【核心提示】：在全民微博的时代，老爸老妈们也赶起了潮流。你有没有想过，自己的微博粉丝里也许就有爹妈在秘密潜伏着？这不，有网友已经扛不住了，在微博里大呼：“防火防爆防老妈！”近日，一篇《原来，老妈潜伏儿子的微博已两年多》的报道让不少网友惊讶。如果有一天，你的父母也有微博怎么办？是关注、悄悄关注，还是拉黑？

[summary]:In the era of micro bo,How I met your mother drive up the trend.Have you ever wondered,His own micro bo the fans might have parents in secret lie dormant?It's not,Netizens have carry not to live,In micro bo the call:"Fire blast proof mom!"recently,a[The original,Old mama latent son's micro bo has more than two years]Reports let not a few net friend surprised.If one day,Your parents also have micro Po?Is to pay attention to/Quietly pay attention to,Or pull black?

　　女孩微博吐槽老爸管得严，被潜伏在微博中默默关注的老爸逮个正着这条新闻再现的，倒是现实生活中再平常不过的场景。

The girl micro bo vomit tank dad pipe tightly,Be latent in micro bo in silently concern dad just caught the news of reproduction,It is real life to ordinary scene.

　　我有一个朋友，同样是小学生妈妈，同样在微博中潜伏，不过她和新闻中的爸爸相比，就聪明得多，她分享的经验是，不能暴露！即使遇到女儿给军训教官写信、和外校同学相约玩跳舞机这样她认为出格的事，她也坚决忍住了如果暴露了，难免被女儿拉黑，那就不能掌握女儿的动态了，另外证据获得途径不合法，所以能忍则忍，静观事态发展，不到关键时刻不出手，才是潜伏的正路。

I have a friend,Is also a pupil mother,Also in micro bo lurking in the,But she and in the news than dad,So smart than,She share experience is,Cannot be exposed!Even if the daughter to meet military training instructors write/And finally meet the students play the dancing machine so she think things out of bounds,She also resolutely resist the if exposed,Hard to avoid is daughter, black,That can't grasp the dynamics of the daughter,Another way to gain illegal evidence,So can endure the endure,Sit tight development,Less than the critical moment do not move,Is the latent aside.

　　有的爸妈暴露了，有的爸妈还在潜伏。有趣的是，有的爸妈其实已经暴露了，但自己不知道，还在认真潜伏着。我在微博上关注的一个同事(已经不是小朋友了)，就在爸妈关注自己之后，重新开了一个微博，开始了“第二人生”，还经常和我们分享他在第一人生上的“作品”。相比而言，我要孝顺得多，虽然知道老妈可以通过手机应用PATH监督我的行程，我还是没有放弃旧的账号，但就只能在PATH上公布自己的素颜照和食堂的菜式了，好让她看到我每天吃什么，让她确信减肥没效果，我一点没有瘦。

Some parents revealed,Some parents also in latent.Interesting is,Some parents actually has revealed,But I don't know,Also in serious lie dormant.I in micro bo on a colleague of attention(Is not the children),After the parents focus on her,To open a micro bo,began"Second life",Often share with us in the first on the life"works".compared,I want more filial piety,Although know mom can through the mobile phone application PATH supervision and my schedule,I did not give up the old account,But only in the PATH to reveal his meal - and the dining room of the dishes,Let her see me eat every day??????,Make sure that she had no effect reducing weight,I'm not thin.

　　教育专家的说法，社交网络上的内容，相当于孩子的日记，不应该窥视。但爸妈们纠结的是，社交网络是自媒体，公开的，别人看得，难道我却看不得？

Education experts said,The content of the social network,Equivalent to the child's diary,Should not peep.But parents swirly is,Social network is from media,public,Others see,Don't but I see not?

　　我看真是看不得，这是一件没办法的事情。我们这一代，既为人父母，也为人子女的，已经开始反思这一点了：一方面父母非常不了解子女，另一方面，父母又强烈地希望了解子女。一方面孩子非常需要父母的理解，另一方面孩子却不愿意和父母分享，这恐怕真的是中国式的父母与子女的关系。

I think is really see not,This is a can't things.Our generation,Both parents,Also a child,Have begun to reflect that:On the one hand parents very don't understand their children,On the other hand,Parents and strongly want to know their children.On the one hand children really need parents' understanding,On the other hand, the child is not willing to share with their parents,I'm afraid this is really the Chinese relation of parents and children.

　　所以我们这代爸妈，要严格要求自己，别人可以匿名潜伏，我们最好不这样做。微博的“潜伏”是关心，是关注成长，但我们不能再以爱的名义犯错了，更不能用“我也只是一个普通网友”的法理去推导关注的合理性。朋友的经验是，潜伏获得的资讯让你左右为难，说也不是，不说也不是，技术上就不可行。

So we this generation of parents,Should be strict with themselves,Others can be anonymous latent,We'd better not to do so.Micro bo's"latent"Is concerned about,Growth is to pay attention,But we can't in the name of love made a mistake,More can't use"I was just an ordinary net friend"The legal principle is to focus on rationality.Friend's experience is,Latent gain information let you in a dilemma,Said is not,Do not,Technology is not feasible.

　　最好的办法是告诉孩子，你被关注了，但我也只是关注而已。如果被拉黑，那是孩子的权利，也不见得是什么大事。

The best way is to tell the children,You are focused on,But I also just pay attention to it.If is pulled black,That is the child's rights,Also not is what great things.

　　冒着被拉黑或者孩子注册小号的风险，做个诚实的玩微博的爸妈吧，没有这点气量，父母与孩子，沟通渠道貌似越来越多，其实会越来越少，那是大家都不愿看到的。 作者：质数

Risking is pulled black or child registered small risk,Be a honest play micro bo's parents,Without this volume,Parents and children,As more and more communication channels,In fact will be less and less,Is that everyone is not willing to see. The author:prime

　　(来源:北京晨报)

(Sources: Beijing morning post)