“哦，又是一张生日请柬！当我高兴地把请柬递给妈妈，妈妈摇了摇头，叹了口气说‘哎！现在的孩子跟我们大人一样都要去应酬了’。”前日，武汉青山区钢城第三小学五（3）班学生高雨涵的一篇作文《生日的反思》，引发同班学生的激烈讨论。

"oh,Is a birthday invitation!When I'm glad to the invitation to mother,Mother shook his head,Said with a sigh‘ah!Now with our children as adults are going to the dinner party’."The day before yesterday,Wuhan QingShanOu city of steel third primary school five(3)Class gao yu han of a composition[Birthday reflection],Cause my students of heated debate.

　　记者采访了解到，现在部分孩子的生日宴都快赶上婚礼了，不仅吃大餐、送礼物，还比拼创意策划活动，同时，小朋友们对于生日聚会的攀比也升级了。

Reporters learned,Now part of the children's birthday party are going to catch up with the wedding,Not only eat dinner/gifts,Competition also creative planning activities,At the same time,The children to "keep up with the joneses" birthday party is the upgrade.

送百元礼物很常见 Send one hundred yuan gift is very common

男生过生日喝酒上课晕乎乎 The birthday boy drink class dizzy

　　“花团锦簇的宴会厅里，音乐的烘托下，巨幅幻灯滚动播放，水晶球开启见证××生日温馨美好的时刻……”“他的爸妈在酒店豪华包间请十多名同学吃饭，吃完饭后还一起去唱卡拉OK，去公园玩……”在钢城第三小学五（3）班孩子们的描述中，同学们大搞生日宴会的情况比较常见，尤其是过十周岁生日。

"The flowers in the banquet hall,Music of the foil,Giant lantern rolling play,Crystal ball open witness xx birthday sweet a wonderful moment……""His parents in the hotel luxurious rooms please eat more than ten students,After eating a meal also go to sing karaoke,To play in the park……"In the city of steel third primary school five(3)The description of the children in the class,The students make great birthday party of the situation is more common,Especially after ten years old birthday.

　　武汉某小学五年级学生李雨（化名）告诉记者，同学过生日，流行互相送礼物，如洋娃娃、玩具等，“送太便宜的不好意思，一般在七八十、百元左右。”

Wuhan one primary school grade five students LiYu(alias)Told reporters,Students birthday,Popular gifts to each other,Like a doll/toys,"Send too cheap embarrassed,In the general/One hundred yuan."

　　青山区一名小学教师说，有天上语文课，在课堂上见几个男生晕乎乎想睡觉。了解后得知，原来班级一男生头天晚上过生日，家长大摆宴席，邀请了部分班级男生，宴会上还喝了白酒。“吃完饭后，家长叫的士把孩子们送回了家。”

QingShanOu a primary school teacher said,A language lesson heaven,In the classroom see some boys dizzy want to sleep.After understanding that,The original class a boy birthday the night before,Parents big pendulum good things come to an end,Invite some of the class the boy,The party also drink liquor."After eating a meal,Parents call a taxi the children back to the home."

　　记者采访获悉，一些家长对孩子的生日宴非常重视，有时一场派对的总花费为数千元。

Reporters learned that,Some parents to the child's birthday party very seriously,Sometimes a party for the total cost thousands of yuan.

生日聚会大操大办 DaCaoDaBan birthday party

是利于社交还是形成攀比？ Is conducive to social or form bandwagon?

　　给孩子大办生日宴有必要吗？汉口的刘女士说，在物质条件允许的前提下，希望借此让孩子广交朋友，“现在的孩子基本都是独生子女，他们渴望同龄人的友谊。搞一个热闹的生日派对就是个很好的机会，有利于提高他们的社交能力。

Give the child DaBan birthday feast is necessary?Hankou's liu said,In the premise of material conditions allow,Hope to let the children make friends,"Now children basic are only children,They are eager to peer friendship.Make a lively birthday party is a good opportunity,To improve their social skills.

　　不过，也有许多家长认为“生日派对”带来了负担。“有一次我女儿的同学过生日，我一开始建议女儿给同学送个布娃娃，但女儿认为送布娃娃没面子。”武昌的朱先生说，后来女儿买了个比布娃娃贵两倍的玩具，“女儿学会了攀比，自己过生日时，也要求在酒店请同学大吃一顿。”

but,There are also many parents think"Birthday party"Brought the burden."Once my daughter's schoolmate's birthday,I started to suggest his daughter to students send a doll,But the daughter think send doll didn't face."Wuchang of Mr Chu said,Later the daughter bought a doll than your two times of toys,"Daughter learned bandwagon,His birthday,Also requires in the hotel please students a good meal."

　　生日派对“升级”，快乐就“升级”了吗？学生高雨涵的作文《生日的反思》，让班主任余元芳感触很多，她组织开展了班级讨论：“生日当然可以庆祝，但要理性消费。”余元芳老师说，吃豪华餐、送贵重礼物，会助长大家对金钱、排场的追求，使虚荣心膨胀。在日本，生日被称为“父忧母难之日”，希望同学们通过生日领悟生命的意义，体会父母给予的爱。（楚天都市报 记者罗欣 通讯员刘淑华 实习生韩丽娟）

Birthday party"upgrade",Happiness is"upgrade"??Student gao yu han composition[Birthday reflection],Let the teacher in charge YuYuanFang feeling a lot,She organized a class discussion:"Of course can celebrate birthday,But to rational consumption."YuYuanFang teacher said,Luxurious meal to eat/Send precious gift,Will encourage everyone to the money/Swanky pursuit,Make vanity expansion.In Japan,Birthday is called"The father mother care the difficult day",We hope our students through the birthday comprehend the meaning of life,Feel the love of parents to give.(Chutian metropolis daily reporter rossing correspondent LiuShuHua HanLiJuan interns)

　　(来源:荆楚网)

(Source: JingChuWang)