and then smile seems a little fake.

　　

- 点评 - comment on

　　

努力培养“心理弹性” cultivate"Psychological elastic"

　　王剑，前程无忧职场顾问

still,51 job professional consultant

　　过于自负、锋芒毕露、目的性强、难以沟通，其实这些是“职场新人”的通病，并非90后独有，回想当初80后初入职场时也遭到了类似批评。这些所谓的“缺点”完全可以通过一段时间的工作改掉。如今的职场，由于用人单位体制以及系统的不断健全，个体能够起到的作用逐渐减弱，团队的作用不断突出，对于那些强调自我的职场新人会不断地通过实践甚至碰壁意识到协作中的重要性，这个过程也正是他们改掉缺点，走向成熟的过程。

Too conceited/Fail to show restraint/Purpose strong/Difficult to communicate,Actually these are"New workplace"The common fault of the,After 90 is not unique,Recollected that time after 80 when uncommon also met with similar criticism.These so-called"shortcomings"Completely through a period of time's work to change.Today's workplace,The employing unit system and system perfect,The role of the individual can rise gradually weakened,The role of team continuously outstanding,For those who emphasize self new workplace will constantly through the practice and even go to the wall aware of the importance of cooperation,This process is what they get rid of disadvantages,The process of maturity.

　　为了能够使90后在进入职场后少走些弯路尽快成长，在沟通方面应多站在他人的立场上换位思考，用别人更容易接受的方式进行沟通，特别是职场新人，在没有任何资历的情况下更应该谦虚谨慎，遵守“行规”，只有这样才能更容易被别人所接受从而融入团队。

In order to be able to make after 90 in the workplace less after go some crooked road growth as soon as possible,In communication should be standing in the other's shoes transposition thinking,With other people are more likely to accept the way of communication,Especially new workplace,In don't have any qualifications under the situation of more should be modest and prudent,Abide by"Guild regulations",Only in this way can more easily accepted by others and into the team.

　　此外90后学会释放压力、提高抗压能力，这对于自小在优越环境中长大的90后非常重要，要努力培养自己的“心理弹性”。

In addition to release pressure after 90/Improve the compression ability,This trained in the superior environment for grew up after 90 is very important,Try to cultivate your own"Psychological elastic".

　　- 给90后的建议

After the 90 - give advice

　　1.盘点自己的社交圈子的年龄段。如果你的IPhone4里面存储的200多个联系人几乎全都是同龄人的话，有必要纵向发展一下联系人圈子了。多向职场成功人士请教，但记得称呼“您”。

1. Count their social circle age.If your IPhone4 stored in more than 200 contact, almost all of whom were words of peers,It is necessary to fore-and-aft development about the contact circle.Change workplace successful people consult,But remember to call"you".

　　2.承认不公平，但不应放弃努力。

2. Admit that unfair,But should not give up efforts.

　　3.有一种胜利叫以柔克刚。你在工作中想法很多，而且自认为高明，是说还是不说呢？答案是要用巧妙的大家都能接受的方式讲出来，同时勇于尝试和承担后果。

3. There is a victory that with softness.Lots of ideas in your work,And think brillant,Mean or don't say it?The answer is to use clever everyone can accept the way to speak out,At the same time, the courage to try and take the consequences.

　　4.装嫩和卖萌不总是管用。在职场中，很多年轻人会在职场初期利用“同性相斥、异性相吸”的原理，抓住机会请别人帮忙做事。但是小聪明未必总是管用！

4. Outfit is tender and sell sprout don't always work.On-the-job field,Many young people will be in the workplace initial use"Gay repellent/Opposites attract"principle,Seize the chance to ask someone for help work.But smart may not always work!

　　5.当下的快乐。追求现实的快乐没有问题，但如果你理解的快乐有一部分和享受、牺牲工作效率或公共利益沾边的话，不如每次攻克一个业务小难关获得的快乐更实在些。

5. The happiness.The pursuit of real happiness no problem,But if you understand happiness is part and enjoy/Sacrifice work efficiency or public interests during words,As each conquer a business little difficulty get happiness really some more.

　　6.学会控制情绪。如果你对无厘头的批评非常反感，同时无法容忍错怪你的指责，特别想发一封邮件或哭泣时，不妨先深呼吸，离开办公室一会儿，之后在没那么生气的时候再回复邮件，把事情说清楚即可，无需理会其他带有情绪的负面评价。

6. Learn to control mood.If you have no so pissed-off criticism,At the same time can't tolerate wrong about you blame,Special want to send an E-mail or crying,Might as well take a deep,Leave the office for a minute,After a not so angry E-mail reply again,Put things can be clear,No one seemed to understand what anyone else with emotional negative evaluation.

　　7.竞争必须要有合作。

7. The competition must have cooperation.

　　董一鸣，人力资源管理咨询顾问，人力资源培训师

DongYiMing,Human resource management consultants,Human resources training division

　　

琐碎是通往职业理想的阶梯 Little is the gateway to vocational ideal ladder

　　段冬，58同城副总裁

Period of winter,58 city vice President

　　90后和80后进入职场特征类似，只是90后表现得更明显。我们公司也有一些90后员工,他们对个性独立，对梦想的追求有更强烈的意愿。因为在90后一代的整个成长过程中，不管是家庭环境还是社会环境都处于变革巨大的时期，物质条件较好，90后普遍在物质上担忧较少，但面对的家长期望值也更高。

After 90 and 80 into the workplace features similar,Only after 90 showed more obvious.Our company also has some 90 staff,Their personality independence,The pursuit of dreams to have more strong will.Because in 90 after a generation of the whole growth process,Whether family environment or social environment are in the period of great change,Material conditions are good,After the 90 general on matter less concern,But in the face of the parents is also higher expectations.

　　榜样的作用对90后更大，但这种榜样也不像80、70后那样局限于某些领域，中国文化对90后的影响变小，他们的价值观导向更有普遍意义。同时，因为接触信息丰富和多元化，90后在思想上更追求自我实现和个性独立。他们会觉得形式主义的东西无关紧要，而是更注重现实。此外，90后对未来的预期会更高，期望在短时间内更实现成功或达成目标。90后更羡慕创业成功的人，对金钱的概念更理性，对薪酬的预期更直接，他们可以忍受在职业初期一个比较低的薪酬，但这段时期必须很短，否则他们就会选择离开或跳槽。

An example of the role of after 90 more,But this example also don't like 80/After 70 that limited to some areas,China's culture to the influence of after 90 smaller,Their values orientation is more general significance.At the same time,Because contact information rich and diversified,After 90 in thought more the pursuit of self realization and personality independence.They will feel formalism irrelevant,But pay more attention to reality.In addition,After 90 for future expectations will be higher,Expect in a short time to realize success or more goals.After 90 more envy entrepreneurial success,The concept of money to more rational,The expected to pay more directly,They can stand in vocational initial a low salary,But this period must be short,Otherwise, they will choose to leave or job-hopping.

　　我提醒90后，日常的琐碎工作是通往职业理想的阶梯，人脉的积累、责任的积累、知识的积累都要借此得以实现。（缪晨霞）

I remind after 90,The daily trivial work is the gateway to vocational ideal ladder,Contacts of the accumulation of/Responsibility of the accumulation of/The accumulation of knowledge will take this can be realized.(MiaoChenXia)

　　(来源:新京报)

(Sources: Beijing news)