龙宝宝扎堆出生，如何培养宝宝健全的人格呢？今天早上8点，全国第九届儿童发育与临床学术研讨会在合肥举办，北京协和医院儿科主任医师、中国协和医科大学儿科教授鲍秀兰女士为在座听众揭示了培养婴幼儿健全人格的方法。

Dragon born baby gathers together,How to cultivate the baby healthy personality?8 o 'clock this morning,The national the ninth child development and clinical academic seminar held in hefei,Beijing union medical college hospital department of pediatrics chief physician/Beijing union medical college professor of pediatrics BaoXiuLan lady for all the audience reveals the culture baby healthy personality method.

13.97%的孩子有心理问题 13.97% of the children have psychological problems

　　目前，全国4-16岁孩子心理问题发生率高达13.97%，社会适应问题的检出率为23.46%。由于当前只重视身体健康、智力发展，忽视早期良好心理和行为培养的倾向，酿成了一幕幕令人痛心的悲剧。

At present,The national 4-16 years old child psychological problems incidence rate reaches as high as 13.97%,Social adjustment problem detection rate was 23.46%.Due to the current only pay attention to health/Intellectual development,Ignore early good psychological and behavior culture tendency,Led to the tragedy of the painful past.

　　鲍秀兰介绍，儿童的发展是体格、智力、情感以及社会交往能力的全面发展。0-3岁婴幼儿早期发展对他一生具有持久性影响。

BaoXiuLan introduced,Children's development is the physical/intelligence/Emotional and social communication ability of all-round development.0 to 3 years old baby early development on his life with persistent effect.

　健康人格要从小开始培养 Healthy personality to training from childhood

　　婴儿心理学家孟昭兰提出，婴儿时期(1-3岁)人格的健全发展主要包括四个方面：乐观稳定的情绪；思维和活动的独立自主性；良好的社会适应能力；自尊心和自信心。鲍秀兰强调：人格形成年龄愈小，可塑性越大。儿童期的某些心理问题是来自婴儿期，因此，婴儿3岁起的人格发展是个人成长的重要组成部分，健康人格的培养要从小开始，越小越好。

Baby psychologists MengZhaoLan put forward,infant(1-3 years old)The sound development of the personality mainly includes four aspects:Optimistic stable mood;Thinking and activity of independent autonomy;Good social adaptation ability;Self-esteem and self-confidence.BaoXiuLan emphasize:Personality formation age is small,The plasticity.Childhood some psychological problems from infancy,therefore,Baby 3 years old up personality development is an important part of growth,The cultivation of healthy personality to start young,Yue xiaoyue good.

　　鲍秀兰说，婴儿的人格发展方向最重要的引导者是父母，父母作出某种情绪反应与社会交往互动范本，子女(从新生儿开始)就会按照父母的方式演练。因此，从新生儿开始亲子互动，建立安全依恋，在日常生活中引导和培养孩子良好行为习惯和人际交往能力，进而使习惯成自然地发展为今后良好的情绪能力。

BaoXiuLan said,The baby's personality development direction is the most important guide parents,Parents make some kind of emotional reaction and social communication interaction model,children(Start from neonatal)Will defer to the parents to way to practice.therefore,From neonatal began to parent-child interaction,Establish safety attachment,In daily life guide and cultivate the child good behavior habits and interpersonal skills,And habits into the natural development of the good mood ability for the future.

　　相反的是，许多孩子在情绪发展的关键期遭受不同程度的忽略，有的甚至受到虐待。许多孩子长大后出现不同的精神病症、暴力倾向、滥用药物、少年犯罪等社会问题。

The opposite is,Many children in the emotional development of critical period suffering from varying degrees of ignore,Some even abuse.Many children grew up appear different mental disease/Violence tendency/Drug abuse/Juvenile delinquency and other social problems.

被忽略孩子易出现“淡漠人生” Neglected child easy appear"Indifference life"

　　婴儿最早是以情绪和人交流的，哭声、微笑就是交流的方式。如果无法得到回应，婴儿的情绪会低落。因此要发展愉快、稳定的情绪特征，父母需要多与婴儿接触、玩耍。被忽略的孩子是很可能出现“淡漠人生”的。

The baby is the earliest emotions and communicating,crying/Smile is a means of communication.If we don't get response,The baby's the mood will be low.So to develop happy/Stable emotional characteristics,Parents need more any contact with the infant/play.Neglected children is very likely"Indifference life"of.

　　鲍秀兰强调，如果能培养安全依赖型的孩子，就容易养成稳定的情绪。

BaoXiuLan emphasize,If can train safety dependent children,It is easy to form a stable emotional.

　　此外，婴儿的情绪也受其特点的影响，尤其是气质特点。虽然气质是先天遗传的，但如果处理得当，会更有利于其成长。

In addition,The baby's emotions are also affected by the influence of its characteristics,Especially temperament characteristics.Although temperament is congenital genetic,But if properly handled,Will be more conducive to its growth.

　0-3岁是培养健全人格黄金期 0 to 3 years old is to develop healthy personality gold period

　　“教会孩子控制不正确的行为是培养社会适应能力的最重要内容。要让孩子明白，达到目的需通过正确的途径。”鲍秀兰介绍。

"The church children could not control the correct behavior is to develop social adaptation ability is the most important content.Let the child understand,To achieve purpose should be through the right way."BaoXiuLan introduced.

　　与同伴的交往也十分重要，这种交往要求孩子提高交往技能，以达到引发同伴反应的目的。

And companion relationship is also very important,This kind of contacts requiring children to improve skills,In order to achieve the purpose of reaction caused by companion.

　　鲍秀兰说，早期综合干预能显著促进婴幼儿健全人格趋向的发展，0-3岁是培养健全人格的黄金时期，这一点家长必须有足够的认识，并重视。在这个时期内，用符合大脑和心理行为发育规律的科学方法，促进婴幼儿健康人格的塑造，为儿童未来健全人格的形成奠定良好的基础，这也将对提高全民素质产生深远的影响。（记者 付艳/文 郑成功/图）

BaoXiuLan said,Early comprehensive intervention can significantly improve baby healthy personality trend of development,0 to 3 years old is to develop healthy personality of the golden age,This parents must have enough understanding,And pay attention to.In this period,Conform to the brain and psychological behavior of the development rule of the scientific method,Promote baby healthy personality mold,For children's future healthy personality formation lay the good foundation,This also will be to improve the quality of the produce a far-reaching influence.(Reporter FuYan/wen zheng chenggong/diagram)