“一群女士在更衣，旁边站着一个小男孩，浑身不自在。”昨日，朱女士通过本报家长群向记者报料称，当日她到武昌一家游泳馆游泳，更衣时，有一名看上去三四岁的男孩，在母亲的带领下进了女更衣室。由于泳池的女更衣室只有衣柜，没有任何遮挡物，更衣过程更是全开放，尴尬的朱女士为此和男孩的家长发生了争执。

“A group of woman in a change clothes，Standing near a small boy，Was uncomfortable。”yesterday，Ms zhu through our newspaper reporter attempting to parents group said，On that day she wuchang a swimming pool to swim，When change clothes，Have a look for three or four years old boy，In the mother's lead into the women's locker room。Because of the swimming pool women's locker room only chest，No keep out content，Change clothes is the open process，Embarrassing for the boy and ms zhu parents had an argument。

男童“闯”进女更衣室 boy“ran”Into women's locker room

　　朱女士说，这名男童的妈妈看上去比较年轻，她在女更衣室帮孩子换好泳裤后，接着当着孩子的面，自己脱衣换衣。

Ms zhu said，The boy's mother look quite young，Her dressing room to help children in female change after swimming trunks，Then face in front of the kids，His garment to strip。

　　家长可以旁若无人，更衣室里其他女士却有些不自在了。朱女士上前问家长男童的年龄，家长称儿子才三岁。朱女士却不信。“旁边有个4岁小女孩，看上去比男童还矮，他怎么才3岁？”朱女士当场对男童妈妈提出“抗议”：孩子不小了，不应该随便进女更衣室。男童的妈妈却认为朱女士大惊小怪，“孩子那么小，什么都不懂！进女更衣室有什么要紧？”

Parents can stuff，The other ladies in the dressing room but some uncomfortable。Ms zhu to ask parents the boy's age，Parents say son is only three years old。Ms zhu did not believe。“And there was a 4 year old girl，Looks better than the boy is short，How did he just 3 years old？”Ms zhu to put forward the boy mother“protest”：Small children，Should not be literally in a locker room。The boy's mother was think ms zhu make a fuss，“So small children，What all don't know！In a locker room what does it matter？”

　　记者随后了解到，该游泳馆规定不允许带孩子进异性更衣室，小男孩必须由男性家长带进男更衣室，如果身边没有男性家长就请顾客自行解决问题。但是碰到“非要带孩子进异性更衣室”的家长怎么办呢？该游泳馆的工作人员告诉记者，行业内对这样的现象并没有明文规定，只能尽量劝阻，他们也没有别的办法。

Reporter then to understand，This swimming pool shall not allow their children into the dressing room with the opposite sex，The little boy must by men bring into the male parents locker room，If parents have no male side please customers to solve the problem。But run into“With their children into the dressing room to the opposite sex”Parents do？This swimming pool staff told reporters，For such a phenomenon in the industry and not required，Can only try to dissuade，They also have no other way。

家长应当培养孩子性别意识 Parents should cultivate children gender consciousness

　　武汉天热，游泳的孩子不在少数。记者随机采访了部分女士，多数人认为男童进女更衣室不妥。

Wuhan hot day，Swimming is not a few of the children。The reporter interviewed lady random part，Most people think the boy in a locker room wrong。

　　家住波光园的曹女士说，多数到游泳池的孩子，已有七八岁，这样的男童一般在男更衣室更衣。三四岁的男童虽然年幼，但也开始逐渐懂事，家长带这样的孩子进入女更衣室会让人觉得不自在。“国外几乎从孩子出生开始就在灌输性别教育，中国的家长大大咧咧，不在乎这方面。”她说。

Live in the water of ms cao said，Most of the children to the swimming pool，For eight，Such a boy in the dressing room commonly male change clothes。Three or four years old boy although young，But also gradually began to know any better，Their parents to take such children into the women's locker room will make people feel uncomfortable。“Foreign children from almost born in infusion gender education，Chinese parents careless，Don't care about the。”She said。

　　男童进女更衣室合适吗？江岸区鄱阳街幼儿园教师王雅丽认为，不妥，也不合适，此举首先是表现出对别人的不尊重；其次是儿童正处于身心发展的懵懂期，过早地观看异性身体，会促使他们性早熟。一些专家认为，一个人能够正确识别自己的性角色，对其个人的成长、发展都有很大的作用。作为父母应当从生活细节中培养儿童性意识的确定性，否则无益于孩子养成正确的性别意识。

The boy in a locker room right？Silk Po Yang street area of kindergarten teachers WangYaLi think，wrong，Don't suit，The move is first show of disrespect to others；Next is the children are in the physical and mental development of the ignorant，Early to watch the opposite sex to body，They would make the precocious puberty。Some experts think，A person can correctly identify their sexual role，The personal growth、Development has the very big effect。As parents from life of training the details shall parole consciousness of certainty，Otherwise not conducive to children to develop the right gender consciousness。

网友：可设“亲子更衣室” the：set“Parent-child locker room”

　　“男童能不能进女更衣室”这一话题在网上引起了热议。一位网友说，如果禁止妈妈带男童游泳，似乎很不近人情。如果是单亲家庭的孩子，女儿跟了父亲、男孩跟了母亲，总不能让这些孩子永不游泳吧。该网友建议，最好的办法是在馆内设个“亲子更衣室”，供小孩和陪同的家长使用，让妈妈带男童进入“女亲子更衣室”。

“The boy can in a locker room”This topic on the Internet caused a hot debate。A net friend said，If banned mother took the boy swimming，Seems unreasonable。If the children of single-parent families，With the father daughter、The boy with the mother，Can't let these children never to swim。The net friend Suggestions，The best way is set in the museum“Parent-child locker room”，For children and parents use accompanied，Let mother took the boy to enter“Female parent-child locker room”。

　　也有网友认为，游泳场所提供类似“托儿服务”，让专职人员为不能自理的小孩更衣、沐浴。据了解，外地的游泳馆就专门为家长提供此类服务。（楚天金报 记者刘辉 实习生胡磊）

Also netizens think，Swimming with similar places“Day care services”，Let the full-time personnel to cannot provide for oneself child change clothes、bath。According to understand，The field of swimming pool is designed for parents provide such services。（Chutian 27 reporters HuLei liuhui, said interns）