5岁被拐，一直难忘幼时记忆

5 years old was turn,Youth always unforgettable memory

　　一波三折，昨晚踏上认亲之旅

Full of twists and turns,On RenQin trip last night

　　执着小伙能如愿找到亲生爹娘吗

Persistent boy can do find biological parents

　　记者全程跟随；小伙表示将担起两个家庭

The reporter followed;Guy says it will bear up two families

记者史强 Reporter ShiJiang

　　对21岁的福建小伙斌斌（化名）来说，其人生可谓曲折。

In 21 years old boy BinBin in fujian province(alias)for,His life is zigzag.

　　斌斌4岁就开始记事，他一直记得，自己在外面玩时被人诱骗带走，辗转了很多地方，最后成了福建莆田一家农户的二儿子。虽然养父母对他视同己出，但他心中依旧忘不了自己的亲生父母。

BinBin 4 years old start guide,He always remember,His play outside when wile away,Toss a lot of place,Finally became fujian putian a farmer's second son.Although the adoptive parents to he regarded as one's own,But his mind is still forget his natural parents.

　　幸运的是，斌斌来武汉后，结识了女友露露。知其遭遇后，露露和妈妈都主动帮其寻亲。经历多次失败后，斌斌终在“宝贝回家”志愿者组织的帮助下，在贵州找到了一户最接近自己亲生父母的人家。

fortunately,After BinBin to wuhan,Meet a girl friend lulu.Know after suffering,Lulu and mother is active to help their schooldays.Experience after many failures,BinBin end in"Baby home"Under the help of the volunteer organizations,In guizhou found a door the most close to their biological parents' somebody else.

　　目前，贵州当地警方所进行的DNA比对，已基本可以确认双方存在血缘关系。昨晚，斌斌和女友一家乘坐火车，踏上了前往贵州的认亲之路。本报记者将全程跟随，见证这一激动人心的时刻。

At present,Guizhou local police than the DNA,Have basic can confirm the existence blood relationship.Last night,BinBin and his girlfriend a on the train,On the RenQin road to guizhou.Our reporter will follow the whole,Witness the exciting moment.

　　记者获悉，这一例如果成功，将是“宝贝回家”志愿者组织寻亲成功的第500个案例。

The reporter learns,This case if successful,Will be"Baby home"Volunteer organizations successfully locate 500th case.

　　起初的采访，斌斌较为抵触。经多次劝说，斌斌终于答应和记者见面。这个看起来非常憨厚的大男孩说，之所以不愿面对媒体，主要是顾及到养父母，担心他们知道后难以接受。

The first interview,BinBin more conflict.After repeated persuade,BinBin finally agreed to meet with reporters.This looks very hanhou of the big boy said,Has been reluctant to face the media,Mainly take into consideration to foster parents,After that they know to accept.

　　与记者此前接触到的很多被拐孩子不同，斌斌其实一开始就很清楚自己的遭遇，自己在什么情况下被拐、人贩子长什么样子，他都有印象。所以，当他从旁人嘴里证实自己是被拐来的孩子时，他并不像其他被拐孩子那样难以接受。

And the reporter had come into contact with a lot of abducted children different,BinBin actually from the outset it was clear what had happened to her,In what circumstances be turn/The traffickers long what look like,He have the impression.so,When he from others mouth has confirmed that he is: a child,He does not like other abducted children so hard to accept.

　　在斌斌记忆里，16年前的那一幕仿佛发生在昨天。

BinBin in memory,16 years ago that act like it happened yesterday.

　　斌斌说，当时父亲在工地做事，经常不在家，母亲带着自己，形影不离。

BinBin said,At that time my father in the field work,Often not at home,With his mother,Was like peas and carrots.

　　快5岁时的一天，妈妈带着斌斌上街玩。路过一家商店，妈妈进去看货物，斌斌觉得肚子有点饿，妈妈就给了点钱，让他自己到旁边摊子上买点零食吃。

Almost five years old day,Mother took BinBin took to the streets to play.Walking past a shop,Mother went in to see goods,BinBin feel belly is a bit hungry,Mother gave some money,Let him to buy some snacks to eat the next to stall.

　　斌斌边吃边玩，逐渐走远了。等他回想起来，却发现已经不见妈妈踪迹，急得哭了起来。

BinBin ate and play,Gradually walked away.He recalled,But found that has no mother trace,Nasty began to cry.

　　这时，一位“慈眉善目”的中年女人出现了，答应带他一起找妈妈。“好心”阿姨不但买零食给他吃，还带他去游乐园玩。等到天快黑了，斌斌想起还要找妈妈，并一直哭闹。担心哭声引起周围人的怀疑，中年女人迅速将他强行带上了公交车，前往陌生地点。

At this time,a"A benign face"Middle-aged woman appeared,Promised to take him to look for their mothers."kind"Aunt not only buy snacks to him to eat,Also take him to the park.Wait until it's getting dark,BinBin remember also looking for my mother,And have been crying.Worry about the people around them cry cause suspicion,The middle-aged woman quickly will he forcefully take the bus,To unfamiliar place.

　　斌斌回忆，中年女人带着他转了很多趟公交车，随后又上了长途车和火车。到底去了什么地方，他也不清楚。其间住宿休息时，只要斌斌一哭闹，对方就打骂他，还不给饭吃，有时一天就只吃一罐八宝粥。

BinBin memories,The middle-aged woman with he turned many bus trip,Then the coach and the train.What to what place,He also not clear.Meanwhile the rest,As long as BinBin a crying,The other party will beat and scold him,Is not to eat for rice,Sometimes a day just eat a can of eight treasures congee.

　　经过长时间颠簸后，斌斌终于来到了噩梦之旅的尽头一个完全陌生城市的农村。在这里，他变身成了当地一户村民的“二儿子”。不仅有个“哥哥”，不久又有了一个“妹妹”。

After a long time after the turbulence,BinBin finally came to a nightmare at the end of the trip to a completely unfamiliar city rural.here,He wanted a family became a local villagers"The second son".Not only have a"brother",Soon have a"sister".

　　长大后，他才意识到，自己那时遇上了人贩子。

Grew up,He didn't realize,That I had ever met the traffickers.

　　

寻亲念头始终藏在心中 Locate idea is always hidden in the heart

　　斌斌的养父母常年在外经商，难得回家。他是由“奶奶”抚养长大的。在他的记忆中，虽然没有血缘关系，但养父母一家对他非常好，视同己出。据他后来打听，当初人贩子出售他的价格在数万元之多，对于养父母来说也是一笔不菲的支出。

BinBin parents have migrated in business,Rare home.He is the"grandma"raised.On his memory,Although there is no blood relationship,But the adoptive parents a treated him very well,Shall be regarded as one's own.According to his later to find out,At the beginning the traffickers sell his price in the tens of thousands of yuan,To foster parents is also a significant spending.

　　斌斌说，养父虽然严厉，但对自己确实很好。“哥哥”、“妹妹”有的东西，他也有，各方面的要求也和亲生孩子完全一样。“哥哥”、“妹妹”也没有因为自己外来者的身份而排斥自己，相反，他们之间的感情非常之好。

BinBin said,Adoptive father although severely,But to himself is really very good."brother"/"sister"Some things,He has,All aspects of demands and their biological children exactly the same."brother"/"sister"No because outsiders identity and rejecting himself,instead,The affection between them is very good.

　　随着年龄渐长，他逐渐从邻居那里证实了自己幼年的记忆。虽然他从未直接找养父母求证过，但养父母的含糊态度也间接印证了这个事实。对于外面的人，养父母一致的说法是“收养”的孩子。

As I grew older,He gradually from neighbor there confirmed his childhood memory.Although he has never directly adoptive parents find a verification,But the adoptive parents vague attitude also indirectly confirmed this fact.To the outside people,The adoptive parents consistent view is"adoption"children.

　　初中毕业后，因成绩不好，他放弃了继续读书的机会。为此，养父还专门征询过他的意见。“假如我坚持要读大学，养父也会毫不犹豫支持我。”斌斌说，但他最后还是决定跟养父母学做生意。

Junior high school after graduation,Because of the bad grades,He gave up to continue the opportunity to study.therefore,Foster father also specially asked his opinion."If I insist on to college,Foster father will not hesitate to support me."BinBin said,But he finally decided to do business with the adoptive parents learn.

　　“我一直有个梦想，就是能有一天找到亲生父母。”斌斌说，但前提是必须要有一定的经济能力，学做生意是个快速积累财富的方式。

"I always have a dream,Is to one day find his natural parents."BinBin said,But the prerequisite is that must have certain economic ability,Learning business is a quick way to build wealth.

　　

巧遇善良武汉女友，重燃寻亲梦想 Chance on good wuhan girlfriend,Reignition dream tracing

　　2009年，斌斌跟亲戚来到了武汉，进入郊区一家公司上班。在这里，他结识了露露（化名），两人年龄相仿，很快就成为好朋友。

In 2009,,BinBin with relatives came to wuhan,Go into the country a company work.here,He made a lulu(alias),Two people age,Soon became good friends.

　　相处中，斌斌敞开心扉，向露露讲述了自己的遭遇。起初，露露以为他为了博取同情而编出的谎言。但随着了解加深，露露逐渐意识到斌斌所说并非虚言。

together,BinBin open your heart,To lulu tells the story of what had happened to her.At first,Lulu thought he to sympathy and make up of lies.But with the deepening understanding,Lulu gradually realized that BinBin were eyewitnesses say not.

　　得知斌斌内心的痛苦后，露露没有放弃这段感情，而是坚持守在他身边安慰他。

That BinBin inner pain,Lulu didn't give up this relationship,But to keep in his side to comfort him.

　　不久后，露露把情况告诉了妈妈肖梅（化名），肖梅刚开始心里确实有点吃惊，但她并没有阻挠女儿的感情，反而激起了对斌斌的同情。

soon,Lulu the situation XiaoMei told his mother(alias),It was a little bit surprised XiaoMeiGang began to heart,But she did not obstruct her daughter's feelings,Instead of BinBin aroused sympathy.

　　2010年，斌斌第一次跟着露露回家。斌斌进门时说了三句话：“您的房子虽然不大，但很温馨；我自己来自农村；是买来的。”平淡而质朴的三句话深深打动了肖梅，让她看到了这个孩子身上的朴实。从那时起，她决定在网上帮斌斌找到亲生父母。

In 2010,,BinBin first follow lulu home.BinBin said the door three words:"Your although the house is not big,But very warm;I come from the countryside;Is bought."Plain and simple three sentences XiaoMei deeply moved,Let her see the child's simplicity.From then on,She decided to help find on the Internet BinBin biological parents.

　　

一波三折，无限逼近亲生父母 Full of twists and turns,Infinite approximation biological parents

　　2010年的一天，肖梅从电视中无意中看到，一个叫沈浩的人发起帮人寻子的消息。她找到沈浩的网站，从寻子信息中找到一对江西夫妇信息，他们的孩子丢失经过与斌斌很相似，2011年10月，经过DNA比对，非常遗憾没有比对上。

One day in 2010,XiaoMei from TV oversee,A call ShenHao people initiate people found the news of the child.She found ShenHao website,Find information from the son to find a pair of jiangxi couple information,Their children lost with BinBin very similar,In October 2011,After DNA than,Very sorry that I don't have the comparison.

　　随后，肖梅从一位网友那里了解到“宝贝回家”的存在，便试着在里面寻找有用的信息。

then,XiaoMei from a net friend understanding arrives over there"Baby home"existence,Then try to inside look for some useful information.

　　2012年8月7日，肖梅无意中发现了一条极为重要的信息，一名贵州被拐孩子的幼年照片和斌斌惊人相似，但所描述的丢失经过与斌斌的记忆有所出入。

On August 7, 2012,XiaoMei accidentally discovered a very important information,A guizhou was turn the child's childhood photos and BinBin surprisingly similar,But the loss of the description with the memory of BinBin difference.

　　肖梅找来女儿和斌斌一起查看信息。看到照片后，斌斌沉默了，表现得有点抗拒。肖梅和女儿不断开导他，最终答应与贵州方面联系。

XiaoMei seek to daughter and BinBin check information together.See photos after,BinBin silent for,Behave a little resistance.XiaoMei and daughter constantly give him some advice,Finally agreed to contact with guizhou aspects.

　　第一次的DNA比对，因为肖梅激动过度，报错了身份证号码，以致没有成功。与贵州方面紧急联系后，斌斌将血样滴在纱巾上寄了过去，进行手工比对。

The first DNA comparison,Because XiaoMei excited too,Give the correct id card number,That no success.And guizhou aspects after emergency contact,BinBin will blood drop in on the gauze kerchief sent in the past,On hand than.

　　18日上午，喜讯传来，已基本可以确认双方存在血缘关系。

18 the morning,Good news came,Have basic can confirm the existence blood relationship.

　　得到喜讯的肖梅和女儿商议后，担心斌斌一下接受不了，便拖了4天，直到周五晚才告诉他。起初斌斌根本不相信，当确认无误后，这个坚强的大男孩一个人躲在卫生间哭了一个小时。

Get the good news XiaoMei and daughter after consultation,Worry BinBin once can not accept,Will drag the four days,Until Friday night to tell him.At first BinBin don't believe that,When when confirmed,The strong big boy a person hiding in toilet crying for one hour.

　　

我要承担起两个家庭的责任 I will undertake the responsibility of the two families

　　为这场时隔16年的重逢，斌斌很早就和女友一家准备着。他们特意带了3份武汉特产鸭脖子，两份送给亲生父母，一份送给四处奔波的志愿者。

For this after 16 years of reunion,BinBin very early and his girlfriend a ready.They have brought three parts wuhan specialty duck neck,Two gave his natural parents,A volunteer to on the move.

　　斌斌说，出发在即，内心非常复杂。一方面，终于可以见到亲生父母，让他心潮澎湃，他脑海中一直在设想双方见面的场景，但一直没有想好到时候该怎样表达情感。另一方面，他心里对养父母有愧疚，毕竟自己瞒着他们。他表示，等这边的事结束后，他会找个合适的机会向养父母坦白一切，希望能得到他们的谅解。

BinBin said,Start within sight of,Heart is very complicated.On the one hand,Finally can see his natural parents,Let he choked up with emotions,His mind had been imagine to meet both the scene,But there has been no want to good then how to express emotion.On the other hand,His heart to foster parents have guilt,After all, himself from them.He said,And here after the end,He will find a suitable opportunity to foster parents confess everything,Hope to be able to get their understanding.

　　谈到日后的计划，斌斌表示，无论亲生父母家是什么状况，他都会好好服侍两位老人。同时，养父母这边他也不会放弃，他今后要做的就是认真工作，让两方的父母都过上好日子。同时，对于女友一家为他所做的事，他也心怀感激，他说，自己一定会奋发努力，不会愧对所有关心自己的人。（史强）

When it comes to the future plan,BinBin said,No matter his natural parents home is what condition,He will be a good serve two old man.At the same time,The adoptive parents here he would not give up,He'll have to do is work hard,Let both sides parents to live a good life.At the same time,For a girlfriend for what he has done,He also be grateful,He said,You will make great efforts,Won't live up to all the people who care about you feel.(ShiJiang)