赵女士介绍，儿子今年读高二，最近总是掩着门在房间里玩电脑。上周末，她切了苹果送进儿子房间，恰巧碰到儿子正在看不雅视频，“当时我就想，儿子最近成绩一直往下掉会不会是因为这？但儿子大了，想交流却不知道怎么开口。”

Ms zhao introduced,Son read high this year,Recently always mask the door in the room playing computer.Last weekend,She cut the apple into the room to the son,Happen to meet son is can't see the video,"At that time I just want to,Son recent results have been going down because it will?But the son,Want to exchange but don't know how to open."

　　昨日下午，记者来到格桑心理咨询室。接待员说，咨询如何与子女谈“性”话题的家长每月平均有3至10名。

Yesterday afternoon,The reporter comes to see counseling."Said the receptionist,Consulting how to talk about with their children"sex"The topic of parents have a monthly average of 3 to 10.

　　格桑心理咨询师胡靖晖建议，家长勿抓现行，青春期的孩子猎奇心很强，这和生理的发展有联系，是一种成熟的表现，以强硬的方式制止，会让孩子产生逆反心理。

See a counselor HuJingHui Suggestions,Parents do not grasp the current,Adolescence children to see a strong heart,This and the development of physical contact,Is a kind of mature performance,In strong means to stop,Can let the child have negative mentality.

　　家长应如何引导？胡靖晖说，应给孩子找一些合适的教育书籍和科普片。交流时男孩建议爸爸去解释，女孩由妈妈来教育，以同性朋友的身份交流。

Parents should how to guide?HuJingHui said,Children should be to find some appropriate education books and popular science film.Communication boy suggest dad to explain,The girl from mother to education,Gay friends with the identity of the communication.

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