在如何对待女孩子教育的问题上，我们需好好想一想。因为我们很容易按照世俗陈规引导孩子走入“女性化”的道路。事实上，我们很容易批评那些不太“女性化”的女孩子，说她们太争强好胜，太喧哗吵闹。

On how to treat a lady education proBlem,We need to think aBout it.Because we are easily according to the secular stereotypes lead children into"feminine"road.In fact,We can easily criticized those who don't"feminine"girl,Said they so desire to excel over others,Too shindy.

　　但是，儿童心理学家说，我们应当允许小女孩保持她们的本性，允许她们表达出她们的全部情绪，而不是压制那些不太为人们所接受的方面。如果她们想玩火车，就让她们玩好了，没理由说玩火车就不像个女孩子。

But,Children psychologist said,We should allow the little girl to keep their nature,Allow them to express all of their emotions,Instead of pressing those who don't to accept By people aspects.If they want to play the train,Let them play good,No reason to say to play the train will not like a girl.

a、小女孩完全可以玩活跃的游戏 a/The little girl can play active game

　　父母们总觉得男孩应该比女孩粗犷一些，所以我们会不自觉地把一些限制加在女孩子的身上。你有没有发现自己常说，“小心别把衣服弄脏了！”“上攀爬架要小心！”等等。

Parents always think Boys than girls should Be straightforward some,So we will not consciously put some restrictions upon the girl's Body.Have you ever found yourself is often said,"Be careful you don't get your clothes dirty!""The climBing frame to Be careful!", etc.

　　你得积极地鼓励女孩子去做她们所有想做的事(当然，一定要在合理范围内)。如果她们想把自己弄得乱糟糟的，或者她们想扮成挎着枪的牛仔，就让她们去吧。我们从小到大一直奉父母之言为金科玉律，所以，如果我们老是对女儿说，你不能这样，你不该那样，那么孩子长大以后，就会变得胆小怕事，不自信。要培养孩子的自信心，父母们要记得表扬孩子的成就，不能打击她，使其放弃想做的事。如果她的玩具掉到沙发后面，你不用参与帮她拿，放手让她自己去解决吧。这样，她就会意识到自己有能力去做很多的事。

You have to actively encourage girls to do they all want to do(Of course,Must Be in the reasonaBle scope).If they wanted to make a mess,Or they want to dress up as slung over one gun cowBoy,Let them go.We have Been since the childhood in parents of speech for the golden rule,so,If we always said to her daughter,You can't,You shouldn't have,So the child grow up,Will Become timid and overcautious,Don't Believe.To develop children's self-confidence,Parents rememBer to praise your child achievement,Can't Blow her,Make it give up want to do.If her toy away to Behind the sofa,You don't have to get her to participate in,Let her own to solve it.this,She will realize you have the aBility to do many things.

　　激烈的游戏活动是测试女孩们身体的好办法，父母千万不要太过保护这些小小的冒失鬼。攀爬、蹦跳、奔跑可以刺激发展孩子的协调能力。如果她爱玩活跃的游戏，你不妨买给她一个攀爬架。当然，游戏活动中，安全必须是第一位的。如果她想从第五级往下跳，不要跟她说她不能，而要说，第五级有点高，我们先从第三级试试。她需要知道你对她做这些体育活动的能力是有信心的。

The fierce game activities is to test the girls Body good way,Parents don't too protect these little sad sack.climB/crowhop/Running can stimulate the development of children's coordination aBility.If she loved playing active game,You might as well Buy give her a climB frame.Of course,Game activities,Security must Be the first.If she want from the fifth to jump down,Don't tell her that she can't,And say,The first category is a little Bit high,We first from the third grade to try.She needs to know you for her to do these sports activities is the aBility to have confidence.

b、不反对她是一个粉粉女孩 B/Don't oBject to what she is a powder powder girl

　　当然，你的小姑娘可能喜欢跟洋娃娃玩，喜欢穿粉红色的衣服，是个乖乖女。千万不要轻视女性化的趣味。鼓励她喜欢自己是个小姑娘，做妈妈的和她一起打扮会使她感觉做女性很好。让她知道自己很美，比如可以告诉她，她的头发很漂亮她会很喜欢这种赞美。小姑娘一直都在学习，妈妈则是她的角色榜样。让她明白，作为一个女人你都能做些什么，等她长大了她就会有一个健康的观念。

Of course,Your little girl might like to play with dolls,Like wearing pink clothes,Is a darling female.Don't despise feminine taste.Encourage she likes oneself is a little girl,Mom and her dress together can make her feel do women is very good.Let her know oneself is very Beautiful,For instance can tell her,Her hair is very Beautiful she is like this kind of praise.The little girl has Been in the study,His mother was her role models.Let her understand,As a woman you can do,And she grew up, she will have a healthy idea.

　　许多女孩都很喜欢婴儿，喜欢和洋娃娃玩，喜欢照顾新生儿。她是在模仿你，这种模仿可以让她学到宝贵的做妈妈的技巧。总之，不管她选择做什么，妈妈要做的是鼓励你的女儿享受她所享受的。这样的话，无论是芭蕾还是足球比赛，你都不会走错太远。

Many girls are like BaBies,Like to play with dolls,Like to take care of the newBorn.She is in the imitate you,This kind of imitation can let her learn valuaBle do mother's skills.In a word,Whether she choose to do??????,Mother to do is to encourage your daughter to enjoy what she enjoy.so,Whether Ballet or the footBall match,You can't go wrong too far.

1. 1.

　　让孩子有许多不同的玩伴，包括男孩和女孩。

Let children have many different playmate,Including the Boy and the girl.

2. 2.

　　当你带孩子去游乐场玩时，注意看她挑选哪些玩具来玩。如果她选择的玩具是家中没有的，你可以考虑买给她，以激发她的兴趣。

When you take children to the amusement park,Look at her choose which toys to play.If she chooses the toys are not home,You can consider to Buy for her,To arouse her interests.

3. 3.

　　如果她害羞，从体育游戏里逃走，你不要强行推她去参加。你可以尽力去帮助她克服恐惧，比如牵着她的手，鼓励她模仿别的小朋友沿着墙走。

If she is shy,From the sports game run away,You don't forciBly push her to attend.You can try to help her to overcome the fear,Such as holding her hand,Encouraged her to imitate other children go along the wall.

4. 4.

　　所有的孩子都需要很多的身体接触，确保你的小公主从爸爸妈妈那里得到足够多的亲吻和拥抱。

All children need a lot of physical contact,Make sure your puppy master-slave mom and dad to get enough hugs and kisses.

5. 5.

　　如果她喜欢，陪她一起做女孩气的事。你们可以花一个下午的时间来做化妆游戏。给她做头发，也让她给你做头发。

If she likes,Accompany her do together girl gas things.You can spend an afternoon of time to do make up the game.Gave her hair done,Also let her give you do one's hair.

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　　一般来讲，男孩比女孩更喜欢球类和带轮子的玩具。但是，如果你的小公主喜欢，你可以用在她身边踢球的办法来鼓励她的兴趣，或者给她买一个足球让她来练习。

Generally speaking,Boys are Better than girls prefer Ball and Belt wheels of toys.But,If you like the little princess,You can use to play Beside her way to encourage her interests,Or to Buy her a footBall let her to practice.