一个上了小学的孩子好的习惯应该是这样的：

A primary school children good habits should be such：

　　早上能按时起床（而在幼儿园，对孩子上学的时间要求没有那么严格）；

The morning to get up on time（But in the kindergarten，For their children to school time requirements are not so strict）；

　　懂得与人交流的基本礼貌，如老师讲话时不能插话，和其他同学交往不要吵架打架等；

Know how to communicate with the person basic manners，If the teacher talk can't get a word in，And the other students communication don't quarrel fight, etc；

　　拿到课表后，让孩子学会根据第二天的课程，自己收拾书包；

Get after the schedule，Let children learn to the second day of class，Up his bag；

　　下午放学回家后，能养成有30分钟至40分钟的学习的习惯，如果学校没有作业，就复习一下当天的学习内容等。

Go home after school in the afternoon，Can form have 30 minutes to 40 minutes of the habit of learning，If schools did not work，Is the daily lessons learning content and so on。

　　“孩子上小学一年级了，很多家长认为可以稍放心了，其实恰恰相反，家长的责任更大了。”南宁市教育局关心下一代工作委员会副主任杨春成对记者说道。8月27日，南宁市中小学开学了，刚从幼儿园升上小学的新生们，开始了新的学习生活。他们易出现哪些问题？家长如何帮助孩子更快地适应小学生活？针对小学新生的问题，近两日杨春成在南宁市部分学校进行了专题讲座。他想特别提醒新生家长，应在6方面注意孩子的教育问题。

“The elementary school children a grade，Many parents think that can be a little relieved，In fact the opposite，The responsibility of parents more big。”Nanning city education bureau concerned about the next generation of working committee, deputy director of the D.A. klosterman paired reporter said。August 27,，Nanning city elementary and middle schools reopened，Just arrived from kindergarten up on primary school freshmen，Started a new study life。They appear easily what problem？Parents how to help children quickly adapt to the primary school life？According to the problem of the new primary school，Nearly two days YangChunCheng in nanning part of the school on the seminar。He wants to special remind new parents，In six aspects should be pay attention to children's education problem。

不能有松口气的想法 There can be no break ideas

　　杨春成表示，对小学新生的家长来说，首先一定不能有松一口气的想法。很多家长工作特别忙，觉得在孩子6岁前，带孩子很辛苦；孩子上了小学，可以把孩子交给学校，松口气了。事实上，很多抱着这样想法的家长都吃了亏，等发现孩子出现问题时，一两年时间已经过去了，错过了培养孩子好习惯的最佳时机。

YangChunCheng said，The elementary school freshman for parents，First of all must not have the idea of breathe a sigh of relief。Many parents particularly busy work，Think in children before the age of 6，The children very hard；Children in primary school，Can put the children to school，Break the。In fact，Many embrace this idea parents suffered，And discover the child problems，One or two years time has passed，Missed the child the best time to good habits。

　　具体来说，比如老师要求一年级新生家长晚上要监督和检查孩子的学习情况，需要在孩子的作业本上签字。有的家长就不理解，认为老师太懒，作业还要家长检查，似乎家长每天都要做作业一样，因而不愿配合老师的工作。等到孩子三四年级时，家长才发现，孩子写作业很慢，半小时能做完的事要磨蹭两三个小时。

specifically，Such as the teacher asked for a freshman to parents night to supervise and check the child's learning situation，In the child's need to sign the exercise books。Some parents just don't understand，Think the teacher too lazy，Homework will parents check，Every day seems to parents to do the same work，So don't want to cooperate with the teacher's work。When the child three or four grade，Parents found that，Children homework slowly，Half an hour to finish to linger two or three hours。

做好分内的家庭教育工作 Do their fair share of the family education work

　　杨春成提醒小学新生家长，一定要做好分内的家庭教育工作，最重要的就是让孩子养成良好的习惯。老师主要是培养学生在学校期间的好习惯，比如学生在课堂上如何专心听讲，以及文明礼貌等等。而家长则要肩负起培养孩子在家期间好习惯的责任，比如孩子需要用铅笔学习写汉字了，握笔姿势对不对？怎样让孩子把字写得又快又好等等，这些都是家庭教育工作的内容。

YangChunCheng remind elementary school new parents，Must do their fair share of the family education work，The most important thing is to have children to develop good habits。The teacher mainly is to cultivate students in school during the period of good habit，Such as students in the classroom to concentrate on listening，And civility and so on。And parents have to shoulder a child at home during the responsibility of good habits，Such as children need to learn to write Chinese characters the pencil，Holding the pen position right？How to let the child to write quickly and good and so on，These are the contents of the family education work。

上小学后要有更高要求 After the primary school to have higher requirements

　　孩子上小学后，家长应对孩子有高于在幼儿园时的要求。杨春成认为，家长不要再延续孩子上小学前那种松垮的学习方式。小学6年很重要，而第一年是开头年，开好这个头，更利于孩子后面的发展。

Children after school，Parents should have higher than children in kindergarten requirements。YangChunCheng think，Parents don't continue the elementary school children before that kind of loose learning ways。Six years of primary school is very important，And the first year is the beginning years，Open this head，The development of more benefit at the child behind。

自觉配合学校做到3个“一致” Consciously with the school do 3“consistent”

　　杨春成表示，小学新生家长应自觉配合学校，与学校形成合力，这体现在3个方面和学校教育一致：一方面是教育态度上一致。比如学校要求孩子回来默写10个汉字，有的家长就认为，写那么多字干嘛？少写一点也没关系，于是家长就不按学校老师的要求来教育孩子。这使得孩子将来容易在学习要求上钻空子。第二方面是育人环境一致。在学校里，老师对学生是循循善诱的，在利于孩子的成长条件上，家长也要向学校看齐。为什么有的孩子在学校表现不错，回家就任性撒娇了？这就是育人环境不一样造成的。第三个方面是教育威信上一致。老师不在学生面前说家长的不是，家长也不应在孩子面前批评老师。

YangChunCheng said，Primary school freshman parents should consciously with the school，And the school to form the joint effort，This is embodied in three aspects and school education consistent：On the one hand is education attitude consistent。Such as schools require children write back 10 characters，Some parents will think，Why write so many words？Write less a bit, it doesn't matter，So parents is not according to the requirements of the school teacher education to children。This makes the child future easy in learning requirements exploit an advantage。The second aspect is the consistent educational environment。In school，The teacher to the student is of be good at teaching，In the benefit at the child grow condition，Parents also want to emulate the school。Why do some children do well in school，The home is capricious coquetry？This is caused by the different educational environment。The third aspect is the education authority unanimously。The teacher is not in front of the student say parents is not，Parents should not in front of the child criticized the teacher。

“陪”学要有方法 “accompany”Learn to have the method

　　孩子上小学后，家长晚上会有相当长一段时间要陪孩子学习，杨春成想提醒家长的是，“陪”是为了将来不陪，现在陪，是为了让孩子渐渐养成独立学习、主动做作业的习惯。有的家长陪孩子学习，就坐在旁边盯着，这样往往令孩子难以养成独立学习的习惯。家长一走，可能孩子就跑出房间，一会找吃的，一会去厕所，其中原因就是孩子依赖性太强。

Children after school，Parents night will be a long time to accompany children learn，ChengXiang D.A. klosterman and warn the parent is，“accompany”For future not to accompany，Now with，In order to let the children gradually develop independent study、The habit of active doing his homework。Some parents with children learn，Sit beside staring at，So often makes the child is difficult to form the habit of independent learning。Parents a walk，Maybe the children ran out of the room，For a while to find food，For a moment to the toilet，The reason is that the child dependence is too strong。

　　而有的家长，虽然也陪孩子学习，但他们会适当保持一段距离，让孩子有一定的独立空间。或者隔一段时间，去看看孩子学习是否主动，陪孩子应有一个度，让孩子有依靠，但不是依赖。

And some parents，Although also accompany children learn，But they will maintain a paragraph of distance appropriate，Let children have certain independent space。Or lie between period of time，To see whether children learning initiative，Accompany children should have a degree，Let children have depend on，But not rely on。

需注意3方面的培养 Attention should be paid to the cultivation of the three aspects

　　家长都希望孩子有好的学习成绩，杨春成认为，这就需要家长全面地培养孩子，怎样叫全面培养呢？具体说就是三方面的培养：孩子的学习动力、学习习惯和学习能力。

Parents hope that children have good learning results，YangChunCheng think，This needs parents comprehensive training children，How to call comprehensive training？To be specific, the cultivation of three aspects：The child's learning power、Learning habits and learning ability。

　　杨春成称，很多因素都可能成为孩子的学习动力，比如兴趣、对父母的情感等，家长要懂得发现自己孩子身上哪些因素会成为其学习的动力。而对于学习能力的培养，举个很简单的例子，有的孩子写字慢，家长就总是批评孩子“人家写字那么快，你怎么那么慢?”天天批评，又不懂得如何帮助孩子改正，孩子怎么能爱学习？杨春成以自身为例，当年女儿学写字时，他也发现女儿写字速度慢。女儿是个做事很认真的人，老师要求学生写字要横平竖直。他的女儿就要求自己写得很平很直，因此写得慢。如果批评女儿，可能会把女儿的优点抹杀掉，他就想到了教女儿一些小技巧，如写“王”字，就想像写3横平行线，这样写字就快多了。（记者 关海芳）

YangChunCheng says，Many factors can be the child's learning power，Such as interest、To parents' feelings，The parents want to know how to find their children what are the factors that would become the study power。And for the cultivation of learning ability，For a simple example，Some children write slowly，Parents are always the criticism children“People write so fast，How do you so slow?”Everyday criticism，And don't know how to help children correction，How can children love learning？YangChunCheng to their own as an example，The daughter learning to write，He also found his daughter to write speed slow。Daughter is a work seriously，The teacher asked the students to write to cross flat vertical。His daughter was request oneself write very flat is very straight，So write slowly。If criticism daughter，May the advantages of the daughter ruin，He thought of the daughter taught a few tips，Such as writing“The king”word，Imagine writing three transverse parallel lines，This writing is much faster。（Reporter GuanHaiFang）