理由一：尝尽竞争压力，不能让孩子输在起跑线上。 Reason a：Had tried everything the pressure of competition，Can't let children lose on the starting line。

　　不少80后父母把一句话奉为“至理名言”，那就是：“如果从孩子出生的第3天开始教育，就已经晚了两天。”80后父母在竞争压力下成长，了解教育的重要性，因而认为孩子的竞争始于婴儿时期，上早教“十分必要”，怎么能让孩子“输在起跑线上呢”?

Many parents put a word as after 80“maxim”，That is：“If the child is born from the third day began to education，It has been two days later。”After the 80 parents in the competition pressure growth，Understand the importance of education，So think children competition started in the period，Early on“Very necessary”，How to let the child“Lose at the starting line”?

　理由二：独生的80一代，严重缺乏幼儿教养经验和知识 Reason two：Only 80 generation，A serious lack of children's education experience and knowledge

　　缺乏教养经验，寄望早教机构一些早教业内人士认为，城市内， 80后父母大多只有一个孩子，早教经验缺乏。爱尔贝早教中心负责人于春林则说，早教机构之所以如此红火，是因为80后的爸爸妈妈们没有教育孩子的经验，早教机构培养孩子的同时，更多的是培养家长教育孩子的能力。

Lack of education experience，Development institutions that some early insiders，Within the city， After the 80 most parents have only one child，Lack of development experience。Love's development center YuChunLin is of the said，Development agencies are so prosperous，Because after 80 mothers no education child father of experience，Child development institutions at the same time，More education is to cultivate the ability of children parents。

理由三：自己没时间带孩子，老一代育儿理念又太落后 Reason three：He hasn't time with the children，The old parenting idea and so far behind

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case：

　　生于1982年的张静怀孕6个月了，她开始捉摸着给孩子报个早教班，利用自己行动方便的时候已经考察了两个早教班了。虽然张静的母亲很是不理解，认为上早教班既浪费钱又折腾孩子，还不如在家让爷爷奶奶看着。但张静却不赞同，她说，老一辈的育儿观念早过时了，早点给孩子开发智力，孩子会更聪明，不能让孩子输在起跑线上。

Born in 1982, zhang jing six months pregnant，She began to give children the elusive for ecd class，Use their action when it has inspected the two ecd class。Though zhang jing's mother is very not understanding，Think early on class waste money already and children do STH over and over again，Also at home is better than let grandpa's grandmother looking at。But zhang jing disagrees with，She said，Older parenting idea early out of date，Early child development to intelligence，Children would be more intelligent，Can't let children lose on the starting line。

　　理由四：让宝宝结交更多玩伴，从小练就布什般的社交能力，很多80后父母都是独生子女，为人父母后又只有一个孩子，玩伴难寻，不少父母们把目光投向早教中心、亲子园。

Reason four：Let the baby make more friend to play with，From the practice of bush social skills，Many parents are after 80 only children，As parents and have only one child，Play companion is hard to find，Many parents are turning to early childhood center、Qinzi field。

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case：

　　胡女士的儿子从4个月起就开始了固定上课的历程。胡女士说，每堂课就是五六个家长，抱着各自的孩子，在一位年轻老师的带领下做操、学坐、玩玩具，还有一些亲子游戏……胡女士说：“有时候觉得这些钱花得并不值得，好多东西自己在家也能做。不过这里宝宝多，就当花钱让孩子进行最早的社交吧。”

The son of hu, from four months since the fixed course of class。Said hu,，In each class is five or six parents，Hold their children，In a young the guidance of teachers doing exercises、Learn sit、Play with toys，And some parents game……Said hu,：“Sometimes think that the money was not worth it，A lot of things at home can do。But here the baby，When the children paid for the social it。”

　理由五：从小让宝宝拥有优质的生活品味 Reason five：Let the baby has high quality from life taste

　　80后年轻父母自身比较讲究生活品质，给孩子花钱更是不加考虑，全部都用最贵的最好的，从服装到奶粉全部都是进口货，教育自然不甘人后。

After the 80 young parents themselves more exquisite and the quality of life，Give children spend money is not add consideration，All the best with the most expensive，From clothing to milk powder is all imports，Education natural unwilling。

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case：

　　自从生下宝贝女儿后，给她买东西恨不得都挑选最高档的，孩子出生后家里花销骤然增加，虽然也有压力，但总感觉就这一个孩子，一定要让她用最好的。

Since gave birth to the baby daughter，To buy her things have chosen to most exclusive，When a child is born home spending increased abruptly，Though there are also under pressure，But always feel that a child，Must let her use the best。

理由六：痛恨应试教育，坚决拥护早教机构宣传的素质教育理念 Reason six：Hate exam-oriented education，Development institutions firmly support the quality education concept propaganda

　　用糖糖爸的话说，糖糖妈是“激进”的早教课程拥护者。在糖糖“入学”之前，这位辞去工作的全职妈妈已经考察了北京市的多家早教机构，包括他们宣传的各种教育理论和上课方式，甚至七田真、杜曼、冯德全、卡尔威特、蒙特梭利等教育专家，糖糖妈也说得头头是道。

Use sugar sugar daddy as saying，Sugar sugar mom is“radical”Early education curriculum advocates。In sugar sugar“entrance”before，The resigned from his job of full-time mother have investigated the Beijing's much home early institutions，Including all kinds of education theory of their propaganda way and class，Even TianZhen seven、DuMan、FengDeQuan、Carl witter、Montessori education experts, etc，Sugar sugar mama also pronouncing on。

　理由七：孩子“落后”了，或许是该上早教了 Reason seven：children“behind”the，Maybe this early on

　　李女士自认非常理智，尤其在面对一些打着“为孩子好”旗号的商业推销时，基本都能果断地摆手说“不”。

Ms. Li believes very reason，Especially in the face of some dozen“For good children”Banner business selling，Basic can decisively motioning with his hand said“Don't”。

　　“我看过一则新闻，说是两岁孩子开口背唐诗不新鲜，但孩子会背唐诗不会穿衣服才奇怪，专家说是过度和失当的早教造成的。”李女士说，她和先生都认为不能用成人的功利思想培养孩子。

“I read a news，Two years is open not fresh tang children back，But the child will never wear clothes back tang poetry to strange，Experts say excessive and undeserved cause of childhood。”Ms. Li said，She and Mr. Think can't use adult child utility thought。

　　专家点拨：早教机构与家庭教育不对立

Experts inspiration：Family education development institutions and not divided

　　有多年学前教育经验的幼儿专家尚杰在接受采访时，强调要以科学的态度看待早教。

Preschool education has many years of experience in children's Chris experts in an interview，That attitude with scientific development。

　　尚杰认为，在早教机构，可以让孩子在集体氛围中形成良好的习惯，这是家长一对一教育做不到的。再者，孩子们在一起学习、游戏，可以互相模仿优点，学习如何同他人相处、合作，适应社会的速度会更快。

Chris think，In early childhood institutions，Can let the child in the collective atmosphere form good habits，This is parents education can't do one-on-one。moreover，The children in the study together、The game，Can imitate each other advantages，Learn how to get along with others、cooperation，To adapt to the society will be faster。

　　“早教和传统教育并不截然对立，家长不应期望孩子就这样成了天才。早教机构实际上更多是在教家长，家长进步了，小孩才有进步。更多的时间得靠家长细水长流的教育。”尚杰强调，“早教也不是万能的，家长和孩子一起听课，回家须将学到的办法在平时生活中反复演练。如果家长不能持之以恒，学以致用，那么早教就不会有效果。”

“Traditional education development and not opposite，Parents should not expect children and it was so genius。Development institutions is actually more teaching parents，The parents progress，The child makes progress。More time must depend on parents education of waste not, want not。”Chris emphasize，“Development also is not everything. There's mastercard，Parents and children to attend a lecture，The way to learn to go home in peacetime life again and again in the drill。If parents not perseverance，application，So there would be no effect early。”

　　华南师范大学教育科学院学前教育系教授袁爱玲也认为，父母言传身教的家庭教育很重要，但再好的家庭教育也取代不了机构教育，当然也不能把全部希望都寄托在机构教育上，家庭教育和机构教育是互相协调，互相补充的关系，双方如果配合得好的话，可以促使小孩健康成长。

South China normal university education academy of sciences department YuanAiLing also think professor preschool，Parents kirka family education is very important，But it is a good family education also replace education institutions，Of course, can not put all hopes on education institutions，Family education and education institutions is co-ordination，The relationship between the complement each other，If both parties cooperate well，Can make children healthy growth。

　　有幼儿专家也提出，对于0至3岁的孩子，最重要的是培养他们与父母的积极的情感交流，建立良好的亲子关系，而不是某项特长或技能，况且早教机构资质参差不齐，即使正规的早教机构有其科学、合理的教育理念，但也不一定适合每个孩子，家长应该冷静对待有所取舍。从教育的角度讲，早教机构只能作为临时阵地，家庭才是教育的核心阵地。

Young children experts also put forward，For 0 to 3 years old，The most important is to cultivate their parents and the positive emotion exchange，Establish good parental relationship，Rather than a special skill or skills，Besides development agency qualification is uneven，Even if the normal development institutions has its science、Reasonable education concept，But it is not for every child，Parents should cool treat have a choice。From the Angle of education，Development agencies can only as a temporary positions，Family education is the core of the position。