早起早睡不惹娘 暑假天天讨好娘 Early to bed not provoke niang summer vacation every day please niang

学生网友疯传《暑假防止和老妈发生冲突全天攻略》，他们大呼总结到心坎上了 The students net friend crazy《Summer vacation to prevent conflict and old mama day strategy》，They call summary to the heart

　　没回家之前，老妈巴不得你回来。但是你回来之后，总感觉自己在家里的地位一天不如一天，以至于可能发生小规模冲突。如何与老妈维持着一种比较平衡的关系？一则名为《暑假防止和老妈发生冲突全天攻略》的帖子近期网上疯传，网友们看后纷纷吐槽：“暑假就指望着这‘神帖’和老妈过招啦！”

Don't go home before，Old mama if you come back。But after you come back，Always feel at home in the position of a day as a day，That could happen small conflict。How to maintain the old mama a more balanced relationship？Called a《Summer vacation to prevent conflict and old mama day strategy》Post recent online crazy preach，Net friends after looking up in the tank：“Summer is counting on it‘God for’And old mama's predecessors！”

攻略：早起早睡莫熬夜 strategy：Early to bed don't stay up late

　　《暑假防止和老妈发生冲突全天攻略》对暑假在家的全天作息安排给出了详细建议。第一条，早起的孩子不惹妈，懒觉在假期里还是少睡为妙，不然这很有可能与老妈起冲突。起床时间维持在6:00~7:00之间不错。

《Summer vacation to prevent conflict and old mama day strategy》Summer vacation at home all day to the schedule, detailed advice are given。Article 1，The early children don't provoke mom，[I]) during the holiday or less sleep is wonderful，Otherwise it's may conflict with mom。Get up in time to 6 ~ 7:00 between good。

　　早起了，也并不是让你在床上傻坐或玩电脑。因此第二条是，主动一点，给老妈献个殷勤。例如买个早点，买个菜。经过上述阶段，基本上给这一天老妈对你的态度奠定基调，如果没有好感，起码是没有反感。

To getting up early，And not let you in bed silly to sit or computers。So the second was，Active a little，Offer your mother a diligent。For example buy an earlier，Buy a food。After the stage，To this day old mama basically to your attitude lay fundamental key，If no opinion，At least is not off。

　　第三条，如果你想在午饭之前的时间玩电脑或者看电视，注意几个方面：在看电视近1个小时的时候停止，然后去拖个地或者洗衣服。如果老妈中途过来抢你的电脑、电视，那么你应该客套一下，问句老妈要不要看，要不要玩。

Article 3，If you want to in the time before lunch play computer or watching television，Pay attention to several aspects：Watching TV is nearly 1 hours of time to stop，And then to drag a or washing clothes。If mom midway over steal your computer、TV，Then you should be a small，Questions old mama to don't watch，Don't play。

　　一上午的时间如果没算错，差不多就要午饭了。第四条，厨房可不能少了你的身影，即使你什么都不做，过去转一圈，慰问慰问老妈也是可以的。第五条，下午，每个“大神”估计都有个午休时间，不宜过长，2点之前起床。

One morning time if not calculate wrong，Almost will lunch。Article 4，The kitchen but cannot little your shadow，Even if you do nothing，The past one round，Old mama is also possible sympathy sympathy。Article 5，afternoon，each“Great god”Estimates have a lunch break，Shoulds not be too long，2 points get up before。

　　一般经过一天的行动，这时候老妈基本对你就没什么脾气了，所以这个时候大胆地玩吧。最后，切记不要熬夜，10点左右如果你不上床睡觉，老妈就很恼火了。

General after a day of action，By this time old mama to you is not a basic temper，So this time's bold。finally，Be sure not to stay up late，10 PM if you don't go to bed，Old mama is very angry。

孩子：总结到心坎上了 children：Summary to the hearts

　　高一学生夏晓丽对“神帖”的第一条可谓感触颇多。放暑假了，她最大愿望就是每天能睡到自然醒，可是放暑假第一周，她的愿望就被父母“扼杀”了。夏晓丽也曾以“你越是唠叨，我越不起”的精神反抗过，但是招来了亲友的指责。没辙，她只得早上6点半和父母同时起床。

The high student XiaXiaoLi right“God for”The first is feeling quite a lot。summer，Her greatest wish is every day can sleep to nature to wake，But the first week of summer vacation，Her wish was parents“kill”the。XiaXiaoLi played“The more you nag，I can't afford the”Against the spirit，But hailed the relatives and friends of the accused。Can find no way out，She had to at half past six in the morning and parents get up at the same time。

　　“我并不认为帖子的矛头是指向妈妈的一方，很多人内心希望讨妈妈的欢欣。”姜女士的孩子今年将升入高三，看完《暑假防止和老妈发生冲突全天攻略》后，大呼攻略总结到自己心坎上了。

“I don't think post spear points to one side of the mother is，A lot of people looking to get inside the joy of mother。”Ginger lady children will be promoted to the high this year，read《Summer vacation to prevent conflict and old mama day strategy》after，Big call to their hearts summary strategy......。

专家：要关注孩子情商 experts：The attention to children eq

　　母亲在孩子心中往往成了“祥林嫂”，而青春期的孩子又总是高歌“我的青春我做主”。

Mother in children tend to be in the heart“XiangLinSao”，And adolescent children and always sang“My youth I make decision”。

　　对此，社会学家、心理学家谭刚强表示，正是因为两代人的要求不同，青少年才会总结出如此详细的攻略。同时，这也可以理解为孩子自我减压、宣泄的一种方式。父母在孩子的成长过程中，关注得更多的是吃穿以及智能发展，情商和情感需求往往被忽略。父母应该尊重孩子的心理需求，多理解，多沟通。

this，sociologists、Psychologists tan strong said，It is for two generations of different demand，Youth will be summed up so detailed strategy。At the same time，It also can be understood as the child self reduced pressure、To give vent to a kind of means。Parents in the growing process of children，Attention more it is with food and clothing and intelligent development，Emotional intelligence and emotional needs are often ignored。Parents should respect the child's psychological need，Understand more，Much communication。

　　出门玩的频率不宜太高，不要让老妈老看见你玩手机……扫描魔扣查看《暑假防止和老妈发生冲突全天攻略》全文。(重庆晨报见习记者 刘冰鑫)

To go out to play frequency shoulds not be too tall，Don't let old mama old saw you play with mobile phones……Scanning the button to check《Summer vacation to prevent conflict and old mama day strategy》Full text。(Chongqing morning paper reporter LiuBingXin apprentice)