“情人节”越过越多，爱情怎能被“消费”绑架？

"Valentine's day"Over more,How can love be"consumption"kidnapped?

　　有人说，二月是情人的节日，因为有了多金才能多情的“情人节”，除了开年的201314外，2月14日情人节、520、七夕情人节、双11、双12等都已经与情人节挂上钩，一年要过6个情人节了。“以前一年过一次情人节，期盼很久，过一次很难忘。现在次数过多了，反而感觉没意思了。加上商家热炒爱情商机，我们那是过节？就是在‘被抢劫’！”不少人这样抱怨。

Some say,February is valentine's day,Because of the many gold to amorous"Valentine's day",In addition to the open in 201314,On February 14 valentine's day/520/Chinese valentine's day/Double 11/Double 12 and so on all have and valentine's day hanging rise to the bait,A year after six valentine's day."A year ago a valentine's day,Look forward to for a long time,A very unforgettable.Now too much times,But feel boring.A storm with merchants love business opportunities,We that is at the feast?Is in‘robbed’!"Many people complained that.

　　一边抱怨一边又不得不加入一场场“情人节礼物”的军备竞赛，不论是花钱买礼物“证明”自己爱意的浓度，还是花钱租男女友网友“避免”单身的孤独，“情人节”已经或多或少发生变质或走样。在“情人节”消费浪潮的背后，更多的是当下的年轻人对爱情的渴望和缺乏，以及理解的“错位”。

While complaining about side had to continue to join"Valentine's day gift"Arms race,Whether to buy gifts"proof"The concentration of his love,Or spend money to rent a male and female net friend"avoid"Single lonely,"Valentine's day"Has more or less happened metamorphic or out of shape.in"Valentine's day"Consumption of wave behind,More young people is the longing for love and lack of,And understand"dislocation".

　　

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手捧玫瑰，莫摔掉了真情 Holding rose,Don't break the truth

　　三毛肯定猜不到，如果在现在，你掏出一个骆驼头骨给对方，没准对方会落荒而逃。当然，如果这是LV推出的限量版头骨，或者镶嵌了施华洛世奇水晶，自然除外。

Three hair will never guess,If in the present,You take out a camel skull to each other,Maybe they will be defeated and flee.Of course,If this is LV out of edition of set limit to the skull,Or set with swarovski crystal,Except natural.

　　钱，在这个时代的确是个敏感话题，尤其是和本该纯净的感情放在一起时，天使还是魔鬼的，就在一瞬之间。我们渴望纯真的爱情，当房价依然高不可攀，物价仍然“遥遥领先”时，我们不希望自己的爱情如“通货膨胀”下的货币一般贬值，更不愿看到爱情成了情人节的“快速消费品”“吃完”就结束了。

money,In this age is indeed a sensitive topic,Especially and should have pure feelings when put together,Angel or devil,In an instant.We desire to pure love,When house prices are still too high to reach,Price still"lead"when,We don't want to own love such as"inflation"Under the general currency devaluation,More is not willing to see a love of valentine's day"Fast moving consumer goods""finish"Is over.

　　魔鬼总是充满“诱惑”的，让你不知方向跟着它的脚步。“爱她就送她钻戒”“爱”与“礼”画等号？是商家的戏码，还是我们自己少了定力，对爱情逐渐丧失了信心？只有当爱情越来越缺乏安全感时，才需要借助金钱的坐标来衡量和证明。也许，当我们浑身上下充满奢侈品的气息心却空落落时，才能明白，我们可怜可悲而又愚蠢地把真爱倒腾成了真正的奢侈品。

The devil is always full of"temptation"of,Let you don't know direction to follow its steps."Love she sent her diamond ring""love"and"ceremony"Draw equal-sign?Is repeat business,Or our own less concentration,To love gradually lost confidence?Only when love is more and more the lack of a sense of security,They need with money coordinates to measure and proof.maybe,When we are all full of luxury and the breath of the heart is empty,Can understand,Our poor sad and stupid to true love pour a teng become real luxury.

　　当我们手捧玫瑰，身带奢侈品的时候，不要一松手，摔掉了真情。

When we are holding the rose,To take the luxury,Don't let go,Fell off the truth.

　　今年有6个情人节：“我们过节‘被抢劫’！”

There are six valentine's day this year:"We have need of for the feast‘robbed’!"

　　女：“情人节你怎么没送花给我啊？！”

female:"Valentine's day how do you didn't send a flower to me?!"

　　男：“孩子都生过了，有什么好送的啊！”

male:"The children were born,What good send!"

　　女：“人家都给你生了孩子了，你还不送啊？”

female:"The somebody else all give you gave birth to a baby,Don't you send ah?"

　　男：“都老夫老妻了，平时就已经很宠了，还不知足啊？”

male:"Is an old married couple,At ordinary times is the pet,Still not satisfied!?"

　　女：“情人节一年就一个，你还不送！”

female:"Valentine's day a year a,You don't send!"

　　男：“什么一年一个啊？？？！！！一年好多个节好不好，情人节、七夕节、生日、结婚纪念日、三八妇女节……”

male:"What a year a???!!!A year many a day is good,Valentine's day/Tanabata/birthday/Wedding anniversary/March eighth international working women's day……"

　　女：“那又怎样，那不是给你们男人更多表达爱的机会么？”

female:"So what,That is not to give you guys more chance to express love it?"

　　男：“……”

male:"……"

　　男同胞明白，情人节是个需要谨慎对待的日子，对于未婚的男孩来说，情人节这天无疑是大献殷勤的最佳时机。把握得好，事半功倍。对于已婚的男士来说，这天如果不表示下，恐怕老婆心里多少会有些想法。

Male compatriots understand,Valentine's day is a day of need to be taken seriously,For unmarried boy speaking,Valentine's day is undoubtedly the best time to all.Grasp well,Twice the result with half the effort.For married men,One day if you don't say next,I'm afraid the wife how much heart will have some ideas.

　　“在手头宽裕的时候，中国城市里的年轻人出手阔绰，他们的花销常常超出实力。但在情人节这一天这或许是中国内地最流行的西方节日，他们的铺张程度已经堪比负债累累的西方人。南京的一位男孩计划拿出五分之一的月薪买瓶香水送给女友。”英国《金融时报》的一则有关情人节的报道曾经引起了不少国内人的注意。而根据珠宝网站Bottica公布的一份调查显示，情人节送礼物，中国等东方国家的男生最慷慨，平均每件情人节礼物的价格达到了173英镑(约合人民币1722元)。

"In the bounteous time at hand,In the Chinese city of big-spending young people,They often spend than strength.But on valentine's day it may be China's most popular western festival,They stretched out degree have indeed debt than westerners.Nanjing a boy to spend one 5 of the monthly salary to buy bottle of perfume for my girlfriend."British[Financial times]A report about valentine's day had caused a lot of domestic people's attention.According to Bottica jewelry website, according to a survey published,Valentine's day gifts,China, east of boy the most generous,Average each valentine's day gift price reached 173 pounds(1722 yuan).

　　有人说，二月的消费多是情人的消费，因为有了多金才能多情的“情人节”，但是现在“情人节”已经不单单是2月份的“专利”了。网上一位网友开玩笑地说，“除了开年的201314外，2月14日情人节、520、七夕情人节、双11、双12等都已经与情人节挂上钩，一年要过6个情人节了。”

Some say,February is the consumer's consumption,Because of the many gold to amorous"Valentine's day",But now"Valentine's day"Has not just in February"patent"the.Online a net friend joked,"In addition to the open in 201314,On February 14 valentine's day/520/Chinese valentine's day/Double 11/Double 12 and so on all have and valentine's day hanging rise to the bait,A year after six valentine's day."

　　近年来，2月14日的西方情人节已成了固定事项，而3月14日的白色情人节和七夕中国情人节也逐步流行。“现在情人节似乎越来越多啦！光给女友买礼物我就出了N次血了，再这样下去真要‘失血’而死了。”正准备给女朋友挑礼物的小陈抱怨说，“以前一年过一次情人节，期盼很久，过一次很难忘。现在次数过多了，反而感觉有负担，没什么意思了。”

In recent years,On February 14 western valentine's day has become a fixed matters,On March 14, and the white valentine's day and Chinese Chinese valentine's day also gradually popular."Now it seems more and more valentine's day!Light to the girl friend buy gift I will out of the N times blood,It's going to really want to‘Blood loss’And died."My girlfriend is preparing to choose gifts Chen complained,"A year ago a valentine's day,Look forward to for a long time,A very unforgettable.Now too much times,It feels a burden,The meaning of it."

　　如今，一分钱不花就“抱得美人归”已是不可能的事了。“去年我才和现在的女友认识，两人确定关系不久，追了她将近一年，自己粗略算了下一年已经花了近3万元，当然并不是说追女孩花钱越多胜数越高，但现代爱情总是得跟消费挂钩。”对于这一波猛过一波的“情人节”浪潮，广州市民杨煜凌直喊“伤不起”。“情人节期间，巧克力、玫瑰花等那些礼物早就已经过时了，现在的商场一般都在黄金、珠宝、钻石促销上下功夫，什么都要往贵里整，像黄金巧克力、黄金婚嫁套盒、黄金玫瑰花项链等，动辄就是几千上万元。”说到这里，杨煜凌一脸抱怨，“现在不是我们过节，而是‘被抢劫’，商场造节上瘾，跟我们玩数字游戏，这哪是情人节，简直就是‘情人劫’！”

now,Don't spend a penny of it"Embrace get beauty be"Already impossible."Last year, I just know and now his girlfriend,Determine the relationship between two people soon,After her for almost a year,His rough forget it next year has spent nearly $30000,Of course is not to say that the more money chasing girls without number is higher,But modern love always have to link up with consumption."For this wave fierce a wave"Valentine's day"wave,Guangzhou citizens YangYuLing straight out"Injury can not afford to"."During the valentine's day,chocolate/The rose and the gifts are already out of date,Now the market generally in gold/jewelry/Diamond sales fluctuation kongfu,What are you going to the whole,Like gold chocolate/Golden wedding boxes/Gold rose necklace,Frequently is thousands of tens of thousands of yuan."here,YangYuLing a face of complain,"It is not our feast,but‘robbed’,Market made day addiction,And we play Numbers game,This which is valentine's day,It is‘Lover of’!"

　　最令杨煜凌痛苦的是，他和女友筱柔的感情因为所谓的“特殊日子”产生间隙和矛盾，“201314那段时间，我们两人曾经冷战了几天，就为了该不该在201314来临的时候买订婚钻戒。杨煜凌苦闷地表示，“2012年的西方情人节我给她买了手表，520买了条手链，七夕买项链，双11买了翡翠手镯，现在又要买，哎……根本耗不起啊。”杨煜凌对记者说，“她觉得201314这样特别的日子，一生只有一次，外面商家、网上都炒得火热，如果不给她买点贵重的东西，又显得我太不懂感情了，太不浪漫了。”

The most painful is to YangYuLing,He and his girlfriend xiao yu soft feelings because the so-called"Special day"Produce clearance and contradictions,"201314 time,Both of us have a few days of the cold war,Just for this shouldn't be on the 201314 comes to buy diamond engagement ring.YangYuLing agonizingly said,"2012 years of the western valentine's day I bought her a watch,520 to buy a bracelet,Chinese buy necklace,Double and bought a jade bracelet,Now and want to buy,ah……Basic consumption not ah."YangYuLing told reporters,"She felt that 201314 such a special day,Only once in a lifetime,Businessman outside/The Fried like a house on fire,If you don't give her some valuable things,And look I am too don't understand feelings,Too not romance."

　　或许，杨煜凌是幸运的，毕竟他最终“抱得美人归”，但又有多少恋爱中的男孩最后刷光了自己的工资卡，依然担心没有成效。

maybe,YangYuLing is lucky,After all, he finally"Embrace get beauty be",But how many boys in love finally brushing his pay check,Still worried about no results.

　　“情人节又来了……”广州一家外贸公司员工刘鸿长吸了口气，他告诉记者，为了给刚认识3个月的女朋友买到一件得体的礼物，他足足逛了8个小时街，接近一个月来“逛街耗时”的总和。“我给女朋友准备了5样礼物，一束11朵百合花、一条在广州的春天可以戴的丝巾，一条施华洛世奇的水晶项链以及一个能唱歌的古典八音盒，还有一封扬扬洒洒爬满字的信。“这些总计花了近1500元，过情人节，花钱肯定少不了，但如何选到她对口的礼物我感到很伤神。”为了能够挑选到符合她审美口味又有节日气氛的八音盒，我几乎跑遍了广州，走了好几家门店。”

"Valentine's day again……"Guangzhou a foreign trade company staff LiuHongChang breath,He told reporters,In order to know just 3 months girlfriend to buy a good gift,He went shopping for eight hours street,Close to a month"Shopping time"combined."I give a girlfriend prepared five kind gift,A bouquet of roses and lilies/A spring in guangzhou can wear scarf,A swarovski crystal necklace and a singing classical music box,And a voluminous satisfied with word letter."The total spent nearly $1500,Lead valentine's day,Money will definitely not,But how to choose to her appropriate gift I feel very concern."In order to be able to choose to answer her aesthetic taste and the atmosphere of festival of music box,I almost went around guangzhou,Go several stores."

　　在刘鸿看来，自己刚结识的女孩子绝对不是“物质女”，早在过情人节之前就对他说自己不收iPad、iPhone5此类礼物，“但这反而让我觉得更难办，其实想要花心思买到有意义的礼物，算下来，自己花得一点也不少，而且更劳神。其实我们男孩子都懂的，女孩子只是嘴里不说，但肯定不希望收的礼品比朋友、同事要少，那样她们面子过不去。”刘鸿向记者掏出了自己的皮夹，里面只剩下两三百元，“情人节正好赶上春节，除了给她买礼物，还得给父母买，这个月信用卡已经签下了三四千元了，感觉过节太累了，节前节后都要拼命省吃俭用。我才刚跟她结识不久，但心里很中意，不晓得后面会怎样，当然钱倒是其次，关键是如果下了血本还是没有成效，那才是真正的悲催。”

In LiuHong seems,He just meet girls absolutely not"Material female",As early as in the valentine's day before he said they don't accept iPad/IPhone5 such gifts,"But that it makes me feel more difficult,Actually want to spend idea to buy meaningful gift,Count down,Oneself flower does a lot of,And more bother.Actually we know of the boys,Girls just not his mouth,But certainly do not want to accept gifts than friends/Colleagues to less,So they face a hard time."LiuHong told reporters took out his wallet,It only 2300 yuan,"Valentine's day were just in time for the Spring Festival,In addition to buy her a gift,Also need to give the parents to buy,This month the credit card has signed three or yuan,Feel the feast was so tired,After the Passover to try very hard to pinch and scrape.I just tell her to meet soon,But in the heart is very like,Don't know there will be how,Of course money is second,The key is that if the net cost or no effect,That is real sad reminder."

　　

“最好的礼物”可以简单， 生活却处处不能简单 "The best gift"Can simple, But life is not simple

　　如果你读过《撒哈拉的故事》，那么你一定记得大胡子荷西，你一定记得那个骆驼头骨，那是荷西送三毛的结婚礼物，一定记得他们的相识、求婚和婚礼以及后来他们贫瘠却幸福的生活。

If you read[The story of the Sahara],So you must remember full beard jose,You must remember that the camel skull,That was jose sent three hair wedding gift,Must remember their acquaintance/Propose and wedding and then they poor but happy life.

　　什么是最好的礼物？三毛在书中写道“惨白的骨头很完整的合在一起，一大排牙齿正龇牙咧嘴的对着我，眼睛是两个大黑洞。我太兴奋了，这个东西真是送到我心里去了。我将它放在书架上，口里啧啧赞叹：‘唉，真豪华，真豪华。’荷西不愧是我的知音。‘哪里搞来的？’我问他。‘去找的啊！沙漠里快走死了，找到这一付完整的，我知道你会喜欢。’他很得意。这真是最好的结婚礼物。’”

What is the best gift?SAN MAO wrote"White bones very complete together,A row of teeth are rictus to me,The eyes are two big black hole.I was too excited,This thing's to my heart to.I put it on the shelf,Mouth TSK praise:‘alas,True luxury,True luxury.’Jose not the kui is my bosom friend.‘Where to get the?’I asked him.‘To find ah!The desert go dead,Find this a pair of complete,I know you'll like it.’He is very proud.This is the best wedding gift.’"

　　从这段话中我们不难看出，这是她最喜欢的结婚礼物。送什么真的不重要，重要的还是最想要的，一生中最难得就是有个知心爱人。礼物，婚礼都可以简单，生活却处处不能简单。

From the passage we see not hard,This is her favorite wedding gift.Send what really not important,Important or want to,Life is the most rare a bosom lover.gift,Wedding can be simple,But life is not simple.

　　恋爱中的女孩或已婚女士，她们在情人节那天最想收到什么呢？有人选择了奢侈品，有人选择了小礼物，有人选择了陪伴……其实，未必每个人需要的都是昂贵的首饰或者精致的晚餐。

Girls in love or married woman,They want to receive on valentine's day?People choose the luxury,People choose the small gift,People choose the company……In fact,Not everyone needs is expensive jewelry or delicate dinner.

　　中山大学研究生刘洋(化名)在向女友表白后，每天写一首英语诗记录自己的爱情之路。2月14日情人节那天他们相恋第110天，刘洋准备将全部百首情诗送给女友，作为一份独特的情人节礼物。他俩相识在学校的一次英语角活动上，虽然都是非英语专业学生，却对学英语有着很大的热情。“我还记得我们第一次用口语交流的时候，就似乎有讲不完的话题，即使我的口语并没有她好。”刘洋一直在思考用什么独特的方式记录他们的爱情，“既然我们的爱情是英语做的‘红娘’，为什么不用英文诗歌来记录我们的感情呢？”

Sun yat-sen university graduate students were(alias)To his girlfriend in the profession,Write an English poem every day to record their love road.On February 14 valentine's day 110 days they fell in love,All were ready to the first love poems to his girlfriend,As a special valentine's day gift.They met in the school a English corner activities,Although all are English major students,But to learn English with great enthusiasm."I still remember the first time we communicate with spoken English,It seems to have a speak not over of the topic,Even if my spoken English is not her."Were have been thinking what a unique way to record their love,"Since our love is English do‘matchmaker’,Why not use English poetry to record our feelings?"

　　李奕和梁飒恋爱已经3年了，在这3年里，他们和很多情侣一样，经历了相遇、相识再到相知、相爱、相恋的过程，目前恋情已经渐渐走向稳定。巧的是，两人是在3年前的2月14日情人节认识的，也正是因为这个原因，情人节对于这两人来说就显得格外有意义。

LiYi and LiangSa love for 3 years,In the three years,And as many couples,Experience to meet the/Acquaintance to know/love/Process of love,At present relationship has gradually towards stability.Artful is,Two people are in 3 years ago on February 14 valentine's day know,It is also for this reason,Valentine's day for this two people is especially meaningful.

　　“我们是同学介绍认识的，父母双方对我们平时的支持也不多，两个人也刚毕业不久，收入也不太高，平时花钱的时候比较理性，也不会从众消费的。前几天，他送了我一朵镶了水钻的玫瑰式头花，我很喜欢，虽然没有那么贵重，但我真的很喜欢，也相信这朵花会一直陪伴着我的。”在梁飒眼里，那朵不会凋谢的花很有心意，相对的，她也很了解对方喜欢什么，想要什么。她从自己的电脑里挑出她最满意的12张照片，都是两人出游时的合影，带着这些照片她去印了一本只属于他们两人的台历，李奕拿到台历后，喜出望外。

"We are introduced to the students,Both parents to our usual support much,Two people also just graduation soon,Income is not too high,At ordinary times when money is rational,Also won't conformity consumption.A few days ago,He gave me a set of the water rose type headdress flower,I like,Although not so valuable,But I really like,Also believe that this little flower will always accompany me."In the eyes of LiangSa,That one will not wither flower is mind,relative,She also very much understood each other like,What do you want.She from your own computer to pick out her the most satisfactory and photo,Are two people when you travel group photo,With these photos her to print a book only belong to the calendar,LiYi get after calendar,Was overjoyed.

　　今年已经30岁的“大麦”和周磊爱情长跑了近8年，去年两人结婚，曾经一度让周围的朋友们引以为“美谈”。恋爱的时候，每个情人节“大麦”都会收到礼物，小到一束玫瑰，大到笔记本电脑，周磊每次都会做足心思。但结婚特别是刚生了孩子后，“大麦”成了家里的“财政大臣”，周磊将工资卡全部上缴，没有“财政自由”的他买礼物甚至还需要向“大麦”申请，“都是家里的钱，还不如省省，结婚那么久了，也没要凑啥热闹，于是最后礼物得以‘免’了，倒是我给他买了套衣服和巧克力。”“大麦”笑着对记者说道。“礼物可以免，但有一点不能免。结婚生孩子，家庭责任双方都有，我希望他可以多帮我带带孩子给孩子讲讲故事，或者每天帮我洗一次碗，这种日积月累体贴的温情远比情人节一份大礼来得可贵得多。”

This year has 30 years"barley"And ZhouLei love run nearly eight years,Last year, two people get married,Once get around the friends proud of"美谈".When one is in love,Every valentine's day"barley"Will receive gifts,To a small bouquet of roses,Big to the notebook PC,ZhouLei always do full state of mind.But to marry, especially those who just gave birth to a child,"barley"Became home"Finance minister",ZhouLei will pay check to all,no"Financial freedom"He buy a gift even need to"barley"application,"Is the money at home,Than save,Get married so long,Also didn't want to gather together what busy,So the last gift to‘from’the,It is I bought him a set of clothes and chocolate.""barley"Smile at the reporter said."Gift free,But it can't avoid.To marry to give birth to the child,Both sides have family responsibilities,I hope he can help me to take the children to the children about the story,Help me wash every day or a bowl,This accumulate over a long period considerate warmth than a valentine's day gift was much more valuable."

　　

“情人节军备赛”：“我们已经别无选择” "Valentine's day an arms race":"We have no other choice"

　　VIP影厅独家放映、007座驾路特斯跑车接送、价值2480元的西式晚餐、五星级酒店豪华房这样的情人节“私人定制”套餐是否令人咋舌？

VIP YingTing sole screening/007 her motorcade's road transportation sports car/2480 yuan worth of western dinner/Five-star hotels deluxe room this valentine's day"Private custom"Package is a be left speechless with wonder or fear?

　　近日，国内一家电影院推出了“2013最给力情人节”进行竞拍，起拍价2140元，竞拍成功的情侣将在情人节当天下午被接送到餐厅共享双人浪漫烛光晚餐，影院在当晚提供一个52座的小影厅为情侣放一部专场电影，最后将其送往五星级酒店豪华房休息，全程由路特斯跑车接送。

recently,China launched a cinema"The 2013 to force valentine's day"To bid,QiPaiJia 2140 yuan,Auction success of lovers will be on the valentine's day in the afternoon was transfers to the restaurant sharing double romantic candlelight dinner,In the cinema to provide a 52 a little YingTing for couples put a special movie,The last will be sent to the five-star hotel luxury room to rest,The whole road transport's sports car.

　　这一系列所谓的尊贵服务引发了不少网友热议，有人认为“超值”，有人称其“摆噱头”。最近热传山西某男子花10万元享受“帝王浴”的新闻，有网友认为，竞拍处理不好可能就控制不了发展势头，更有人担心活动会引发攀比之心，有人不禁调侃说：“钱多烧的看过来吧。”但也有网友认为，“如果想在情人节求婚或者特别想讨女友欢心，这是一个不错的选择，只要能留下浪漫回忆，出多少价都值得。”甚至有网友认为这种现象只不过是每年“情人节军备赛”的一个缩影而已，“情人节，传情还是摆阔？这是个问题。”

This a series of so-called distinguished service caused a lot of net friend of hot debate,Some people think that"value",It was called the"Pendulum stunt".Recent heat transfer shanxi a man spend 100000 yuan to enjoy"Emperor bath"news,Netizens think,Bidding processes is not good may be could not control the momentum of development,The more there are fears that the activity will result in the heart of bandwagon,People can not help but light:"Money burning see come over it."But there are also net friend think,"If you want to marry him on valentine's day or special favor to please his girlfriend,This is a good choice,As long as can leave romantic memories,How much is the price."Even netizens think that this phenomenon is only every year"Valentine's day an arms race"A miniature of the just,"Valentine's day,Emotion or cut a dash?This is a question."

　　一位年轻的博士生拿出整整一个月的预算买了张单程票，飞回重庆看望自己的女友。北京的一位男孩表示，他计划花1000元人民币买99朵玫瑰送给女友，尽管后者可能更希望他送999朵。情人节来临，这样的“感人”事迹并不少见。

A young doctoral took out a whole month's budget to buy a one-way ticket,Fly back to chongqing to visit his girlfriend.Beijing's a boy said,He plans to spend 1000 yuan to buy 99 roses to his girlfriend,Although the latter may be more hope he sent 999 roses.Valentine's day comes,this"moving"Story is not rare.

　　同样是洋节，情人节和母亲节的待遇有着天壤之别。团800曾经对2012年母亲节和情人节期间团购数据进行了统计，两者之间相差了3574万，当然高的自然是“情人节”消费。当然，“孝心”与“爱情”都不能用金钱来衡量，团购数据差距也并不能说明网友尽孝不上心，但从记者随机采访的20位80后已婚及适婚年轻人进行的调查中发现，男士中没有1位在母亲节的消费超过情人节，在母亲节的消费上，女生成了消费主力，调查的总体情况和团800数据类似，“孝心消费”不敌“爱情消费”。从调查的情况来看，母亲节的礼品多以饰品、花、蛋糕、营养品、护肤品、血压仪等为主，显得相对居家和实用，当然更多人选择的是祝福、贺卡、做家务、电话、短信、回家看望等方式；情人节主要是花、饰品、衣服、鞋子、玩具、看电影、自助餐、巧克力等“快消品”，这也是商家愿意出手大力促销的原因。

Is also the day,Valentine's day and mother's day treatment are worlds apart.Group 800 had 2012 mother's day and valentine's day is during the data statistics,Difference between the 35.74 million,Of course the nature is high"Valentine's day"consumption.Of course,"Filial piety"and"love"Can't use money to measure,A bulk data gap does not mean net friend here hoping not,But from the reporter random interview twenty after 80 married and marriageable young people in the survey found,A man without a mother's day in the consumption of more than valentine's day,On mother's day on the consumption,The girl became the main consumption,Investigation of the overall situation and the group 800 similar data,"Filial piety consumption"loss"Love consumption".From the survey of the situation,Mother's day gifts in jewelry/flower/cake/nourishment/Protect skin to taste/Blood pressure meter etc give priority to,Appear relatively home and practical,Of course more people choose is a blessing/CARDS/Do housework/telephone/message/Home visit, etc;Valentine's day is mainly flowers/Adorn article/clothes/shoes/toys/See a movie/buffet/chocolate"Fast consumption goods",This is business would like to sell to the cause of the promotion.

　　一个温情偏实用，一个浪漫巧心思，着实看得出年轻人对待老妈和老婆(情人)的不同态度，这不由得令人联想起南京的一位男孩计划拿出1/4的月薪买瓶香水送给女友的事情。他坦承，自己已经别无选择：“如果我送给她的礼物，不论是价格还是牌子都比不上她周围女孩收到的情人节礼物的话，她肯定会不高兴，即使她不说出来。攒钱让她快乐是值得的。”毕竟，在这种节日里女孩说了算。网友“河东司机”称，自己严重怀疑“情人节”就是被商家高举竹杠往下敲！“这铺天盖地的广告和洗脑没什么两样，不知不觉就给人植入了这样的印象：这一天你要是舍不得出门好好消费一把，那就是无情无义、不解风情、爱得不够！”

A warmth partial practical,A romantic mind opportunely,Really see young people treat mother and wife(lover)Different attitudes,This can't help recalling that nanjing a boy to spend a quarter of the monthly salary to buy a bottle of perfume girl things.He admits,Have no choice but to yourself:"If I gave her gift,Whether or not the price brands are around her girl received word of valentine's day gifts,She will certainly not happy,Even if she didn't speak it out.Saving money let her happiness is worth it."After all,In this festival girl have the final say.Net friend"Hedong driver"says,His serious doubt"Valentine's day"Is lifted up by the businessman clip to knock!"The omnipresent advertising and brainwashing ever,Before you know it will give people implanted the impression:This day if you won't go out to the consumer,It is heartless/Don't understand amorous feelings/Love is not enough!"

　　“宁愿在宝马车里哭泣，也不愿坐在自行车后笑。”这也反映了女生的一种心态，无疑这也让还处于单身状态的男生“前仆后继”地加入这场“军备竞赛”，在心疼的同时也不得不对自己“心狠一点，再狠一点”，毕竟在情人节这个热潮背后，恋人们更多考虑的是长久的婚姻关系的建立。当然，还有一些女性宁愿租个男友过情人节，《中国日报》转载的一篇文章称，有人在网上以一天5000元人民币的价格租个男友过情人节。

"Would rather in the BMW cry,Also don't want to sit after the bike laugh."It also reflects the girl's a state of mind,No doubt this also let is still in a single state of boys"Wave upon wave"To join the"Arms race",In love at the same time also had to yourself"Cruel a little,Then a malicious",After all this upsurge in valentine's day behind,Love people more consideration is long marriage relationship building.Of course,There are some women would rather rent a boyfriend lead valentine's day,[China Daily]Reprint an article said,Someone on the net to 5000 yuan RMB a day price rent a boyfriend lead valentine's day.

　　不论是花钱买礼物“证明”自己爱意的浓度，还是花钱租男女友网友“避免”单身的孤独，“情人节”这个在西方源自于一个美丽的宗教传说的节日，经过时间的冲洗和时代的变迁后，已经或多或少发生变质或走样。正如网友“独乐乐园”所言，“如果非要把浪漫安排在特定的日子里，反而把爱情形式化了。”在“情人节”消费浪潮的背后，更多的是当下的年轻人对爱情的渴望和缺乏，以及理解的“错位”。(记者 周豫)

Whether to buy gifts"proof"The concentration of his love,Or spend money to rent a male and female net friend"avoid"Single lonely,"Valentine's day"The western originated from a beautiful legend religious holiday,After time washing and after the changes of The Times,Has more or less happened metamorphic or out of shape.As the net friend"Alone lele garden"said,"If you don't want to put the romantic arranged in a particular day,But love the formalization."in"Valentine's day"Consumption of wave behind,More young people is the longing for love and lack of,And understand"dislocation".(Reporter ZhouYu)