晨报记者 林颖颖

The morning paper reporter LinYingYing

　　因为觉得上海学校“阴盛阳衰”，父母希望他避开“男孩危机”，未满15岁的上海男孩田英人3年前被“托运”到美国读高中。3年后，他用亲身经历，讲述“美国高中怎么读”，明天下午，《美国高中怎么读——我在圣玛丽男子高中的学习与生活》在上海书展首发，男孩田英人为读者签名售书。

Because think Shanghai school“Yin flourishes while Yang declines”，Parents hope he avoid“The boy crisis”，Under 15 years old Shanghai TianYing boy who was three years ago“checked”High school to the United States。Three years later，He experiences，tells“American high school how to read”，Tomorrow afternoon，《American high school how to read - I at st Mary man high school learning and life》In Shanghai book fair starting，The boy TianYing human readers a book。

　　昨天，晨报记者采访到这个18岁的阳光男孩，听他还原自己的美国高中生活。

yesterday，The morning paper reporter to interview the 18-year-old sunshine boy，Listen to his reducing their American high school life。

　　父母送他上美国男校 Parents send him to go to the United States went

　　黑框眼镜、宽大的白T恤、有涂鸦图案的牛仔裤，平板运动鞋、彬彬有礼的微笑和谈吐、清晰理性的思路……记者眼前的田英人，阳光帅气的穿着之下，有着超出他年龄的成熟和稳重。

Black frame glasses、Wide white T-shirt、Had graffiti pattern of the jeans，Flat shoes、Polite smile and talk、Clear rational thinking……Reporter TianYingRen sight，Sunshine handsome dress under，Beyond his age has a mature and stable。

　　三年前，未满15岁的他，刚刚结束了在上海一所初中的学习，独自飞往美国底特律。按相关法规，未满十五周岁不能独自乘机，只能办理“托运”。就这样，手上套着一个圆牌子，田英人由机场工作人员带领，像一件贵重物品一样，被“托运”到了美国密西根州的圣玛丽男子高中。

Three years ago，Under 15 years old，Just over in Shanghai a junior high school of learning，Detroit alone to the United States。According to the relevant regulations，Under 15 years old alone will not seize the opportunity，Can only deal with“checked”。so，Hands set of a circle brand，TianYingRen from the airport staff lead，Like a thing as valuables，was“checked”Went to the United States in the state of Michigan st Mary man high school。

　　为什么未满15岁就远赴美国留学？田英人告诉记者，当初自己并没有太多的想法，是从媒体上看到美国孩子的生活，喜欢上了那样的氛围。再加上父母的支持，从决定到出发，不到一个月。

Why under 15 years old is far go to study in the United States？TianYingRen told reporters，Had themselves and not too many ideas，From the media to see the child's life，Like that kind of atmosphere。Plus parents' support，From decided to start，Less than a month。

　　田英人的妈妈道出了作为家长的用心。田英人从小在上海就读，“从小学开始到中学，男生在学校里基本上处于弱势，因为女生坐得住，心又细，成绩总比男生好，也更受老师喜欢，连班干部也基本上是女生，男生很难有发挥的空间”，因此，田英人的父母为孩子选择了美国的男子学校，“希望到了那边，能让他培养一些男子汉气质”。三年后，田英人的成长也让妈妈实现了初衷。为田英人操办留学事宜的赵抗卫说，“他是个聪明、有潜力的孩子，但在现行的‘唯分数论’教育体制束缚下，男生往往很难发挥出来”。

TianYingRen mother recognizes as parents attentively。TianYingRen from studying in Shanghai，“From elementary school to the middle school，The boys at school basically weak，Because the girl sit live，Heart and fine，Results total good than boys，Also are more like the teacher，Even the class cadre also basically is a girl，The boy is very difficult to play space”，therefore，TianYingRen parents for the children choose the American man school，“Hope to there，Can let him develop some man temperament”。Three years later，TianYingRen growth also let mom realized the original intention。For TianYingRen make arrangements to study abroad matters zhao resistance to guard said，“He is a clever、Has the potential to children，But in the current‘Only fraction theory’Education system under bondage，Boys tend to be hard to play out”。

　　每年都有中国孩子被开除 Every year there are Chinese children be fired

　　回想三年来的美国中学生活，田英人感叹留学选学校，一定要避开两点，“没有中国学生”或“中国学生太多”。“没有中国学生，一开始过去就会没有朋友，会感到孤独；但是中国学生太多，又容易局限于中国圈子内，不利于与当地同学交流。”“在国内，总听人说，美国的学校很松，到了那里才真正发现事实并非如此。”田英人说，在圣玛丽男子中学，校长、老师和同学间的关系很随意融洽，但是，校规却很严格，纪律就是纪律，必须无条件遵守，否则只能自食苦果。在圣玛丽男子中学，甚至不吃早餐也要受罚。每年都有六七名中国学生因不能适应学校生活而遭到退学或被开除。其中有一名同学是因偷偷抽烟，违背了学校的规定而被开除。

Back to three years of American high school life，TianYingRen exclamation to study abroad to choose the school，Must avoid two points，“No Chinese students”or“Chinese students' too much”。“No Chinese students，A start in the past, they would have no friends，Will feel lonely；But the Chinese students' too much，And easy to limited in circles，Beneficial to local classmates。”“In the domestic，Always hear people say，The school is very loose，There really found that this is not so。”TianYingRen said，At st Mary man middle school，The principal、Teachers and students at the relationship between the very harmonious，but，The school rules is very strict，Discipline is discipline，Must be unconditional abide by，It can only be cutting your own throat。At st Mary man middle school，Don't even eat breakfast will be punished。Every year there are six or seven name for Chinese students can't adapt to the school life was drop out of school or be dismissed。One of the students is secretly for smoking，Against the rules of the school and fired。

　　赵抗卫告诉记者，在低龄化留学日趋普遍的今天，去美国读中学的孩子一般分为两种，一种是本身很有潜力，自觉性和自理能力也较好。还有一种是学习能力不好，本身没有目标，仅仅因为父母有钱，想逃避学习。后一种孩子，赵抗卫并不赞成他们低龄留学，“每年机构接手的低龄留学咨询中，有1/5的孩子不适合出国”。

Zhao wei resistance told reporters，In DiLingHua study abroad increasingly common today，Go to the United States to read secondary school children generally fall into two，One kind is itself has great potential，Consciousness and physical ability is better also。Still another kind is a learning ability is not good，Itself has no goal，Just because parents money，Want to escape learning。A child after，Zhao wei resistance is not agree with their young to study abroad，“Every year the institutions take over young study abroad advisory in，1/5 of the children is not suitable for going abroad”。