你能做到“新二十四孝”中的几条呢？在一周时间里，重庆江北区文明办和复盛镇联合对400位16-45岁的市民进行的问卷调查显示：大部分子女因为精力、距离等原因，只能做到其中几条，而对于子女的无可奈何，父母们普遍持包容态度，老人们说：“孩子好，自己就好。”

You can do it"New 24 filial piety"? A few of?In about a week's time,Chongqing jiangbei civilization office and complex cheng town of 400 joint 16-45 years old citizens of the survey shows:Most of the children for energy/Distance and other reasons,Can only do among them a few,For children helpless,Parents commonly keep containing manner,Old people say:"Good children,yourself."

极少给父母做饭，可做一次老人会感动好久 Few parents to cook,To do a old man will be moved for a long time

　　调查显示，在不和父母同住的中青年人中，能每月回家看望一次父母的占36.7%，每年看望一次的占41.8%，一年以上才能看望一次的占21.5%。而回家看望父母时，父母在家准备饭菜的比例高达93.3%，在饭馆吃饭的比例占5.2%，子女做饭的仅占1.5%。

Investigation shows that,In not living with parents of young and middle-aged people,A month can go home to visit a parents' accounts for 36.7%,Every year to visit a accounted for 41.8%,More than one year to see a 21.5%.And go home to visit parents,Parents at home meal preparation proportion reaches as high as 93.3%,A restaurant in the proportion of 5.2%,Children cooking only to account for 1.5%.

　　“其实父母要求不高，偶尔给他们做一次饭，老人会感动好久。”受访者刘欢欢说，上个月母亲生日，她下厨做了一道妈妈最爱吃的糖醋排骨。看着一碗排骨端上席，母亲奇怪地看了她一眼，脸上笑颜如菊，转头对老伴说：“太阳从西边出来喽……”

"Actually parents demand is not high,Occasionally they do a rice,The old man will be moved for a long time."Respondents LiuHuanHuan said,Mother's birthday last month,She cook do a mother love to eat sour and sweet pork steak.Looking at a bowl of ribs on the end table,Strange to see mother gave her a glance,Smile face such as Daisy,Turned to his wife and says:"The sun were to rise in the west after ather……"

　　这句话让刘欢欢很有感触，想到父母终究会慢慢老去，她不禁伤感：“父母都喜欢吃面、喝骨头汤，以后老得做不动了，我这个唯一的女儿难道还上街去买不成？”

Does this sentence make LiuHuanHuan are feeling,Think of the parents will ultimately slowly old,She can not help but sad:"All parents like to eat noodles/Drink bone soup,After the old have to do not move,I'm the only daughter is also took to the streets to buy no?"

不是不顾父母，而是没有精力和条件 Not in spite of their parents,But no energy and conditions

　　此次调查还显示，受访的儿女们每天能打一个电话问候父母的比例为13.7%，每周能打一个电话的为63.4%，一个月以上才打一次电话的为15.4%。约68.3%的儿女平均每次给父母打电话的时间在5分钟以内，21.7%的中青年人每次与父母通话的时间在5-10分钟。

The survey also showed,The children of every day can play a telephone greetings parents' proportion is 13.7%,Every week, make a telephone call to 63.4%,More than one month to make a telephone call to 15.4%.About 68.3% of the children average every time give parents a call time on within 5 minutes,21.7% of the people of every time with parents call time on 5-10 minutes.

　　另外，11.2%的中青年人不清楚父母爱好；89.2%的儿女没有对父母说过我爱你；成年后没有陪过父母逛公园的占20.3%，陪父母逛过1-5次公园的占62.7%，陪父母逛过5-10次公园的仅为12.2%。

In addition,In 11.2% of the young people don't know parents hobby;89.2% of the children not to his parents say I love you;Adults have no parents to the park with 20.3%,With parents around a 1-5 times park accounted for 62.7%,With parents around 5-10 times of the park is only 12.2%.

　　“不是不顾父母，而是没有精力和条件。”受访者罗强是复盛镇安置房建设工地的建筑工人，他的老家在四川农村，父母都已60多岁了。“我和老婆在重庆打工，常常都想回家看看老人，尽尽孝心，但回一趟家来回要花4天时间。城市生活成本又太高，连我自己都是住在工地，接父母来团聚不现实。”罗强说，他最大的心愿就是每天有活儿干，春节能按时领着工钱回家过年，实在没有精力关心老人的生活细节。

"Not in spite of their parents,But no energy and conditions."Respondents LuoJiang is complex cheng town housing for construction site construction workers,His hometown in sichuan rural,Parents are already more than 60 years old."My wife and I work in chongqing,Always wanted to go back home to see the old man,Do exert a filial piety,But back to a trip back home will spend four days.City life and cost is too high,Even I myself are living in site,After parents come together not reality."LuoJiang said,His greatest wish is to have work to do every day,The Spring Festival can be on time led wages to return home for the New Year,It didn't have the energy to care about the old man's life details.

记得小孩的出生年月，却不知道父母生日 Remember the child's birth,But don't know parents birthday

　　“你知道父母的生日吗？”在本次问卷调查中，调查小组还进行了一次调查实验，即在街边随机询问受访者父母和小孩的出生年月日，并要求对方快速说出答案。

"Do you know your parents' birthdays?"In this questionnaire survey,Investigation team also carried out a survey experiment,Namely in the street random ask respondents parents and children's date of birth,And ask for the quick give the answer.

　　形成鲜明对比的是，被调查的20人能马上准确说出自己小孩的出生年月日，多数还能记起出生时辰。但当问及自己父母的出生年月日时，他们用得最多的词是“大概是”、“好像是”、“记得是”，只有4位受访者“过关”。

Contrast,Be investigated 20 people can immediately accurately tell their child's date of birth,Most still can remember was born hour.But when asked about their parents when the date of birth,They use the most words are"Is probably"/"Seems to be"/"remember",Only four respondents"pass".

儿女没时间，老人能谅解 Children don't have time to,The old man can understand

　　老人是儿女孝心最直接的感受者。因此，此次问卷调查结束后，调查小组也采访了几十位老人对于儿女孝心的评价。让人感到温暖的是，老人们都很能理解儿女的力不从心。

The old man is children filial piety is the most direct experiencer.therefore,After the end of the questionnaire survey,Investigation team also interviewed dozens of old man for the evaluation of children filial piety.Let a person feel the warm is,Old people are to understand children's ability not equal to one's ambition.

　　“儿女都有了自己的小家庭，我不强求他们这24条条条都做到，只要常常往家里打电话，有假期就尽可能回家，我就知足了。”复盛镇居民王婆婆说，孩子们要顾工作、顾小家、顾孙辈，都很辛苦，只要他们过得好，比什么都好。（记者 张莎 实习生 韦巧云）

"Children have their own family,I don't demand that they all do article 24 all roads,As long as often went to call in the home,A holiday will be home as soon as possible,It is sufficient for me."Complex cheng town residents WangPoPo said,The children to the work/The small home/The grandchildren,Are very hard,As long as they live well,Ratio what all good.(Reporter ZhangSha interns WeiQiaoYun)

“新二十四孝”行为标准 "New 24 filial piety"Standard of behavior

　　1.经常带着爱人、子女回家

1. Often with love/Children home

　　2.节假日尽量与父母共度

2. As far as possible holidays with our mother and father

　　3.为父母举办生日宴会

3. For parents have a birthday party

　　4.亲自给父母做饭

4. Personally to parents cook

　　5.每周给父母打个电话

5. Make a phone call to her parents once a week

　　6.父母的零花钱不能少

6. Parents' money cannot little

　　7.为父母建立“关爱卡”

7. To establish for the parents"Shut AiKa"

　　8.仔细聆听父母的往事

8. Listen carefully to the parents of the past

　　9.教父母学会上网

9. Teach parents learn to surf the Internet

　　10.经常为父母拍照

10. Often take pictures for the parents

　　11.对父母的爱要说出口

11. The parents' love to say export

　　12.打开父母的心结

12. Open the parents' heart

　　13.支持父母的业余爱好

13. Support parents hobby

　　14.支持单身父母再婚

14. Support single parents remarried

　　15.定期带父母做体检

15. Regular with the parents to do physical examination

　　16.为父母购买合适的保险

16. For parents to buy the appropriate insurance

　　17.常跟父母做交心的沟通

17. Often do with their parents to the heart communication

　　18.带父母一起出席重要的活动

18. Take his parents to attend important activities

　　19.带父母参观你工作的地方

19. Take parents to visit the place where you work

　　20.带父母去旅行或故地重游

20. Take my parents to travel or go back there again

　　21.和父母一起锻炼身体

21. And parents take exercise together

　　22.适当参与父母的活动

22. Suitable to participate in the activities of their parents

　　23.陪父母拜访他们的老朋友

23. With parents visit their old friends

　　24.陪父母看一场老电影

24. Accompany their parents to see an old movie