一位大四男生，9岁时父母离异，22岁时父亲、爷爷相继去世。今年春节，作为独子的他发誓顶门立户，含泪在家过了只有一个人的除夕夜。想想即将到来的就业压力，他后悔自己蹉跎了很多大学时光，决心抓紧毕业前的几个月“充电”。他把自己的经历和感受陆续发到河北科技大学贴吧，动员大家勤奋学习，引起同学们的共鸣，纷纷跟帖称“醍醐灌顶”。

A senior boys,His parents divorced when he was nine,22 years old when his father/My grandpa died.The Spring Festival this year,As an only child he vowed to his account,Tears had only one person at home on New Year's eve.Think about the upcoming employment pressure,He regret waste a lot of time at the university,Determined to take a few months before graduation"charging".His own experiences and feelings in succession to tieba in hebei university of science and technology,Mobilize the people to work hard,Cause the resonance of the students,Have comments said"Finally get".

　　

热帖 ReTie

　　

寒假无所事事，被老舅“骂醒” Winter vacation doing nothing,Be LaoJiu"Scold woke up"

　　2月20日，一位名叫“季节的阁子”的网友，在河北科技大学贴吧以《同学，我大四了》为题，讲述了自己在寒假期间求职的一段经历，其中既有对求职现状的困惑，又有对自己大学4年没拿到一次奖学金的遗憾，还有因为自己虚度光阴导致专业知识匮乏的悔恨。他在总结了自己的经验和教训后呐喊：“不仅要想，而且还要积极去做！”

February 20,,A man named"Seasonal GeZi"The net friend,In the post bar to hebei university of science and technology[My classmates,I am a senior]entitled,During winter vacation, about his job search an experience,Some confusion about the present situation of to apply for a job,Another of his university four years didn't regret to get a scholarship,Also because you just wasted my time lead to lack of professional knowledge of remorse.He cries after summed up their experience and lessons:"Not only to,But also be active to do!"

　　特别是这个帖子中说，正月初六，他老舅从北京回来，训诫他说，他舅妈的两个表弟都上大学，放了假就找了份家教的工作，年前挣了几千元钱。大年初二，那哥俩还在北京路边摆摊卖果盒，到初六又挣了几千元。而“季节的阁子”却在家中无所事事。老舅问他在家做了些什么？哪些事有利于他以后的工作、学习、成长？他答不上来，为自己的无所作为而悔恨，也为自己浪费时间而痛苦。

Especially the post said,people,He LaoJiu came back from Beijing,Admonished him said,His aunt cousin both at university,Off is to find a job as a tutor,Years ago made thousands of yuan of money.Annual lunar calendar,Those brothers also roadside stalls selling fruit box in Beijing,To the people and made thousands of yuan.while"Seasonal GeZi"But at home doing nothing.LaoJiu asked him what did you do at home?What is good for his later work/learning/Grow up?He could not answer,Regret for their inaction,Is a waste of time and pain for himself.

　　“我当哭，大哭，泪如雨下，泪水磅礴地哭！这些时间再也不会有了，它们跑了，在我最至关重要的年华里跑了，我追悔莫及！”他这样写道。

"When I cry,Into tears,tears,Sweep tears to cry!This time there won't be anymore,They ran away,In my the most crucial years ran away,I regret!"He wrote.

　　他很想进步、提高、成长；很想挣钱、买车、置房；很想娶那个心爱的姑娘。可因为懦弱、懒惰、平庸，而且甘于平庸，很多想法他也只是想想，却没有“去做”。从2009年入学，一不留神就大四了，这一路走到现在，有好多后悔遗憾的地方，已经无法弥补。

He would like to progress/To improve/Grow up;Really want to earn money/Buying a car/Set of;Very want to marry the beloved girl.But because cowardice/lazy/mediocrity,But he lacked,He also just think about many ideas,But no"To do it".Enrollment in 2009,One not careful to seniors,This all the way till now,There is a lot of regret,Have been unable to make up for.

　　“你们别学我啊，有想做的事赶紧去做，别到大四后悔！” 他在帖子中这样提醒学弟学妹们。

"You don't learn me,Want to go to do,Don't regret to senior year!" In his post, he reminded the lower classwoman drove.

　　

反响 response

　　

网友：看到帖子好像重重地挨了一巴掌 Net friend:See posts seemed to hit him a slap

　　“季节的阁子”没想到，他2月20日至22日分13次发的2700多字的帖子，会被河北科技大学贴吧吧主加为精华并置顶，更没想到会有那么多人被深深触动。截至2月23日，他的帖子点击量已达1.2万多次，210多人跟帖，在互动中传递一种奋发向上的正能量。

"Seasonal GeZi"I didn't think,He 13 February 20 to 22 points Posting of more than 2700 words,And will be posted at hebei university of science and technology, as the essence and placed at the top,I didn't expect there are so many people were deeply touched.As of February 23,,His post has reached more than 12000 hits,More than 210 comments,Send a is striving to make progress in the interaction energy.

　　同学陶小虾sunshine说，楼主说得真好，很有感触。本人大二，除了学习还过得去，感觉什么都没有，没有兼职过，也没有风风火火，感觉很平庸，变得懒惰了，很多时候很多想法都缺少一个行动的动力。下学期，他想好好学习。

Classmate tao shrimp sunshine said,The building Lord said well,Has a lot of feeling.I am a sophomore,In addition to learning will get by,Feel nothing at all,Did not have a part-time,No power,The feeling is very plain,Become lazy,A lot of time many ideas are the lack of an action.The next semester,He wants to study well.

　　大学生网友“蓝魇蓅雲”则留言道，看到楼主的亲身经历和感受，就好像自己重重地挨了一巴掌。因为他也经常想自己该去干点什么，可是一直停留在“想”上，没有真正地去做。看了楼主的帖子，他想了很多，知道剩下的这两年多大学生活该怎样过了。

College students online"Blue Yan 蓅 cloud"Comments,,See the host's experiences and feelings,If they hit him a slap.Because he often want to yourself what to do,But always stay in"Would like to"On the,Not really to do it.Saw a son of the building Lord,He thought a lot,Know how the rest of the college students deserve it more than two years after.

　　一位名叫“高达01”的网友，也大发感慨：“上学时浑浑噩噩者居多，到毕业了才知道自己所要面对的……”

A man named"As much as 01"The net friend,Also ascribed to:"Tended to go when I was in school,To the graduation didn't know I will face……"

　　“瞌睡鱼儿”说：“楼主的帖子不错，很认真地看过了。大二的我感谢你能把这些分享出来，真的受益匪浅，我会行动起来的，希望还不晚。”

"Sleepy fish"said:"Your post is good,Read it very carefully.Sophomore year I thank you can share these out,Really benefit a lot,I will act,It's not too late to hope."

　　“loveshion”留言：“你这么一说，顿时赶到压力好大。我天天都在做什么？浑浑噩噩，非得到毕业了才去考虑工作？我的人生有没有规划？是到了该清醒，该完善自己的时候了！”

"loveshion"Leave a message:"You have said,Immediately rushed to the pressure is so big.I every day in what to do?Getting sleepy,Have graduated work didn't go to consider?I have plan in my life?Is it is time to awake,The perfect time!"

　　

讲述 about

　　

目标迷茫，大学时光多浪费在网吧 The target of confusion,At the university of waste much time in Internet cafes

　　“季节的阁子”姓刘，名新宇，1990年出生在河北保定易县农村。9岁时父母离异，他与父亲、祖父生活。2009年，他以优异成绩考入河北科技大学机械制造及其自动化专业。

"Seasonal GeZi"Last name is liu,Name XinYu,Born in 1990 in hebei baoding Yi Xian rural.His parents divorced when he was nine,He and his father/My grandfather lived.In 2009,,He was admitted with excellent grades in hebei university of science and technology, mechanical manufacturing and automation.

　　刘新宇上大学前学习刻苦，是他们村为数不多的考取本科一批大学的学生。进入大学后，他也很想像以前那样优秀，但是因为大学与高中阶段教育方式不同，他失去了学习目标和动力，感到很迷茫。在“终于可以轻松一下”的精神状态下，贪恋既得安逸，用网络游戏来消遣时光，回避学习难题。

Study hard before LiuXinYu college,License is their village a few undergraduate course a group of university students.After entering the university,He is also very imagine good as before,But because of the university and high school education in a different way,He lost his learning goals and motivation,Feel very confused.In the"Can finally relax"State of mind,Lust is comfortably,For relaxation time with online games,Avoidance learning difficulties.

　　由于家境不好，无钱买电脑，网吧就成了他和同学经常“大战”的地方，每天上网时间少则4小时，多则10小时。大学近4年来，基本没有听过一堂完整的课，每次考试前都找几个同学画重点，抱着60分万岁的心态，勉强通过了各科考试，虽然没有挂科，但与奖学金无缘。

Due to family circumstances is not good,No money to buy a computer,Internet cafe is and his classmates often"war"Of the place,Every time online less then 4 hours,More then ten hours.University for almost 4 years,Basic didn't listen to the complete lesson,Find a few students underline before every examination,Holding the mentality of 60 minutes long live,Barely passed the exams,Although there is no fail,But with a scholarship.

　　他说：“我的游戏是dota，好多人都知道。我经常和4个同学一块儿玩，他们叫我V神……其实，我已经有点儿害怕去网吧了，想想家里吃的穿的是什么，再想想我们，为游戏而挥金如土，有种负罪感！”

He said:"My game is dota,Many people know that.I often play with four classmates together,God they call me V……In fact,I have a little afraid to go to Internet cafe,Think of home to eat what to wear,Think about us,Money for the games,There is a guilt!"

　　他评价自己平日投入学习的精力充其量不过40%，即便大三复习考研阶段，他的学习精力最多也只有55%。

He evaluation study energy at best 40%,Even if three to review one's deceased father grind stage,His study energy is only 55% at most.

　　

想提醒大学同学，先有千里马，后有伯乐 Want to remind to college students,Swift horse came first,After the bole

　　2012年，刘新宇的父亲、祖父相继去世，他坚强面对，可学习状态依旧。

In 2012,,LiuXinYu father/My grandfather died,He is strong in the face of,Conditions for learning.

　　让他坚定奋斗信念的主要原因，则来源于老舅的一番训诫。春节期间，在北京开公司的老舅，特意带他到企业巡察，鼓励他学会独立，锻炼动脑动手能力，别人给的钱，要学会说“不”，做个顶天立地的男子汉。

The main reason for the struggle faith,Comes from LaoJiu a sermon.During the Spring Festival,LaoJiu start a company in Beijing,Specially to the enterprise to the inspector,Encourage him to learn to independence,Ability to exercise the brain,Other people to give money,Learn to say"Don't",A man of indomitable spirit.

　　今年除夕夜，刘新宇谢绝亲朋邀请，一个人守着蜂窝煤炉度过了一个漫长的夜晚。想想以前跟父亲、爷爷守岁的美好时光，再看看现在孑然一身的自己，他不禁泪如雨下……

This year New Year's eve,LiuXinYu declined to relatives and invitation,A person with honeycomb coal stove had a long night.Think about it before with my father/Grandpa shou sui,Now look at yourself alone,He can't help tears……

　　前几天，他到石市人才大集应聘，很幸运地被保定一家企业看中，可他不满足，想找个更好的企业，但他投的很多简历都如石沉大海。有些心仪的岗位，因为自己的学识和能力不达标。于是，他下决心抓紧大四剩下的几个月的时间，学习专业技能，还很快找到了一份服装导购兼职。

A few days ago,His talent to the stone city county,Lucky is baoding take a fancy to a company,But he does not meet the,Want to find a better company,But he threw many resumes are gathering dust.Some of the right post,Because of their knowledge and ability does not amount to mark.so,He is determined to take the rest of senior year a couple of months,Learn professional skills,Also quickly find a part-time job buy clothes.

　　然而，他发现很多大学生面对严峻就业形势，不是抱着积极心态去追求，而是消极地在贴吧抱怨、牢骚，因此他才写了《同学，我大四了》这个帖子，意在结合自己求学求职经历，提醒大家振奋精神，大胆做，使劲做，用心做，多认识，多积累。他还提醒学弟学妹们，大学四年，一晃而过，这如青草般蓊蓊郁郁的年华，对有些人而言，是一种享受；对另外一些人而言，它是一种奋斗。

however,He found that many college students face the grim employment situation,Not holding the positive attitude to pursue,But negatively in tieba to complain/whining,So he didn't write[My classmates,I am a senior]This post,To combine their study job experience,Remind everybody cheer up,Brave to do,Hard to do,Do with your heart,More know,More than accumulation.He also reminded the lower classwoman drove,University for four years,Handguns have,This leafy thoroughfare time like grass,For some people,Is a kind of enjoyment;To others,It is a struggle.

　　“我们经常抱怨用人单位少伯乐，可我们自己是千里马吗？先有千里马，然后才有伯乐啊！”他说。

"We often complain that unit of choose and employ persons less bole,But our own is a swift horse?Swift horse came first,Then have bole ah!"He said.

　　

调查 survey

　　

大学生上课空堂现象特别突出 College students in class empty hall phenomenon is particularly prominent

　　2月23日，记者随机采访了10名大学生，发现他们都有上网的习惯，除在网上完成作业，查资料外，更多时间就是娱乐。平均每人每天上网看电影、玩游戏、聊天等娱乐时间至少在4小时以上。在上网时间上，年级越高，上网时间越长。

On February 23,,Reporter interviewed 10 college students randomly,Found that they all have the habit of surfing the Internet,In addition to finish the homework on the Internet,Check data,More time is entertainment.Average per person per day watching movies on the Internet/Play a game/Chat and entertainment time, at least more than 4 hours.On the time spent online,The higher the grade,The longer the time online.

　　河北经贸大学一位老师说，大学生虚度光阴现象，在全国很多大学都不同程度地存在。上网时间过长、玩游戏、看电影、聊天等问题比较普遍。还有很多学生，对学校安排的课程不感兴趣，上课空堂现象特别突出，造成毕业生专业知识严重欠缺，影响了就业。这种情况既有个人原因，也有学校和老师教学内容滞后，难以激发学生学习热情等方面的因素。

Hebei university of economic and trade a teacher said,College students waste of time phenomenon,To varying degrees in many universities across the country.Online time is too long/Play a game/Watching a movie/Chat is common.There are a lot of students,To the school are not interested in arrangement of courses,Empty hall class phenomenon is particularly prominent,Graduates lack professional knowledge seriously,Affect the job.This kind of situation has both personal reasons,Also have schools and teachers teaching content lag,Difficult factors to stimulate the learning enthusiasm of the students, etc.

　　

记者手记 Reporter's note

　　

晒出缺点，知耻而后勇 Bask in the shortcomings,Shame-awareness then yong

　　父母含辛茹苦地把孩子培养成大学生，期待他们学有所成，可他们离开父母的督促，在大学校园还会那么刻苦学习吗？网友“小破啊黄”在刘新宇的帖子里这么问道：“如果有一个摄像机记录着你在学校的每一分钟，你敢不敢拿出来给你爸妈看？”刘新宇回复：“我现在敢了。”所以，当也是父亲的我看到这篇“励志帖”的时候，便被深深地触动了。

Parents put their children into college students,Hope they have learned something,Can they leave their parents to urge,In the university campus will then study hard?Net friend"Small broken ah huang"In LiuXinYu post so asked:"If you have a camera to record every minute with you in the school,Do you dare to dare not take it out to your parents?"LiuXinYu reply:"I'm now."so,I see this when is father's"Motivational post"The time of,Was deeply touched.

　　为了迎接高考，有多少学子“头悬梁锥刺股”，而一旦进入大学校园之后，一些人便觉得实现了人生目标，松弛下来，浑浑噩噩地浪费了很多青春岁月，而浑然不觉。但刘新宇觉醒了，并且还在网上发帖，提醒其他同学也要觉醒，且身体力行地引导大家，像现在的他一样积极行动起来，为理想而努力奋斗。这让我蓦然想起“知耻而后勇”这个典故，钦佩之情油然而生。

In order to meet the university entrance exam,How many students"The head hang beam awl stab",And once after entering the university campus,Some people feel that realizes the life goal,relax,Blur wasted a lot of youth,The oblivious.But LiuXinYu awakening,And also posted on the Internet,Remind the other students also want to wake up,And physically to guide you,As he is now actively action,Struggle for a noble ideal.I suddenly remembered"Shame-awareness then yong"The allusions,Admiration arises spontaneously.

　　对于一些大学生不珍惜学习时光之类的问题，人们并不陌生，但面对媒体敢于坦陈自己几乎天天玩游戏、没听过一节完整的课程、没拿过一次奖学金之类的缺点的，却不多见，敢于让记者在报纸上指名道姓地给自己的缺点“曝光”者，更属凤毛麟角。因此，当刘新宇愿意接受我采访的时候，我就有一种感动，而当他说出“我在网上发帖是为了传递正能量”的话时，就越发让我感动了。或许网友们也受到了这样的感动，抑或是刘新宇的经历契合了某种软肋，所以才引发那么多人的共鸣。“知耻而后勇”源于“知耻近乎勇”，语出《中庸》。知道羞耻并勇于改过，是一种值得推崇、夸赞的品质，是对知羞改过行为的赞赏。

For some college students do not cherish the learning time,People are not strange,But in the face of media dare to confess fully to their almost every day to play games/Haven't heard a section of the full course/Didn't take any shortcomings such as a scholarship,Not see,Dare to let journalists by name in the newspaper to his own shortcomings"exposure"those,A few.so,When LiuXinYu willing to accept my interview,I have a kind of touched,When he say"I posted to send positive energy"When the words,More let I moved.Maybe netizens also moved by this,Or is it LiuXinYu experience with some kind of weakness,So has caused so many people."Shame-awareness then yong"Due to"Shame-awareness near yong",Speak out[The doctrine of the mean].Know shame and to have the courage to reform,Is a kind of admirable/The quality of the praise,Is to know shame and changed their behavior praise.

　　人非圣贤，孰能无过？过而能改，善莫大焉。在这一点上，刘新宇同学做到了，因此他是值得人们击节赞赏的人。(文图/记者李梓 实习生李苑)

People to err,To err is human.?And can change,Be not.At this point,LiuXinYu classmates did,So he is a person who is worth people hands clapping in admiration.(Figure/reporter Li Yuan Li Zi intern)