自称成功搭讪不下百人 质疑者认为他的技巧就是油嘴滑舌 Claim success accosted not less than one hundred people questioned thinks the his skill is flippant

　　“每个人性格不同，语言能力不同，并不是所有人天生就能很好的与女生搭讪。所以你需要大量的搭讪练习。放学路上，自习室，食堂排队，校车上，超市等等，任何地方都可以，并不需要特意准备好言辞再去搭讪……”

“Everyone in character，Different language ability，And not everyone is born can be a very good with girl strike up a conversation。So you need a lot of strike up a conversation practice。After school the way，lounges，Dining room to line up，On the school bus，Supermarket and so on，Any place，Does not need, so ready to chat up words……”

　　近日，在武汉理工大学学生论坛上，一篇题为《与MM搭讪（第二季）》的帖子引来众多学子热捧。

recently，In wuhan university of technology, students BBS，An article entitled《Strike up a conversation with the MM（The second season）》Post has many students hold heat。

　　这篇两万余字长帖的作者，是该校09届本科毕业生张文琪。“虽然我已经毕业了，但作为一所工科大学的男生，我深知谈恋爱是大家的一个共同难题。我是学长，有义务传授一点我的经验，帮帮学弟们。”目前从事销售工作的张文琪说，自己上大学时性格内向，甚至与女生说话都会脸红，到了大三下学期快要找工作了，逼迫自己通过搭讪锻炼交际能力。一开始很生涩，很古板，但随着搭讪数量的增加以及个人经历的丰富，搭讪就变得自如了。他总共谈过4个女朋友，其中3个都是通过在路上或是在公车上搭讪认识的。

This piece of more than twenty thousand words long dose of the author，Is this school 09 university graduate ZhangWenQi。“Although I have graduated，But as a engineering university of the boys，I know that love is everybody's a common problem。I'm the senior，Have the obligation to impart some of my experience，Help the students。”At present the work in sales ZhangWenQi said，When their university shy character，Even with girl talk will blush with shame，The junior was looking for a job next term，Make yourself through the accosted exercise communicative ability。A begin very crude，A plate，But with the increase in the number of hitting on personal experience and the rich，Strike up a conversation will become more freely。He has talked about 4 a girl friend，3 of them are on the road or in the bus through the understanding of the strike up a conversation。

　　据他介绍，两年前刚参加工作时，就将自己的一些搭讪心得在该校的论坛上发布，随着时间的推移，如今张文琪总共搭讪成功的陌生异性不下百位，对搭讪这门学问的感悟也在不断增加，于是萌发了写一篇更具指导性帖子的想法。在这篇帖子中，他将自己与异性搭讪的对话场景详细描述，并通过点评来分析搭讪的要点和方法。

According to he introduced，Two years ago when just had a job，Will some of his own experience in the BBS of hitting on release，As time goes on，Now ZhangWenQi accosted successful strange in the opposite sex not less than one hundred bits，This door knowledge to chat up the feeling has also increased，So had to write a post more guidance thoughts。In this post，He will be their connection with the opposite sex dialogue scenes describe in detail，And through the comment on to analyze the main points of method and strike up a conversation。

　　在回复的帖子中，也不乏一些质疑的声音，认为他的搭讪技巧是在通过油嘴滑舌“糊弄”人，缺少真诚。张文琪反驳说，搭讪不是谈判，而是一种交流和沟通。如果说话方式过于“刻板”那必然会导致无趣。兴趣是调动谈话的最好动力，如果一个人对你连兴趣都没有，且不说搭讪是否成功，甚至连正常交谈都无法保证能够继续下去。使用一些善意的“糊弄”和调侃等小技巧，是沟通过程中的“催化剂”。

In reply posts，Also have some question of voice，Think of his strike up a conversation skills are in through the flippant“deceive”people，Lack of sincerity。ZhangWenQi retort that，Accosted not negotiations，But a kind of communication。If talk that way too“inflexible”That will lead to boring。The interest is the best power transfer talks，If one of you even interested in all have no，Let alone accosted success，Even normal conversation can ensure that can continue。Use some white“deceive”And make fun of, and other small skills，Is in the process of communication“catalyst”。

　　张文琪说，自己曾经也是位宅男，希望自己在校园论坛上的帖子能够引来宅男学弟们的关注，自己总结的搭讪技巧能够帮助他们收获一份校园爱情。（见习记者 李晗）

ZhangWenQi said，He had also a home guy，Hope himself in the campus BBS posts can draw on the attention of the boys home guy，Summed up on my own chat up skills can help them to harvest a campus love。（Trainee reporter LiHan）