民间行动 Folk action

　　

用公益温暖冰冷的心 With public warm the heart of the cold

　　

帮助失独者，民间公益机构开始行动了。 Help lost the only,Folk public welfare institutions and to start acting.

　　中国周刊记者 李佳蔚 北京报道

The China weekly reporter LiJiaWei reports from Beijing

　　7月30日凌晨，著名公益人邓飞在自己的微博里发问：“如何解决两百万失独老人养老问题？”

Early July 30,,Famous public people DengFei in their own small bo in asking questions:"How to solve the two million lost only old man endowment problem?"

　　这与邓飞听到的一个故事有关。湖南卫视《完美释放》录制现场，75岁的清华大学教授潘妙良讲了自己的故事：为响应国家计划生育政策，潘教授和爱人34岁结婚，35岁才有孩子。他70岁高龄时，需要孩子照顾的时候，孩子却因为心脏病离开了人世。

This and DengFei hear a story about.Hunan satellite TV[Perfect release]Recording field,The 75 - year - old tsinghua university professor PanMiaoLiang told his story:In response to the national family planning policy,Professor pan and lover 34 years old get married,35 years old to have children.He is 70 years old,Need to take care of the children when,Children but for heart disease left the world.

　　潘妙良老人至今还保留着儿子去世那天早上吃剩下的馒头。他把那块馒头放在盘子里，用保鲜膜封装着，上面贴着一张黄色正方形即时贴，上面写着：这是小宏2007年2月13日早晨吃剩下的最后一块馒头。

PanMiaoLiang old man still retains son died that morning eat the rest of the steamed bread.He put the piece of steamed bread on the dish,With plastic wrap and let the package,Top stick a yellow square post-it note,The top write:This is a small macro February 13, 2007 in the morning to eat the rest of the last piece of steamed bread.

　　和现场所有观众一起，邓飞被击中了。

And the audience all together,DengFei hit.

　　面对75岁的潘妙良和站在潘背后的两百万中国失独者，邓飞说：“我愿意做完‘免费午餐’接下来就做‘失独老人专门养老院’。”

In the face of the 75 - year - old PanMiaoLiang and stood in the pan behind the two million China lost the alone,DengFei said:"I would like to finish‘Free lunch’Then do‘The old man lost in a nursing home’."

　　“中国的养老问题，是必须要关注的，失独者是一种特殊的情况。”邓飞告诉《中国周刊》记者。其实，就在今年4月，邓飞曾专程跑去福州沙县考察寺院养老情况。“精神上的力量是强大的，心灵上必须有一个舒缓，这都需要人的真情，而不是单纯的物质帮助。”他说。正是基于“人的真情”的思路，邓飞在发问后写出了自己的答案：“建立一网站收集老人数据，在各城组织志愿者团队，多人编队照顾一个家庭，请志愿者留言集合。”这条微博被转发评论了超过4000次。

"China's pension problems,Must want to focus on,Lose those alone is a kind of special situation."DengFei tell[The China weekly]reporter.In fact,In April this year,DengFei had all run to fuzhou ShaXian investigation temple endowment situation."The spiritual power is strong,The heart must have a slow,All these need the truth,Rather than pure material to help."He said.It is based on the"true"Train of thought,DengFei in asking questions after wrote their own answers:"Build a web site data collection of old man,In every city organization volunteer team,Many people formation to take care of a family,Please leave a message volunteers set."This article micro bo be forward reviews more than 4000 times.

　　网友“上海翻译公司”留言说：民间老跟在后面擦屁股，来得及吗？擦得过来吗？

Net friend"Shanghai translation company"Message said:Folk old behind bottoms,Time??Rubbed come over??

　　邓飞回答：问题是这两百万失独老人，怎么办？我的建议是：骂政府的、跳脚捶胸的、陷入沉思的、抓脸绝望沮丧的、写内参上书的、动手照顾老人的等都可以继续，分兵并进。

DengFei answer:The problem is that the old man lost two million alone,do?My suggestion is that:Scold the government's/The ceiling lamented the/Lost in thought of/Catch face despair depressed/Write the book NaCan/Begin to take care of the old man's and so on all can continue,Divide hand in hand.

　　“兵”来了。

"soldiers"come.

　　伍星，在开心网工作的技术男，看到微博的第二天就联系了邓飞，表示自己志愿承担网站建立的工作。之后，陆续有媒体人、网络开发、公益人士加入其中，推进“失独老人”项目的工作。

WuXing,In the happy net work technology male,See micro bo the day the DengFei contact,Said he volunteer bear website set up work.after,In in succession media people/Web development/Public people join them,propulsion"Lost only old man"Project work.

　　在邓飞看来，“信息的流通”是这个项目的前提和关键。所以，志愿者信息和失独老人信息的搜集整理工作，是邓飞和伍星他们要首要解决的。

In DengFei seems,"Information circulation"This project is the premise and key.so,Volunteers information and lost only old man information collection and collation of the work,Is DengFei and WuXing they will top priority.

　　“益暖冰心”，是失独养老公益项目官方站的名字。这个名字是志愿者们共同投票，从近10个名字中投票选出来的。

"Benefit warm bing xin",Is to lose the endowment public welfare project official station name.This name is volunteers to vote together,From nearly 10 a name formed out of the poll.

　　“意在以公益的力量，爱的力量，去温暖一颗颗受伤冰冷的心，让失独者老有所依。”伍星说。

"With the power of the public to,The power of love,To warm the heart of the cold each injured,Let alone the lost the old is in."WuXing said.

　　截止到8月中旬，已经有300多人成为项目志愿者，覆盖超过全国20多个省市地区。除了照顾家庭外，在项目初期，志愿者还担负着搜集周围失独者信息的工作。

By the middle of August,More than 300 people have become the project volunteers,Covering more than 20 many provinces city of countrywide area.In addition to take care of the family,Early in the project,Volunteers will shoulder around the collection of the information work.

　　一位志愿者说：“我的一个邻居失去儿子，那种悲痛是很容易引爆为眼泪的，我很容易理解，尤其是中国这种传统观念根深蒂固的地方。我愿意做一点力所能及的事，帮助社会承担。”据伍星介绍，在网站进行的失独老人现实需求详细调查里，失独老人最担心的三条是：年老生病没人照顾；精神状况无法恢复；因失独而没有担保人、监护人，进入养老机构和就医手术受阻。

A volunteer said:"One of my neighbors lost son,The grief is easy to detonate for tears,I am very easy to understand,Especially in China, the traditional concept is deeply ingrained place.I'd like to do something things,Help social bear."According to WuXing introduced,The site of the old man lost in the reality demand detailed survey,The old man lost the most worried about is three:No one to take care of the sick old age;Mental state can't recover;Because of the loss of alone and no guarantor/guardian,Into the old-age institutions and medical surgery hindered.

　　“他们希望被认可，说国家给失独者树立纪念碑，就像越战纪念碑一样。”伍星说。

"They want to be recognized,Says the country to lose the only set up a monument,As the Vietnam war monument."WuXing said.

　　“益暖冰心”失独者养老公益项目的一大工作是将失独老人集中起来，从原来的生活环境中脱离出来，“他们在一起，才最懂彼此。”

"Benefit warm bing xin"The public welfare projects of the endowment a great work is lost will only old man together,From the original life environment from out,"They together,Just the most understand each other."

　　在邓飞的计划里，便捷、迅速和高性价比的养老产品，才是解决失独者养老问题的根本方法。“让养老产品成为淘宝网上的一个商品，产业化的解决方式，老人可以在网上自主选择。”对此，邓飞与互联网界人士进行过探讨，“实现的可能性很大。”

In DengFei plan,convenient/Quickly and cost-effective endowment products,Is lost to solve alone person endowment the root of the problem methods."Let endowment products become taobao on a commodity,Industrialization solution,The old man can independently choose on the Internet."this,DengFei and the Internet into circles,"Implementation possibility is very large."

　　而对于经济条件差、生活困窘的失独者来说，在邓飞看来，则必须将其筛选出来，由政府或基金会出资，购买相关专业人员的时间，为老人提供各种服务。

For the poor economic conditions/Life embarrassed loss for those alone,In DengFei seems,It must be the screening out,Capital contribution by the government or foundation,Buy related professional time,Providing various kinds of service for old people.

　　失独老人群体的特殊性，决定了“益暖冰心”开展过程中要面对普通公益项目不曾遇到的问题。

The loss of the particularity of the old man,Determines the"Benefit warm bing xin"In the process of development to face the general public welfare project never problem.

　　“不要把自己当志愿者，更不是救世主，要用真情感化，同时，又不能让各方反感，”伍星解释说，“你去调查，社区是不是会谨慎地看待你？”

"Don't take yourself as the volunteers,More is not the,Want to use the truth detention,At the same time,And can't let all dislike,"WuXing explained,"You go to survey,Community is carefully look at you?"

　　不过，伍星他们暂时不会去寻求政府的帮助，“我们先把自己能做的先做了。”

but,WuXing they temporarily not to seek help from the government,"We first oneself can do the first."

　　尽管失独者信息搜集整理的工作庞大繁杂，可邓飞和伍星他们还是将“益暖冰心”项目的筹备期卡在了今年。“年底前，必须将前期工作完成，必须早日进入项目实质实施阶段，”邓飞说，“希望得到大家的帮助，我们希望这个项目更加社会化，更加民主透明。”

Despite the loss of the information collection and collation work huge multifarious,Can DengFei and WuXing still they will"Benefit warm bing xin"Project preparation stage stuck in this year."Before the end of the year,The work must be finished,Must soon into the project implementation stage essence,"DengFei said,"Hope to get your help,We hope that this project more socialization,More democratic transparent."

　　邓飞难以忘记离开《完美释放》录制现场时，潘妙良看着他的眼睛，一再对他说：“你一定要快点啊，我等着进你们的养老院，还有我老伴，都要来！”

DengFei difficult to forget to leave[Perfect release]Recording the scene,PanMiaoLiang look at his eyes,Repeatedly said to him:"You must hurry ah,I was waiting to enter your nursing home,And my wife,Shall come!"