“我们的法律对男孩的保护，远比不上女孩。”相关专家漫画/王云涛 “Our law of the protection of the boy，Far than girls。”Relevant experts comic/WangYunTao 李军参演电视剧《和平年代》的剧照被网友贴在微博上。 Li jun works in television《Peace s》The still be net friend posted on the blog。

　　广州市民政局民间组织管理局稽查处处长李军涉嫌诱奸多名男童（本报前、昨日均有报道），昨晚10时，广州市民政局官博发布消息称，李军被公安机关拘留后，民政局已免去其广州市民间组织管理局稽查处处长职务。昨日，新快报记者获悉，受害者小东（化名）已在母亲陪同下出去散心，其情绪已渐趋稳定。对此，荔湾区检察院控告与申诉科钟科长表示，如果李军果真像媒体所披露的那样，法律对其处罚将是严厉的。他们正在研究此案，起诉此类犯罪可参考刑法中对“强奸幼女罪”的处罚规定，不过一切要看警方证据搜集的情况。

Guangzhou civil affairs bureau folk organization administration director li jun JiZhaChu suspected of seduction; the more boy（Before the、All have reported yesterday），Last night when 10，Guangzhou civil affairs bureau official Po release news said，Li jun by the public security organs after the detention，Civil affairs bureau has the guangzhou from non-governmental organizations JiZhaChu administration director position。yesterday，New express the reporter learns，Victims small east（aliases）Mother has set up a file in accompanied by road trip filled out，The mood has gradually stability。this，With the families against liwan district procuratorate clock section chief said，If li jun indeed like disclosed that the media，Law on their punishment will be severe。They are studying the case，Sue such crimes can be reference for the criminal law“Rape removal sin”Disciplinary regulations，But everything depends on the situation of the evidence police collected。

　　

律师表示：立法漏洞或导致处长被轻判 Lawyers say：Legislative loopholes or lead to be QingPan director

　　

官博称李军已被免职 Officer bo said li jun has been removed

　　昨晚10时，广州市民政局官方微博@广州民政 发布消息称，李军涉嫌猥亵儿童被公安机关依法拘留后，民政局高度重视事件。微博表示，民政局已经按照规定免去其广州市民间组织管理局稽查处处长职务，并坚决支持司法机关依法查处。

Last night when 10，Guangzhou civil affairs bureau official micro bo @ guangzhou civil affairs said in a news release said，Li jun suspected of child molestation by the public security organs according to law after the detention，Civil affairs bureau pay high attention to the event。Micro bo said，In accordance with the provisions of the civil affairs bureau has from guangzhou folk organization JiZhaChu administration director position，And strongly support the judicial organs shall investigate and deal with。

　　据广州市民间组织管理局相关负责人介绍，稽查处的工作目前由分管的副局长代为主持，稽查处将照常运作，但暂时未有任命新处长。

According to the guangzhou folk organization administration relevant controller introduces，JiZhaChu work from the current vice director of the charge to preside over the meeting，JiZhaChu will continue to operate，But is not yet appointed new director。

　　该条微博发出后，许多网友回复表示处理得当，但也有人质疑民政部门在用人选择时不够细致。武警广东总医院心理科主任何日辉也回复表示，民政部门要吸取教训，重视员工的心理健康，进行心理健康检查，否则以后还会出现类似的问题。

"The micro bo is issued，Many net friend reply said handled properly，But some question the civil affairs departments in the employing when the choice is not enough and fine。Armed police guangdong general hospital of director of division of psychological RiHui back what said，Civil affairs departments should learn from them，Pay attention to employee's mental health，Mental health inspection，Otherwise it will appear similar problems。

　　

此事件还有多少受害孩子 This event and how many children suffer

　　据了解，按照现行法律，男童遭受性侵害依“猥亵儿童罪”处罚，法律对男孩的保护，远比不上女孩。有律师表示，目前性侵男童如何定罪在中国的立法中尚存漏洞，可能会导致涉案处长被轻判。

According to understand，According to the current law，The boy suffered from sexual assault in“Indecent child crime”punishment，The protection of the law to the boy，Far than girls。A lawyer said，At present the sex abuse boy how to in China legislation in the conviction remaining holes，May cause to the director of QingPan was involved。

　　据悉，李军以“俊俊”、“花非花雾非雾”等QQ网名结交未成年人，在其QQ内有160多个13岁以下未成年人。目前警方已查实有3名受害者。那究竟还有多少受害者？警方表示，目前还未接到其他受害者的报案。有关人士希望其他受害者能站出来举报。

It is reported，Li jun to“CSL CSL”、“Take the flowers of the fog fog”QQ net make such as a minor，There were more than 160 in its QQ 13 years old the following minors。The police has identified three of the victim。That actually how many victims？Police said，Are not yet received reports of other victims。Officials hope that other victims come out and report it。

　　

受性侵男孩承认交友不慎 The sex abuse by the boy confessed that carelessly make friends

　　昨天，记者和小东的父亲苏先生联系，他告诉记者，目前只有他跟小东有过正面沟通，小东也曾向他写了检讨，道歉承认交友不慎。但相对于肉体的受伤，苏先生更担心小东受到的心理创伤。

yesterday，Journalists and small east father Mr Su contact，He told reporters，At present, only he and small east had positive communication，Small east also asked him to write a review，Apology admit carelessly make friends。But relative to the physical hurt，Mr Su more worried about small east by psychological trauma。

　　现在苏先生家里已经进入“一级备战状态”，甚至连报纸杂志都不可以出现在家里。“虽然事情已经传开，但我跟亲友们都有协定，希望他们不要提起这事。甚至连小东的母亲也要假装不知情”。

Now Mr Su has entered into the home“Level 1 prepare for the state”，Even the newspapers and magazines can appear in the home。“Although it has spread，But I told friends and family all have agreement，Hope they don't mention it。Even small east mother also want to pretend that you don't know the fact”。

　　“我们希望对事情进行冷处理，不想媒体给小东太大压力。”苏先生告诉记者小东目前已经在母亲和亲戚的陪同下离开了广州，但具体行踪苏先生不愿意透露。苏先生因为工作的原因，不得不暂时留在广州，但他每天晚上都有跟小东通电话聊天。而为了让小东早日走出阴影，苏先生在今年7月份已曾推掉工作，带小东到湖南旅游散心。

“We hope to things cold treatment，Don't want to the media to small DongTai great pressure。”Mr Su told reporters small east has been accompanied by mother and relatives left guangzhou，But the specific whereabouts Mr Su reluctance to disclose。Mr. Sue because of my job，Had to be temporarily stay in guangzhou，But he every night there was phone chat with small east。And in order to make small east early out of the shadows，Mr Su in July this year already have put off work，With small east to hunan tourism trip。

　　

律师 对男孩保护存立法漏洞 A lawyer for a boy to protect save legislative loopholes

　　对于此案，广信律师事务所的宋福信律师分析，因目前中国的立法中，强奸罪的受害对象仅限于女性，因此男性遭受性侵害的行为，在立法环节尚存在一些漏洞。

For the case，Guangxin lawyer office of SongFuXin lawyer analysis，Currently China's legislation，Rape victims of the object is limited to women，So men suffer sexual behavior，In the legislative links exist some holes。

　　宋律师称，本案中，受害男童仅13岁，属未成年人。因此对施害者可能确定的罪名或为猥亵儿童罪。其实猥亵儿童罪在立法原意上，是指以刺激或满足性欲为目的，用性交以外的方法对儿童实施的如抠摸、亲吻等较轻的行为。其严重程度区别于强奸。猥亵儿童罪在量刑上比照猥亵妇女罪，处5年以下有期徒刑或拘役；聚众或在公共场所当众猥亵的，处5年以上有期徒刑。

Song lawyer says，In this case，The boy suffered only 13 years old，Of minors。So was the harm may determine to the crime or child molestation for sin。In fact indecent child crime in the legislative intent，Refers to stimulate or have sex for the purpose，Sexual intercourse with the method of outside of the children like to dig the touch、Kiss and the lighter behavior。Their extent different from rape。Indecent child crime in sentencing on women, mutatis mutandis, obscene sin，Place shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of 5 years or criminal detention；All the or in public places in public obscene，Sentenced above 5 years in prison。

　　本案中，处长对男童实施性侵的行为，实际上已经比立法原意上的较轻行为更严重，可由于受害者为男童，最多也只能以猥亵儿童罪定罪。根据警方发布消息显示，该处长还涉嫌与多名男童发生关系。但按照猥亵儿童罪的量刑，一名受害者和多名受害者的区别，只是是否从重的情节，多名受害者其量刑结果仍在5年以内。聚众或在公众场所实施该行为，才是加重情节，才有可能判处5年以上。

In this case，For the boy to the director of the behavior of the implementation of sexual abuse，In fact have the legislative intent than a less behavior is more serious，But because the victim for boys，Most also can only be convicted child molestation。According to the police release news show，The director also in connection with many boy occurrence of the relationship。But according to indecent child crime sentencing，A victim and the difference of the victims，Only if the plot of the heavier，Many of the victims the sentencing results are still in 5 years less than。All the or in public places the implementation of this act，Is aggravating circumstances，Can be sentenced to five years。

　　“其实本案中行为的严重程度，已经可以比照强奸而论了，只是立法上有缺失。”宋律师认为，在有些国家的法律中，男性遭受性侵，也有被定为强奸罪或鸡奸罪的情况。但目前按照本国法律，成年男子遭受性侵，如造成一定身体伤害才能被定为故意伤害罪，普通遭受性侵的行为则无法定罪量刑。

“In fact in this case the severity of the behavior，Have may according to rape terms，Just legislation are missing。”Song lawyer thought，In some countries laws，Men suffer sexual harassment，And as rape or criminal sodomy of sin。But according to national law at present，Adult males suffer sexual harassment，If cause some body damage can be judged as deliberately，Ordinary suffer sexual assault is not the behavior of the conviction。

　　

妇联 男童受侵害可找妇联帮助 Women's federation boy can look for infringement of the women's help

　　昨日，新快报记者从广州市妇联了解到，妇女儿童（包括男童）遭受到性侵害，可以向各级妇联的信访部门求助。但到目前为止，市级妇联信访部门尚未接收过男童遭受性侵害的求助个案。

yesterday，New letters from guangzhou to understand women's federation reporters，Women and children（Including boy）Suffered sexual assault，At all levels of the women's federation to the complaint department for help。But so far，The municipal women's complaint has not yet received the boy suffered from department of sexual abuse case for help。

　　据广州市妇联权益部部长揭河介绍，妇女儿童维权热线38613861在办公时间都会有专人接听，另外妇联邀请了心理学专家、持牌律师等专业人士坐班，为求助人提供心理咨询、法律援助等方面的帮助。

According to guangzhou, the women's QuanYiBu minister jie river is introduced，Women's rights hotline at 38613861 children in office time will be answered，In addition, the women's invited psychology experts、Licensed lawyer John lacey professionals，For QiuZhuRen provide counseling、Legal aid, and other aspects of the help。

　　“目前还没有接收过男童遭受性侵害的案例。”揭河表示，信访部门经常接触女童遭受性侵害的案例，但涉及男童的少之又少。“这一类的案件不多，但也有可能是家长不愿意说。”

“Has not received the boy suffered from sexual assault case。”Jie river said，The complaint department often contact girls suffer sexual assault case，But involves the boy's little little。“This kind of case is not much，But it can also be parents don't want to say。”

　　据了解，按照现行的法律，男童遭受性侵害依“猥亵儿童罪”处罚，“我们的法律对男孩的保护，远比不上女孩。”揭河认为，男童、女童都可能是强奸罪的受害者，现行法律对男童的保护仍然不足够。揭河还表示，疏忽照顾子女的家长，也应该负担部分的法律责任。

According to understand，Under the current law，The boy suffered from sexual assault in“Indecent child crime”punishment，“Our law of the protection of the boy，Far than girls。”Jie river think，boy、Girls can all be victims of rape，The current laws on the boy's protection is still not enough。Jie river also said，The parents take care of children neglect，Should also be part of the legal responsibility of the burden。

　　

专家 男孩性教育存很大缺失 Sex education deposit large experts boy missing

　　“我们现在对男孩的性教育存在很大缺失。”广州星空社会工作发展中心首席心理专家、儿童心理学专家何维告诉新快报记者，在现行的青少年儿童性教育上，男童往往是被忽视的一群。“家长常常会教育女孩子，要注意保护自己，不要跟陌生的叔叔、爷爷走。但对于男孩就很少”。

“We are now on the boy's sexual education has very big loss。”Guangzhou sky social work development center chief psychological experts、Child psychology experts HeWei tell new express reporter，In the current teenagers education on parole，The boy is often neglected a group of。“Parents often education girls，To protect themselves，Don't talk with unfamiliar uncle、Grandpa go。But for the boy is very few”。

　　针对男童的性教育，何维提出了两点建议。首先，与女童一样，学校、家长应该从小教育男童要有自我保护意识，注意着装、行为举止，提防陌生人。另外，何维认为男童有必要了解男性性知识，“要让他们知道，社会上存在着同性恋人群。甚至有一些恋童癖的人，可能会伤害到自己”。

According to the boy's sexual education，HeWei puts forward two Suggestions。first，And girls as，The school、Parents should from the education the boy to have ego to protect consciousness，Pay attention to dress、behavior，Wary of strangers。In addition，HeWei think that the boy is necessary to know male sexual knowledge，“They need to know，There are gay people in society。Even some pedophiles，May hurt yourself”。

　　“孩子接触到性知识，是不可避免的，网络只是其中一个渠道。”何维表示，家长要多面看待青春期孩子对性知识的渴求，不可能也不应该阻止孩子接触性知识。“孩子会有追求平等的心理，成年人能看的，我为什么不能看”。何维认为，即使发现子女沉迷于不正常的性话题，家长也不应该粗暴地训斥孩子，而是应该用轻松的沟通方式，引导孩子处理性困惑。

“Children exposed to sexual knowledge，Is inevitable，The network is just one channel。”HeWei said，The parents should be more think children face of adolescent knowledge of sex desire，Can't also should not stop child sex knowledge。“The child will have the psychological for equality，Adults can see，Why can't I see”。HeWei think，Even if found that children indulge in not normal sexual topics，Parents should not rudely scolded child，But should use easy means of communication，Guide children rational confused。

　　而对于曾经遭受性侵害的儿童，何维呼吁家长要用理解、接纳的心态来面对，允许孩子发泄悲伤情绪，并向专业的心理咨询机构求助，尽早进行危机干预。

And for once suffered sexual assault of a child，HeWei called for the parents should be with understanding、Acceptance of point of view to face，Allow kids to vent their sad mood，And to a professional counseling agencies for help，For crisis intervention as early as possible。

　　

延伸 extensions

　　

不怀好意者会利用 The malicious will use

　　

网络软件实施犯罪 Network software implementation of crime

　　据业内人士介绍，QQ漂流瓶是一种随机交友工具，用户“扔一个”漂流瓶，系统会随机投递给网友，此外，还可以在漂流瓶中加入签名，甚至可以交换双方邮箱地址。如今随着移动互联网的普及，诸如微信、陌陌等基于地理位置的即时聊天工具软件也成为陌生人之间迅速找到对方的工具。一些不怀好意的人会利用这些软件趁机实施犯罪。广州白云心理医院首席心理专家沈家宏表示，所以孩子沉迷于网络，应该给父母敲响警钟。

Introduce according to the personage inside course，QQ bottles is a random tools to make friends，user“Throw a”bottles，The system will randomly delivered to users，In addition，Still can add signature in bottles，Even the exchange email address。And now, with the popularization of mobile Internet，Such as the letter、Specifically, based on the geographical position specifically instant messaging tool software is also a stranger to quickly find each other between the tool。Some malicious people will use this software took the opportunity to implement crime。Guangzhou baiyun mental hospital chief psychological experts shenyang macro said，So the child addicted to the Internet，Should give parents alarming。

　　沈家宏认为，家长应该学会和孩子沟通，也要跟上时代，比如孩子喜欢QQ、喜欢玩漂流瓶，家长不妨也去玩玩看，这样父母和孩子之间有共同话题，更容易走进孩子的世界。

Shenyang macro think，Parents should learn and children communication，Also want to keep up with The Times，Such as children like QQ、Like to play bottles，Parents might as well also to play look，Such between parents and children have in common，More easily into the child's world。

　　首先，家长不能把孩子当做实现个人目标的工具，有些家长一味要求孩子一定要考到什么样的成绩，这是非常不可取的。

first，Parents can't treat the child as a personal goal realization of tools，Some parents only ask the child must take an examination of to what kind of results，This is very not advisable。

　　其次，家长应当花时间多陪陪孩子，而且要用心地陪、高质量地陪，让孩子感到由心的愉悦。

second，Parents should take time to spend more time with children，And accompanied by heart、High quality local guide，Let children feel from the heart of pleasure。

　　第三，对孩子感兴趣的东西，家长不能一味地否定。孩子沉迷网络，家长应该思考孩子为什么会沉迷，而不是禁止孩子接触网络。

The third，For children are interested in things，Parents can't deny blindly。Children addict network，Parents should think about why children addicted，Not banned child contact network。

　　第四，是尊重孩子的选择，从吃饭、穿衣到兴趣的选择，家长都应该给予充分的尊重，其实中国传统文化中对家庭关系中最缺乏的就是尊重，以往总是强调孩子要听话，殊不知孩子也是要尊重的。（陈海生、陈晓颖、周达标、陈海生、吴笋林）

The fourth，The choice is to respect them，Eat from、Dress to the choice of interest，Parents should give full of respect，In fact the traditional Chinese culture to family relationships are most lacking in is respect，Always emphasized children to obedient，Little imagine the kids is to respect。（ChenHaiSheng、ChenXiaoYing、Mark weeks、ChenHaiSheng、WuSun Lin）