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补课要理性 Make up a missed lesson to rational

切忌盲目跟风 Avoid blindly follow suit

　　如今有人戏称学生根本没有假期，所谓寒暑假其实就是“第三学期”，本来该是孩子们轻松快乐享受的时光却被各种假期兴趣班、补习班、托管班排得满满的，一点不比平时学习轻松。

Nowadays people called the students have no vacation，The so-called winter and summer is actually“The third term”，Was this is the children enjoy the happy time easily but all kinds of holiday interest class、Cram school、Have a full custody class，A little learning easy than usual。

　　面对这样的现状，很多家长表示无奈：大家都补，你不补，以后啥啥都比不过别人，后悔都来不及！

In the face of such situation，Many parents said helpless：Everyone fill，You don't fill，What what all after than but others，Penitence all too late！

　　难道学生的假期只能是一窝蜂地扎堆补课么？

Isn't the only students holiday is pouring a missed lesson gathers？

　　当然不是！

Of course not！

　　教育专家认为，家长在为孩子安排假期补课时应该问自己三个问题：我是不是了解我的孩子？我的孩子需要什么？什么样的学习方式有助于提高孩子的成绩？

Education experts think，The parents for the child make up a missed lesson should arrange holiday ask yourself the three questions：If I know my children？My child need？What kind of learning methods to improve children's performance？

　　家长首先应该了解自己孩子的学习情况，哪一科或者哪几科成绩不理想，造成成绩不理想的原因是知识点的欠缺还是马虎的性格，做到有的放矢地解决问题。

Parents should know the child's learning，Which subject is or what division success is not ideal，Cause result not ideal reason is the lack of knowledge or careless character，Colleg solve the problem。

　　其次，在选择课外辅导机构时，应该选择知名度高、口碑好的。现在补习市场鱼龙混杂，以名师为噱头的、实则“挂羊头卖狗肉”的补习班不胜枚举，家长一定要擦亮眼睛，做好充分的市场调查，让孩子在师资能力强的补习机构中完善自我学习体系。

second，In the choice of extracurricular counselling organization，Should choose high reputation、Public praise good。Now with the market good and evil people mixed up，With the teacher for stunt、actually“Hang the sheep head sell vinegar”Enumerate the cram school，Parents must open their eyes，Make full market survey，Let the child in the teachers' ability strong with institutions in perfect self learning system。

　　再次，家长应该尊重孩子的想法，在决定送孩子到补习班之前耐心向孩子说明缘由，让孩子充分认识到自己在学习上的不足，避免强行逼迫孩子，使其产生逆反心理。

again，Parents should respect the child's idea，Decided to send the child to cram school in patience to children before that reason，Let children recognize himself in the lack of learning，Avoid forced force their children，So as to produce psychological resistance。

　　最后，假期毕竟是给孩子放松的时间，应该留出充分的时间让孩子做自己喜欢的事情，如：看书、学习乐器、做运动、旅行等。

finally，Holiday after all is for children of time to relax，Should set aside enough time to let the children to do what they like，if：reading、Learning instruments、Do exercise、travel。

　　家长与孩子只有相互尊重、相互理解、良性沟通才能真正度过一个充实而愉快的假期。（见习记者 张丹丹）

Parents and children only a mutual respect for each other、Mutual understanding、Benign communication can really have a full and happy holiday。（Trainee ZhangDanDan reporters）