“国庆4个同学结婚、两个摆满月酒，还有1个曾经的兼职同事也结婚，真是hold不住了呀！”昨日，武汉一名研二学生不堪节日期间遭“红色炸弹”的轮番轰炸，在论坛上发帖大吐苦水。

"National Day four students get married/Two months with wine,One former part-time colleagues also get married,Not really hold the ah!"yesterday,Wuhan a research in two students were during the festival"Red bomb"Intensive bombing,In the BBS on post big beefing.

　　6场喜宴送2000元红包 Six games wedding breakfast sent 2000 yuan red packets

　　“今年国庆真悲催，哪儿都去不了，口袋里的钱都送人了。”自称在武汉一所部属高校读研二的学生“琪米”吐槽道，从9月底开始，她就接二连三地收到了“红色炸弹”，如果每场喜宴都去的话，10月份的生活费就全报销了。“最无语的是，去年和我共事了短短一个月的做兼职的女孩也给我发请柬。”“琪米”在帖子里说。

"This year National Day really sad reminder,Where go to,Pocket money to send a person."Claim to a subordinate at wuhan university to go to graduate school two students"Jade meters"Vomit tank way,From the end of September began to,She suffered received"Red bomb",If every wedding breakfast go to words,In October, the cost of living is all the submit an expense account."To say is the most,Last year and I work together within a month of part-time girl also send me invitation.""Jade meters"In the post said in.

　　“剩下的6个分别是高中同学和大学同学，关系都很好。”“琪米”说，在武汉请客的肯定得参加，在外地办喜事的就找个理由不去了，“参加婚宴得和同学们行动一致，大家一般都送500元左右，我也不能太少了呀。但托别人带礼金就不用准备那么多，而且还能省下来回的路费”。

"The rest of the six were high school students and college students,Relations are very good.""Jade meters"said,In wuhan treat sure have to attend,In the field of wedding to do is find a reason not to go,"Attend wedding banquet and the students to hold identical action,People usually send 500 yuan or so,I am not too little ah.But Joe others take gift just don't need so many,And still can save money back down".

　　“粗略计算，这个国庆我得送出去2000元的红包。我一个月生活费才1200元，剩下的800元怎么办呐？”“琪米”无奈地说，虽然今年双节放假8天，但为了防止回家后又收到其他同学的请柬，她准备一直待在学校。

"Rough calculation,The National Day I have to send out 2000 yuan red envelopes.I a month living expenses only 1200 yuan,The rest of the 800 yuan to do yet?""Jade meters"Helplessly say,Even though this double section 8 days holiday,But in order to prevent home and other students received the invitation,She was going to stay in school.

　大学生也难逃“份子钱” College students can"Member's money"

　　“研究生同学在忙找对象，大学同学在忙结婚，高中同学在忙生娃，初中同学在忙换尿布，小学同学在忙孩子上学问题。”这是网上近期被广为转发的一条消息，据悉，“红色炸弹”不仅是职场人的烦恼，也让很多大学生忧愁不已。

"Graduate students in the busy looking for object,University students in the busy wedding,High school students in the busy life Eva,The junior middle school students in the busy diapers,Primary school children to school in the busy problem."This is the online was recently widely forwarding a message,It is reported,"Red bomb"Not only is the trouble of workplace people,Also let many college students by sorrow.

　　记者随机采访了20名高校学生，其中8名本科生、12名研究生。结果显示，有3名本科生、6名研究生参加过同学或好友的婚礼，他们随礼的标准基本一致：普通朋友送100—200元，关系好点的送300—500元，死党则不低于600元。据调查，多数学生的“份子钱”都是从生活费中省出来，或是做兼职攒的。

Reporter random interviewed 20 university students,The eight undergraduate/12 graduate student.Results show that,There are three undergraduate/Six graduate students attended the wedding of classmates or friends,They with ritual standard basic consistent:A common friend send 100-200 yuan,Relationship better send 300-500 yuan,Friend is not less than 600 yuan.According to the survey,The majority of students"Member's money"From living in the province out,Or part-time saving.

　　送礼别“打肿脸充胖子” Gifts don't"Puff oneself up"

　　对于大学生遇到的“甜蜜的烦恼”，武汉理工大学一名辅导员表示，礼金往来是人情社会不可避免的支出，对于职场人来说也是构建和维持人脉的重要渠道。但多数大学生毕竟还没有独立的经济来源，随礼时应量力而行，切勿“打肿脸充胖子”，为了一个红包让自己陷入经济危机。“真正的友谊不是靠金钱维护的，只要心意到了就行。”他说，“份子钱”不一定非得是真金白银，一份用心挑选的礼物同样能表达诚挚的祝福。（记者 宋锐）

For college students meet"Sweet troubles",Wuhan university of science and technology a counselor said,Gift exchanges is human society inevitable expenditure,In the workplace is also build and maintain contacts important channel.But most of the college students' after all still no independent source of income,Along with the salute do no more than he can,Don't"Puff oneself up",In order to a red envelope got themselves into economic crisis."Real friendship is not depend on money maintenance,As long as the intention to will do."He said,"Member's money"Doesn't have to be a real gold and silver,A heart can also choose gifts to express sincere blessing.(Reporter SongRui)