8月11日，清华大学今年的党员新生赴校报到。与往年不同，清华大学此次在报到区外设置“警戒线”，家长一律只能在线外等候，新生必须带着材料独自登记入学。(8月12日《京华时报》)

August 11,，Tsinghua university this year to the new party members to newspapers。Unlike previous years，Tsinghua university report on the outside of the set“cordon”，Parents are only online wait outside，Freshmen are required to register with the material alone admission。(August 12,《Jinghua times》)

　　要求学生独立完成“登记入学”，家长被挡在线外，这的确是“高校新招”，也是在培养学生的“独立”能力，自然是好事一桩。如今的现实，环顾四周便可发现，孩子对父母的依赖、父母对孩子的溺爱，的确是无处不在的。当有高校意识到这一点，并想方设法创造机会让孩子学习“独立”，的确是用心良苦，也是教育应当承担的责任。因而可以不夸张地说，“清华挡家长”，是给新生们很好的“第一课”。

Require students to finish“enrollment”，Parents blocked the online，This is indeed“The new recruit”，Also in the cultivation of the students'“independent”ability，Nature is a good thing。Now the reality of the，Look around and can be found，Children of parents to rely on、The parents and children's indulgence，Indeed is everywhere。When a college realize this，And find the way to create opportunity to let the child to learn“independent”，Really is diligent，Education is also shall be the responsibility of the。So can no exaggeration to say，“Tsinghua block parents”，To the new students is very good“The first lesson”。

　　但同样一个无法忽略的事实是，既然这次清华挡家长能成为“新闻”，那意味着类似的培养学生独立的课堂也好、活动也罢，在现实中还是相当缺失的，不然这样的行为不可能成为新闻，也见证着在“独二代(两代独生子女)”的生活环境中，来自长辈们的爱，的确有些泛滥，这些现实因素下，“独二代”要培养独立意识的确缺少点现实土壤。

But the same can't ignore is the fact，Since the tsinghua block parents can become“news”，That means that a similar training students' independent classroom all right、Activities or，In reality is quite the missing，Otherwise such behavior can't be news，Also witnessed the in“Only the second generation(Two generations of only children)”Life environment，The elders from love，Indeed some flooding，These practical factors，“Only the second generation”To foster independent consciousness indeed lacks some realistic conditions。

　　如今现实的境况是，对孩子的独立性缺失问题，来自社会的关注不少，行动却十分匮乏。故而，对这“清华挡家长”一事，的确值得鼓励与赞扬，但却不值得过高阐释，也不宜过分解读。毕竟，一次行动改变不了十几年饱受溺爱背后的独立性缺失问题。清华意识到“学生独立”的重要，做出一定的表率，给予学生一次机会去“独立”，但一次“独立完成登记入学”，想让孩子十几年培养出来的“习惯性依赖”卸除，无异于天方夜谭。

Now the reality of the situation is，The lack of independence to the child，Social attention from many，Action is scarce。so，To this“Tsinghua block parents”in，Really deserve to encourage and praise，But it is not worth too much interpretation，Also shoulds not be too much reading。After all，A action can not change more than ten years behind the lack of independence from spoiling。Tsinghua consciousness to“The student independently”important，Make a model，To give students a chance to go to“independent”，But a“Independent completed enrollment”，Want to let children developed more than ten years“Habitual rely on”unloading，Is out of the ballpark。

　　因此，破除孩子的依赖，培养其独立品质的关键因素在于学校教育，但同样也在于家长的态度，二者缺一不可。就现实境况而言，类似“清华挡家长”一般的培养学生独立的行为与活动，理应“多多益善”；而另一方面，长辈们对自己快成年或已成年的孩子，也应给其足够的“独立空间”，不能再过分溺爱了，这般常识人尽皆知，但关键是要贯彻到现实行为中。

so，Children depend on the break，Foster the independent quality a key factor is the school education，But also is the attitude of the parents，Both be short of one cannot。Just for actual situation，similar“Tsinghua block parents”The cultivation of the students' independent general behaviors and activities，should“The more the better”；And on the other hand，The elders of his fast adult or already adult children，Also should give it enough“Independent space”，Can't spoiling，So common sense everybody knows everything，But the key is to carry out into the real behavior。

　　所以，“清华挡家长”只是万里长征第一步，也只是培养孩子独立性的第一步，而高校如何通过越来越多的“独立课堂”来加强孩子的独立性，继而用现实成绩来诠释独立的重要性，让家长们保持足够的理性，接着给予孩子独立自主生活的空间，理应是接下来“教育工作”的应有之义，也是培养孩子独立意识不可或缺的环节。

so，“Tsinghua block parents”The long march is the first step，Is the first step of the independence of the child，How in colleges and universities by more and more“Independent classroom”To strengthen the independence of the children，Then use the reality achievement to interpretation the importance of independence，Let parents keep enough reason，Then give children independent life space，Are supposed to be the next“Education work”The meanings of the，Also raises the child an indispensable component of independent consciousness。

　　就家庭教育与学校教育这两者而言，无疑是培养孩子独立意识的两条腿，缺一不可。进入大学的孩子，大多在18岁附近，是时候该独立自主地生活了，那家长放开手，学校的独立教育，都是帮助孩子成长的“工具”，只是在我们这，这些“课堂”还足够匮乏，因而需要“日增月益”。(文/龙敏飞)

Family education and school education is the both，Is undoubtedly train the children of independent consciousness two legs，Be short of one cannot。The children into the university，Mostly in the near 18 years old，This is a great time to live independently，The parents let go，The independent school education，Help children to grow up“tools”，Just in our，these“class”Also lack enough，They need to have“On growing PE”。(Article/LongMinFei)

　　(来源:四川新闻网)

(Source: sichuan news network)