人们常说，教育需要学校、家庭、社会的配合，简称“三位一体”。学生求学的历程，一般也是学生与老师、家长与老师交往的过程。家长会，既是这种交往的途径之一，又是节点。

People often say that,Education need to school/family/Social cooperation,Referred to as"trinity".Students study process,The general is also student and teacher/Parents and teachers communication process.parents,This is one of the ways to communication,And node.

　　家长会是一个场，老师与家长在其中彼此交换信息、看法、观点、信念、情感、期待、需要等，珍视对方的给予和付出，以善意看待对方的努力，以诚意彼此协助，孩子最终会受益。

Parents' meeting is a field,Teachers and parents in which each other exchange information/view/view/faith/emotional/Looking forward to/Need to wait for,Cherish each other's give and pay,In good faith to see each other's efforts,With sincerity to help each other,Children will eventually benefit.

　　通常我们会看到一个现象，家长会上扎堆儿的多是妈妈，而爸爸即便参加也像个局外人，不记笔记、漫不经心，更是很少在会后围着老师讨论具体细节。

Usually we will see a phenomenon,Parents meeting more ZaDuiEr is mother,And dad even to also like an outsider,Don't take notes/insouciance,After the meeting is rarely around the teacher discuss details.

　　其实，家长会谁去得多不重要，重要的是对孩子的学业教育、日常教育、生活中的教育都发挥作用。爸爸不故意逃避，妈妈不大包大揽，不推诿、不埋怨，充分沟通各自的教育观和期待，清晰任务，制定阶段目标，大致分工，协调各自的方法，态度上保持一致性、连贯性。在这个过程中，父母和孩子都将有所成长。

In fact,Parents who go not more important,It is important to the child's school education/Daily education/Life education is to play a role.Dad doesn't deliberately escape,Mother doesn't take on all things,Don't shuffle/Don't complain,Fully communicate their education and looking forward to,Clear task,Make stage target,Roughly division of labor,Coordinate their method,Attitude maintain consistency/coherence.In this process,Parents and children will grow.