亲爱的孩子：

My dear child:

　　期末考试完，你就要去参加向往已久的冬令营集训，组织此次冬令营的老师要求每位家长给孩子写一封亲笔信。今天是周末，妈妈可以静下心来，用文字的方式与你进行一次交流。

The final exam finished,Are you going to take part in the winter camp is to yearn for already a long time,Organization of the winter camp teacher asked parents write a letter to children per person.Today is the weekend,My mother can calm down,Used to communicate with you on a text.

　　从你蹒跚学步、牙牙学语开始，我们母子之间的沟通和交流就从未间断。即使在工作忙的时候，妈妈每天也会挤出至少半小时的时间跟你谈心、聊天，或者是在饭桌上、或者是出去散步、或者是一起打球；即使有时参加朋友的聚会或外出旅游，妈妈都尽可能带上你，让你与外界、大自然接触的过程当中，增长知识，扩大视野；更重要的是，妈妈希望在亲子自然接触的过程当中与你交流，通过你自己去参与方方面面的实践和体验，让你可以自由地呼吸、快乐地成长。而在这个过程当中，妈妈也无比地开心和快乐。从看到你学步、说话；看到你游戏、顽皮；看到你学习、看书；看到你跑步、训练；看到你帮助素不相识的老爷爷，你每一次、一点一滴的成长与进步都令妈妈欣慰和感动。所以，感谢你，我的孩子，与你共同成长的每一天，妈妈都很幸福和快乐！

From your toddler/Start babbling,We communication and exchanges between mother and child are never stopped.Even in the busy at work,Mother will squeeze out at least half an hour every day talking with you/chat,Or at the dinner table/Or go out for a walk/Or the play;Even if sometimes the party friends or traveling,Mother is with you as soon as possible,Let you from the outside world/Contact with the process of nature,Growth of knowledge,Expand the field of vision;What is more important,Mother wants in parent-child contact nature the process of communication with you,By yourself to participants in the practice and experience,So you can breathe freely/Grow up happily.And in this process,Mother also incomparably happy and happy.From see you baby/To speak;See your game/naughty;See you study/Reading a book;See you running/training;See your grandfather to help strangers,Every time you/Every bit of growth and progress would make mother happy and moved.so,Thank you for your,My child,Grow up together with you every day,My mom is very happy and happy!

　　时光飞逝，转眼已过去十七个年头，而你5岁那年充满稚气的童音还回响在我耳畔，“妈妈，我不想长大，因为我不想妈妈老！”……如今，你已成长为一名17岁的英俊少年，偶尔妈妈习惯性地说：小孩子不管大人的事。你会笑着反驳，我已经不是小孩了！是啊，你已经不再是妈妈眼中那个顽皮、稚气的小男孩，你已经可以在上超市的时候，大包小包地帮妈妈拎东西，扛着一袋米还可以飞跑上楼，也可以经常和大人讨论哲学方面的话题，再过一年多，你就要离开父母的怀抱，出去学习，乃至今后工作、成家立业……妈妈见到你的时间会逐渐地变少。世界上只有一种爱是为了分离，妈妈纵有万般不舍，但内心最大的愿望仍然是当年回答你的那句话：不管妈妈将来有多老，无论何时何地，妈妈永远希望你：健康、平安、快乐！原本要在你离开我们外出学习的时候告诫的话，妈妈也可以在此次的书信中一并和你交流了。

How time flies,Had gone for the past 17 years,And when you were 5 years old boy full of childlike voice still echoes in my ears,"My mother,I don't want to grow up,Because I don't want to old mother!"......now,You has grown into a handsome young 17,Sometimes mom habitually says:The children no matter adults.You will counter with a laugh,I'm not a child!yes,You are no longer the naughty mother eyes/Childlike boy,You can already in the supermarkets,Bags to help my mother to carry things,Carrying a bag of rice can also flew up the stairs,Can also often and adults discuss philosophical topics,After more than a year,You will leave your parents,Go out to learn,And even future work/Married...Mom saw your time will gradually become less.There is only a kind of love is to separate,Mother there so don't give up,But inside the biggest desire is still the answer you that sentence:No matter how old the mother in the future,No matter when and where,I hope you forever:health/peace/happy!Originally we were learning to you leave of warning,Mom can also along with all the communication with you in the letter.

　　首先，孩子，要永远保持真诚和善良的品格。从小到大，在引导你制订的每一年、每个假期的计划当中，从来没有把学习的任务放在第一位，良好的品行和性格才是人生最重要的财富，所以，尽管经常在你的年度、假期计划里重复，但妈妈要给你说的第一件事，仍然是保持真诚和善良的品格，乐于助人。无论将来走到哪里，都要坚持这一做人和做事的准则。小时候，看着学校门外那些孤苦伶仃乞讨的老爷爷，你会掏出自己的零花钱；公车上，你经常会给老爷爷、老奶奶让座；运动会上，你主动借给参赛对手跑鞋，你这些善良的举动都令妈妈欣慰！“勿以善小而不为，勿以恶小而为之”，“你要别人怎样对待你，你就怎样对待别人。”无论何时都要谨记。

First of all,The child,Will always remain sincere and good character.Since the childhood,In the guide you to make every year/Each holiday plan,Never put the learning task in the first place,Of good moral character and personality is the most important thing in life wealth,so,Although often in your year/Holiday plans in repetition,But mom have said the first thing for you,Is still keep the sincere and good character,Ready to help others.Whatever in the future, go to where,All must adhere to the guidelines and.When I was a child,Look at those alone begging old man outside the school,You will take out my pocket money;On the bus,You are often to grandpa/Old woman his seat;The sports meeting,You take the initiative to lend rivals running shoes,You these kind of actions make mother happy!"Good small and not for not make a summer,It is a sin to steal a pin","Do you want to how others treat you,How you treat others."Remember at all times.

　　其次，就是勤劳和节俭。“自己的事情自己做”、“做力所能及的事”，这是你从小学到中学的计划里每每提到的。从小时起，每次换下来的内衣、袜子，你会叮嘱妈妈和奶奶不要帮洗，你自己洗。家里用了的矿泉水瓶、废旧物品，奶奶收集起来，到一定时候你都乐颠颠地和小朋友一起抬到废品收购站去卖，得到的钱存起来去买书。奶奶说虽然家里不缺这个费用，但就是要从小培养你劳动和节俭的好习惯。所以，班级里帮老师和同学们搬书、擦黑板的活儿，你都很踊跃。高一的时候，班主任让你担任劳动委员，每次打扫卫生你都很认真负责，带领同学们分工协作，经常弄到很晚回家却乐此不疲。孩子，天道酬勤，要坚持勤劳和节俭的好习惯，将来无论是学习还是工作，妈妈都相信你能够吃苦耐劳，靠自己勤劳的双手。

The second,Is industrious and thrifty."Do it ourselves"/"Do what thing to do",Is this your plan from high school often mentioned.Since hours,Each change of underwear/socks,Would you told don't help to wash the mom and grandma,You wash.Home with the water bottles/Old items,Grandma collected,At some point you dole folks to always carried to the junkyard to sell together with children,Save money to buy a book.Grandma said that, although home lack of this charge,But you work is to be fostered and the good habit of thrift.so,Help teachers and students with books in the class/Clean the blackboard,You are very enthusiastic.When higher,The teacher in charge let you served as member of labor,Cleaning every time you are very serious and responsible,Lead the students collaboration,Often get home late but enjoyed.The child,God reward those who work hard,To adhere to the good habits of diligence and frugality,Whether study or work in the future,Mother believe that you will be able to bear hardships and stand hard work,On their own industrious hands.

　　第三，要宽容。将来学习和工作当中，你会遇到各种各样不同的人和事。每一个人都各有所长，每一个人也都有不足，不可能要求每个人都与你兴趣爱好相同、观点一致，你要尽可能地求同存异，优势互补，各取所长，要能融入到集体和团队，体验团队合作的快乐。遇到不愉快的人和事，要学会忍让和宽容，宽容是你送给别人也是送给自己的礼物。南非精神领袖曼德拉出狱当选南非总统以后，在总统就职典礼上的一个举动震惊了整个世界。在总统就职仪式上他谈到，虽然他深感荣幸能接待这么多尊贵的客人，但他最高兴的是当初他被关在罗本岛监狱时，看守他的3名前狱方人员也能到场。曼德拉博大的胸襟和宽宏的精神，让南非那些残酷虐待了他27年的白人无地自容。看着年迈的曼德拉缓缓站起身来，恭敬地向3个曾关押他的看守致敬，在场的所有的来宾以至于整个世界都静下来了……还记得妈妈经常给你做的那个比喻吗？如果你的胸怀像小溪，也许扔块小石头就会阻碍溪流；如果你的胸怀像大海，即使投入巨石，也阻挡不了海浪。

In the third,Be forgiving.In the future study and work,You will encounter all sorts of different people and things.Every person are different,Every one also has shortcomings,Couldn't have asked for everyone's hobby is the same with you/agree,Do you want to seek common ground while putting aside differences as possible,Complementary advantages,Each director,Must be integrated into the collective and team,Experience team cooperation happy.Met the unpleasant people and things,Learn to tolerance and tolerance,Tolerance is a present you give to others is give yourself.Spiritual leader nelson mandela in South Africa after out of prison was elected President of South Africa,On the inauguration of a move shocked the whole world.He talked about in the President's inauguration,Although he was deeply honored to receive so many distinguished guests,But he is the most happy is when he was imprisoned on robben island,Guarding him three former prison staff can also be present.Mandela's broad mind and generous spirit,Let those cruel abuse his 27 years in South Africa white goose bumps.Looking at old mandela stood up slowly,Respectfully salute to three had held his guards,All the guests present that the whole world is quiet...Remember to give mother often you did the metaphor?If your mind like a stream,Maybe throw rock will hinder the streams;If your mind like the sea,Even in boulder,Also could not prevent the waves of the sea.

　　第四，要坚韧。人的一生不可能一帆风顺，总会遇到各种各样的困难和挫折，关键是你面对困难的态度和勇气。还记得东西岸羚羊的故事吗？非洲大草原奥兰治河两岸的羚羊群仅一河之隔，属类、气候、饲料来源都相同，但东岸的羚羊身影优美矫健，生殖能力强，奔跑速度每分钟比西岸羚羊快了13米。生物学家在东西两岸各捉了10只羚羊，交换它们的生存地域。结果由东岸运到西岸的10只羚羊一年后繁殖到14只，由西岸运到东岸的10只羚羊却只剩下3只，其余的全都被狼吃了。东岸羚羊之所以强健，是因为它们附近生活着狼群，环境凶险。在狼群的追逐下，东岸羚羊活得机警健壮。它们一边吃草，一边注视着狼群动向，在草原上奔跑，练出强健之躯。西岸羚羊之所以柔弱，正因为它们缺少这一天敌，环境舒适。不难想象，当灾难降临时，能够生存下来的，一定是东岸羚羊。所以困难和挫折、恶劣的环境和压力并不是坏事，要能经受得住困难和挫折的考验，要具备战胜困难的勇气，在艰苦环境中不断磨砺自己的心智，让自己从中得到锻炼和成长，这是人生最宝贵的一笔财富。

In the fourth,You want it.Person's life can not plain sailing,Always meet all kinds of difficulties and setbacks,The key is you attitude and courage to face difficulties.Remember what bank the antelope story?On the African savannah orange river is only a river on both sides of the group of antelope,Belongs to the class/climate/Feed sources are the same,But the east coast of the beautiful figure lithe antelope,Reproductive ability,Running speed is faster than west bank antelope 13 meters per minute.Biologists in caught 10 things on both sides of the antelope,Exchange of their living areas.Results from east to west of 10 breeding to 14 only after a year of antelope,By the west to the east coast of the 10 antelope has only 3 left,The rest were all eaten by the Wolf.Eastern gazelle is strong,Because they live near the wolves,Environmental disaster.Under the chasing pack,East coast antelope live alert robust.They are eating grass,While watching the movements of wolves,Running on the grassland,Build a strong body.Antelope is weak in the west bank,Just because they lack the natural enemies,Comfortable environment.It's not hard to imagine,When disaster strikes,To be able to survive,Must be on the antelope.So the difficulties and frustrations/Harsh environment and the stress is not a bad thing,Need to be able to withstand the test of difficulties and setbacks,To have the courage to overcome difficulties,In hard environment constantly honed their mind,Allow yourself to get exercise and grow,This is one of life's most precious wealth.

　　第五、坚持学习和阅读的习惯。读万卷书,行万里路。妈妈很欣慰的是，虽然没有把学习任务作为最首要的事，你还是从小养成了良好的学习和阅读的习惯。紧张的学习之余，你会经常去书店，买来自己喜欢的书籍，每天坚持半个小时以上的阅读。你从来不乱花零用钱，大部分用在了买书上，《探索.发现》、《世界上最神奇的24堂课》、《每天都是一次修行》、《史记》、《苏菲的世界》、《周易》……书中自有黄金屋，每当你徜徉书海，妈妈能感受到你的热忱和专注，也相信你一定会将这个好习惯坚持下去。

The fifth/Keep learning and reading habits.To read thousands of books,view.Mother very gratified,Although there is no learning tasks as the first thing to do,You still small formed the good learning and reading habits.Tension of learning,You will often go to the bookshop,To buy their favorite books,More than half an hour's reading every day.You never spend pocket money,Most used in the books,[Found to explore.]/[The world's most amazing lecture 24]/[Each day is a spiritual practice]/[Historical records]/[Sophie's world]/[zhouyi]......The book has the gold room,When you roam books,Mother can feel your enthusiasm and focus,Also believe that you will be the good habit to insist on.

　　最后，妈妈要谈谈你最感兴趣的事，运动和旅游。从小你就具备运动的天赋，从小学到高中的校运会上，拿过田径比赛冠军，并且酷爱足球、乒乓球、羽毛球、篮球运动。即使现在进入紧张的高二阶段，老师不提倡，妈妈也从未阻止过你参加这些运动。妈妈相信，你会合理地安排好时间，劳逸结合。适度的体育锻炼对身体、对学习都会是一种促进，希望在你喜欢的运动调剂下，能永远保持对学习的兴趣，兴趣才是最好的老师！将来在学习压力相对减小的情况下，你可以增加每天运动的时间，将你的兴趣爱好发挥到极致，你的人生也会因此更加快乐和丰富多彩！对于旅游，以前每次你外出旅游回来，即使在妈妈没有要求的情况下，你也会写下每天的游记，记录每天的观感和心得。你说将来长大自己挣钱了，也会每年出去旅游，这些妈妈都赞成和支持！能经常走出去，增长见识，开拓视野，拥抱大自然，放松身心，这何尝不是一件开心快乐的事！

The last,Mother want to talk about the things you are most interested in,Sports and travel.Do you have sports talent at a young age,From high school on the school sports,Took the track and field champion,And have a passion for football/Table tennis/badminton/basketball.Even if the present into the high stage of tension,The teacher discouraged,Mother also never stop you to take part in these sports.Mother believe,Would you like to arrange time reasonably,Mix a.Moderate physical exercise to the body/Will is a kind of promote to learn,Want to adjust in your favorite sports,Can always keep the interest in learning,Interest is the best teacher!In the case of learning pressure is less in the future,You can increase the time of exercise every day,Will be your interests to the maximum,So your life will be more happy and colorful!For the travel,Every time before you travel back,Even under the condition of the mother there is no requirement,You will also write down the travels of a day,Record impressions and thoughts of every day.You said the future grew up myself to earn money,Will go out to travel every year,These mothers all approve and support!Can often go out,See the world,Widen our sight,Embrace the nature,Loosen body and mind,This is not a happy thing!

　　总之，“仁者无忧、知者无惑、勇者无惧”，仁爱的人不会忧愁，明智的人不会迷惑，勇敢的人不会畏惧。具备了良好的性格和品行，你就拥有了享用不尽的财富。孩子，不管将来你走多远，也不管妈妈将来有多老，还是那句话，妈妈希望你：永远健康、平安、快乐！

All in all,"How easy/Confused: no/To courage",Love the one who is, won't sad,A wise man will not confused,Every brave man is not afraid.Have a good personality and character,You have to enjoy endless wealth.The child,No matter how far you go in the future,No matter how old the mother in the future,Or that sentence,Mother wants you:Health forever/peace/happy!

　　妈妈于2013年1月27日

Mom in January 27, 2013

　　（作者系中国电信四川内江分公司 刘敏）

(The author is the branch of China telecom sichuan neijiang ms.liu)