“爱情选修课”变成“结婚证考核” "Love elective course"into"Marriage certificate examination"

　　今年3月，一条名为“牛！东莞理工学生大二结婚领证！”的帖子在微博上热传。帖子称：“东莞理工学院大二的这一对结婚领证了”。而在其后的一条微博中，直接附上了两人的婚纱照和电子相册视频。据媒体证实，两人是东莞理工学院2010级的学生，男生22岁，女生20岁，还在老家摆了100多桌酒席。大学生领证结婚的消息轰动网络和校园，很多网友表示看到两名大学生结婚的消息，让自己又相信了爱情。

In march this year,A name"cattle!The dongguan polytechnic students big marriage license!"Posts in micro bo on heat transfer.Post said:"The dongguan polytechnic college sophomore this couple married the license".And in the following a micro in bo,Direct attach two person of wedding pictures and electronic photo album video.According to media confirmed,Two people are the dongguan institute of science and technology level 2010 students,Boy 22 years old,Girl 20 years old,Also in their hometown pendulum more than 100 table, please.College students' license married news sensation network and campus,Many netizens said see two college students the news of marriage,Let yourself and believe in love.

　　湖南某高校也爆出，“两对毕业生将在学校礼堂举行毕业婚礼”。消息一经传出，轰动校园，不少学生早早地打探起具体的日期，想要一看究竟。虽然最终在学校礼堂举办婚礼的计划因种种原因作罢，但是其中一对新人还是选择在学校附近的商业街举行他们的婚礼，引来众人的围观和祝福。“要毕业了，结婚是对我们爱情的纪念，我们想选择在母校举办仪式，让母校见证我们的誓言。”两人表示，这是他们想到的最浪漫的方式。

A university in hunan was also,"Two pairs of graduates will be held in the school hall graduation ceremony".The news spread,Sensation campus,Many students find out the early date,Want to see what.Although the final in the school auditorium wedding plans for a variety of reasons forget about it,But the couple still choose near the school business street held their wedding,Draw all of the onlookers and blessing."Going to graduate from graduate school,Marriage is love for our memory,We want to choose in the Alma mater ceremony,Let the Alma mater witness our promise."Two people said,This is all they can think of the most romantic way.

　　然而，急着在大学就结婚的并不仅仅是纯粹为了爱情这么简单。一位不愿透露姓名的女生表示，自己之所以选择结婚实属无奈，因为未婚先孕，只好暂时休学，和男友商量着结婚生孩子的事情。事实上，从媒体报道的关于大学生结婚的案例不难发现，“奉子成婚”已经成为大学生早早结婚最主要的原因。

however,Hurry to get married in university is not only purely for love so simple.One does not wish to disclose the name of the girl said,Their marriage was the choice really helpless,Because premarital pregnancy,Had to temporarily out of school,And to discuss the boyfriend to marry to give birth to the child's things.In fact,From the media reports about the case of college students' marriage it is not hard to find,"Son married in"College students have become early get married the most main reason.

　　除此之外，还有一部分大学生结婚族想要趁着年轻和在校期间较清闲的时光尽快定下终身大事，结婚生子，吃下“定心丸”，以免夜长梦多。而大学期间结婚也会为今后的事业扫除谈婚论嫁的烦恼，可以将更多心思投入到事业中。“如今的相亲节目如此火爆，说到底就是大龄剩男剩女太多了。趁着大学结婚吧，我可不想毕业后四处忙着相亲。”网友“网球小强”表示，“爱情选修”变为“婚姻考核”，应该顺其自然。

In addition,There are some students family want to marry the young and during the period of school is at leisure time set life events as soon as possible,married,eat"this",In order to avoid long night more than a dream.And during the university will get married for future career sweeping talk about marriage theory to marry troubles,Can be more idea into the business."Today's blind date program so hot,In the final analysis is left with the older male female too much.Under the cover of university go get married,I don't want to after the graduation around busy to skin."Net friend"Tennis jack Bauer"said,"Love elective"into"Marriage assessment",Should let nature take its course.

支持声碰撞忧虑感 Support sound collision apprehensiveness

　　据一项调查显示，近六成学生认为可以接受在校大学生结婚，而超过七成学生认为同居是正常现象。事实上，关于在校大学生结婚的帖子，在网络上遭遇疯狂转发，送去祝福的多半是在校大学生。微博上甚至流传着这样的段子，“在校大学生领结婚证可以加三个学分，然而很难理解原因是什么。身边某位学姐说：国家级证书当然加学分了……国家级证书……”段子虽然颇有恶搞成分，但却不难看出，大学生群体对待大学生结婚族的包容和理解，甚至有一边倒的热捧趋势。

According to a survey,Nearly sixty percent of the students think that can accept college students get married,And more than seventy percent students think that co-habitation is normal phenomenon.In fact,About college students get married posts,On the network encounter crazy forward,Send blessings are for the most part of the college students.Micro blog circulating even such a joke,"College students get a marriage can add three credits,However it is difficult to understand what the reason is.Side a learn elder sister said:National certificate of course and credits......National certificate..."Joke though quite a kuso composition,But it is not difficult to see that,College students' community college students to get married race's tolerance and understanding,There is even one-sided heat holding trend.

　　2010届学生阮雨盈毕业后和男友一同出国留学了两年，今年6月，两人在母校拍摄了一组婚纱照，随后在当地民政部门领取了结婚证。她表示，如果能对自己的决定负责，结婚跟身份年龄没有冲突。“我不排除现在正常年龄的大学生会有思想成熟的人，但大多数人，20岁出头，如果说要结婚，也许真的是为了出风头吧。大学，是用来充实自己的，用来完善自己的‘三观’，丰富自己的经验，谈恋爱当然是可以选修的，但婚姻不是谈恋爱，不是两个人开心就合不开心就分，婚姻意味着更多责任。”

Class of 2010 RuanYu surplus after graduation and with her boyfriend go abroad study abroad for two years,In June this year,Two people in the Alma mater took a group of photography,Then in the local civil affairs departments to receive a marriage certificate.She says,If can be responsible for their decisions,Married with identity age without conflict."I do not rule out now normal age of college students there will be a mature person,But most people,20 s,If want to get married,Maybe it is to cut a figure it.university,Is used to enrich their own,Used to perfect their own‘through’,Enrich their own experience,Fall in love of course can be optional,But marriage is not a fall in love,Not two people happy shu not happy points,Marriage means more responsibility."

　　在大学生结婚合法化后，多数人还是表示，这是学生权利的一种进步，但会暂时保留结婚的权利。绝大部分高校也采取“既不提倡也不制止”的态度。据中国社会调查所的网络调查显示，69%的被访者不赞成在校大学生结婚，只有21%的被访者表示赞成。大三学生李佳珂表示，大学生没有牢固的经济基础和非常成熟的思想，又是汲取知识最佳的时期，选择结婚并不是明智之举。“婚姻是水到渠成的事情，在感情和事业面前，成家应放在立业之后。”

In the college students get married after the legalization,Most people still said,This is the students' right of a kind of progress,But temporarily reserved the right to marry.Most of the university also take"Neither advocate also don't stop"attitude.According to Chinese social survey network survey,69% of respondents did not approve of college students get married,Only 21% of respondents in the affirmative.Junior student LiJiaKe said,College students' no solid economic foundation and very mature thought,Knowledge is the best period,Getting married is not advisability lift."Marriage is something to be,In the emotional and before career,After a family should be put in career."

　　也有少数人持不同态度。家长胡先生就希望自己的儿子能尽快在大学里找到一个合适的女友，把关系确定下来领证结婚，省去后顾之忧。在胡先生看来，结婚和学业并不冲突，反而能够相得益彰。儿子说，每次接到父亲的“催婚”电话后都只能无奈地附和着。

There are a few who hold different attitudes.Parents Mr Hu will hope his son in the university as soon as possible to find a suitable girlfriend,Determine the relationship between down marriage license,Save trouble back at home.In Mr. Hu seems,Marriage and school are not in conflict,It can bring out the best in each other.Son said,Each received his father's"Urge marriage"After the telephone only reluctantly supportively.

过早成家需谨慎 Early marriage should be interpreted with caution

　　美国历史上第一位华裔女市长陈李琬若曾公开表示，“大学生做妈妈，我觉得没有什么不可以。我自己就是这样过来的。如果学生的身体好，可以承受学习和做父母的双重压力，就应该允许他们这样做。”

The history of the United States first Chinese female mayor ChenLi Wan if has publicly said,"College students do mom,I feel to do not have what not.This is my own back.If a student's body is good,May inherit learning and parents double pressure,It should allow them to do this."

　　相对于大学生同居来说，有着严肃色彩的结婚似乎更能让人容易接受。然而，“婚姻大事，绝非儿戏”，即使一些大学生到了法定结婚年龄，但依然需要三思而后行。

Relative to the college students for co-habitation,Has a serious color wedding seems more can let a person easy to accept.however,"marriage,Is no matter",Even if some of the college students to the legal marriageable age,But still need to look before you leap.

　　爱情是美妙的，但恋爱绝不等同于婚姻。仅凭一腔热情和“海誓山盟”结婚是不够的，当柴米油盐成为生活的主旋律，当琐事占据了大部分的精力，需要的不仅是爱情，更是一份责任。婚姻的一纸文书，会成为未来生活的牵绊。而大学生真的做好承担责任的准备了吗？

Love is wonderful,But love will never equal to marriage.With only one cavity warm and"Vows of eternal love"Marriage is not enough,When daily necessities become the theme of life,When trivia occupied most of the energy,Need not only love,But also a responsibility.Marriage a paper documents,Will become the future life of tie.And college students really ready to take on the responsibility for?

　　大学生没有独立的经济基础，学费尚且要靠家庭供应，谈婚论嫁就更为时尚早了。在现实面前，属于婚姻的浪漫理想大多不切实际。据一些媒体报道对已婚大学生的回访中发现，在大学期间结婚的大学生大多生活并不幸福。“奉子成婚”表面上缓解了就业的压力，实际上反而加重了他们的负担。

College students' no independent economic foundation,Tuition have to depend on family supply,Talk about marriage theory to marry the more early.In front of the reality,Belong to the romantic ideal marriage most impractical.According to some media reports for married students found in return,During the university married life is not happy most of the college students."Son married in"On the surface reduce the stress of employment,In fact aggravate their burden.

　　相较于我国的法律，西方国家对结婚年龄的限制门槛要低得多，在俄罗斯、法国等国家，男女14、15岁便可以结婚。即便是在我国的香港和台湾，16岁已是合法结婚年龄。然而，在这些国家和地区，真正早婚的却寥寥无几。多数人认为，在事业没有完全打好基础之前，结婚显得有些操之过急，不过，倘若能尽快培养自己成熟、健康、自信的个性，维系美满的婚姻也并非完全不可行。(记者 唐湘岳 通讯员 沈剑奇)

Compared with China's laws,Western countries the marriage age limit threshold are much lower,In Russia/France and other countries,14 men and women/15 years old can get married.Even in China's Hong Kong and Taiwan,16 is legal marriageable age.however,In these countries and regions,But few really early.Most people think that,In business not fully before lay a good foundation,Marriage appears some have too many irons in the fire,but,If can develop their own mature as soon as possible/health/Self-confident personality,Maintain a good marriage are not entirely not feasible.(Reporter correspondent TangXiangYue ShenJianJi)

　　(来源:光明日报)

(Sources: guangming daily)