华声在线-三湘都市报讯（记者 聂诗茼 实习生 李树征 朱亮）7个多月、200多天、四五千个小时，让你呆在一个地方，你受得了吗?

Hua sheng electronic online - sanxiang urban paper dispatch(Reporter nie poetry Tong interns LiShuZheng ZhuLiang)Seven months/More than 200 days/SiWuQianGe hours,Let you stay in one place,Can you handle it??

　　对于一般人来说，可能都会说受不了。但最近在常德市武陵区新一村附近的一家网吧内却出现了一名“牛人”，从今年初开始，他就在网吧开始了“蜗居”生活，一天24小时吃喝拉撒全在网吧内，至今已有7个多月了。

To average people,May will say that can't stand.But in recent WuLingOu chang DE city in new village in an Internet cafe near there is a"Cattle people",Start from earlier this year,He is in the net cafe started"Humble abode"life,24 hours a day all eat and drink pull scatter in the bar,So far there have been seven months.

　　他是谁?他为何选择网吧“蜗居”?他的背后有何故事?记者9月25日来到这家网吧，采访了他。

Who is he?Why he chose to Internet bar"Humble abode"?What is the story behind him?Reporters on September 25, came to the Internet cafe,Interviewed him.

　　

昔日辉煌的区域经理 Past success area manager

　　蒋涛(化名)今年29岁，常德安乡人。

JiangTao(alias)29,Changde AnXiang people.

　　9月25日上午，记者来到了蒋涛蜗居的这间网吧。在网吧最偏僻最阴暗的角落里，记者发现蒋涛慵懒地窝在网吧的沙发椅上，把脚放在电脑桌上，耷拉着脑袋在看电视剧。一旁的桌子上还放着香烟、矿泉水等物品。清秀的脸颊，白皙的皮肤，一头长发过肩，但四肢却枯瘦如柴。

On September 25th morning,Reporters came to the JiangTao humble abode of the Internet bar.In the most remote Internet the most dark corner,Reporter discovery JiangTao lazily nest in the net cafe sofa chair,Put my feet in the computer table,Head down and watching TV.One side of the table was placed the cigarette/Goods such as mineral water.Comely face,Fair skin,A head of long hair yoke,But limbs but it is become like a stick.

　　2006年，学国际经济与贸易专业的蒋涛从湖南涉外经济学院毕业后直接去了浙江，一直从事游戏推广工作。“打拼了几年后，我跳槽到一家刚成立的公司。因为感觉我与公司是同时起步，所以我对公司倾注了全部的心血。”

In 2006,,Learn the international economic and trade professional JiangTao from hunan foreign-related economic college after graduation went straight to the zhejiang,We have been engaged in the promotion work."Played a few years later,I job-hopping to a new company.Because I feel with the company at the same time is started,So I poured into to the company all efforts."

　　两三年后，蒋涛从一名普通技术员升为公司的区域经理，月薪达到六七千。正当蒋涛的日子风生水起时，2010年，公司却突然倒闭了。

After two or three years,JiangTao from a common technician promoted to the company's regional manager,Monthly salary to 67000.As JiangTao days when randy lerner,In 2010,,The company suddenly went out of business.

　　公司垮了，蒋涛也垮了。“就在我准备大展拳脚实现抱负的时候，老天给我这样当头一棒，我忽然觉得干什么都没意思了。”

The company collapsed,JiangTao also collapsed."As I prepare to realize when it into the ambition,God to give me such a blow,I suddenly feel do boring."

　　在浙江蒋涛有不少业内朋友，他也曾找过工作。“一个公司，我付出了那么多，说没就没了，我想不通。”蒋涛心里始终迈不过那个坎。

In zhejiang JiangTao has many friends in the industry,He was also looking for work."A company,I pay so much,Didn't say they don't have a,I think impassability."JiangTao heart always Wallace but the bar.

　　

如今落魄的网吧“宅男” The Internet bar now come down in the world"igawa"

　　蜗居在网吧的蒋涛是孤独的，那一台显示器是他了解外界的唯一窗口，身下那一张破旧的沙发椅便是他活动的全部范围。

The humble abode in the net cafe JiangTao is lonely,That a display is he to know more about the outside world only window,On that one of the old sofa chair is his the full range of activities.

　　与其他爱好上网的网虫不同的是，蒋涛虽然以网吧为家，但并不是沉溺于网络游戏无法自拔。他也并没有宅在家中啃老，网吧的开销都是用的以前的积蓄。

And other interest Internet net insect is different,JiangTao although to Internet cafes for home,But not indulge in the network game cannot extricate oneself.He also did not on the house in the home,The cost of the Internet bar is used before savings.

　　“他来这半年多了，吃喝拉撒都在这。”经常在此间网吧上网的李飞说，“刚来时还是一头阳光短发，现在他的头发都已经齐肩了。”

"He came to this half year more,Eat and drink pull scatter in."Often in the surf the Internet in a cyber bar here LiFei said,"Just come or a head of sunshine short hair,Now he's hair has shoulder-length hair the."

　　“7个月来，他一日三餐都在网吧吃盒饭，晚上累了，就在网吧靠一会儿。”在网吧里面，老板雷勇、网管小杨，都知道蒋涛的故事。现在蒋涛每天的开支在50元左右，每隔半个月会去酒店开个房洗澡、洗衣，目前所有的花销是靠以前的积蓄维持。

"Seven months,He three meals a day are in the net cafe eat lunch box,Night tired,In the Internet cafe by for a while."In the net cafe inside,The boss LeiYong/Network management xiao Yang,All know JiangTao story.Now JiangTao daily expenses in 50 yuan,Every half a month to open a hotel room bath/laundry,At present all of the spending is to rely on previous savings to maintain.

　　“我们都劝过他，可他就是想不明白。”网吧内的工作人员都很担忧蒋涛的现状，“年纪轻轻，头顶现在还长出白头发了。”

"We advised him,But he is don't understand."In the Internet bar staff are worried that the present situation of the JiangTao,"young,The head is still grow the white hair."

　　

对话 dialogue

　　“等那个问题想通了，我就会离开” "The problems such as to think,I'll leave"

　　蒋涛对于他座位附近的来人都有所防备。当记者表明来意，他起初很戒备，经过一番沟通，他终于打破了沉默，敞开心扉与记者聊了起来。

JiangTao for him near the seat to have to guard against.When the reporter that purpose,At first, he is very alert,After a communication,He finally broke the silence,Open your heart and reporters chatted up.

　　记者：你现在蜗居在网吧主要是干些什么?

reporter:Now you humble abode in the net cafe is mainly to do???????

　　蒋涛：就整天上网，玩游戏、看电影，混日子。

JiangTao:It was always on the Internet,Play games/See a movie,laze.

　　记者：工作受挫之后，没有找过其他的工作么?

reporter:Work after the setback,Did not find other work??

　　蒋涛：找过工作，但一直高不成低不就。

JiangTao:Looked for work,But has been DiBuJiu high inadequate.

　　记者：你有文凭、有工作经验，为何不从头再来呢?

reporter:You have a diploma/Have working experience,Why don't you start all over again?

　　蒋涛：重新找工作，我不知道自己还能做什么。

JiangTao:To looking for a job,I don't know if I can do.

　　记者：家里人知道你的现状么?

reporter:The present situation of the family know you??

　　蒋涛：今年春节后，我跟家里说出去打工，然后就一直呆在这个网吧。我每半个月会给爸妈打个电话，他们问我工作怎样，我都会敷衍过去。

JiangTao:After the Spring Festival this year,I work out with home said,Then stay at the Internet cafe.I every half a month to parents to make a phone call,They asked me how to work,I will play in the past.

　　面对自己的家庭，蒋涛始终不愿谈及太多。他只表示自己出生于一般的家庭，毕业工作后自己一心想着努力奋斗成为家里人心中的骄傲。但如今如此落魄，他对生活失去了信心。

In the face of his family,JiangTao always unwilling to talk about too much.He only said he was born in general family,After the graduation work preoccupied with their struggle become home in the minds of pride.But now so come down in the world,He has lost confidence in life.

　　当谈及父母时，蒋涛有气无力的话语中终于有了些异样，眼角也渐渐地湿润了。通过交谈，蒋涛同意当日下午去理发店修剪头发。问及何时准备离开网吧时，蒋涛迟疑了。“再等个把月吧，那个问题想通了，我就会离开。”

When it comes to parents,JiangTao lifeless word finally have something different,Canthus also gradually moist.Through the conversation,JiangTao agree that day afternoon hair trimmed goes to a barber's.When asked about ready to leave when Internet cafes,JiangTao hesitated."Wait a month of it,The problem to think,I'll leave."

　　

心理分析 Psychological analysis

　　长期逃避，易得抑郁症 Long-term escape,Easily depression

　　中华心理咨询协会常务理事、教育心理学专家胡波分析认为：从蒋涛的经历来看，他从学校出来后，一切都比较顺利，没有经历过较大的挫折和打击。当事业突然受挫而又找不到好的心理调适途径时，他的心理承受能力会一下坍塌，进而把自己完全封闭起来。

The executive director of the association of psychological counseling/Education psychology experts think HuBo analysis:From JiangTao experience to see,After he came out from the school,Everything is quite smoothly,Have experienced great setback and the attack.When business suddenly be thwarted and find a good psychological adjustment way,His psychology to bear ability will be the collapse,Then the completely closed up.

　　胡波说，心理承受能力不强是目前年轻人的普遍问题，当发现理想跟现实有冲突时，他们往往没有办法和勇气去面对，所以选择逃避，长期发展下去，可能会导致抑郁症。

HuBo said,The psychology bearing capacity is not strong is the common problem of young people,When found the ideal and the reality of the conflict,They often have no way and the courage to face,So the choice of escape,Long-term development on,May lead to depression.

　　胡波建议，蒋涛首先是要接受现实，忘掉自己曾经的经历，要知道上一段工作虽已失败，但同样赢得了经验。同时，其家人朋友要注意听他倾诉，让他把心里的结宣泄出来，理解他的感受。

HuBo Suggestions,JiangTao first is to accept the reality,Forget he had experience,Want to know on a job is has failed,But also won the experience.At the same time,The family and friends to pay attention to listen to his talk,Let him have his heart knot spit it out,Understand his feelings.

　　

记者手记 Reporter notes

　　蒋涛，相信你能迈过这个坎 JiangTao,Believe you can stridden the bar

　　7个多月，200多天，一个接受过高等教育的大学生，因为工作的不如意而放弃希望，在网吧当“NEET族”，实在令人惋惜。

Seven months,More than 200 days,A received higher education of college students,Because the work is unpleasant and give up hope,In the net cafe when"NEET family",Really regret.

　　工作受挫之后，不敢面对现实，躲在虚拟的网络里逃避现实。 躲在网吧寻求安慰，寻找答案，只会消磨他的生存技能和生存意志。

Work after the setback,Dare not face the reality,Hide in the virtual network escape from reality. Hiding in the net cafe for comfort,Looking for the answer,Will only kill his survival skills and the will to existence.

　　在这个竞争的社会，人只有不断地去适应。蒋涛，你必须尽快走出这个坎，重拾生活的信心!我们相信你，你一定能的!

In this competitive society,Only by constantly to adapt.JiangTao,You have to go out of the camp as soon as possible,To regain the confidence of life!We believe that you,You can make it!

　　

延伸阅读 readings

　　危机

crisis

　　全球青年失业率逼近峰值

Global youth unemployment approximation peak

　　2016年前将保持高位不变

2016 years ago the same will remain high

　　国际劳工组织今年5月22日发出警告，全球青年失业率逼近全球经济危机爆发后的峰值，最早2016年才可能回落。

The international labor organization in May this year 22 warned,Global youth unemployment approximation global economic crisis after the outbreak of the peak,The first 2016 years to may fall.

　　国际劳工组织在一份名为《全球青年就业趋势》的报告中写道，年龄介于15岁至24岁之间的青年群体中，将近7500万人今年处于失业状态，失业率为12.7%，而2011年为12.6%。报告写道：“到2016年，青年失业率预期将保持高位不变。”数据同样显示，在世界大多数地区，青年女子就业难尤为突出。

The international labor organization in a name[Global youth employment trend]Report wrote,Age between 15 to 24 years old of the youth group,Nearly 75 million people this year in unemployment,The unemployment rate is 12.7%,Compared to 12.6% in 2011.The report said:"By 2016,Youth unemployment is expected to remain high constant."Data also shows that,In the world most areas,Difficult employment is the most outstanding young woman.

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s据新华社 According to the xinhua news agency

　　支招 move

　　公司人“失业”自救指南 Company man"unemployment"Self-help guide

　　如果你不幸失业了，别为失业太过伤心，也别过分怀疑自己的能力，让我们收起眼泪从头开始：

If you unfortunately out of work,Don't be too sad unemployment,Don't too much doubt his ability,Let's pack up tears start from scratch:

　　1、当有危机信号出现时，先检查一下，你公司对你的财务承诺，如工资、奖金、社保、住房公积金，这些都应该履行到你正式离开公司的那一天，一分都不能少;

1/When there is crisis signal appeared,To check,You company for your financial commitment,Such as salary/bonus/Social security/Housing accumulation fund,These should perform to your official leave the company that day,A point can't be little;

　　2、搞清如果失业你应该获得什么。企业提供的经济赔偿金是重要的一项，劳动合同中对此有明确的数字规定;

2/Beat out if unemployment you should get??????.Enterprises to provide economic compensation is important,The labor contract have a clear digital regulations;

　　3、注意失业后几种保险缴纳的连续性，企业是否为你缴纳了，是否以实际工资来定社保基数，这些都可成为你与新雇主谈判的砝码。另外，离开时，别忘了让人力资源部为你出具失业证明，有了这个证明你才可以去社保所领取你的失业保险;

3/After unemployment insurance pay attention to several kinds of continuity,Enterprise whether you pay for,Whether in real wages to set the base of social security,These can be your new employer and weight of negotiations.In addition,leave,Don't forget to let the human resources department for you by unemployed proof,With this prove that you can go to social security have to receive your unemployment insurance;

　　4、别让你失业的公司过多地影响你，还有很多事要做呢。挖掘一下你自己的潜力，也许平时你的爱好，就能成为你现在工作的救生圈了。用上你平时积累的人脉，先做些兼职短期的工作，一样可养活自己。

4/Don't let your unemployment company too much impact on you,There are so many things to do.Digging your own potential,Maybe at ordinary times you hobby,Can become now you work the life buoy.Use at ordinary times you accumulated contacts,First do some part-time work in the short term,The same can support himself.