8月7日，中国队球员惠若琪（右）在比赛中。新华社记者 李钢摄 August 7,，China HuiReQi players（right）In the game。The xinhua news agency LiGangShe

　　当地时间今天下午1时，中日女排争夺4强资格的一场生死战在伦敦伯爵宫体育馆进行。最终，中国女排以2∶3遗憾地负于日本队。惠若琪失去了一次一锤定音的机会，但她与队友已经拼尽了全力。

The local time when one this afternoon，The women's volleyball team for the qualification of the top 4 a life and death war in London earl the gym。finally，Chinese women's volleyball team with 2:3 sorry to defeat Japan。HuiReQi lost a final chance，But she and teammates have spell efforts。

　　9000公里之外的中国南京，此时正是万家灯火，惠飞、许雪媛夫妇坐在电视机前，同样会使出全力为中国女排助威。此情此景对这对夫妻来说竟有些熟悉，在他们的大学时代，不知有过多少次这样与中国女排心心相连的夜晚。

9000 kilometers from China nanjing，It was time lamplights of families，HuiFei、XuXueYuan couple sit in front of the TV，The same will use to cheer for Chinese women's volleyball team。I liked this couples have some familiar，In their college age，Don't know how many times do this with the heart of Chinese women's volleyball team linked to the night。

　　

三十年前的排球情烙在女儿身上 Thirty years ago volleyball feeling burger on her daughter

　　惠飞、许雪媛是中国女排主力队员惠若琪的父母，今晚他们不只是在为女儿加油，也是为自己一段逝去的青春岁月加油。

HuiFei、XuXueYuan Chinese women's volleyball team is key players HuiReQi parents，Tonight they not just in for her daughter come on，But also for yourself a few lost youth on time。

　　上世纪80年代，当中国女排创造“五连冠”辉煌时，他俩正在东北某大学就读。

The 1980 s，When the women's volleyball team of creation“WuLianGuan”parades，They were in a university in northeast China。

　　尽管是近30年前的事情，但惠飞仍对那段振奋人心的岁月记忆犹新：“那个时候刚刚改革开放，中国人的内心已被压抑太久，太需要一个释放压抑、焕发激情的理由。”

Although nearly 30 years ago is the thing，But HuiFei still on that exciting time in the mind：“That time just reform and opening up，Chinese heart has been depressed for too long，Too need a release depressed、With the passion for reason。”

　　“五连冠”的中国女排就是那个时代所有中国人的强心剂，是中国旧貌换新颜、实现腾飞的象征。对于那个年代的大学生来说，更是明显感受到整个国家一派新生的气息。个人的理想、国家的希望，一切都变得光明起来。惠飞回忆，当时中国女排通过顽强拼搏最终站上世界之巅的成功经历，对整个中国社会都是一种“努力可以改变生活”的心理暗示。

“WuLianGuan”The Chinese women's volleyball team is the era of all Chinese boost，This is China a completely new look、Realize the symbol of the boom。For the s of the college students，The whole country is obviously feel a new breath。Personal ideals、The hope of the nation，All becomes light up。HuiFei memories，At that time China women's volleyball team through struggle and eventually on top of the world's successful experience，To the Chinese society is one of a kind“Hard life can change”Psychological suggestion of。

　　“中国人，尤其是我们这一代人，之所以能对女排的感情如此之深，正是因为我们亲身感受过女排精神对自己的感染。”惠飞回忆说，“而且，在刚刚开始改革开放的年代，能够成为中国人精神寄托的事物还很少，女排精神在那个时候显得异常宝贵，她能化作民族精神的图腾也是时代的需要。”

“The Chinese，Especially we of this generation，For the women's volleyball team feelings so deep，It is because we experience a women's volleyball team spirit to their infection。”HuiFei recalls，“and，In just beginning the reform and open policy the s，Can become the Chinese spirit of little things，Women's volleyball team spirit at that time is extremely valuable，She can into the spirit of the nation, totem is also the needs of the time。”

　　激动人心的大学岁月让惠飞、许雪媛至今难忘，随着当时排球运动风靡全国，这对夫妻这辈子最钟爱的体育运动也有了答案。

Exciting university years let HuiFei、Since XuXueYuan unforgettable，With the volleyball swept the country at that time，The couple in this life the most favorite sports also have the answer。

　　“当时大学里没有人不打排球的。”许雪媛表示，“那个时代的大学生，既是中国女排的铁杆球迷，同样也是排球运动的积极参与者。”身高超过1米90的惠飞也因此成为大学排球队的队长。

“At that time there was no one in the university not playing volleyball。”XuXueYuan said，“The era of college students，Is a big fan of the Chinese women's volleyball team，The same is also active participants in the volleyball。”More than 1 m height of 90 HuiFei thus becomes university volleyball team captain。

　　

惊人天赋最终说服父母让步 Amazing talent eventually persuade parents concessions

　　大学毕业以后，夫妻俩成家立业，忙工作、忙家庭。关注女排的机会少了，但女排留在心中与激情、信念有关的记忆却一直没有消退。

After graduation from university，A married couple in business，Busy work、Busy family。Focus on women's volleyball team less chance of......，But the women's volleyball team stay at heart with passion、Faith connected memory but never disappeared。

　　1991年，女儿惠若琪降生。惠若琪继承了父亲身材高大的基因，但惠飞、许雪媛从未想过让女儿走上排球运动员的道路。

1991 years，HuiReQi daughter was born。HuiReQi inherited his father tall genes，But HuiFei、XuXueYuan never want to let daughter on the volleyball players road。

　　在惠若琪8岁的时候，惠飞因工作调动，全家从大连搬到南京。“惠若琪在南京上小学时，因为个子高，被选进了学校排球队。”许雪媛回忆，“当时，我们觉得打排球可以锻炼身体，也能培养孩子的兴趣爱好。另外，我们心里确实对排球有很深的感情，因此，也就支持孩子玩起了排球。”

In HuiRe qi 8 years old，HuiFei work for transfer，His family from dalian moved to nanjing。“HuiReQi in nanjing in elementary school，Because the tall，Elected to the school volleyball team。”XuXueYuan memories，“At that time，We felt that we play volleyball can exercise，Also can develop the child's interest。In addition，Our hearts indeed for volleyball has a lot of affection，so，Also support the children playing volleyball。”

　　没想到，惠若琪在排球上的天赋就此逐渐展现出来。

Didn't expect，HuiReQi in the volleyball talent on the gradually show。

　　“小学毕业时，惠若琪考入了以排球作为学校特色的南京29中。”许雪媛表示，“由于29中也是南京教学质量排名前列的好学校，因此，我们那时也没想过惠若琪今后会走上排球专业道路。”

“Elementary school graduation，HuiReQi entered to volleyball as characteristic of nanjing 29 in school。”XuXueYuan said，“Because of 29 is nanjing teaching quality ranking forefront of good school，so，We were also have in the future HuiReQi to volleyball professional road。”

　　上中学后，惠若琪既要完成学业，又要在业余时间参加排球训练。“我对孩子唯一的要求，就是不能因为打排球影响学业。”让许雪媛欣慰的是，惠若琪的学习成绩一直在班里名列前茅，“说实话，如果惠若琪没有进排球专业队，以她的学习成绩，考上名牌大学肯定没有问题。”

On after high school，HuiReQi should finish school，And in his spare time to volleyball training。“I'm the only child of requirements，Just can't play volleyball because of your studies。”Let XuXueYuan relief，HuiReQi learning achievement has been in the top class，“To tell you the truth，If HuiReQi didn't enter the volleyball teams，In her study results，Admitted to famous university do not have a problem for certain。”

　　在29中读初中的3年，惠若琪的个头和排球技能同步“长高”，慕名而来邀请惠若琪加盟的排球专业队越来越多，但所有请求均被许雪媛一口拒绝：“我们家惠若琪以后是要上大学的，她怎么能早早离开学校去当运动员呢？”

In middle school of 29 of 3 years，HuiReQi of head and volleyball skills synchronization“grow”，Who joined the volleyball teams HuiReQi invite more and more，But all requests are XuXueYuan refused：“Our house is to HuiReQi later go to university，How could she left school early, when athletes？”

　　许雪媛知道女儿喜欢排球，也看到了她的排球天赋，但她不得不为女儿的人生做更周详的考虑，“孩子的年龄还小，应以学业为重，一旦走上运动员这条路，学业势必受到影响甚至荒废，万一孩子今后又练不出来，岂不耽误了她的前程？”

XuXueYuan know daughter like volleyball，Also see her volleyball talent，But she has to do for her daughter's life more thorough consideration，“The child's age is small，Should be to school as the priority，Once took to the athletes this way，School will inevitably affected even laid waste，One thousand children and practice not to come out in the future，The delay will her fortunes？”

　　但在一次次阻拦惠若琪走进排球专业队之后，女儿不高兴了，“她肯定觉得我是在阻止她去实现理想，为了不让女儿一辈子遗憾，我也不想总当‘坏人’，我最终同意给她一次机会，但前提是如果3年后她在排球上没有任何成绩，她必须回学校重新读书。”

But in a meeting block HuiReQi into volleyball after the professional leagues，Daughter be not happy，“She must think I'm in the stop her to realize the ideal，In order not to let his daughter a lifetime regret，I also don't want to always when‘bad’，I finally agreed to give her a chance，But the prerequisite is that if three years later she did not have any result in volleyball，She had to go to school again to study。”

　　那是2006年，惠若琪刚满15岁。那个夏天，初中毕业的时刻，正是惠若琪踏入职业排坛的开始。

That was in 2006，HuiReQi just full 15 years old。That summer，Junior high school of the moment，It is HuiReQi beginning your PaiTan start。

　　

苦累挡不住追梦的脚步 Bitter tired stop the dream-seeker steps

　　许雪媛之所以给女儿设了一个3年期限，因为她相信女儿3年后一定会因为走不了排球这条路而重新回来读书。

XuXueYuan daughter makes to set a three year period，Because she believes her daughter three years later will because on the volleyball this road and came back for reading。

　　但许雪媛太低估自己的女儿了。

But XuXueYuan underestimate their own daughter。

　　3年时间，对于一个拥有排球天赋又视排球为生命的排球天才来说，足以完成化蛹为蝶的蜕变。

Three years，For a large talent and depending on the volleyball volleyball volleyball for genius for life，Enough to finish for the metamorphosis of a butterfly pupa。

　　惠若琪进入江苏省女子排球队后，带给父母的几乎都是她在排球生涯里的进步和惊喜。

HuiReQi into the jiangsu province after the women's volleyball team，Bring the parents are nearly all her career in volleyball progress and surprise。

　　入队1个月即坐上江苏队主力位置，1年后入选国家队集训大名单，3年后正式成为中国女排的一员。在2012年伦敦奥运会上，21岁的惠若琪已经是中国女排的绝对主力。

Up a month that sit on the team who dominated，1 years be in the national team training squad，Three years later became a member of the Chinese women's volleyball team。In the 2012 Olympic Games in London，21 years old HuiReQi of Chinese women's volleyball team has been nailed down。

　　看着女儿6年来的巨大进步，许雪媛的心中充满喜悦：“真的没有想到，女儿可以在排球道路上走了这么远。幸好没有一直阻止女儿，最终还是支持她走上了排球这条路。”

Look at the great progress of daughter six years，XuXueYuan heart filled with joy：“Didn't think，Daughter in volleyball road can go so far。Fortunately, has not always stop daughter，Eventually she walked up to support the volleyball in this way。”

　　回想女儿从接触排球到最终与排球结下不解之缘的经过，许雪媛只能惊叹于梦想的力量是多么强大。作为母亲，许雪媛甚至后悔曾经以不许打球作为对女儿的威胁。“她小的时候，最怕我说‘明天不许打球了’，只要我一说‘不许打球’，她什么话都听。”许雪媛如今才能想象，“不许打球”对于无比热爱排球的女儿来说是多么可怕的一句话。

Back to the final volleyball daughters from contact with the volleyball has been wedded after，XuXueYuan can only dream amazed at what is the power of the powerful。As a mother，XuXueYuan even as ever play not to regret for her daughter's threat。“When she was small,，Most afraid I said‘No play tomorrow’，As long as I said‘Forbid to play’，She is listening to what。”XuXueYuan now to imagine，“Forbid to play”For the great love of volleyball daughter how terrible it is a word of it。

　　许雪媛也终于能够理解，女儿克服训练中苦与累的力量来自哪里，“她在小学、初中打球时，有时候我去看她训练，练得太苦了，孩子们在排球场上摸爬滚打，两个膝盖永远都是破的。看着孩子训练，家长们都在场下偷偷哭。我多少次跟她说，太苦了，不练了吧？她从来都是不同意。有的时候，练得太累，她自己也哭，但哭完了，第二天还是叫着要去排球场训练。”

XuXueYuan also was finally able to understand，Daughter suffering and tired of training to overcome the strength from，“She in elementary school、Junior high school while playing，Sometimes I go to see her training，Practice is too bitter，The children on the volleyball court marketer，Two knee will never be broken。Look at children training，Parents were on the secretly cry。How many times I said to her，It's too bitter，Don't practice it？She is never agree。sometimes，Practice too tired，She also cry，But crying out，The second day is that going to volleyball court training。”

　　惠若琪家境殷实，因为父亲惠飞是某上市公司在南京地区的负责人，也有媒体称惠若琪为“富二代”。一个富家子弟去练又苦又累的排球，更让很多人难以理解。其实家庭是不是富裕与惠若琪走上排球道路并没有任何关系，“我们只是支持孩子去追求和实现自己的梦想，排球就是她的梦想。”惠飞表示。

HuiReQi rich in the family，Because the father HuiFei is a listed company in nanjing area of the person in charge，Also has the media says HuiReQi for“Rich the second generation”。A a millionaire to practice and a bitter and tired of volleyball，More let a lot of people is difficult to understand。In fact is rich and HuiReQi family on road and no relationship between volleyball，“We just child support to pursue and realize his dream，Volleyball is her dream。”HuiFei said。

　　惠若琪没有赶上中国女排战绩辉煌的好时代，对于现在这支中国女排来说，在奥运赛场上每前进一步都极为不易。比赛结果对一些人来说很重要，但对更多的人来说已经不重要。今天的中国女排再也不像30年前那样承载着一个民族复兴的梦想。那种对女排的独特感情已经永远留在了惠飞、许雪媛一代人的心中。但有关中国女排的梦想故事仍在继续，它已经以另一种方式在惠若琪一代人的身上传承。（慈鑫）

HuiReQi didn't catch up with the Chinese women's volleyball team brilliant good times，For now this one for Chinese women's volleyball team，The Olympics before each have a further not easily。The result of the game for some people is very important，But for more people have not important。Today, the Chinese women's volleyball team never like 30 years ago that bears a national revival dream。That kind of to women's volleyball team has the unique feeling forever in HuiFei、XuXueYuan generation heart。But the Chinese women's volleyball team dream story continues，It has been in a different way HuiReQi generation in the body of the inheritance。（CiXin）

　　(来源:中国青年报)

(Source: China youth daily)