当90后“长江后浪推前浪”般推着我们前进时，我们期待能对他们有更多了解。经连续3年的尝试后，2010年有了些感觉。透过“对话”这个平等相处的平台，90后的形象在我们心目中正生动起来。我们试着给90后画像，忍痛取舍之后，留下了这十组性格语句。我们知道，这不可能全面，但至少是一个勇敢的开始……

When after 90"The Yangtze river slave-holding"As we push forward,We look forward to have more understanding to them.The continuous three years after the try,In 2010 some feeling.through"dialogue"The equal treatment of the platform,90 of the image in our mind is vivid rise.We tried to portrait after 90,reluctantly choose after,Leave the ten group character statement.We know that,It can't be fully,but at least is a brave start……

　　

性格一：敢爱敢恨 Character a:Dare to love dare hate

　　成长中的90后还没有学会深藏不露和表里不一，他们对这个世界的看法，不管是喜怒哀乐还是轻蔑与不满，都明明白白地写在了脸上。他们讨厌做作、拒绝虚伪、喜欢透明。这样的一代，没有人们想象中的灰暗与复杂。一是一，二是二，不瞻前顾后，不面面俱到，不左右逢源。

Growing after 90 have not yet learned how to hidden depths and duplicity,Their perception of this world,Whether laughter, anger, sorrow and happiness or contempt and dissatisfaction,because all clearly written on the face.They hate affectation/refused to false/Like transparent.This generation,No people imagine in the dark and complicated.one,pull,Don't have to,Trying not,Not able to.

　　

身边人点评： Side people comment on:

　　就我个人而言，做不到敢爱敢恨，因为这也是需要一定勇气的。身边倒是有这样的朋友，我很喜欢他们的作风，但是他们所付出的代价也比较大，毕竟一个人即使十分讨人厌，也总有另一面，在没有全面了解的情况下，说敢爱敢恨都言之过早了。

As far as I am concerned,Do not dare to love to hate,because this is also need certain courage.Side there are such a friend,I like their style,but they paid the price also is bigger,After all, if a person is very brats,Also there is always the other side,In the not yet fully understood,Said that dare to love dare hate all the premature.

　　(受访者：黄凌云，学生，1991年出生；校媒记者：福建农林大学校报 王选辉)

(respondents:HuangLingYun,students,born in 1991;School media reporters:Fujian agriculture and forestry university newspaper WangXuanHui)

　　其实敢爱敢恨是每一代青年的特征，只是这种特征因年代的不同表现程度不同。90后目前都处于青少年阶段，这是青春期的正常表现，而且，由于90后是和网络一起成长的一个特殊群体，他们的行为自然会被网络媒体所关注和放大。

Actually dare to love dare hate is each generation characteristics of youth,Just because of the characteristics of the different s performance of different.After 90 at present are in teenagers,This is the normal performance of adolescence,and,because after 90 and the network grow together is a special group,Their behavior will naturally be network media attention and amplification.

　　(受访者：陈璐瑶，厦门大学学生，1990年出生；校媒记者：厦门大学新闻传播学院 黄琬丽)

(respondents:ChenLuYao,Xiamen university students,born in 1990;School media reporters:Xiamen university, institute of journalism and communication Wan huang li)

　　90后敢爱敢恨的个性鲜明而又独特，我们慎于判断，对待感情严谨又勇敢。喜欢或讨厌表现得直白，并且义无反顾：爱上就死心塌地，恨了就决绝背弃。某些人看来这难免显得武断，但优柔寡断会让自己更茫然无措，个性上的独立与倔强让我们拥有了这样果敢坚毅的性格。我们做自己觉得对的事，敢爱敢恨是我们的标签，有自己的坚持，这就够了。

After 90 dare to love dare hate personality is distinct and unique,We slow to judgment,Treatment sentiment rigorous and brave.Love or hate behave straightforward,And proceed without hesitation:Love is an alternative,Hate and refuse to break.Some people it seems hard to avoid is arbitrary,but indecision will make themselves more be all at sea,Personality independence and stubborn let we have such a bold fortitude character.We do what you think is right,Dare to love dare hate is our label,Have their own insist on,That's enough.

　　(受访者：王燕美，学生，1991年出生；校媒记者：漳州师范学院青年宣传中心大学生记者团 陈若蓝)

(respondents:WangYanMei,students,born in 1991;School media reporters:Zhangzhou normal college youth publicity center college press corps Chenre blue)

　　90后的我们更热爱生活、热爱自己。我们会花很多的时间在长辈们认为没有价值的事上，比如我们所钟爱的街舞。我们觉得，只要是自己喜欢，就算再辛苦也值得，我们只想在自己喜欢的领域里好好地认真一把，去实现自己的价值。但如果我们不喜欢，再怎么逼迫也徒劳，不爱就是不爱。总而言之我们是勇敢、自信、有追求、有理想、敢爱敢恨的一代，这会使我们有时候显得棱角过于分明，气焰略微嚣张。

90 we love life more/Love their.We will spend a lot of time in the old folks don't think the value,Such as our favourite hip-hop.We think,As long as you like,Even if again hard is worth,We just want to in their own like field to serious one,To realize their own value.but if we don't like,How again persecuted also in vain,Don't love is love.In short we are brave/confidence/The pursuit/Have ideal/Dare to love dare hate generation,This will make we sometimes appear edge too clear,Arrogance slightly arrogant.

　　(受访者：Selina(留学英国)，学生，1991年出生；校媒记者：福建师范大学校报 魏蓉蓉)

(respondents:Selina(Study in the UK),students,born in 1991;School media reporters:Fujian normal university newspaper Weirongrong)

　　大多数人总以为90后都是敢爱敢恨的人，其实无论在哪一代，敢爱敢恨都是少数。在我看来，敢爱敢恨也分“良性”与“劣性”，良性的敢爱敢恨是正直，是勇气，反观自己，的确也做不到个性分明无所畏惧；而劣性的敢爱敢恨，是过分张扬，缺乏理性。身为90后，大多为独生子女，以自我为中心的现象较多，所谓的敢爱敢恨也容易成了他们扎堆儿的无理取闹。

Most people always think 90 is dare to love dare hate people,Actually no matter where generation,Dare to love dare hate are few.In my opinion,Dare to love dare hate also points"benign"and"recessive",benign dare to love dare hate is integrity,Is courage,In his,Did not do in personality without fear;And the proportion of dare to love to hate,Is too make public,Lack of rational.As 90,For most of the only child,Self-centered phenomenon more,The so-called dare to love dare hate also easy to become their ZaDuiEr of make trouble without a cause.

　　(受访者：张弘骅，学生，1990年出生；校媒记者：福建师范大学青年通讯社 钟艺泓)

(respondents:ZhangHongHua,students,born in 1990;School media reporters:Fujian normal university ZhongYiHong youth news agency)

　　作为90后，我眼中的同龄人大多数是敢爱敢恨、嫉恶如仇的。这既是一个好现象，但又有令人忧虑的一面。一方面，他们有明确的是非观，同时又有强烈的个性，不畏强权，愿意直言不讳地表达自己的想法。但另一方面，90后的独特个性也常常会导致他们缺乏冷静思考，总是不顾客观事实或是在没有周全考虑的情况下就狂热地支持或是激烈地反对某一事物。因此，90后倘若能在爱憎分明的基础上更注重理性思考，会变得更加成熟稳重。

As an after 90,My eyes peers is most dare to love to hate/Detest evil of.This is a good phenomenon,but there is another worrisome side.On the one hand,They have a clear right,At the same time have a strong personality,Not power,Would like to call a spade a spade to express your own ideas.but on the other hand,After 90 the unique personality but also often leads to their lack of calm thinking,Always, regardless of objective facts or without thorough consideration will crazily support or strongly opposed to something.so,After 90, if possible in aizeng clear pay more attention to the basis of rational thinking,Will become more mature.

　　(受访者：黄曦漪，中南财经政法大学中文系学生，1991年出生；校媒记者：福建师范大学青年通讯社 费靖华)

(respondents:HuangXiYi,Chinese central finance and economics politics and law university students,born in 1991;School media reporters:Fujian normal university FeiJingHua youth news agency)

　　

性格二：理“财”有道 Character two:reason"wealth"youdao

　　理财“小算盘”在90后的日常生活中比比皆是。他们知道节流，更注重开源。年长者节俭度日的唠叨，常常换来90后的嘲笑：你out了。Money赚了就是要花的。他们懂得享受生活，也懂得计划自己的财富。在90后眼里，资源、才华、人脉、亲情、健康都归入“财”列，需要精心打理。

financial"Petty niggling"In daily life can be found everywhere.They know the throttle,Pay more attention to open source.Seniors thrift luxury nagging,For often after 90 laugh:You out the.Money earned is to flowers.They know how to enjoy life,Also know how to plan their own wealth.In 90 eyes,resources/talent/contacts/family/Health are classified as"wealth"column,Need careful care.

　　

身边人点评： Side people comment on:

　　理财这个话题和年龄无关，不能一概而论，60后也有不会理财的，90后也有创业家。从成人的眼光看，90后大多理财意识不强，甚至不如80后。我认为其中最关键的原因在于，国内物价涨幅快与购物方式的多元化，强烈地刺激了青年人的购物欲望，使得理财对于90后青年们来说越来越难，而且对于怎样帮助90后树立正确的理财观也变得越来越难。

Finance this topic and regardless of age,Cannot treat as the same,After sixty have not financial,After 90 have entrepreneurs.From the perspective of the adult,After the 90 most financial management consciousness is not strong,Even worse than 80.I think one of the most critical reason,Home prices rise faster and the diversification of shopping way,Strongly stimulate the young people's shopping desire,Make finance for 90 youth is more and more difficult,And for how to help 90 to set up correct concept of financial management is also becoming more and more difficult.

　　(受访者：韩晗，知名青年学者，1985年出生；校媒记者：厦门大学新闻传播学院 黄琬丽)

(respondents:HanHan,Famous young scholars,born in 1985;School media reporters:Xiamen university, institute of journalism and communication Wan huang li)

　　我身边的90后确实“理财有道”。他们有着充分的创新思维，对钱财越来越重视，因而有着很大的闯劲儿，创业较早。他们对自我花钱很舍得，但大部分90后对家人、亲友并不怎么大方。这或许源于90后非常独立的人格特性，缺乏分享意识。

My side is 90"Financial youdao".They have fully creative thinking,Money to pay more and more attention to,Therefore has the very big burst strength,Venture earlier.They are willing to spend money on themselves,but most of the 90 after the family/relatives and friends not so generous.This may from 90 after a very independent personality characteristics,Share consciousness of.

　　(受访者：刘旸，大学生，1989年出生；校媒记者：华侨大学《华大青年报》 童静)

(respondents:Liu Yang,College students,born in 1989;School media reporters:Overseas Chinese university[Huada youth daily] TongJing)

　　90后思维活跃，胆子也大，他们在条件允许的情况下进行投资并不能一概称为理财有道，只是一些90后的确花钱比较精明。对于绝大部分尚处于纯消费者阶段的90后，给他们贴上理“财”有道的标签还为时尚早，因为他们还未真正接触理财教育。

After the 90 active thinking,Courage also big,They are conditions allow for investment and financing are not called youdao,Just some 90 after spending is really smart.For the most part is still in pure consumer stage after 90,Give them with reason"wealth"Youdao label too early,because they are not really get in touch with financial education.

　　(受采访者：李伟，教师，80年代出生；校媒记者：漳州师范学院 余颖)

(by the interviewer:Li wei,The teacher,born in the 80 s;School media reporters:Zhangzhou normal college YuYing)

　　在理财观念方面，我十分欣赏中国孩子。在欧美等西方国家，不少孩子的信用卡严重透支，甚至“负债累累”。中国孩子却相反，他们在理财等方面显得十分理性，崇尚根据实际情况消费，随着网络的发展，他们更是将目光投向了物美价廉的网上商铺，知道花小钱办大事。

In the financial management concept,I am very appreciate Chinese children.In Europe and the United States and other western countries,Many children serious credit card overdraft,even"In debt".Chinese children, on the contrary,They appear very rational management etc,Advocating consumption according to the actual situation,Along with the development of the network,They also turned to affordable online shops,Know to spend a little to do great things.

　　(受访者：史密斯(芬兰)，大学外教，1955年出生；校媒记者：福建师范大学青年通讯社 李雅琼)

(respondents:Smith(Finland),University teachers,born in 1955;School media reporters:Fujian normal university LiYaQiong youth news agency)

　　90后爱“财”是没有错的，但我认为爱“财”首先要从学会节俭开始，而浪费现象较普遍地存在于90后学生中。如果一个人都不爱惜人们的劳动成果，怎么谈得上爱“财”呢？因此，爱“财”必须学会从节俭开始，反对浪费。

90 love"wealth"Is not wrong,but I think that love"wealth"First of all to learn to start from the thrift,A common waste phenomenon occurring in 90 students.If a person is not spare the people's work achievement,How about a love"wealth"??so,love"wealth"Must learn to start from the thrift,Against waste.

　　(受访者：薛谊青，西南电力设计院高级工程师，1958年6月出生；校媒记者：蒋琰，四川师范大学)

(respondents:XueYiQing,Southwest China electric power design institute senior engineer,born in June 1958;School media reporters:JiangYan,Sichuan normal university)

　　

性格三：国际范儿 Character three:International lun namely model

　　中国90后的英语说得地道，英文歌曲唱得纯真，与国际同龄人的文化差异也很小。较之60后、70后、80后，他们具备了更开阔的国际视野与更强大的思维能力。90后是现实社会中最“国际化”的一代，他们承载了中国从世界大国向世界强国崛起的希望与未来。

China's 90 speaks English tunnel,English song sings pure,The cultural differences with international peers are very small.After than sixty/After 70/After 80,They have a more open international vision and more powerful thinking ability.90 is the most realistic society"international"generation,They loaded the Chinese from the country to the world powers rise of hope and future.

　　

身边人点评： Side people comment on:

　　相比于其他年代出生的人，90后更新潮、时髦、灵活和开放，他们能更快速接受并适应新鲜事物，不论是国内的还是国外的，因而他们更容易与国际接轨，更显“国际范儿”。要知道，他们中多数人还在读幼儿园或小学时甚至刚学会说话时就开始接触并学习外文，早早练就一口流利的英语，与外国人打交道相对顺畅、文化隔阂较小。虽然90后年龄较小，相对幼稚，但随着时间的推移，他们应该会更加理性与成熟。

Compared to those born in the other s,After 90 more trendy/modern/Agile and open,They can more quickly accept and adapt to new things,Whether domestic or foreign,So they more easily and international standards,more"International lun namely model".Want to know,Most of them still in kindergarten or elementary school or even just learning to speak to contact and learning foreign language,Early practice fluent English,Dealing with foreigners relatively smooth/Culture gap smaller.Although after 90 younger,relatively immature,but as time goes on,They should be more rational and mature.

　　(受访者：胡友祯，职工，1989年出生；校媒记者：江西财经大学 周欢)

(respondents:HuYouZhen,worker,born in 1989;School media reporters:Jiangxi university of finance and economics ZhouHuan)

　　虽然受经济一体化、教育国际化、信息网络化等影响，90后与60后、70后相比，国际化条件和基础更加成熟，但要真正能够成为最“国际化”一代，还有待于我们共同努力，尤其是90后的扎实拼搏。国际化并不等于英语化、西化，培养国际化的人才，需要注意正确处理世界与民族、传统与创新、历史与现实的关系，既要培养90后的“世界眼光”，也要注意培养“中国之魂”，坚持国际化与民族化的统一。

Despite the economic integration/Education internationalization/Influence of information network,After 90 and after sixty/Compared to 70,International condition and the foundation more mature,but to really can become the most"international"generation,remains to be our joint efforts,Especially after 90 solid hard work.Internationalization is not equal to anglicize/westernization,To train the internationalized talents,Need to pay attention to correctly deal with the world and national/Tradition and innovation/The relationship between history and reality,Should not only cultivate after 90"World vision",We have to pay attention to training"The soul of Chinese",Adhere to the unity of the internationalization and nationalization.

　　(受访者：陈宜大，副研究员，1970年出生；校媒记者：林恩文，福建农林大学)

(respondents:ChenYi big,Associate researcher,born in 1970;School media reporters:LinEnWen,Fujian agriculture and forestry university)

　　

性格四：有自我要团队 Character four:A self to the team

　　在很多人眼里， 90后像是川辣鸡翅劲辣、古怪、自我中心、个性十足。的确，崇尚发展自我、展现自我、成就自我是他们的信念，但这显然不是他们信念的全部。他们知道什么时候可以充分展现个人风采，而什么时候应该适当收敛锋芒以便更好地融入集体、为整个集体的目标和荣誉而奋斗。

In many people's eyes, After 90 like sichuan spicy chicken wings strength hot/strange/Self center/Individual character is dye-in-the-wood.indeed,Advocate self development/Show ego/Achievement ego is their belief,but this is obviously not their belief of all.They know when can fully show the personal style,And when to proper convergence one's ability to better into the collective/For the collective goal and honor and struggle.

　　

身边人点评： Side people comment on:

　　很多人说我们90后自私自利，缺乏集体荣誉感和合作精神，但我认为这只是少数。一些极端个案被媒体报道后无限放大，造成了社会群体对90后的普遍误读。在我们班上，多数90后都愿意齐心协力，我们在排练晚会节目时，尽管舞蹈动作反复修改，但大家都没有怨言，主动增加时间排练，练好的同学手把手教不会的同学。有时候合作就是这种不需要言语的默契，虽然大家都有个性和自我，但当需要的时候，我们还是义不容辞。

Many people say we 90 selfishness,The lack of collective sense of honor and teamwork spirit,but I think this is just a few.Some extreme cases after reports by the media magnified indefinitely,Caused the social group after 90 general misread.In our class,Most of the 90 are willing to pull together,We in the rehearsal program,Although dance moves and changes,but there are no complaints,Active increase time rehearsing,Practice students hand-on cannot be taught students.Sometimes cooperation is the words don't need the tacit understanding,Although we all have personality and self,but when needed,We are in duty bound.

　　(受访者：黄杰，学生，1992年出生； 校媒记者：江西财经大学 周欢)

(respondents:HuangJie,students,born in 1992; School media reporters:Jiangxi university of finance and economics ZhouHuan)

　　我的孩子和侄子都是90后的，他们给我的感觉就是什么都不太在乎，更关心的是自己喜欢的，喜欢围着电脑在家宅着，让父母操心。90后的自我展现欲很强，当然他们也有表现的能力，对于事物的看法不随波逐流，有自己的见解，许多我们认为经典的东西时常被他们颠覆。这让他们在团队合作中既容易脱离孤立，也可能提出更为有效的方案。我觉得他们还需要去深入了解社会，才能理解团队合作的涵义，只有社会对他们更包容，他们才不至于受那么多的牵扯力。

My child and nephew is after 90,They gave me the feeling is what all don't care,More concerned with their favorite,Like around the computer and in the home,Let parents worry about.After 90 the self to show very strong,Of course they also have the ability to performance,To view things don't go with the stream,Have their own opinions,Many of the things we think that the classic are often upset them.This lets them in cooperation and teamwork is easy from isolated,May also put forward more effective solutions.I think they also need to further understand the world,To understand the meaning of team cooperation,Only society to them more inclusive,They will not be so much in force.

　　(受访者：方向昭，教师，1966年出生；校媒记者：福建莆田学院，林云霞)

(respondents:Direction zhao,The teacher,born in 1966;School media reporters:Fujian putian institute,LinYunXia)

　　我觉得，用“有自我要团队”作为90后的关键词有失偏颇。我接触了几个新来的同事，一方面，90后接受新事物能力较强，但其耐挫能力较差。他们在团队工作中喜欢展现自我能力，但往往不能正视自己的错误，容易出现自我为是、夸大其词的现象。他们中的部分人具有合作精神，但从整个群体来看，这方面还是需要进一步磨练的。

I think,with"A self to the team"As 90 keywords biased.I met several of the new colleague,On the one hand,After 90 to accept new things ability is strong,but its resistance to setback ability is bad.They work in a team like show self ability,but often can't face up to his mistakes,Prone to self to be/Over-the-top phenomenon.Some of them with spirit of cooperation,but from the whole group to see,This still need further practice.

　　(受访者：肖金发，工程师，1963年出生；校媒记者：福建工程学院，肖珺)

(respondents:XiaoJinFa,engineer,born in 1963;School media reporters:Fujian college of engineering,Xiao jun)

　　

性格五：反孤独 Character five:back alone

　　自称为“网络原住民”的90后，身上被贴得最多的标签就“自我”、“孤独”、“冷漠”，但90后说：“其实我们自己从来不这么认为。”身为独生子女，他们其实比有兄弟姐妹的人更渴望友情、珍惜友情。他们在交友上从不刻意，更不功利。他们喜欢建立自己的朋友圈，而且喜欢有多种类型的伙伴。

Acting as a"Native network"After 90,Most had been posted on the label"self"/"lonely"/"cold",but said after 90:"In fact we never think so."As the only child,They actually than have brothers and sisters are more eager to friendship/Cherish friendship.They are making friends on never deliberately,Less utilitarian.They like to set up their own circle of friends,And like to have multiple types of partners.

　　身边人点评：

Side people comment on:

　　谁又不曾孤独过呢？我们没有理由为90后担心，也没有资格教导他们。90后没经历过政治大战争，没有遇到过经济大波动，他们的大战只是自己的心灵恐慌。他们爱钱、爱玩儿、爱自己、爱自由，小圈子的生活使得他们更加独我，但创新、主见也是他们“孤独”的衍生品。有时“孤独”是和大环境相关的，比如教育体制，比如家庭环境，但有些东西是共通的，比如心存爱，比如对纯真友谊的珍视……与其忧心，不如祝福！

Who never lonely??We have no reason to worry about after 90,Also not qualified to teach them.90 no experienced political big war,Not met the great fluctuation,Their war just your heart panic.They love money/Love to play/Love yourself/Love freedom,Clique life makes them more alone I,but innovation/Ideas is one of them"lonely"'s derivatives.sometimes"lonely"And the environment is related,Such as the education system,Such as family environment,but some things are common,Such as how love,Such as the pure friendship value……Instead of worrying,As blessing!

　　(受访者：艾维华，唐山晚报记者，1970年代出生；校媒记者：中国石油大学 孙婧)

(respondents:YiWeiHua,Tangshan evening news reporter,born in the 1970 s;School media reporters:China university of petroleum SunJing)

　　90后不是孤独的一代，他们充满爱心，在洪灾、地震等自然灾害面前他们关爱他人，特别在奥运会、世博会志愿服务上，充分展现了他们对祖国的热爱。现在很多90后都是独生子女，社会的确存在个别90后整天局限在小天地，心扉没有敞开，但是这种现象在任何一代人中都有。社会不应对90后有过多的指责。

After 90 is not alone in the generation,They are filled with love,The floods/Natural disasters such as earthquake before they care about others,Especially in the Olympic Games/The world expo volunteer services,Fully showed their love for their country.Now a lot of 90 are only children,Social really do exist individual after 90 day confined to one's own little world,Heart did not open,but this kind of phenomenon is in any generation.Society should not have too much blame 90.

　　(受访者：黄旺生，大学教授，1953年出生；校媒记者：福建农林大学校报 林恩文)

(respondents:HuangWangSheng,University professor,born in 1953;School media reporters:Fujian agriculture and forestry university newspaper LinEnWen)

　　90后是孤独的。他们大多数都是独生子女，父母过于重视自己的孩子，宁愿把他们关在房子里，也不愿让他们走出家门去和同龄的伙伴一起玩耍。渐渐地90后的孩子养成了孤僻的性格，各自生活在自己的小圈子中。回想起我自己的童年，都是和同龄伙伴一起度过的，一起收割稻草、一起嬉戏打闹。而现在的孩子，生活条件优越了，可是他们就像金丝笼里的小鸟看似安逸，其实是孤独的。

After 90 is lonely.Most of them are only children,Parents to attach too much importance to their children,Would rather to lock them in the house,Don't let them out of the house with their peers to play with a partner.Gradually after 90 kids develop a withdrawn character,Their living in their own circle of the.recall my childhood,With their peers are partners together,Harvest straw with/Play pillow fight together.Now the child,The life condition is superior,but they are like gold cage bird looks at ease,It is lonely.

　　(受访者：谢桂华，一位长期在小学工作的普通教师，1958年出生；校媒记者：福建师范大学闽南科技学院 徐珊珊)

(respondents:XieGuiHua,A long-term in elementary school work of ordinary teachers,born in 1958;School media reporters:Fujian normal university institute of science and technology south XuShanShan)

　　

性格六：亲情现代观 Character six:Family modern view

　　爱孩子不是付出就有回报的，娇惯反而会绊住孩子成长的脚步，消解他向上的动力，在关键时刻的支持才能让他体验到逆境中爆发力量的成就感。高质量的两代人关系其实比单方面的父爱母爱更重要。要教会孩子凝视爸爸慈爱的眼睛和感受妈妈温暖的手，少点抱怨、少点恨铁不成钢。

Love the child is not pay have return,Spoil it will catch in the footsteps of children to grow up,Eliminate him up power,At the critical moment of support in order to let him to experience a outbreak strength sense of achievement.The high quality of relationship between two generations than actually unilateral father mother love is more important.To teach children stare at father loving eyes and feel mother warm hand,Less complain about/Less hate iron not rewinded into.

　　

身边人点评： Side people comment on:

　　其实很多人都回答不上来亲情是什么概念，但都能感受到它的存在。这是一种无法言语的情感。“天下无不是的父母”。每一对父母的出发点都是为孩子好，尽管他们的方式可能不合我们的胃口。因此遇到矛盾时，我都和父母好好地谈，力求达到理解和体谅。越长大就越觉得父母真的很不容易。而且，在我看来，不管是出生在什么时代，亲情，对我们而言永远都是世上最难以割舍的美丽。

Actually a lot of people can't answer up the family is what concept,but can feel it's there.This is a kind of can't speech emotion."The world is yes parents".Each pair of parents' starting point is good for children,Although they may not be the way our appetite.So when meet contradictions,I have a serious talk with their parents,Strive to achieve the understanding and considerate.More grow up more think parents are really not easy.and,In my opinion,Whether it was born in what age,family,For us is always the most difficult to give up in the beautiful.

　　(受访者：张海星，学生，1990年出生；校媒记者：福建医科大学青年通讯社 张美恋)

(respondents:ZhangHaiXing,students,born in 1990;School media reporters:Fujian medical university ZhangMeiLian youth news agency)

　　很多时候，孩子的观念，来源于家庭，与年代无关。我不会拿孩子和别人比较，而是多给他一个温暖的拥抱，一个鼓励的眼神；我不会只关心他的成功，而更愿意分享他的成长。我希望儿子能多倾听，而不是一味地表现；多历练，而不是躲在父母背后总也长不大。我愿意给孩子一种信念：亲情是相互的分享和支撑，是不变的温暖和力量。

Most of the time,The concept of children,From family,Has nothing to do with s.I won't take the child compare yourself to others,but give him a warm embrace,A encourage of look in the eyes;I will not only care about his success,And more willing to share his growth.I wish my son to listen to,rather than blindly performance;Much experience,Instead of hiding behind the parents never grow up.I would like to give the child a belief:The family is mutual sharing and support,Is the same warmth and strength.

　　(受访者：于甜，大学教师，1970年代出生；校媒记者：中国石油大学 孙婧)

(respondents:In sweet,University teachers,born in the 1970 s;School media reporters:China university of petroleum SunJing)

　　有时，社会舆论会给我们扣上帽子，当我们还不知道怎么孝顺时，却已因为“不孝”成为众矢之的了。其实对于我们而言，父母长辈依旧是最值得我们尊敬的人，最应该孝顺的人，行动会检验一切。

sometimes,Public opinion will give us buckle on his hat,When we don't know how to filial piety,Has because"unfilial"become the target of public criticism.In fact for us,The parents elder is still the most worthy of our respect for people,The most should be the people who is filial,Action will test everything.

　　(受访者：李元，学生，1992年出生；校媒记者：福州大学校报 林典)

(respondents:LiYuan,students,born in 1992;School media reporters:LinDian newspaper fuzhou university)

　　亲情一如盛夏徐徐拂面的凉风，寒冬热气腾腾的牛奶，它如影相随，给我们无微不至的呵护与感动。亲情是寒暑假里兼职回家的小巷路口爸爸熟悉的身影；是学习、工作不顺时姐姐孜孜不倦的开导；是闲暇时听妈妈唠叨唠叨家常；是忙里偷闲地聆听妹妹考试失利遇事不顺……它从我们的祖辈传至父辈，然后又一代接一代地沿袭下去，教会我们如何爱人和“血浓于水”这一真理。

Love as summer breeze slowly stroke,Winter steaming hot milk,It such as shadow photograph,Give us meticulous care and moved.The family is in the summer and winter vacation home part-time alley crossing dad familiar figure;Is the study/When work not sister unwearied channel;Is your spare time to listen to my mother nag nagging family;Is to go and listen to his sister failed the exam not……It from our ancestors spread to parents,Then generation after generation to follow it,Teach us how to love and"blood is thicker than water"This is a truth.

　　(受访者：高碧清，学生，1990年出生；校媒记者：莆田学院校报 刘春荣)

(respondents:Gaobi clear,students,born in 1990;School media reporters:LiuChunrong putian college newspaper)

　　90后对父母的态度是矛盾的，他们一方面能意识到父母的辛苦或者父母所做的一切，但另一方面却理所当然地接受父母提供的一切，很少用一些行动向父母表达爱意或者减轻父母的压力。我认为最根本的原因在于90后不善于表达自己，尤其是男生。

90 after the parents' attitude is contradictory,On the one hand they can realize the parents of hard or parents have done,but on the other hand is taken for granted to accept all parents to provide,rarely use some action to express love to their parents or relieve the pressure of parents.I think the most fundamental reason is that after 90 are not good at express themselves,Especially the boy.

　　(受访者：李荣锴，大学生，90年代出生；校媒记者：漳州师范学院青年宣传中心大学生记者团 杨碧双)

(respondents:Lirong wenkai,College students,born in the 90 s;School media reporters:Zhangzhou normal college youth publicity center college press corps Yangbi double)

　　娇生惯养的环境让90后养成了很多不好的性格。90后大多爱表现却缺乏倾听的耐心，尤其是亲人的嘱咐唠叨。90后不注意自己的表达方式，不经意间往往会伤害到亲人。90后不善于跟亲人进行交流，他们宁愿对着电脑把自己的心情跟陌生人说，也不愿意把自己的想法说给亲人听。他们不断的追求时尚，在他们内心总是觉得父母的想法落后，思想跟不上潮流。

Spoiled environment let 90 has developed a lot of bad character.After the 90 most love performance is lack of patience to listen to,Especially loved ones charged nagging.90 do not pay attention to their own way to describe it,Casual tend to harm to loved ones.After 90 are not good at communicate with loved ones,They would rather to the computer to oneself mood with stranger,Don't want to put their ideas to listen to family.They continue to search for the fashion,In their heart always think parents idea behind,Thought can't keep up with the trend.

　　(受访者：杨蕊蕾，学生，1992年出生；校媒记者：福建师范大学青年通讯社 周晓璇)

(respondents:YangruiLei,students,born in 1992;School media reporters:Fujian normal university ZhouXiaoXuan youth news agency)

　　在宽松富足的环境中长大的90后，心中有着自己于亲情独特的坚守。一首《听妈妈的话》唱出的是自己期盼长大以尽孝的心理；一曲《世上最美的歌》更是直接哼出了90后对于亲情的追念。90后的亲情观其实很简单，“爸妈太辛苦，我要赚钱，买好的房子，给爸妈养老”便是他们简单而坚定的想法，亦是他们对于亲情最好的诠释。

In loose rich environment grew up after 90,Heart has his own family in the unique stick to.a[Listen to mother's words]Sing is looking forward to grow up to the psychological hoping;A song[The most beautiful song]More direct hum out after 90 for the family remember.After 90 the family concept is actually very simple,"Parents too hard,I want to make money,buy good house,Give parents endowment"Is their simple and firm ideas,They also is to love the best interpretation.

　　(受访者：林颖，学生，1991年出生；校媒记者：福建师范大学青年通讯社 聂历蓉)

(respondents:LinYing,students,born in 1991;School media reporters:Fujian normal university youth news agency NieLi rong)

　　

性格七：动漫一代 Character seven:Cartoon generation

　　动漫已经深深嵌入到很多90后的精神结构中。动漫带给他们的不仅是快乐，还有感动、思考和激励。他们对中国动漫的现状不甚满意，只是不知，当他们成长为动漫制作的生力军时，是否有力量改变这样的现状？我们只能拭目以待。

Animation has been deeply embedded in a lot of 90 spirit structure.Cartoon bring their is not only happy,And touched/Thinking and incentive.In China the present situation of the cartoon is not very satisfactory,Just don't know,When they grow up to be the main force of the animation manufacture when,If there is power to change such situation?We can only wait and see.

　　身边人点评：

Side people comment on:

　　我喜欢《阿凡提》，90后喜欢《火影忍者》。我虽没看过《火影忍者》，但猜想它一定有独特之处，也许它能通过奇特的故事，新颖的创意，让孩子们体悟到和书中、电影中同样甚至更为鲜活的道理吧。这种冲击，更生动，更平实。如果动漫能够同时带来休闲和感悟，我想，它就能成为一种成长的理由。

I like[Any lift],Like after 90[naruto].Though I haven't seen[naruto],I suppose it must be unique,Maybe it can through the fantastic story,Novel creative,Let the children understanding to the book/In the movie also even more fresh sense it.The impact,More vivid,More plain.If anime can at the same time bring leisure and comprehension,I want to,It can be a reason for growth.

　　(受访者：王翠红，唐山一中教师，1960年代出生；校媒记者：中国石油大学(华东) 孙婧)

(respondents:WangCuiGong,Tangshan one teacher,born in the 1960 s;School media reporters:China university of petroleum(East China) SunJing)

　　

性格八：清纯现代观 Character eight:Pure modern view

　　相较70后，90后是按照科学喂养的温室、大棚、阳光、肥料，一切都是充足的，所以生的也像熟的，好像压根就没有青涩过。但他们依然是清纯的，只是这个清纯不是张艺谋导演心目中的“1975”版，而是2010版。

Compared with 70,After 90 is in accordance with the scientific feeding of the greenhouse/shed/The sun/fertilizer,Everything is enough,So raw like ripe,As there is no green at a.but they are still innocent,Only the pure not zhang yimou idea of"1975"version,but 2010 edition.

　　身边人点评：

Side people comment on:

　　在我心里，“清纯”是留给思想单纯、心地清澈的女孩子的词。可现在的90后女孩儿，不像孩子，她们有手机、电脑，穿戴品牌服饰，生长在繁杂世界中，他们见多识广，见怪不怪。清纯也许只是一个时代的名词，包含着青涩、懵懂，甚至是无知和贫瘠。而现在的清纯，已经失去了它成长的养分，却更多与外貌的养眼或者气质上的清新联系在一起。既然“熟”了，又怎能“返老还童”？也许时代走得太快了，我们的思维都跟不上了……

In my heart,"pure"Is simple to thought/A clear girl's word.but now after 90 girl,Don't like a child,They have a mobile phone/computer,Wear clothing brand,Growth in the complicated world,They informed,Mind don't blame.Pure may be an era of nouns,Contains green/ignorant,Even ignorance and poor.Now pure,Has lost its growth of nutrient,but with the appearance of more seductive or temperament of pure and fresh and relates in together.since"cooked"the,how"rejuvenation"?Maybe time go too fast,Our thinking just can't keep up……

　　(受访者：何柏青，退休工人，1950年代出生；校媒记者：中国石油大学(华东) 孙婧)

(respondents:HebaiQing,retired workers,born in the 1950 s;School media reporters:China university of petroleum(East China) SunJing)

　　诚然，60后、70后、80后的人们是从青涩走向成熟，他们所经历的困难是90后难以想象的，他们的拼搏精神也是值得尊敬与学习的。但是不可否认，在这个互联网高速扩张的时代，90后接触的世界要比上一辈要广，大量的日剧、韩剧、美剧充斥着网络，90后穿衣打扮、行为方式与上一代不同，那是自然的事情，只要不是过度的模仿，适当的改变又何尝不可呢？

admittedly,After sixty/After 70/80 people from green to mature,They have experienced difficulties after 90 is hard to imagine,Their fighting spirit is worthy of respect and learning.but there is no denying the,In the Internet era of rapid expansion,After 90 the world contact than a generation to wide,A lot of Japanese TV drama/Korean dramas/beautiful play filled with network,After 90 and dressing/behavior and the generation of different,It is a natural thing,As long as not excessive imitation,The appropriate change and are not going?

　　(受访者：薛皓仁，大学生，1989年出生；校媒记者：西安交通大学 徐盼)

(respondents:XueHaoren,College students,born in 1989;School media reporters:Xi 'an jiaotong university xu wish)

　　

性格九：娱乐精神 Character nine:Entertainment spirit

　　宣称“我每天可以吃的有限，穿的有限，花的有限，但是开心必须无限”的90后，是娱乐能力超强的一代。在他们眼中，娱乐是天性的释放，是让自己更开心的生活方式。相比我们任何一代人，他们都更加希望 “在娱乐中生活，也在娱乐中学习和成长”。

claims"Every day I can eat limited,Wear co., LTD.,,Flowers co., LTD.,,but happy must be infinite"After 90,Entertainment is a generation of super ability.In their eyes,Entertainment is the release of nature,Is to make themselves more happy way of life.Compared with us any generation,They are more hope "The entertainment life,Also in the entertainment of the learning and growth".

　　身边人点评：

Side people comment on:

　　其实每个年代的人都期待自己像90后孩子一样活得轻松快乐。90后是幸福的一代，他们有充足的时间和精力，可以通过娱乐丰富业余生活。虽然有时候他们看上去很疯很野，但其实他们中的很多人都懂得边玩边学习，比起我们这代人，他们是最会享受生活的人。

In fact each s people are looking forward to myself like 90 children live happy easily.90 is a generation of happiness,They have enough time and energy,Can through the entertainment rich amateur life.Although sometimes they look very crazy is very wild,but in fact many of them know how to play while learning,Compared with our generation,They are the most person who enjoys life.

　　(受访者：周伦才，农民，1963年出生；校媒记者：江西财经大学 周欢)

(respondents:ZhouLunCai,farmers,born in 1963;School media reporters:Jiangxi university of finance and economics ZhouHuan)

　　大多数90后不必过多地担忧吃不饱穿不暖，因而有更多时间和精力去追求精神慰藉。娱乐是生活中的调味品，适当娱乐可以自我放松、缓释压力和消解烦恼，但90后玩世不恭、游戏人生的“泛娱乐化”现象也值得警惕。

Most of the 90 don't have too much worry do not have enough to eat wear not warm,Thus have more time and energy to pursue the spiritual comfort.Entertainment is the life of spice,Appropriate entertainment can relax/Slow release pressure and eliminate worry,but after 90 cynicism/The game of life"Flood more entertaining"Phenomenon is also worth vigilance.

　　(受访者：况娟，大学生，1990年12月出生；校媒记者：江西财经大学 周欢)

(respondents:KuangJuan,College students,born in December 1990;School media reporters:Jiangxi university of finance and economics ZhouHuan)

　　

性格十：爱现 Character ten:Love is

　　90后有着十足的行动力。他们想做就做，不假思索，喜欢挑战。他们说：“其实，我们不复杂，只需要一个表达的空间。”他们还说：“给我阳光，我就灿烂；给我空间，我就成长。”

After 90 has a real line power.Do they want to do,Without thinking,Like a challenge.They say:"In fact,We don't complicated,Only need one expression of space."They also say:"Give me the sun,I was brilliant;Give me space,I will grow."

　　身边人点评：

Side people comment on:

　　与很多90后一样，我也乐于表现，在适当的场合凸显自己的存在、展示个人的风采。然而，这种举动往往会被老师或其他年长的人误解为过于炫耀而不懂谦虚，甚至被批为不知天高地厚。在这种情况下，我一般都不会跟他们犟嘴或急于辩驳。在我看来，只要不违法乱纪、不触碰道德底线，自己能够决定的事情可以想做就做，何必看他人眼色？打败猜疑最好的方法就是用行动。我们90后也会默默努力，给自己争气，证明我们并不比别人差。

With many of the same after 90,I will be glad to performance,At the right time to highlight the own existence/Show personal style.however,This move will often be a teacher or other older people misinterpreted as too to show off and don't understand humility,Even by batch for don't know immensity of the universe.In this case,I usually don't talk back with them or to wrangle.In my opinion,As long as it does not violate the law and discipline/Don't touch the moral bottom line,You can decide to do things to do,Why to see others glances?beat the suspicion, the best approach is to use action.We will also be silent after 90 efforts,To fight,Prove that we are not inferior to others.

　　(受访者：王庆峰，大学生，1991年出生；校媒记者：江西财经大学 周欢)

(respondents:WangQingFeng,College students,born in 1991;School media reporters:Jiangxi university of finance and economics ZhouHuan)

　　有人说90后爱表现和炫耀自己，很傲气，但我认为这并非普遍现象。比起往届的大学生，90后虽然更自我一点，但如果真正深入地和他们交往就会发现，他们更容易与老师交心，只要你真心对他们，他们很快就和你亲近起来。很多人没有发自内心对待他们，或与他们接触不多、了解不深才造成这样那样的误解。

Someone said that after 90 performance and show off their love,Arrogance is,but I think this is not common phenomenon.rather than go to college students,Although after 90 more self a little,but if really deep interact with them will find,They are more easily with the teacher and heart to heart,As long as you sincerely to them,They soon and close to you up.A lot of people don't treat them from the heart,Or with their little contact/Deep understanding that led to this or that kind of misunderstanding.

　　(受访者：魏丽艳，大学教师，1977年出生；校媒记者：江西财经大学 周欢)

(respondents:WeiLiYan,University teachers,born in 1977;School media reporters:Jiangxi university of finance and economics ZhouHuan)

　　

"90后"的典型特征 "After 90"Characteristic of

　　1.在熟人面前说个不停，在生人面前一言不发；

1. In front of an acquaintance talking all the time,Say nothing in front of strangers;

　　2.业余爱好必有一项是睡觉；

2. There will be a hobby is sleeping;

　　3.永远觉得别人不可能了解自己；

3. Never think that other people can't understand yourself;

　　4.不问问题，只查谷歌和百度；

4. Do not ask questions,Only check Google and baidu;

　　5.热衷研究星相运势；

5. Keen to study astrology for luck;

　　6.电脑里一定有聊天工具；

6. The computer must have a chat tool;

　　7.眼镜度数增长飞快；

7. Glasses degree increase fast;

　　8.对动漫情有独钟，尤其是日韩动漫；

8. To anime have a special liking,Especially in Japan and South Korea animation;

　　9.QQ号码等级在一个太阳以上；

9. QQ number level in a more than the sun;

　　10.发短信的速度与宝马Z4有一拼；

Hair message speed and bMW Z4 a spell;

　　11.坐在电脑前可以坐到屁股冒烟；

11. Sit in front of the computer can take to bottom smoke;

　　12.喜欢制定周密的个人计划，然后不执行；

12. Like to make thorough individual programs,Then don't implement;

　　13.没事就喜欢检查手机有没有短信；

13. Nothing like check mobile phone have message;

　　14.所有的电器都不看说明书；

14. All the appliances at instruction;

　　15.讨厌父母把自己和别人比较；

15. Hate parents comparing yourself to other people;

　　16.晚上效率极高；

16. Night high efficiency;

　　17.在众人面前放过狂言；

17. In the presence of all pass zealotry;

　　18.喜欢一个人在家；

And, like a person at home;

　　19.经常早饭午饭合在一起吃；

19. Often eat breakfast lunch together;

　　20.每天，家-学校-家，两点一线；

Every day,Home - school - home,Two point one line;

　　21.报喜不报忧；

21. The bad news;

　　22.不能保证每天刷两次牙；

22. Can't guarantee brush my teeth twice a day;

　　23.会用火星文；

23. Will use Mars text;

　　24.长期喝一个品牌的饮料；

24. Long drink a brand of drinks;

　　25.至少拥有一个双肩背包；

25. At least have a backpack;

　　26.使用最多的称呼是"同学"；

26. The most widely used is called"students";

　　27.路过有镜面反射的地方一定会关注一下自己的容貌；

27. Pass by a mirror reflection place will pay attention to your appearance;

　　28.至少两周才打扫一次卫生；

And, at least two weeks the cleaning once a;

　　29.永远不知道自己的钱花到哪儿去了；

29. Never know their money where to go;

　　30.会一两种方言；

30. Will a two dialects;

　　31.喜欢酷的女生或者漂亮的男生；

31. Like cool girl or a beautiful boy;

　　32.写博，但决不呕心沥血；

32. Write bo,but never agony;

　　33.网友成为朋友，朋友成为网友；

33. Net friend to become friends,A friend become a net friend;

　　34.可以借书，决不借碟；

34. Can borrow books,Never borrow dish;

　　35.至少有一个曾经是偶像而现在羞于承认的明星；

35. At least one was idol and now ashamed to admit star;

　　36.R&R、R&B、Hip-Hop，至少喜欢一个；

36. r&r/r&b/Hip - Hop,At least like a;

　　37.可以用拼音打出每个字，但不见得能写出来；

37. You can use pinyin with each word,but can not write;

　　38.少打电话，经常发短信；

And. Call less,Often send text messages;

　　39.键盘磨损得很快；

39. The keyboard wear out very quickly;

　　40.彩铃两周一换；

Forty. On Monday at two change;

　　41.拥有一个以上的MP3；

41. With more than one MP3;

　　42.不看500字以上的帖子；

42. Watch more than 500 words of the post;

　　43.永远对自己的发型不满意；

43. Always not satisfied with his hair;

　　44.爱去小店淘宝；

44. Love to shop taobao;

　　45.对"80后"不屑；

45. The"After 80"despise;

　　46.喜欢QQ不喜欢MSN；

46. Like QQ don't like MSN;

　　47.恐龙战队、奥特曼必看过；

47. Dinosaurs team/Altman will be seen;

　　48.两分钟经常这样安排：前一分钟是崇拜，后一分钟变成藐视；

And. Two minutes often this arrangement:One minute is worship,After a minute into contempt;

　　49.总想尝试广告里的新产品；

49. Always want to try the advertisement of new products;

　　50.永远找不到自己的笔。

Fifty. Never find his pen.