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中学生同居调查:女初中生包养男生--亲稳网络舆情监测室(3)
2012-09-03

学生租房无需证件 Students renting a house without certificate

  傍晚,记者来到市卫校对面的赤坎区文章村,这里出租屋众多,不时看到身穿校服手牵手的中学生男女来来往往。

In the evening,The reporter comes to city set the red bar area this article village,Here let many,Wearing a school uniform from time to time to see hand in hand of middle-school students men and women come and go.

  记者佯装要租房,走入一栋7层高的出租屋。“五楼有房,我带你去看看吧。”年约60岁的男屋主爽快地说。“这里有学生男女租住吗?”记者一边上楼一边询问,男屋主指着经过的302号房说,“这就是一对中学生男女长期租住的。”

Reporter pretend to rent a house,Walk into a building of 7 layers at the neighborhood or township."The fifth floor has the room,I take you to see."About 60 years old male house advocate racily said."There are students men and women to rent?"Reporter side upstairs side asked,Male homeowners by passing room 302 said,"This is a pair of middle school students men and women of the lease."

  到5楼后,男屋主打开501号房,记者一看,房间面积不过10平方左右,有厨房与独立卫生间,墙角放着一张空床,总体较为干净。“多少钱一个月?不包棉被、枕头这些吗?”记者指着空床问。“租金每月300元,预先要交200元押金。床上用品当然自己备啊!”

To 5 of,Male house advocate open room 501,Reporters at,Room area but about 10 square,A kitchen and independent toilet,The corner stood a empty bed,Overall relatively clean."How much money a month?Don't pack quilt/Pillow these??"Reporters asked by empty bed."Rent 300 yuan a month,Prior to hand over 200 yuan deposit.Bedding of course for yourself!!"

  “若我跟男朋友租住这里,但不经常用,有时一些要好的学生男女可能会过来轮着住,没问题吧?”听后,男屋主会心一笑,“有的学生男女也这样做啦,其实谁住也没问题,只要不吵,没影响到其他住户,还有注意卫生就行了……”

"If I with boyfriend to rent here,But do not often use,Sometimes some good men and women students may come wheel lives,ok?"After listening to,Male house advocate a hearty laugh,"Some students men and women do it,Actually who lives also no problem,As long as don't noisy,Did not affect to other household,And pay attention to health will do……"

  “那需要什么手续吗?要检查身份证吗?”记者反问。男屋主瞟了记者几眼,显得些许不耐烦,“用不着什么身份证,预先交好200元押金,以后按时交租就好了!”“不怕被民警查吗?”话音刚落,他理所当然地回答道,“这是我自己的屋,怕什么?!”

"That what procedure to need?To check your id card?"Reporter ask.Male homeowners have the reporter a few eye,Appear a little impatient,"What don't have id card,Advance deposit being 200 yuan,After the rent on time!""Fear of being police check?"Voice just fell,He rightly replied,"This is my own house,Afraid of what?!"

  记者假装改天跟男朋友一起过来,再决定是否租住。下楼时,记者故意独自停留在302号房门前,隐约听到一对年轻男女的声音。

Reporter pretend to another with boyfriend with them,Before deciding whether to rent.Downstairs when,Reporter deliberately alone stay in room 302 door,Ambiguously hear a pair of young men and women voice.

  离开该出租屋不久,记者看到一对穿着校服的中学生男女从前面一条小巷走出,男生紧搂着女生,两人不时低头细语,随后搭乘摩托车匆匆离开。

Leave this let soon,The reporter sees a pair of men and women in uniform middle school students from the front a lane out of,The boy clasped the girl,Two people whisper down from time to time,Then take motorcycle vamoose.

  第二天下午,记者在市艺校对面的赤坎区陈屋港村了解情况,发现这里的情形与文章村差不多。

The next day afternoon,Reporters in the city YiJiao opposite of red bar area Chen house port village know the situation,Find the situation here and articles village almost.

  

偷吃禁果影响身心健康 Forbidden fruit affect your emotional and physical health

  小吴是某中学高三学生,从初中开始,她身边便有不少朋友谈恋爱,其中部分人更在早恋过程中偷吃了禁果。

Xiao wu is a middle school high school students,Start from junior middle school,Her side will have many friends fall in love,Some of the more in the process of early love to eat the forbidden fruit.

  “起码有四成身边谈过恋爱的朋友都有性经历……”小吴说,有一次,班上一个女同学竟向大家公然炫耀自己的性经历,说得有声有色,在场的几个女同学则饶有趣味地倾听。

"There are at least forty percent side about love friends all sexual experience……"Small wu said,once,Class a female classmate unexpectedly to everyone openly show their sexual experience,Say sound and color,The presence of a few female classmate is interesting to listen to.

  “本来是一件很私密的事,怎么变成了公开的分享?‘做’了还觉得很有面子?”小吴对此实在难以理解,因为在她看来,“禁果”容不得轻易尝试。她记得上初中时,班上有一位女同学早恋,后来怀孕了,最后纸包不住火,学校与家长都知道。最终女孩觉得面子过不去,自动退学。“好好的前程,就这样毁了……”小吴说,不少早恋的学生男女终日无心上学,有的成绩还因此一落千丈。

"It is a very private matter,How to become a public share?‘do’Still feel very have face?"Xiao wu it really difficult to understand,Because in her eyes,"Forbidden fruit"Let not easily try.She remember top junior high school,The class have a female classmate puppy love,Later pregnant,The last paper cannot wrap fire,The school and parents know.Finally the girl feel face a hard time,Automatic drop out of school."Good future,So destroyed……"Small wu said,Many men and women love the students go to school all day long unintentionally,Some results are therefore suffer a disastrous decline.

  “中学生正是集中精力,加强学习时期,早恋会分散他们的精力,影响学习。”湛江一中心理辅导老师陈恒表示,偷吃禁果尤其影响女生的身体健康。据相关调查显示,女生在子宫发育尚未完全时过早地发生性行为,患上妇科疾病的几率相对较高。而且女生流产势必带来身体伤害,若多次流产,严重的话甚至会丧失生育能力。

"Middle school students is the focus,Strengthen learning period,Early love will spread their energy,Affect learning."Zhanjiang a psychological counseling teachers ChenHeng said,Forbidden fruit is especially to affect girl student physical health.According to a survey,The girl in the womb has not yet been fully development when prematurely sexual behavior,Suffer from gynecological disease in the process is relative taller.And the girl abortion will inevitably bring about the physical damage,If abortions,Serious word even lose the ability of giving birth.

  

“好奇害死猫” 趋生性早熟 "Curiosity kills the cat" Hasten by nature early

  连日来,记者调查发现,部分学生男女同居已见惯不怪。一名对外出租十几年的屋主陈生坦言,近几年,越来越多的学生男女成为租房的“常客”,尤其入住的中学生男女数量明显增加。他们看上去稚气未脱,身穿整齐的校服,却手牵手要求开房,表情自然,没有露出半点害羞……

For the last few days,Reporter survey found,Part of students men and women had been living together practice don't blame.A foreign rent more than 10 years of house advocate ChenSheng said,In recent years,More and more students women and men become the rent"regular",Especially in high school students significantly increased the number of men and women.They look neotenous,Wearing a tidy uniform,But for check in hand in hand,Expression natural,Did not reveal the shy……

  早恋现象普遍存在,伴随而至,中学生在恋爱过程中偷尝禁果也不再新鲜。在“性”面前,为何当今中学生表现得如此“早熟”?

Early love phenomenon exists generally,With it to,In the process of middle school students in love to steal taste forbidden fruit will no longer fresh.in"sex"before,Why today's high school students behaved so"early"?

  陈恒介绍,社会传播媒体是中学生性早熟的重要催化剂。在信息化时代,网络信息鱼龙混杂,中学生很容易被浸染。而电视节目也常出现男女亲昵镜头,在充斥着大量黄色信息的传播环境中,对中学生身心发生潜移默化的影响。

ChenHeng introduced,Social media is a high school by nature precocious important catalyst.In the information era,Network information good and evil people mixed up,Middle school students can easily be disseminated.And TV programs are often appear male and female intimate lens,In the full of a lot of yellow dissemination of information environment,Middle school students body and mind to exert a subtle influence.

  学校与家庭性教育的缺失也是“早熟”的重要原因之一。目前,性教育在湛江中小学教学中未能全面铺开,大部分中小学仍只注重文化课的传授,忽略了青少年青春期的思想教育,尤其是性知识的教育……而大部分家长对此也采取回避态度,总是对孩子吞吞吐吐,遮遮掩掩。

Family and school sex education is the lack of"early"One of the important reasons.At present,Sex education in primary and secondary schools teaching in zhanjiang failed to spread to open completely,Most of the elementary and middle schools are still paying attention only to the literacy class teaching,Ignore the adolescent adolescence thought education,Especially the knowledge of sex education……Most parents are take evasive attitude,Always to the child tail off,secretive.

  此外,随着生活水平的不断提高,越来越多的青少年出现营养过剩,导致性欲望提前出现。而且青少年是一个非常特殊的时期,他们拥有强烈的好奇心,接受新鲜事物的能力强,但抑制力又异常薄弱、责任感差。“他们看到其他人都‘办’那事,潜意识产生一种模仿,甚至攀比心理,私下也会互相交流性经验。”

In addition,With the continuous improvement of living standards,More and more teenagers appear nutrition surplus,Lead to sexual desire appear in advance.And youth is a very special period,They have strong curiosity,The ability to accept new things better,But inhibition force and weak anomaly/Poor sense of responsibility."They see others‘do’it,The subconscious mind produce a kind of imitation,Even bandwagon psychological,Private also can communicate with each other sexual experience."

  另外,追求新鲜刺激,部分中学生与异性亲密交往,往往是为了摆脱内心的孤独压抑感,向外寻求沟通伙伴以及刺激的情感体验。

In addition,Pursuing fresh excitement,Part of the middle school students and heterosexual close contacts,Often is in order to get rid of loneliness of spirit depressive feeling,To seek the communication partners and stimulating emotion experience.

  就以上情况,如何应对?陈老师认为,加强青少年的性教育,让他们树立正确的性观念,必须依靠“家庭、学校、自身”三者的力量。

Will the above condition,How to deal with?Chen think,Strengthen the adolescent sex education,Let them to establish a correct concept of sex,Must rely on"family/The school/itself"Three power.

  “父母的言传身教对青少年产生很大的影响,对于早恋,家长应该冷静思考,加强与孩子的情感交流,并进行正确的疏导,及时消除其对性的神秘感和好奇心。”他称,学校应大大方方地开设性教育课,加强青少年的性教育。青少年也应严肃对待男女关系,深刻了解性行为可能产生的后果,学会自控。

"Parents of teenagers precept produce very big effect,For early love,Parents should calm thinking,Strengthen the child's emotional communication,And the correct guidance,Timely eliminate its the secret touch to the gender and curiosity."He says,Schools should be big enough to open sex educational curricula,Strengthen the adolescent sex education.Teenagers should also seriously men and women relation,Deep understanding of the sex possible consequences,Learn to control.

  据了解,按照有关规定,入住出租房者必须出示身份证。不少家长认为,出租屋的松懈管理为中学生情侣偷吃禁果提供了便利条件,有关部门应加强对出租屋的监管。

It is understood,In accordance with the relevant regulations,Check-in rental housing, you must show your identification card.Many parents think,Let's relax management for high school students couple forbidden fruit provides convenient conditions,Relevant departments should strengthen the supervision of the tenant.


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