近日，武汉某教育论坛的一则帖子引发网友广泛关注：一家长让8岁的女儿独自往返废品回收站5次，耗时一个小时，挣了 16.70元，孩子累了一身汗，吃了两碗米饭。事情的起因竟是女儿误点了手机收费项目，被多收了15元。

recently，Wuhan one education BBS posts a net friend caused extensive concern：A parents let 8 year old daughter alone return waste recycle bin 5 times，Take an hour，Earned 16.70 yuan，The children are tired a sweat，Eat two bowls of rice。It was the cause of the daughter was late mobile phone charging projects，Be overcharged $15。

网帖：家长罚孩子卖废品还钱 Network for：Parents punish children sold waste also money

　　13日，网友“叶舞清风”发表了帖子《娃娃受训记做事不仔细的代价》，“叶舞清风”称，上周日，她把8岁的女儿教育了一番。她说，之前多次跟孩子讲过，不要乱点手机点播项目，结果孩子没做到，因此被多收了15元，于是在她的要求下，孩子不得不为自己的错误行为“买单”。一番讨价还价后，双方达成一致：孩子把放在阳台上的报纸杂志等废品拿到收购站卖到15元，再弹半个小时的琴，之后做10页作业。

13，Net friend“Leaves dance the wind”Published post《Doll trained remember doing things without the cost of carefully》，“Leaves dance the wind”says，Last Sunday，She put her 8-year-old daughter had a education。She said，Many times before with the child said，Don't mess point mobile phone on demand project，Results children don't do it，Therefore be overcharged $15，So in her request，Children have to for his mistake behavior“pay”。After a bargain，Both sides agreed：The child put in the balcony on the newspapers and magazines, etc scrap to the purchasing station sell to 15 yuan，To play the piano for half an hour，Homework do after 10 pages。

　　去废品回收站要经过一个十字路口，因为车辆很多，“叶舞清风”一直看着女儿过马路。天气闷热，往返5趟后，女儿早已满头大汗，但废品却卖了16.70元。

To waste recycle bin to pass a crossroads，Because the traffic is heavy，“Leaves dance the wind”Have been looking at her across the road。The humid weather，Round 5 after the trip，Daughter had full head big sweat，But waste product is sold 16.70 yuan。

　　昨日，记者联系上该家长，现实中的“叶舞清风”姓陈，家住汉口。陈女士说自己很重视孩子的教育，对于奖惩一直很分明，“我一般会建立规则，第一次、第二次孩子犯错，只是口头提醒她要注意，如果第三次还犯的话，就按事先约定的方法处理。”陈女士说，在惩罚孩子之前一定会事先告知哪些事不能做，不然会受到怎样的惩罚等等，这样孩子才会心服口服。对于罚孩子卖废品还钱一事，陈女士表示本来只是打算让孩子弹1小时琴外加做一本作业，因为意识到弹琴和做作业不能以“惩罚的内容”让孩子完成，所以决定让孩子卖废品还钱，希望以此让孩子明白：做事不仔细，造成的后果要自己承担。

yesterday，Contact reporters on the parents，The reality of“Leaves dance the wind”Family name is Chen，Live in hankou。Ms. Chen said he attaches great importance to the child's education，For rewards and punishment has been very clear，“I usually will establish rules，The first、The second children to make mistakes，Just oral remind her to pay attention to，If the third also make words，According to the predetermined method processing。”Ms. Chen said，In the punishment before children must be told in advance what matter can't do，Or you will get what kind of punishment and so on，So that the child will be sincerely convinced。To punish children sold waste is the money，Ms. Chen said was just going to let the child play harp plus 1 hour to do the homework，Because consciousness to play and do my homework not to“Punishment content”Let the child to complete，So I decided to let the child selling waste materials also money，Hope is to let the child understand：Do not carefully，The consequences of want to bear。

调查：如何教育孩子成普遍难题 survey：How to education child as a universal problem

　　此帖子一出，立刻引发网友热议，有拍砖的网友“远远妈”说，用这种方式来惩罚孩子，恐怕会造成不好的影响，孩子做错了事，要区分对待；也有称赞的网友“清淡如荷”说，这种教育方法实在是高，估计孩子会牢记这次经历的！但更多的网友则质疑这种方式究竟效果几何。记者在采访中发现，不少家长也有着同样的困惑：孩子做错了事，究竟该如何教育？

This post a，Immediately trigger netizen hot debate，Have net friend of clap brick“Far mom”said，In this way to punish the child，I'm afraid I can cause bad influence，Children do wrong，To distinguish between treatment；Also has the net friend of praise“Light such as load”said，This education method is really high，Estimates that children will remember the experience！But more netizens question this way is what effect geometry。Reporter in the interview found，Many parents also have the same confusion：Children do wrong，How education？

　　家住武汉工程大学的徐女士说：“小孩在鲁巷小学上二年级，不喜欢做作业，有时为了激励他，准许他做完作业后看电视，但是他宁愿不看电视也不做，真拿他没办法。”家住新洲车站路的万女士，女儿即将升入高三了，为了掌握女儿的学习状态，她甚至瞒着丈夫给女儿配了一部手机，趁着晚上的时间母女俩交流沟通，“女儿有点小性格，初中时因为换了一个不是很喜欢的老师，还曾跟老师对着干。”谈及此事，万女士一脸无奈。采访中记者发现，更多的家长则是以激励代替惩罚，考好了奖励几百块钱或者出去旅游成为常见的方式。

Live in wuhan engineering university ms xu said：“Children in lu lane primary school on the second grade，Don't like to do my homework，Sometimes in order to encourage him，After he had finished doing his homework to watch TV，But he would rather watch TV also don't do，True take he can't。”Live in new Station Road of women，Daughter is to the senior year，In order to master her daughter's learning state，She even from her husband for his daughter with a mobile phone，Under the cover of night time mother and daughter both communication，“Daughter is a little small character，Junior high school because in a not very like teacher，With the teacher had rebel。”About this，All ladies a face of helpless。Interview reporter discovery，More parents is incentive instead of punishment，Take an examination of well reward hundreds of money or go out to travel a common way。

专家：挫折教育可取，但要注意分寸 experts：Setback education to，But should pay attention to discretion

　　中南财经政法大学社会发展研究中心乔新生教授认为，以前中国的教育是“含在嘴里怕化了，捧在手里怕丢了”，一直以来都是重知识，轻道德，因此现在急需上好“挫折教育”这一课，他认为陈女士的做法很好地实践了“挫折教育”的理念，通过让孩子卖废品偿还点击手机收费项目的费用，这样既可以让孩子学会自立，又能培养孩子的责任意识。但他同时强调，“挫折教育”一定要拿捏好分寸，选择适当的方式，在教育中尤其要注意安全。(楚天都市报 见习记者余书元)

Central south finance and economics politics and law university social development research center QiaoXinSheng professor thinks，Before China's education is“Plumper fear changed，I held in my hand was afraid for”，Have been heavy knowledge，Light moral，So are in urgent need of it“Setback education”This lesson，He thinks that ms. Chen practice good practice“Setback education”concept，Through the let children sold waste products to repay the click mobile phone charge the cost of the project，This can let the children learn to be independent，And to cultivate children's sense of responsibility。But he also stressed，“Setback education”Must hold good discretion，The choice of appropriate way，In the education of especially pay attention to safety。(Chutian metropolis daily trainee reporter book yuan more)