1.了解学校的各项制度 1. Know all kinds of school system

　　尤其是直升高中部的方式。及早的了解学校的相关制度，为孩子的初中学习尽可能的创造条件。有些中学具有非常好的高中部，很多家长就是为了让孩子将来能进入高中部，才进入该校的初中部的。这些家长更要及早的了解学校有关直升高中部的规定，到底要求哪些条件；是要进行三年的成绩排名；还是要进行统一的选拔考试；数学或英语在考试中有无特殊要求等等。

Especially the helicopter way of the school.Early understanding of the relevant system of the school,The junior high school for children to learn as much as possible to create conditions.Some middle school has been very good,A lot of parents is to let the child future can enter the school,Just enter the school of the ChuZhongBu.These parents more to early understanding of the relevant provisions of the school school helicopter,Exactly what conditions requirements;Is must carry on the three years of his standings;Still want to undertake unity selection examination;Math or English in the test for special requirements, etc.

　　2.及早与班主任和任课老师做好沟通 2. As soon as possible and the teacher in charge and teacher to communicate

　　这一点是很多家长能够做到的，但小学家长一般只会与班主任老师打交道，了解孩子的学习情况。但到了初中，除了班主任外，与各个主要的任课老师交流更重要，他们更容易了解孩子在该科目上是否良好，还存在哪些问题。

This is a lot of parents can do,But elementary school parents often can only deal with the teacher in charge teacher,Know the child's learning situation.But in the junior high school,In addition to the teacher in charge,And all major teacher exchange is more important,They are more easy to understand children in the subjects are in good condition,What problems still exist.

　　中考是一个综合性选拔考试，能够及时与老师沟通，避免孩子偏科是很重要的。另外，与老师交流的内容除了学习成绩外，还应该注重孩子心态的变化。初中是一个敏感时期，好的东西会帮助他，坏的东西会带坏他。洞察孩子的心态变化，及时与老师沟通解决问题，帮助孩子在初中能够保持一个稳定的学习心态。

Examination is a comprehensive selection examination,Can timely communication with the teacher,Avoid precious things children is very important.In addition,Communicate with the teachers content in addition to the study result,Should also pay attention to the child mentality change.Junior high school is a sensitive period,Good things will help him,Bad things will take bad he.Insight into children's mentality change,Timely communication to solve the problem with the teachers,Help children in junior middle school can maintain a stable learning attitude.

　　3.与孩子认真的谈一下初中的问题（对学习的重视、如何面对压力等） 3. And children serious talk about the problem of junior high school(To the attention of the study/How to face pressure, etc.)

　　刚刚步入初中的孩子存在两种截然不同的心态：一种是经过暑假的休息，心思还不能集中的放到学习上。这种心态不利于及早适应初中新的学习环境。另外一种是对初中学习的过度担心，这些同学背负了很大的压力，如何帮助孩子分析问题，解决学习上的困难。

Just enter junior middle school children there are two entirely different mentality:One is after the summer break,Mind can't concentrated on the study.This kind of mentality against as soon as possible to adapt to the junior middle school new learning environment.Another kind is to the junior middle school learning excessive worry,These students carry a lot of pressure,How to help children analysis problem,Solving learning difficulties.

　　4.父母双方要正确使用教育方式，更好的与孩子沟通 4. Both parents to the correct use of education mode,Better communication with your children

　　孩子进入初中，学习方法要变。家长教育孩子的方式也要改变。一味的呵护或训斥都不是好的方式。孩子在初中以后，不像小时候打不还手，骂不还口。父母教育子女需要讲出道理，举出事例。而且语言的作用永远没有行为更有说服力。也就是说，小学时父母会采用直接的棍棒或糖衣教育，但到了初中孩子对间接教育更容易接受。

Children enter junior middle school,Learning method to change.Parents education child's way will be changed.Blindly care or reprimanded are not good way.Children in the junior middle school later,Don't like dozen don't strike back when I was a child,Scold not return.Parents education children need to tell the truth,Cite examples.And the role of language never behavior more convincing.That is,When elementary school parents will use direct sticks or icing education,But in the junior middle school children to indirect education easier to accept.

　　5.及早了解近年来的中考形势，帮助孩子设立自己的目标 5. Early understanding of the situation in recent years examination,Help children set your goals

　　中考的形势每年都有相应的变化，每个高中当年的高考成绩也不同。孩子在初一不可能关心到这样的事。但家长却要了解这些。家长若能够帮助孩子了解这些，及早的确立目标，会为孩子指引一个努力的方向，增加孩子学习的动力。

The situation of examination every year have corresponding changes,Each high school of the university entrance exam in those days is different also.The child in the first impossible to care about such things.But parents is to be aware of these.If parents can help children to understand these,The establishment of the early goal,For the child will guide a direction,Increase your child learning power.