节假日经常与父母共度、亲自给父母做饭、每周给父母打个电话……13日，由全国妇联老龄工作协调办、全国老龄办、全国心系系列活动组委会共同发布新版“24孝”行动标准。

Holidays with my parents often spend、Personally to parents cook、To her parents once a week to make a phone call......13，By the national women's federation old-age work coordination to do、The elderly do、The national heart series the organizing committee jointly issued new edition“24 filial piety”Action standard。

　　新标准有传承有创新。今年6月，《老年人权益保障法》修订草案首次提交全国人大常委来审议，修订草案中新增一条“常回家看看”，引起社会巨大关注和争论。全国老龄办副主任，全国心系系列活动组委会副主任吴玉韶昨日表示，新“24孝”行动标准与旧“24孝”形成对比，就是想告诉大家，时代的脚步在不断向前迈进，“我们对‘孝’文化的理解，既要传承又要有创新”。

The new standards have inheritance have innovation。In June this year，《Protection of the rights and interests of the elders》The first draft submitted to the National People's Congress standing committee to review，The amendments to the new one“Often home to see”，Cause social great interest and argument。The deputy director of the aged to do，The national heart series of activities, deputy director of the organizing committee WuYuShao said yesterday，new“24 filial piety”Action with the old standard“24 filial piety”contrast，Just want to tell you，The step of time in constant forward，“we‘Filial piety’Cultural understanding，Both inheritance and innovation”。

　　自古以来，中国的父母就抱着一颗望子成龙、望女成凤的心培养自己的子女，可真当子女离家万里、有所作为的时候，自己却不能真正地快乐起来，他们更希望子女能够经常陪在自己身边。而对于那些远离故土的海外华人而言，他们又何尝不懂得“百善孝为先”？又何尝不愿常尽孝心？

Since the ancient times，Chinese parents will hold a used、At the heart of the female ChengFeng cultivate their children，It really when the children left home、They act，But he himself can't really happy，They are more hope that their children can often accompany in your side。And for people far away from the land for overseas Chinese，And they did not know“Hundred good filial first”？And how may often exert a filial piety？

　　然而，由于长年在外打拼，多数华人的事业和家庭都在国外。他们既没法抛下一切回国定居，又没有足够的时间和精力“常回家看看”。于是，有不少海外华人都选择将父母接到自己身边居住，可没过多久问题就出来了。老人居住在国外，语言不通，生活习惯也难以适应。更为关键的是，除了子女，他们几乎没有一个熟识的人，生活得格外苦闷。

however，Due to the outstanding play of the elder spell，Most Chinese career and family are abroad。When they can't leave everything to return to China for permanent residence，And don't have enough time and energy“Often home to see”。so，There are many overseas Chinese parents will choose to live beside him，But it wasn't long before problem came out。The old man living in a foreign country，Don't know the language，Habits are difficult to adapt to。More key is，In addition to their children，They had almost no one acquaintance，Life to be extremely depressed。

中国人均预期寿命超74岁 男女寿命差扩大 China's per capita life expectancy over 74 years old men and women life difference to expand

　　国家统计局日前消息，根据第六次全国人口普查详细汇总资料计算，2010年中国人口平均预期寿命达到74.83岁，比10年前提高了3.43岁。数据显示，2010年中国男性人口平均预期寿命为72.38岁，比2000年提高2.75岁；女性为77.37岁，提高4.04岁。男女平均预期寿命之差与十年前相比，由3.70岁扩大到4.99岁。

The national bureau of statistics has news，According to the sixth national population census detailed summary data calculation，In 2010, the Chinese population's average life expectancy reached 74.83 years，More than 10 years ago is improved by 3.43 years old。Data display，In 2010, the Chinese male population's average life expectancy is 72.38 years old，Higher than that of 2000, 2.75 years；The female is 77.37 years，Improve 4.04 years。The average life expectancy of men and women the difference compared with ten years ago，By 3.70 years to expand to 4.99 years old。

"空巢现象"需全社会关注 谁忍心让父母老无所依 "Empty nest phenomenon"The whole society should pay attention to parents who have the heart to let no country for old men

　　其实，老人独自在家中去世的事情以前也发生过，无论是大连那位68岁摁马桶2个月摁掉了98吨自来水的老太，还是一直在车上坐不下车只为打发时间看风景的青岛退休老人李树安，在这些看似“匪夷所思”的行为背后，无不反映出他们内心的极度孤寂和落寞。早在1980年，世纪老人冰心就在她的名作《空巢》中将“空巢老人”的晚景寂寞描绘得栩栩如生，如今，中国的空巢现象及其带来的一系列社会问题已是日益凸显。其实，老人独自在家中去世的事情以前也发生过，无论是大连那位68岁摁马桶2个月摁掉了98吨自来水的老太，还是一直在车上坐不下车只为打发时间看风景的青岛退休老人李树安，在这些看似“匪夷所思”的行为背后，无不反映出他们内心的极度孤寂和落寞。早在1980年，世纪老人冰心就在她的名作《空巢》中将“空巢老人”的晚景寂寞描绘得栩栩如生，如今，中国的空巢现象及其带来的一系列社会问题已是日益凸显。

In fact，The old man was alone in his home before things happened，Whether dalian the 68 - year - old press the toilet 2 months press the fall 98 tons of water woman，Or has been in the car sit don't get off the only sent time to look at the scenery of Qingdao LiShuAn retired old man，In these seemingly“fantastic”Behind the behavior of the，They reflect their inner extremely lonely and lonely。As early as in 1980，Century old man bing xin in her works《Empty nest》will“Empty nester”The lonely evening scene depicting the life，now，China's empty nest phenomena and bring a series of social problems is increasingly prominent。In fact，The old man was alone in his home before things happened，Whether dalian the 68 - year - old press the toilet 2 months press the fall 98 tons of water woman，Or has been in the car sit don't get off the only sent time to look at the scenery of Qingdao LiShuAn retired old man，In these seemingly“fantastic”Behind the behavior of the，They reflect their inner extremely lonely and lonely。As early as in 1980，Century old man bing xin in her works《Empty nest》will“Empty nester”The lonely evening scene depicting the life，now，China's empty nest phenomena and bring a series of social problems is increasingly prominent。

　　父亲节前夕，网上热传着一个温暖的故事：由于父亲突发重病成为植物人，暨南大学研究生王涛与弟弟王波相继休学辞工，日夜守候在病床前护理、呼唤父亲。拿自己“做试验”自学扎针、输液，每天呼唤父亲不下百遍，每半小时为父亲拍一次背、每两小时翻一次身……网上热传的视频和图片中，两个小伙子对父亲细心专业的护理感动了很多网友。不少网友感叹，“久病床前有孝子”，两兄弟对父亲不离不弃的守护，是这个父亲节最动人的礼物。详细

Father's day eve，Online heat transfer with a warm story：Since my father was a serious illness become a vegetable，Jinan university graduate student wang tao and brother WangBo successive suspension quit，Day and night waiting on the bed before nursing、Call father。Took his“Do experiment”Self-study needle、infusion，Call father every day for times，Every half an hour for father take a back、Every two hours over a body...Online heat transfer of the video and picture，Two boys to father attentive professional care moved a lot of net friend。Not a few net friend exclamation，“Long before the bed has a son”，The two brothers to father buchibuqi guardian，This father's day is one of the most beautiful gift。detailed

武大博士生用爱唤醒植物人母亲 孝心创造生命奇迹 Wu3 da4 doctoral student in love wake up vegetable mother filial piety to create life miracle

　　“哪怕有0.1%的希望，我也要付出200%的努力，相信奇迹会发生的！”让“植物人”母亲重新苏醒过来，并不是一件容易的事情，但黄碧海日夜守护，从未放弃。由于母亲不能进食，只能靠打营养针维持，黄碧海担心她营养不够，每天用注射器通过胃管让母亲“喝”上鸡蛋和牛奶；每隔2个小时，他都要帮母亲翻一次身，防止长期卧床患上褥疮。

“Even if there is a 0.1% chance，I also have to pay 200% of the efforts，Believe in miracles happen！”let“vegetable”Mother to come back to life，And is not an easy thing，But yellow big watch day and night，Never give up。Because the mother can't eat，Only by playing nutrition needle to maintain，Yellow the big worry her enough nutrition，Every day with syringe through the stomach tube let mother“drink”The eggs and milk；Every two hours，He has to help mother turn a body，Prevent long-term bed have bedsore。

　　2日发生在台南奇美医院的“孝子抱母”就诊的情深画面，令许多网友、读者动容，故事的主角是台南市调查站退休专员丁祖伋。“看到丁副座抱妈妈上医院，一点都不意外！”台南市调查站人员看到“孝子抱母”照片，一眼就认出是老长官丁祖伋，“调查局上上下下都知道他是孝子”，为了尽孝，“不但放弃升官，甚至甘愿降调”。

2, occurred in tainan odd beauty of the hospital“Filial son embrace mother”See a doctor's deep picture，Make many netizens、Readers deeply，The main character in the story is tainan city DiaoZhaZhan retirement specialist DingZu Ji。“See butyl vice seat embrace mother to the hospital，It's no surprise！”Tainan city DiaoZhaZhan personnel to see“Filial son embrace mother”photos，Recognized is old sir DingZu Ji，“Fbi uphill and downhill all know that he is a dutiful son”，Hoping to，“Not only give up promotion，Even willing to falling tone”。

　　更为忧虑的是我们的下一代独生子女们。现在逢年过节，对已经有了自己小家庭的许多80后而言，不仅要探望自己的父母、爷爷奶奶、外公外婆，还要探望对方的这些亲人，休假几天，仅仅是探望长辈就已令他们身心疲惫，更别说将来的赡养、照顾了。而对那些出门在外的中年夫妇包括青年夫妇来说，大年三十与谁家的老人一起过，则是一道令人头疼的现实难题，为此夫妻闹矛盾、起争执的不在少数。我的一位同事的解决办法是：年三十在北京陪岳父岳母过，初一飞回老家陪自己的父母。折腾是折腾了点儿，好在能两全其美，而那些双方父母都不在身边且二者相隔甚远的夫妻，始终都在纠结中。无法陪伴、照顾渐渐老去的父母，更成为许多人心中的痛。

More worried is our next generation only their children。Now when festivals，To have many of his family in 80，Not only to visit his parents、Grandpa's grandmother、Grandpa and grandma，To visit each other's these relatives，Take a few days off，Just see the elder had to their exhaustion of body and mind，Let alone the support in the future、Took care。And for those who go out in the outside of middle-aged couples, including young couples，30 and whose old man together，It is a headache reality problem，This husband and wife make antinomy、The argument is not a few。One of my colleagues solution is to：Thirty in Beijing with his father-in-law had his mother-in-law，First fly back to accompany their parents。Flounder is about some，Fortunately can kill two birds with one stone，And those who both parents are not around and both husband and wife are very far apart，Always in the realm of。Can't accompany、Take care of growing old parents，Many people become more the pain。

《老年人保障法》将修订 可操作性不等同于可诉性 《Protection of the elderly》Will be revised operability does not equate to justiciability

===破解之道=== = = = = = = the way of crack社会养老缓解养老压力 Social endowment ease endowment pressure

“常回家看看” 社会各方均需伸出援手 “Often home to see” Social parties all needs to lend a hand

　　网友“陌上尘”：我们都不得不为了生计蜗居在外。我们拿什么常回家看看？

Net friend“BaiShang dust”：We have to humble abode for bread out。We take what go home often？

　　网友“得天独厚”：不知道天下有多少父母会因为自己的孩子看自己的时间少了去法院起诉，专家呀，你们知道不知道现在打官司要花多少钱？花多少时间？

Net friend“advantageous”：Don't know how much the parents for their children to see their own less time to go to court，Experts ah，You know not to know now engage in a lawsuit to spend how many money？How much time？

　　网友“西雅水滴”：后悔嫁的远了！我家没车，从车转车回一次娘家得5个小时，再带这4岁的孩子，孩子也受不了呀！一边是孩子，一边是爸妈！我心疼呀！

Net friend“Maaseiah water droplets”：Penitence married away！My family don't have a car，Change the car back to a maiden five hours，To take this 4 years old children，The child can't stand ah！Side was a child，Side is parents！I love dearly ah！

孝敬父母，关键需要用心用情 Obeying your parents，The key, use your heart with love

　　仔细研读新“24孝”行动标准，内容广泛，与时俱进，操作性强。但是，有一个问题萦绕心头，那就是：实施新“24孝”行动标准，应该首先尊重父母意见。既然出台了新标准，就应该将新标准落到实处，否则新标准就是一纸空文、纸上谈兵。而如何落实标准，笔者认为，首先要尊重父母意见。

Carefully read the new“24 filial piety”Action standard，Content is extensive，Keep pace with The Times，feasible。but，Have a question haunted heart，That is：Implementing new“24 filial piety”Action standard，Should first respect parents opinion。Since introduced the new standard，You should put a new standard into effect，Otherwise the new standard is on old parchment、Be an armchair strategist。And how to implement the standards，The author thinks that，We must first respect parents opinion。

　　孝敬父母，关键需要用心用情。只要有真心、用真情，其实有无标准并不重要。父母快乐、健康和幸福是子女最大的心愿，我们孝敬父母，为父母做一切事情，应该掌握好这个“标准”和这个度，这或许才是最重要的。

Obeying your parents，The key, use your heart with love。As long as there is really、With the truth，In fact have standard is not important。His parents happy、Health and happiness are the biggest wish their children，We honor your father and your mother，For the parents to do everything，Should master this“standard”And the degree，Perhaps this is the most important。