阅读提示：王哲历的“春节相亲计划”分上下两部，上部从腊月二十到二十八，下部从大年初二到正月十一，共18场相亲活动。这18个对象包括护士、老师、公务员[微博]、私营业主等众多行业；相亲的地点则包括咖啡店、西餐厅、电影院甚至春节庙会。

Reading tips:WangZheLi of"The Spring Festival to plan"Consists of two,From the top twenty to twenty,From the lower to the 12th annual eleven,Eighteen field to activities.Those objects including nurse/The teacher/Civil servants [micro bo]/Private owners, and many other industries;The location of the blind date is including the coffee shop/Western restaurant/The cinema and the Spring Festival temple fair.

　　本报记者尤畅

Our reporter YouChang

　　

剩斗士的春节相亲会 The Spring Festival with fighter to will

　　从意大利回到青田已经十多天了，王哲历一直在忙。你要问忙什么？他的微信签名就是答案——“不是在相亲，就是在去相亲的路上”。

Back to Italy from qingtian has more than ten days,WangZheLi have been busy.You ask busy???????His micro letter signature is the answer --"Not to,Is the way to the blind date".

　　10年前，26岁的王哲历跟着亲戚到意大利维琴察的一家中餐馆打工，从跑堂干起，一步步升到领班、经理、股东，现在也有了一家属于自己的小餐馆。

Ten years ago,26 years old WangZheLi follow relative to a Chinese restaurant work Italian vicenza,From run hall bottom,Step by step up to the captain/The manager/shareholders,Also now have a to belong to own a small restaurant.

　　虽然在国外事业有成，但因为交际圈狭小，他的“个人问题”成了亲戚朋友的“众矢之的”。

Although the foreign successful career,But because of the narrow circle,his"Personal problems"Become the relatives and friends"Target of public criticism".

　　尤其是一接到老爸老妈打来的电话，王哲历就感到头皮发麻，“几乎每通电话，都会说到谁谁谁结婚了、生娃了、孩子都会打酱油了……”

Especially a telephone call from how I met your mother,WangZheLi was on pins and needles,"Almost every call,Will say to who who who married/Born Eva the/Children can play the soy sauce……"

　　在婚姻问题上，王哲历的父母认为，对待婚姻的态度和责任感方面，国内的女孩更可靠，所以知道他今年准备回国过年，早早就开始张罗了。

In marriage,WangZheLi parents think,Take marriage attitude and sense of responsibility aspects,Domestic girl more reliable,So know he will go back home this year New Year's day,The early began to scare up.

　　第一个相亲对象是位23岁的姑娘，任凭王哲历怎么翻动嘴皮子，可对方腼腆得连话都不大说。整个过程才半个小时，都是介绍人在和王哲历谈，真不知道是谁要做他的女朋友。

The first blind date is a 23 year old girl,Let WangZheLi how flipping lips,But the other party she is too shy to speak not said.The whole process just half an hour,References are in and WangZheLi talk about,I don't know who is to do his girlfriend.

　　第二位是个小学老师，挺能聊，可越到后来，王哲历就越觉得不对劲了，“才这么一会，双方都还不了解，就开始对我的工作和家庭指手划脚了。”

The second is a primary school teacher,Quite can chat,But the more to later,WangZheLi more think was wrong,"Just so for a while,Both sides also don't understand,Began to my work and family a backseat driver."

　　第三位是个公务员，家庭、相貌、工作都蛮不错，可是一说到以后需要她放弃国内的一切、出国与王哲历一道打拼时，双方就话不投机了。

The third is a civil servant,family/looks/Work is pretty good,But say to later need her to give up all the domestic/Go abroad and WangZheLi when a fight,The two sides the cross-purposes.

　　第四位是个护士，认为与王哲历的年纪差距太大，电影一结束，双方也就结束了……

The fourth is a nurse,Think and WangZheLi age gap is too big,Movie one end,Both sides also is over……

　　每次相完亲，回到家，家人都要向王哲历打探“战绩”如何，见他摇头，老妈总会一声长叹。

Each phase out close,Returned home,Family members to WangZheLi bug"record"How to,See he shook his head,Mom always with a deep sigh.

　　那口气，听起来就像买错了股票抛不出去一样。

The tone,Sounds like to buy the wrong stock will not let go.

　　不过，王哲历的心态倒是不错，“这事急不来，相亲毕竟不是买菜，不是讨价还价之后就能一手交钱一手交货。”

but,WangZheLi state of mind is good,"It urgent to,After all, not to buy food,Not after haggle can make money in a delivery."

　　“相亲车轮战”的上部让王哲历感到疲惫，但他希望能碰到有感觉的人。可感觉怎么来衡量，他也说不清楚。

"To CheLunZhan"To the top of the WangZheLi feeling tired,But he wants to meet the feeling person.Can feel how to measure,He also said not clearly.

　　大年初二，“车轮战”下部依照计划开打。

12th annual,"CheLunZhan"In accordance with the plan to open the bottom.

　　这次的地点约在了丽水西城广场，女孩是做财务的，这点让王哲历挺喜欢。

The site about on the lishui wl square,The girl is to be financial,This let WangZheLi liked.

　　晚上，王哲历给我打来电话说，对方挺有眼缘，聊得也不错，还互留了联系方式，但至于能不能成，还要再接触接触。

In the evening,WangZheLi telephoned me said,Each other's eye edge,Chat very well,Also left each other contact information,But whether you can into,Need to contact contact.

　　“接下来几天里，还有好些个姑娘要见，再看看总没有坏处。”王哲历说，回国围着相亲转，这样的方式让他终身难忘。

"In the coming days,There are many a girl wants to see,Look at the total harmless."WangZheLi said,Return to turn around,This way let him a lifetime.

　　

每逢佳节被相亲 Sze was blind date

　　要相就相老家人 To phase is LaoGuRen phase

　　@排骨汤圆：大年初一刚过，我就发现老同学兼闺蜜把自己的QQ签名更新成了“每逢佳节被相亲，要相就相老家人”。好吧，我都能想象她敲下这几个字的表情有多囧。

@ ribs dumplings:On New Year's day just passed,I found that old classmates, honey and his QQ signature update became"Sze was blind date,To phase is LaoGuRen phase".ok,I can imagine her knock down this a few word expression how drained.

　　昨天上午，我回到老家湖州，和闺蜜匆匆见了一面。

Yesterday morning,I went back to their hometown huzhou,And in a hurry, honey see one side.

　　因为闺蜜的“档期”问题，我们的相聚缩减为一个小时的下午茶——从年初三开始到年初六，五场相亲大戏她都是女主，男主无一例外都是在北京的湖州人。

Because, honey"according"problems,Our together reduced to an hour of afternoon tea, from junior to the people in,5 games to she is NvZhu drama,Male master without exception is in Beijing, the huzhou people.

　　对于已经奔过三的闺蜜来说，过年回家忙相亲我觉得不新鲜，想八卦的只是，工作在“帝都”的她为啥还要回到我们老家小城市来物色男人呢？

For has run three's maiden for honey,New Year's day home busy to I don't feel fresh,Want to gossip is,Work in"Royal park"Why she will come back to our home small city to looking for a man??

　　没想到闺蜜说：“还不是因为有你这样的例子。”

Unexpectedly, honey said:"Not just because you have such examples."

　　我的老家在湖州，老公家乡在徐州，婚后，除夕夜总得两家轮，常常没法和父母吃上年夜饭，总是有些遗憾和愧疚。

My hometown in huzhou,Husband: my hometown is in xuzhou,After marriage,New Year's eve must two wheel,Often can't eat on New Year's eve dinner with my parents,Always some regret and guilty.

　　“还是我家老太太深谋远虑，给我物色的全是在北京打拼的湖州人。这要是成了的话，以后过年回家，绝对是夫妻双双把家还，哈哈！”

"Or my old lady foresight,Give me looking for is full of fight in Beijing the huzhou people.If it became a word,Home after Chinese New Year,Both husband and wife home is absolutely still,Ha ha!"

　　这个春节相不中？没事，来日方长，回北京继续相呗。闺蜜说，通过广场舞会，老太太早就做好相亲资料库啦。

The Spring Festival break phase?nothing,There will be ample time,Back to Beijing to continue phase bai.Said, honey,Through the square dance,The old lady would have to do it database.

　　本报记者冯潇颖

Our reporter FengXiao clever

　

　他说自己33岁 He said he 33 years old

　　我感觉起码40了 I feel at least forty

　　@奈良的鹿_酱：“年薪10万、大城市、研究生”，如果放在一个30岁的男人身上，肯定吃香，可是换成同样年纪的姑娘，就没有市场了。你说这是什么道理啊？

@ nara deer _ sauce:"The annual salary of 100000/cities/graduate",If in a 30 years old man,Must be in great demand,But with the same age girl,There is no market.You said this is what reason?

　　小黄在宁波工作，老家是江西抚州。研究生毕业三四年了，感情问题还是一片荒芜。

Yellow work in ningbo,My home town is jiangxi fuzhou.Graduate three or four years,Emotional problem or a piece of desert.

　　前几年，长辈们只是催，今年他们简直是焦躁了——弟弟刚毕业就在上海找了女朋友。

Before a few years,Elders just push,This year they're anxious - brother just graduated in Shanghai to find a girlfriend.

　　“姐姐不结婚，弟弟结婚总归不吉利，你就看在我们一把年纪，想抱孙子的份上，去找个人结婚吧。”这是小黄妈妈的原话。

"The elder sister doesn't get married,Brother get married after all not lucky,You will see in one of our age,Want to have grandchildren's sake,Find someone go get married."This is yellow mother's exact words.

　　经过多次讨价还价，最后达成妥协：今年回家相亲，不管成不成，先有个行动。

After many bargaining,Finally reach a compromise:This year went home to,No matter become,To have a action.

　　第一次相亲，是在镇上的一个山寨咖啡馆。

The first blind date,In the town is a stronghold cafe.

　　“他说33岁，但是感觉起码40了，头也有点秃。在宁波一个旅行社做客户经理，一直在说全国各地旅游经验，还暗示我下次一块去。”

"He said 33,But feel at least forty,Head is a little bald.A travel agency in ningbo do customer manager,Has been said that all parts of the country tourism experience,Also suggested that I go next time."

　　小黄应付地听着，没想到对方中途上了个洗手间，回来突然坐到她边上，双手非常不老实。小黄想着两个老人，忍了几秒钟后，果断推开，一回家就对爸妈发火，还狠狠甩了房门。

Yellow cope with listen carefully,Thought the other way on a toilet,Back suddenly sit on the edge of her,Both hands is very dishonest.Yellow thinking of two old man,Endure a few seconds later,Decisive push,A home to parents angry,He also severely dumped the door.

　　那天晚饭很沉默，爸妈第一次没有再提相亲的事情，小黄心想：这下好了。

That dinner was silent,The first time my parents didn't ask to things,Yellow thought:the.

　　可是晚上上厕所时，听到妈妈又在打电话：“这个小伙虽然学历不高，但去海外打过工，可能他们聊得来，要么明天我把女儿带出来见见？”

But to the toilet at night,Hear mother and on the phone:"The boy although degree is not high,But to a work overseas,May they come about,Or tomorrow I bring out her daughter to meet?"