家长做主：“学习减负，心里受苦” Parents advocate：“Enquiring learning，Suffer heart”

　　学生“减负”喊了一年又一年，喊出了学生的心声，却让家长心里犯嘀咕：“能真正减下去么？”

students“burden”Shout year in and year out，Shouted out of their students，But let parents FanDiGu heart：“Can really reduce down？”

　　“谁不想让孩子能有个快乐的童年啊？我姑娘真是从早忙到晚，我心疼死了，可是没办法，别人都在学。”贾洋洋的母亲张女士的想法也许代表了大多数家长的观点：跟别的孩子相比，我的孩子不能落后。

“Who don't want to let the child can have a happy childhood ah？My girl is from early favour to night，I love dead，But can't，Others are learning。”JiaYangYang mother ms. Zhang ideas may represent the most parents point of view：Compared with other children，My children not fall behind。

　　问到洋洋暑假打算怎么过的时候，这个即将迈入初中校门的孩子一脸稚气地笑着说：“等我补完课妈妈会带我去南方玩！我特别期待，我希望快点补完课！”张女士无奈地笑笑说：“她平时上课很忙，周末也难得有休息的时候，我就尽量在寒暑假安排一周左右的时间带她出去玩玩，让她好好放松一下。”

Asked how do you intend to summer with the time，The junior middle school school children are going to start a childish face to say with smile：“I fill the class mother will take me to the south to play！I'm really looking forward to，I hope DianBu quickly after class！”Ms. Zhang helpless smile said：“Her usual class was very busy，Seldom has the rest of the weekend，I will try to get around a week for the time go out to play with her，Let her to relax。”

　　张女士表示也想给女儿的小学生活划下一个快乐的句点，真正让孩子过一个轻松的假期，但反复思量后还是觉得小学和中学的课程有很大区别，担心孩子不能够适应初中学习，所以就给孩子报了小学和初中衔接的补习班，“先感受一下初中的课程，免得开学抓瞎。不到孩子完成学业踏入社会的那一天，每个假期都还只能算个逗点，没有句点，在现在这个社会环境中要是让自己的孩子学习减负，开学以后不适应新环境就晚了，她的心里就得受苦，我身边的家长几乎都是这样的想法。”

Ms. Zhang said also want to give her daughter's primary school life to draw a happy ending，Real let children have a relaxing vacation，But after revolve or think elementary school and middle school courses have very big distinction，Worry that the children can not be learning to adapt to the junior high school，So give children called the elementary school and junior high cohesion of the cram school，“The first to feel the junior high school curriculum，Lest the ZhuaXia。Less than children finish school step into society of that day，Each holiday are also can calculate a comma，No end to，Now is the social environment if let their child to learn the burden，The new school year not adapt to the new environment is late，Her heart will have to suffer，I nearby of the parents are nearly all such idea。”

学生做主：“我有危机意识” Students in：“I have a crisis consciousness”

　　嬉闹玩耍是每个孩子的天性，不代表孩子们只想着自由玩耍而忘了学习。

Fun is the nature of every child to play，Do not represent the children just to play freely and forgot about the study。

　　冷胜男参加了今年的中考，成绩出来后进入五十一中学她还是很有信心的。在父母眼里胜男是个懂事的孩子，“胜男学习特别认真，知道主动学习，我们家长几乎不用为她的学习操心。”

Cold-male took part in this year's mid-term exam，Results after 51 high school she came out into still confident。In their parents' eyes-male is a sensible child，“-male learning particularly serious，Know active learning，We parents almost don't have to worry about her study。”

　　胜男给人感觉是一个思想相对成熟、自主意识比较强的孩子，对于暑假怎么过这个问题，她认真地回答：“我早就向一些学姐学长打听了初中与高中学习的差别，通过了解，我认为高中的课程会相对复杂一些，尤其是理科的难度比初中的高不少，我以后也想选择理科，为了进入高中后能马上适应新的学习环境，假期补一下课对我来讲还是有必要的，通过假期的短期补习我希望能够找到高中的学习方法。”

-male to people feel is a relatively mature thought、Independent consciousness is stronger children，How did this problem for summer vacation，She carefully answer：“I would have to some learn elder sister senior inquired about middle and high schools learning differences，Through understanding，I think the course of high school will be relatively more complicated，Especially the difficulty of science than junior high school of the high number，I also want to choose after science，In order to enter high school can immediately to adapt to the new learning environment，Holidays fill a class is over me, still are necessary，Through the holiday short-term cram I hope to be able to find high school learning method。”

　　胜男已经在父母的帮助下在一家知名补习机构报名参加了数理化三门科目的初高中衔接班，以顺利过渡到高中的学习状态。

-male has been helped by his parents in a famous with agencies register to attend high school of science three subjects cohesive class，With a smooth transition to high school learning state。

　　除了学习高中课程以外，胜男还打算看一些课外书和电影，“初三这一年学习太紧张了，我喜欢的书和电影都没什么时间看，这个假期我会好好利用，把想看的都看了！”

In addition to learning outside the high school curriculum，-male also going to see some kinds of extra readings and movies，“3 this year study so hard，I like books and movies are no time to watch，The holiday I will make good use of，The want to see of all see the！”

谁做主？家长孩子商量着决定 Who makes？Children with parents discuss decision

　　期末成绩出来了，南昌中学初一学生刘奉琦的英语成绩并不理想，“有马虎的，也有确实不知道答案的，”他这样总结自己的英语试卷。

The final grades out，Nanchang middle school students in grade seven LiuFengQi English is not good，“A casual，Also have really don't know the answer，”He concluded his English exam。

　　“他平时英语成绩就一般，有点’瘸腿’,期末成绩考成这样也在我的意料之中。”刘奉琦的家长李女士说。

“His usual general English result，A little’lame’,The final result in this exam in my surprise。”LiuFengQi parents ms. Li said。

　　对于孩子暑假的安排李女士表示：“我们家算比较民主吧，很多事情都是商量着来，很多事情在我们家长角度来看是对孩子最好的选择，可孩子还小，不一定能够理解大人的良苦用心，这时候你强行要求可能会让他产生逆反心理，适得其反。他的假期时间表是我们两个共同商量的，他主要是英语不太好，我们总结就是学习方法可能不太对，所以我给他报了一个英语补习班，这个班前几堂课是梳理初一的知识点，后面再讲初二的内容，我觉得是比较适合他的。其他科目他都还行，我们就不打算补了。他一直学小提琴，假期也会继续练习。他比较喜欢运动，想学篮球，我也打算给他报个班呢。”

For a child of ms. Li said for summer vacation：“Our house is more democracy now，Many things are to discuss，Many things in our view of the child is the parents of the best choice，But the child still small，Can not understand adult great effort，This time you may let his request to produce psychological resistance，backfire。His holiday schedule is our two heads together，His major is English is not so good，We summarize is to study the method may not quite right，So I entered an English course，Before the class is the first comb a few features，Back to tell the content of the second，I feel is more suitable for him。He also did in other subjects，We don't plan to fill。He has been learning violin，Holiday will also continue to practice。He likes sports，Want to learn basketball，I'm going to give him a class for。”

　　“那我们商量一下我能玩电脑游戏么？”刘奉琦顺势问妈妈，刘女士笑笑说：“好，每天做完作业，玩一个小时，你得保证只能玩一小时，不能耍赖皮！”“耶！好的！”孩子高兴地抱住妈妈狠狠地亲了一口。