家长帮女儿教训同学，事儿闹大了 The parents teach students for my daughter,Business make big

打人的家长被治安拘留15天 Hitting parents be security detention 15 days

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　　大河社区网·洛阳频道·政情民生板块：上周日下午5点左右，瀍河区洛阳东方外国语学校门口，一个家长殴打三个女生，学生看样子像初中生。有没有人知道咋回事？咋处理的？

The river SheOuWang · luoyang channel · comparison the people's livelihood plate:At around 5 PM on Sunday,The chan reach luoyang dongfang foreign language school gate,A parent beaten three girls,It seems that students like junior high school student.Does anyone know realizing?Zha processing?

　　网友“穿别人的鞋”10月17日17时54分发帖

Net friend"Wear other's shoes"On October 17, when 17 54 distribution of post

延伸采访 Extended interview

实习生李震 Interns LiZhen

　　一个家长殴打三个女生？网友“穿别人的鞋”的帖子引起了记者的关注。

A parent beaten three girls?Net friend"Wear other's shoes"Post caught the news of attention.

　　昨天下午，记者与洛阳市公安局瀍河派出所取得了联系。该所治安三中队中队长杨卫军在受访中证实，10月14日下午5时许，在辖区中州路东段东方外国语学校门前确实发生了一名家长殴打3名女生的事件。

Yesterday afternoon,Reporters and luoyang public security bureau police station the chan river made contact.Local public security YangWeiJun three squadron squadron leader in the surveyed confirmed,On October 14,, xu 5 p.m,In the territory zhongzhou road in front of the eastern foreign language school really happened a parents beat three girls event.

　　当日下午5时许，瀍河派出所交巡警一中队接到市局指挥中心指令，称东方外国语学校门口有一名学生家长正在殴打3名女学生。

That day afternoon 5 xu,The chan river police station JiaoXunJing a squadron received city bureau command center instruction,Says the dongfang foreign language school gate have a student parents are beaten three female students.

　　交巡警一中队的值班人员迅速赶往现场处置，随后，杨卫军与治安三中队的同事奉令赶到现场将当事人陈某带回队里。

JiaoXunJing a squadron of duty personnel quickly to the rescuing site disposal,then,YangWeiJun and security three squadron colleague arrived on the scene was ordered to work his way up the back to the team.

　　办案民警常警官说，陈某家住吉利区，在某企业工作，其女儿是东方外国语学校高中学生，今年16岁。10月14日下午，陈某送女儿返校，在校门口遇到了与其女儿闹过矛盾的宋某、李某及苗某，遂上前动手。

Police in handling often said the police officer,In JiLiOu work his way up,Work in an enterprise,Their daughter is eastern foreign language school high school students,16 years old of this year.On October 14, afternoon,Work his way up to send his daughter back to school,Meet at the school gate and its daughter make contradictory SongMou/Li mou and shoot a,Hence come forward to.

　　警方调查证实，陈某的女儿与宋、李、苗之间的矛盾，是在网络贴吧里产生的。“被打的3名女生读初二，以前也是东方外国语学校的学生，后转至其他学校读书。”常警官说。

The police investigation confirmed,The daughter of song and work his way up/li/The contradiction between the seedlings,Is in the network stick in the produce."Black-and-blue three girls read 2,Before is the dongfang foreign language school students,Turn to the other school."Often said the police officer.

　　警察赶到现场将陈某带到警局后，陈某即心生悔意，责怪自己过于冲动。陈某称，他与妻子离异之后，独自带着女儿生活，很不希望看到女儿被人欺负。

The police arrived on the scene will work his way up to the police station after,Work his way up that is born heart regret,Blame yourself too impulsive.Work his way up says,After he and his wife divorced,Life alone with her daughter,Very did not want to see her daughter be bullied.

处罚家长被治安拘留15天 Punishment parents be security detention 15 days

　　依据《治安管理处罚法》第四十三条第二款第(三)项之规定，警方依法对陈某做出了治安拘留15天的处罚。

According to the[The security administration punishment law]The second paragraph of article 43 first(three)The provisions of item,The police work his way up in accordance with the law made public security detention 15 days of punishment.

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孩子遇到问题,家长应积极沟通 The children have a problem,Parents should actively communication

　　马来西亚归国留学生、多媒体大学硕士、洛阳市西西英语培训学校创办人CC老师说，这位家长处理此事的办法是很不可思议的。

Malaysia returned students/Multimedia university master/Luoyang CC English training school founder CC teacher said,The parents the way to handle it is incredible.

　　首先，这位家长对同学间矛盾的处理方法不妥，也将对其女儿在成长过程中产生消极的影响。其次，同学或同事间出现矛盾，最好的办法是积极沟通，先从自身找原因，切勿一味地责怪对方，更不要采取过激甚至极端的办法，不要用武力解决问题。

First of all,The parents of students of the contradiction between the improper treatment,Will the daughter in the process of growing up the produce negative influence.secondly,Classmates or colleagues contradictory,The best way is to actively communication,From their own first look for reason,Don't blindly blame each other,More don't take extreme even extreme measures,Don't use of military force to solve problems.

　　中国有一句老话：孩子是父母亲的影子。作为成年人，父母在孩子遇到问题时，应该提醒其采取冷静、理智的态度，让孩子学会在自己身上找原因，多多换位思考，这样更容易化解矛盾，让事情朝着好的方向发展。(大河报记者张鸿飞通讯员贾建国)

There is an old saying in China:Children are the parents's shadow.As adults,Parents in children have a problem,Should remind the take calm/Rational attitude,Let the children learn in yourself to blame,Many transposition thinking,It is easier to resolve contradictions,Keep things moving in the right direction.(The river ZhangHongFei news reporter correspondent JiaJianGuo)