郑州15岁姑娘迷上甄嬛 常对着镜子和“娘娘”说话 Zhengzhou 15 years old girl fascinated zhen 嬛 often to the mirror and"empress"speak

　　河南商报记者 邓万里/摄

The henan business reporter DengWanLi/taken

　　河南商报记者邢军

The henan business XingJun reporters

　　这两天，一个求助的孩子让心理咨询师难以释怀。15岁女孩喜欢看宫廷戏，看过后，却从剧情里走不出来，把镜子里的自己想象成娘娘或嫔妃，然后对话几十分钟。闺女“神经”了？这可吓坏了父母。

These two days,A help children make psychological consultant hard.15 years old girl like watching GongTingXi,After see,But from the story go don't come out,The mirror imagine empress or PinFei,Then dialogue a few minutes.girl"nerve"the?This can be frightened parents.

　　

病例 cases

　　

女孩沉迷宫廷戏 The girl GongTingXi addicted

　　

把自己当成“娘娘”了 Think of yourself as"empress"the

　　在父母的陪同下，15岁女孩晴晴（化名）来到郑州市未成年人健康成长指导中心（以下简称指导中心）。

In accompanied by parents,15 years old girl fine fine(alias)Zhengzhou city, came to the healthy growth of minors guidance center(Hereinafter referred to as the guidance center).

　　晴晴母亲说，晴晴正上初二，以前没什么异常，后来发现她喜欢上了宫廷戏，什么《宫》、《甄嬛传》之类的，要说看看也没啥，但是看完后，她就特别害怕，蹲在墙角长时间不说话。

Fine fine mother said,Fine fine is early on,Before no exception,I later found out that she liked GongTingXi,what[palace]/[Zhen 嬛 preach]And so on,See also to say nothing,But after watching the,She is special be afraid,Crouching in the corner long time don't talk.

　　后来，晴晴开始对着镜子说话，什么娘娘、后宫之类的，把镜子里的自己当成了其他人，一说就是几十分钟，有时候呜呜啦啦的，听不清她在说什么。

later,Fine fine began to speak in a mirror,What an empress/Temple and so on,The mirror as the others,Say is a few minutes,Sometimes it's purr,Can't hear clearly what she says.

　　家人想和她沟通，但她拒绝了。就算是打骂，她也不吭声。

Family and she would like to communication,But she refused.Even beat and scold,She also don't utter a word.

　　女儿出现这种情况，夫妻俩开始担忧，带着孩子去医院检查，也没发现什么问题。

Daughter appear this kind of circumstance,A couple began to worry,Took the children to the hospital inspection,Also didn't find out what problem.

　　不过，更让父母担忧的是，晴晴在学校也“不正常”了。她经常对着树或者墙，呜呜啦啦说上半天，吓得同学都不敢和她说话。无奈之下，老师只好通知家人，把晴晴领回了家。

but,More let parents worry is,Fine fine in school"abnormal"the.She often to a tree or wall,SOB!! Time said,Frighten classmates didn't dare speak to her.Helpless under,The teacher had to inform his family,The fine fine get back home.

　　

父母 parents

　　

孩子一定要优秀，这样自己才有面子 Children must be excellent,So they have face

　　在晴晴摆放的沙盘上，有4座房子、2盆花、6只天鹅、4个人、2只羊……在摆放的房子前，都有一个小人，这些人都是站在房子正中间。

In the fine fine put on a sand table,There are four house/2 potted flower/6 swan/Four people/Two sheep……In the house of put before,There is a dog,These people are standing in the middle house.

　　“晴晴有严重的强迫症。”心理咨询师许锦霞说，她摆放的东西，都是成双成对的，或者将其放在正中的位置，这是典型的强迫症症状。

"Fine fine has serious obsessive-compulsive disorder."Psychological consultants XuJinXia said,She put things,Is twinned,Or will it on the position of the positive,This is the typical symptoms of obsessive-compulsive disorder.

　　晴晴的母亲说，他们夫妇都是事业单位的干部，很乐于助人，对别人也很好。因此，他们认为自家的孩子耳濡目染，也要变得很优秀、出类拔萃。所以，他们对晴晴很严格，如果哪一点做得不好，就会觉得可没面子，轻者吵一次，重者打一顿。

Fine fine mother said,The couple are institutions of the cadres,Very helpful,To others is also very good.therefore,They think that their children are exposed to,Will become very good/outstanding.so,They mostly fine is very strict,If which point do well,Will feel can't face,Light person noisy a,The person that weigh dozen.

　　晴晴父母的这种逻辑思维，让许锦霞觉得很奇怪：父母对别人好，孩子就一定要优秀吗？

Fine fine parents' this logical thinking,Let XuJinXia feel very strange:Parents good to others,Children must good?

　　

专家 experts

　　

家长应多关爱孩子 Parents should care for children

　　“晴晴出现这种问题，责任都在你们身上。你们只注重孩子的成绩，忽略了对孩子的情感关怀。你们的苛求和打骂，让晴晴得不到安全感。”许锦霞说。

"Fine fine appear this kind of problem,Responsibility is upon you.You only pay attention to children's performance,Ignore the child's emotional care.Your criticism and beat and scold,Make clear sunny not security."XuJinXia said.

　　经过许锦霞的开导，晴晴父母意识到了自己的不对，他们想改变。

XuJinXia through the channel,Fine fine parents realized that he was wrong,They want to change.

　　许锦霞说，晴晴已患重度强迫症，但由于她是外地的，来回郑州不方便，只能每个月帮她做一次咨询，更多的需要父母来做。她提醒晴晴父母，回去后，不要再打骂孩子，多关爱她，“一定要多陪孩子做户外运动、手工活动，转移她的注意力，让她感受到家庭的温暖，从行为认知上改变。时间长了，晴晴的症状自然会减轻。”

XuJinXia said,Fine fine already suffer from severe obsessive-compulsive disorder,But because she is field,And it is not convenient to zhengzhou,Only each month to help her do a consultation,More need parents to do.She reminded fine fine parents,After return,Don't beat and scold the child,Love her more than,"Must accompany the child to do outdoor sports/Manual activities,Transfer her attention,Let her feel the warmth of the family,From cognitive behavioral change.Time long,Fine sunny symptoms naturally reduce."

　　指导中心负责人刘磊说，现在，各学校都要开学了，学生各种心理问题也会集中爆发，如果家长有这方面的问题，可以致电0371-67711882咨询。

Guidance center person in charge LiuLei said,now,Each school will be reopened,The students all kinds of mental problems would be concentrated outbreak,If parents have this type of problems,Can call 0371-67711882 consultation.