女大学生：妈，不给我买“苹果三件套”，就让我在大学丢脸去吧！ Female college students：mom，Don't give me buy“Apple three-piece suit”，Let me go in university disgrace！

　　近日，一则女大学生开学前执意要买“苹果三件套”，气哭母亲的报道被各大网站和微博频繁转载。报道称，暑期就快结束，各大高校将陆续迎来新生报到。不少大学生都在为即将开始的大学生活添置电子“装备”。北京中关村某电子卖场外，一位妈妈蹲在墙角，手捏纸巾，不时抽泣。销售人员道出缘由，女孩儿要去外地读大学，一定要买苹果手机、iPad3和苹果笔记本电脑这所谓的“苹果三件套”，还要高配，超过2万元的总价让妈妈吃不消。女孩大喊：“不给我买，就让我在大学丢脸去吧。”说完扔下母亲，扬长而去。

recently，Before the start of a female college students would want to buy“Apple three-piece suit”，Gas cry mother's report by the web site and micro bo frequent reproduced。Reports say，Summer is over，Universities will have welcomed the new report。Many college students are in for the upcoming university life acquire electronic“equipment”。Beijing zhongguancun a electronic sell over-the-counter，A mother crouching in the corner，Hand pinches tissue，Sobs from time to time。Sales staff tell the reason，A girl to go abroad to read university，Must want to buy apple mobile phone、IPad3 and apple laptop computers of the so-called“Apple three-piece suit”，Also with high，More than 20000 yuan price let mother be unable to stand。The girl Shouting：“Don't give me buy，Let me go in university disgrace。”Say that finish threw down the mother，And flicking。

　　报道刊出后，网络上议论纷纷。有媒体做了网友互动调查，结果显示网友持两大意见：第一，发生这样的事情，只能说明父母平时过分溺爱，盲目纵容孩子高消费，家长要承担责任。第二，已经考上大学了，自己喜欢的东西自己打工来购买。

Published reports after，The network comment in succession。Media do net friend interactive survey，Results show that net friend hold two opinions：The first，Things happen，It only means that parents spoiling their at ordinary times，Blind indulge their children high consumption，The parents want to assume responsibility。The second，Has been admitted to a college，The thing that oneself like they work to buy。

　　据了解，目前大学生电脑、手机等普及率已接近100%。复旦大学社会学系教授于海认为，一代人有一代人的“装备”，随着家庭经济条件的改善，“苹果”等电子产品已非某一社会阶层的特权，多数城市家庭尚能承受，因而成为“90后”们的普遍装备。孩子金榜题名，在踏上新的人生起点时，家长适度满足孩子的“装备”需求，只要量力而行，本无可厚非。

According to understand，At present college students' computer、Cell phone penetration already close to 100%。Fudan university professor of the department of social sea think，There is a generation of“equipment”，With the improvement of the family economic conditions，“apple”And other electronic products has not a certain social class privilege，Most urban family still can bear，Thus become“After 90”The common equipment。Children have passed the examination，Set off on a new starting point in life when，Parents moderate to meet the child's“equipment”demand，As long as does what one can，This understandable。

　　但也有教育专家提出，如果孩子超越家庭经济条件攀比“装备”，甚至因装备不齐而感觉“丢人”，则背离了家长“奖励”的本意。不少家长从小用高物质承诺来奖励和刺激孩子学习，这不仅养坏了孩子“胃口”、助长了虚荣心，而且容易导致孩子贪图享受、缺乏自食其力的责任感。“拼装备”带来的尴尬更值得家长反思考上大学，孩子又迈出了成长的新步伐，家长要从一味包办纵容转为理性引导，教育孩子合理消费、自主付出合理收获等，培养孩子正确的价值观。 (记者 许莺 李爱铭)

But there are also education experts，If the children beyond the family economic condition bandwagon“equipment”，Even for equipment irregularities and feel“a”，Is deviated from the parents“reward”intended。A lot of parents with high material from promise to reward and stimulate children learn，This is not only a bad child“appetite”、Encourages the vanity，And easy to cause the child to enjoy swimming、Lack of earn one's own living sense of responsibility。“Spell equipment”Bring awkward more worthy parents reflection pass the college entrance examination，The child took another new step growth，The parents should be from blindly arranged indulge into rational guidance，Education child reasonable consumption、Independent pay reasonable harvest, etc，Cultivate children to the correct values。 (Reporter XuYing LiAiMing)

　　(来源:解放日报)

(Sources: liberation daily)