家里分成两派：是道义重要还是孩子安危重要？ Home into two pie：Is morality important or child safety important？

　　有人买东西不付钱，一个9岁的孩子碰上了，仗义执言了几句。可回到家里，孩子将这事告诉了家人，家里却分成了两派，妈妈说，儿子好样的，以后遇上这事，还应该挺身而出。爸爸却急了，坚决反对孩子的做法，说以后遇上了，决不能出声。昨天，网友将自己的这一经历发到常州化龙巷上，困惑自己教育儿子应该见义勇为，是不是错了，引起了网友的热烈讨论。

Some people buy things don't pay，A 9-year-old met，Out a few words。But back to home，Children told it to the family，Home is divided into two parties，Mother said，Son of good，Later in this thing，Also should stand out。Father is nasty，Firmly against the practice of children，Say later met，Must not phonate。yesterday，Net friend will own the experience to the dragon in changzhou lane，His son should never hesitated to confusion education，Was not wrong，Caused the net friend of a heated discussion。

事由：有人不付钱，儿子“出头”了 reason：Some people don't pay，son“s”the

　　据网友“hubinhua821120”说，昨天上午，9岁的儿子去小区菜场门口买麻糕，早晨，摊主老人的生意很不错，买麻糕的人特别多。这时，一个小年轻走过来，拿了10块麻糕没给钱就想走，摊主大爷发现了，跟他要钱。让人意想不到的是，小年轻对着大爷破口大骂，硬要辩称自己付过钱了，且越骂越难听，大爷便想息事宁人，于是赔着笑脸，连说没带钱就算了，当请你吃的了，可小年轻还是不依不饶。此时，儿子看不下去了，站出来说了句，“你本来就没付钱嘛！”结果，儿子成了小年轻辱骂的对象。最后，在周围人的指责下，小年轻丢下钱仓皇而逃。

According to the“hubinhua821120”said，Yesterday morning，9 year old son go to the village CaiChang buy linen cake，morning，The old man's business is very good stall，Buy linen cakes of the person be much more special。At this time，A XiaoNianQing came over，Took 10 piece of hemp cake didn't give money, want to go，The stall the big ye found，With him for money。Let people unexpectedly is，XiaoNianQing to the big ye oaths，Stubbornly argued that his paid for it，And the more offensive the scold，The big ye will want to calm them down，So compensate with a smiling face，Even said no money with even if......，When you eat，Can XiaoNianQing or bricks。At this time，Son see not bottom go to，Come out and say a sentence，“You were not pay for it！”The results，The son has been a XiaoNianQing reproach object。finally，In all the accused，XiaoNianQing leave money fled and escaped。

　　回家后，网友“hubinhua821120”得知了儿子的这一做法，大力称赞，鼓励儿子见义勇为是好事，以后还应该站出来。可丈夫一听，却极力反对，告诫儿子遇到这样的事情不能出声，这样的年轻人都心狠手辣，别人或许会报复。网友“hubinhua821120”纳闷：“见义勇为是人的一种道义责任，难道自己这样教育孩子错了？”

After coming home，the“hubinhua821120”The son of that this practice，To praise，Encourage heroic son is good，Then also should stand out。But her husband a listen to，Strongly opposed，Warned son to see such things can't make any noise，This young man is ruthless，Others may be revenge。the“hubinhua821120”wonder：“Never hesitated to is a moral responsibility，Don't so education child was wrong？”

调查：不少人觉得孩子安危更重要 survey：Many people think the child safety is more important

　　昨天，这篇网帖引起了不少网友的热议，有人觉得，这位妈妈真的错了，虽然是个好妈妈，但不是个负责的妈妈。“教育孩子从小有荣誉感，有担当是好事，但不能教孩子做超过自己能力的事”；也有网友认为这位妈妈的做法是正确的，“小孩子就要让他保持心灵上的纯洁，要让他知道是非分明。”

yesterday，This article nets for the net friend caused a lot of hot debate，Some think，The mother really wrong，Although a good mother，But not a responsible for mother。“Education the child have sense of honor，A bear is a good thing，You love him and how, he does not love you.do”；Have net friend that the mother's approach is right，“Children will let him keep the purity of heart，Let him know what wrong is。”

　　昨天下午，记者就此事在街头随机做了调查，听完记者的描述，10位父母中有8人反对该妈妈的做法，另2人表示，自己也会这么教育孩子。庄女士陪14岁的女儿琳琳出来上补习班，她说，见义勇为是好事，但有时好心并不一定有好报，她觉得保护自身安全最重要。

Yesterday afternoon，The reporters in the street did a survey randomly，After hearing the description of the reporters，10 parents has 8 people against the mother of approach，The other 2 people said，Will so education child。Zhuang woman with 14 year old daughter out around the cram school，She said，Never hesitated to is a good thing，But sometimes kind does not necessarily have a good result，She felt that protect their own security is the most important。

专家：要见义勇为 更要见义智为 experts：Want to see YiZhi for more heroic

　　妈妈教育孩子做得对，要出头；爸爸却为了孩子的安危，不希望儿子再管类似的事情，父母双方各有各的想法。记者为此咨询了常州市龙城网上家长学校的张曾镒副校长，他从事教育工作已经数十年。听了记者的描述，他表示，这位妈妈的做法不错，但家长在鼓励孩子敢于见义勇为的同时，也应告诉孩子，在不能保证自身安全的情况下，要尽量避免与对方的正面冲突。“见义勇为更要见义智为，要学会与坏人坏事作斗争的策略，如果看见不公正的事情，可以悄悄告诉周围的大人，必要时可以选择报警。”(任书天 曹德伟)

Mother education child to do so，Head to；My father was in the children's safety，Don't hope son again tube similar things，Both parents each have each idea。Reporter for this consultation with the changzhou high school was the parents online zhang yi vice President，He engaged in education work has been for decades。Listen to the reporter's description，He said，The mother of the practice of the good，But parents encourage children to warm and at the same time，Also should tell their children，In not to ensure its own security，Try to avoid the direct conflict with each other。“Never hesitated to see YiZhi for more，To learn and bad bad thing in fighting the strategy，If see unjust things，Can silently tell the adults around them，When necessary can choose to call the police。”(As CaoDeWei book day)