妈妈写给老师的信： My mother wrote to the teacher's letter:

　　

我们的孩子，将来是怎样的一代人 Our children,What is the future generation

　　尊敬的老师：

Respect teacher:

　　星期天上午接到班主任电话后，配合孩子们的生存体验让孩子在家为家长做顿饭。

On Sunday morning after a phone call from the teacher in charge,Cooperate with the children's survival experience let the child at home for parents to do meal.

　　我决定放下任何重要的事，收拾收拾在家里等待我的孩子和她的同学们。

I decided to put down any important things,Tidy up your at home waiting for my children and her classmates.

　　他们来了，开门后一位女孩叫了我一声阿姨。

They come,Opened the door a girl called me a sound aunt.

　　同学们买来了两盘超市包装的联合康康猪肉片、一斤左右鸡蛋、一把毛毛菜、四个西红柿和一大瓶冰红茶。平时几乎不看电视的我，那时想到孩子们要做一顿午饭且有我的一份，就悠闲地离开厨房，因为那里不需要我，于是打开了电视。

The classmates bought two sets of supermarket packing joint kangkang pork slice/1 catty about eggs/A feather food/Four tomatoes and a large bottle of ice tea.Usually I almost don't watch TV,Then think of the children to do a lunch and I have a,Take away from the kitchen,Because it doesn't need me,So turning on the TV.

　　他们洗完菜，三个男孩开始起油锅，两个女孩（包括我的女儿）却溜到电视机前看起连续剧来，那天是大结局。

They finished washing dishes,Three boys start frying pan,Two girls(Including my daughter)But to slip into the front of the television to watch the series,That's finale.

　　炒肉片好了，两个女孩趁广告时去厨房伸手抓肉片吃，好吃！好吃！再炒一盘！说完，连续剧又开始了。

Fried meat good,Two girls while advertising to the kitchen reaching out to eat meat,delicious!delicious!Then fry a plate of!Say that finish,Series started again.

　　第二位男孩开始做番茄炒蛋，一下锅，嗤的一声！我从房门的倒影看到厨房一片火光，一个男孩大叫，着火了！我立时冲了过去，还好，是油锅太热的缘故。两个女孩继续安静地看电视……

The second boy begin to do tomato omelette,tested,Sees a sound of!I'm from the door of the kitchen light reflection to see a piece,A little boy shouted,Caught fire!I immediately rushed out,Also good,Is the sake of oil is too hot.Two girls continue to quietly watch TV……

　　不知过了几分钟，听到厨房有喝汤的声音，进去一看原来三位男同学快吃好了，背起书包要赶下午的家教（培训班），一位男同学在家门口朝里喊了声，“洗碗归你们了！”

Don't know in a few minutes,Hear the voice of the kitchen has a drink soup,In a read the original three male classmate, please eat well,Take up bag to drive the afternoon tutor(training),A male classmate at home in shouted sound,"Wash the dishes to you!"

　　我送别了他们回到房里。连续剧结束，两位女孩走出来开始吃饭。

I see off their back to her room.Series end,Two girls go out to start eating.

　　看看桌上的菜：一盘炒肉片、一盘番茄炒蛋和一锅还在炉子上没有盛出来的青菜蛋花汤，三位男孩还吃得挺省的，估计没吃饱就走了。

Look at the table dishes:A plate of Fried meat/A plate of tomato Fried eggs and a pan on the stove is not filled out green vegetables egg drop soup,The three boys have a province,Estimate didn't eat satisfied and went away.

　　家里厨房本来就不大，我就对俩女孩说：“你们先吃吧！”

Home kitchen was not,I have two girl said:"You go ahead and eat!"

　　等我回过来想盛饭时，桌子上仅剩四块番茄和锅子里的青菜蛋汤。

I want to go back to fill lunch,The table with only four tomatoes and pot of green vegetables egg soup.

　　那天中午我没有吃饭，也没有一位同学邀请我说：阿姨，一起来吧！

That day at noon I did not eat,Also have no a classmate invited me said:aunt,Come with me!

　　后来想起上午没办的事，我就收拾好先出去了。

Then think of morning not done,I will pick up good went out first.

　　晚饭时和家人提到中午没有吃到蛋和肉的事，女儿却说：家里桌子上不是还有一个面包吗？我真不懂你为什么那么想吃我们的东西？

Supper and family mentioned noon did not eat the eggs and meat things,Daughter said:Home is not on the table and a bread?I really don't understand why you are so want to eat our things?

　　她这一问让我哭笑不得。孩子也许真的天真地以为我没有食物可以充饥，或者我很馋。

She ask let me in distress situation.The child may really fondly thought I have no food can cure hunger,Or I'm chan.

　　这让我觉得似乎我吃或不吃算不得什么重要的事，是否没有必要那么计较？

This makes me feel seems to me to eat or not to eat is nothing important matter,If there is no need to that object?

　　晚上夜深人静的时候，回想前一天晚上刚带自己的孩子去吃了一顿精美的海鲜大餐，再想想白天的那一幕幕，不禁有着深深的叹息。

Evening in the dead of night of time,Back to the previous night just take their children to eat a meal elegant seafood dinner,Think again the day of the scenes,Can't help has a deep sigh.

　　孩子们毫无掩饰地表现出了他们真实的一面，包括我自己的孩子在内。

The children have no hide showing their true side,Including myself, children.

　　我不甘心用负面的话语来论断他们的不是，也不忍心对他们说谴责的言语。但现实让我无法回避，必须去面对。

I can't stand with negative words to judge their not,Don't have the heart to said to them the words of the accused.But the reality to let me be unable to avoid,Must to face.

　　当今社会的冷漠、自私和缺乏团队精神正侵蚀着我们的孩子。

In today's society indifference/Selfish and lack of team spirit is eroding our children.

　　他们是一张白纸，往上面写什么就留下什么。我也同样要问自己，是否平时的一举一动在暗示着孩子：世界上她最重要，要以她为中心？父母和老师们为他们付出那么多，他们觉得这是天经地义的吗？

They are a piece of blank paper,To write what they leave.I also want to ask yourself,Whether at ordinary times every move in implies that the child:She is the most important in the world,To her as the center?Parents and teachers for their pay so much,They think it is god's truth?

　　所以，我呼吁学校和家长一起努力引导我们的孩子，学习从关爱身边的人做起，各人不要单顾自己的事。学习很重要，做人更重要。我想这也是勇进中学办学理念中的一个重头戏，不是吗？

so,I called on schools and parents to work hard to lead our children,Learn from the people around love starts,Each of you should look not only to your own interests.Learning is very important,Behave more important.I think this is also yong into middle school teaching ideas in a grand opera,Isn't it?

　　最后，让我们来告诉我们所有的孩子：爸爸妈妈和老师都不怪你们，无论你们做了什么都不能改变我们之间的关系，我们愿意全身心来接纳你们，而不是想图点什么好处，希望你们能明白这就是爱，但愿你们也会这样对身边的人，因为施比受更有福。

finally,Let's tell us all the children:Mom and dad and teachers don't blame you,Whatever you do what all can't change the relationship between us,We are willing to devote to accept you,And not to figure something good,Hope you can understand this is love,I hope you will do this to the people around,Because it is more blessed to give than.

　　一位家长

A parents

　　

记者追访： Reporter after visit:

　　

班主任在班上读了这封信孩子们深深地低下了头 In class the teacher in charge to read the letter the children deeply lowered his head

　　收到信以后的第二天班会上，班主任周佶请学生做了一份问卷调查。

Receive a letter the day after the class meeting,The teacher in charge weeks Ji please students to do a questionnaire survey.

　　学生开始很兴奋，难得一次的当家经历，他们记得最多的是快乐。

Student begins very excited,A rare experience alone,They remember most is happy.

　　在他们最兴奋的时候，周老师给他们读了这封信，孩子们一开始还十分好奇，转来转去问这是谁写的，随着读信的进程，他们的声音越来越轻，到后来深深低下了头。

The most exciting time in them,Weeks the teacher gave them read the letter,The children began to also very curious,Turn around to ask this is who wrote it,With the process of read the letter,Their voices more and more light,To later deeply bowed his head.

　　周老师又让学生做了一份调查问卷，题目如下：

Miss zhou and let students to do a questionnaire,Topics as follows:

　　小鬼当家那天，你去同学家的时候，你向家长问好了么？

Home alone on that day,You go to classmates' home,You offering to say hello yao?

　　走的时候和家长说再见了么？

Go and parents to say goodbye??

　　那天你叫同学的家长一起坐下来吃饭了么？

That day you call classmate's parents to sit down together and eat it?

　　你记得父母的生日么？是具体哪一年的哪一天？

Do you remember your parents' birthdays??In which year is concrete which one day?

　　……

……

　　一共十道题，孩子们做得很认真。事后统计结果不出所料，特别是第三题，能够想到请家长一起坐下来吃饭的全班仅6个。

Altogether ten problem,Children have done very carefully.Afterwards statistical results as expected,Especially the third question,Can think parents please sit down together and eat only the class six.

　　孩子自己也发现了，父母为他们做得太多，写都写不完只能概括，而自己为父母做得太少。

Their children also found,Parents do for them too much,Write write not over only summarized,And for the parents to do too little.

　　最后老师对孩子们说，虽然你们还没有学会怎么去爱，怎么表达爱，但起码你们知道什么是爱。

Finally the teacher said to the children,Although you will not learn how to love,How to express love,But at least you know what love is.

　　周老师告诉记者，现在的孩子大部分是独生子女，在家里受到的关注很多。然而，他们并没有因此而更多地关注自己的父母或长辈。这封信以及那一次班会，在班里引起了很大的反响。

Miss zhou told reporters,Now most of the children are themselves only children,At home the attention by many.however,They are not so and more attention to their parents or elders.This letter and the a class meeting,In the class caused great repercussions.

　　后来同学们的改变还是很大的，那些不知道父母生日的孩子都询问了父母生日，并说自己会记住。大部分同学都会花更多时间和父母交流沟通，在节日和父母的生日及时送上祝福，还会在一些生活的小细节上回报父母，例如帮父母做饭等。

Then the students' change is very big still,Those who don't know parents birthday the children asked their parents birthday,And that he would remember.Most students will spend more time and parents communication,In the festival and parents birthday timely to bless,Also in some small details of life to return the favor to parents,For example to help parents cook a meal, etc.

　　周老师说，这样短期的活动只能起到刺激性的作用，要想得到显著的效果，还需要家长、老师和学校配合起来，搞一些长期活动，让孩子们内心懂得感恩，并付出实际行动。

Weeks the teacher said,Such short-term activities can only play the role of irritation,To get remarkable effect,Need parents/The teacher and school fit up,Make some long-term activities,Let the children grateful heart,And pay a practical action.

　　“大部分家长把全部精力放在孩子身上，孩子们很容易形成以自我为中心的想法。要彻底改变这个状况，目前来看还是很困难的，它需要家长和孩子大量的沟通，以及学校的针对性教育，这是一个长期的过程，需要全社会共同努力。”

"Most parents put all energy on their children,Children are easy to form self-centered ideas.To completely change the situation,So far is still very difficult,It needs to parents and children a lot of communication,And the school targeted education,This is a long process,The whole society need to work together."