疑惑 doubt

柜子好着 钱咋少了 Cabinet good with money zha less

　　家住咸阳毕塬路的王先生在外做生意，妻子李女士在毛条路上开着门面，为用钱方便，他们在家里都会放一些现金，然而去年秋天到今年隔一段时间，他们的钱总会莫名其妙地少几百块。

Live in xianyang burt tableland way Mr. Wang out business,His wife ms. Li in the top the road open appearance,Convenient for money,They at home will put some cash,Last year, however, fall this year to every once in a while,Their money will somehow less hundreds of block.

　　第一次丢钱是去年秋天，李女士打开放钱的柜子，发现少了300元，便问丈夫是否拿钱遭否认。“是不是放钱时数错了?”不久，李女士又发现柜子里面少了200元。夫妻商量后觉得这事很蹊跷。

The first is losing money last fall,Ms. Li play open the cabinet of money,Found less 300 yuan,Asked whether her husband take money was denied."Isn't put money hours wrong?"soon,Ms. Li and found inside the cabinet less 200 yuan.Husband and wife after to think that's a catch in it.

　　“柜子是锁着的，钥匙一直都在我们身上，谁能把钱拿出来?”夫妻俩觉得纳闷，“如果家里进了小偷，小偷是怎么知道钱就放在柜子里呢，而且好几千块钱，为什么只拿几百，拿后还会将柜子锁好?”

"Cabinet is locked,The key has been on us,Who can take money out?"A couple feel puzzled,"If the home into the thief,The thief is how can anyone know money, and store them in your closet,And thousands of dollars,Why only take hundreds of,Take the cabinet will be locked?"

　　柜子好着，钱却少了，王先生夫妇越想越觉得奇怪。

Cabinet with good,But less money,Mr. Wang couple more think more feel strange.

质问 query

原来是女儿拿了钱 Turned out to be the daughter take the money

　　15岁的露露是王先生夫妇的独生女，今年读初三，但夫妇俩不愿相信女儿拿了家里钱。

15 years old is Mr. Wang lulu couple's only daughter,Read this year 3,But the couple don't want to believe that her daughter took home money.

　　“如果真是她拿了，那可能是孩子有什么急事吧。”今年9月初，柜子和以前一样好好的，但里面的钱又少了300元。“孩子又拿钱了!”李女士非常生气，当面问孩子是否拿钱。孩子承认自己拿了，但她说是因为碰见两个坏人找她要钱。听孩子说有坏人找她要钱，李女士赶紧去派出所报了警。经过询问，民警发现露露说的话漏洞很多。最后露露承认说谎。

"If it was she took,It could be child have any urgent matter."In early September this year,Cabinet and well as before,But the money inside and less 300 yuan."The child took the money!"Ms. Li very angry,Face to face, ask your child if they take money.Children admitted that he took,But she said it was because met two men find her for money.To hear the child say there are bad people find her for money,Ms. Li go to police station called the police.After asking,Police found lulu said a lot of loopholes.Finally lulu admitted lying.

　　之后回家，李女士发现孩子并没有去学习画画，而是在家里玩电脑。问原因，孩子说学校放假。李女士打电话到学校，没想到老师说露露今年就没有来上过课，也没有交学画画的费用。原来几年来，露露一直在学习画画，几个月前，又到了给画画学校交钱的时间。李女士便给了孩子500元钱，让给学校交。“没想到她压根就没交钱。”

Home after,Ms. Li discover the child and didn't go to study painting,But at home playing computer.Ask reason,The boy said a school holiday.Ms. Li call the school,Didn't expect the teacher said lulu this year didn't come to class,Also did not pay the cost of learning to paint.Originally in the past few years,Lulu has been learning painting,A few months ago,Again to painting schools pay time.Ms. Li gave children 500 yuan,To school in."Unexpectedly she ain't no pay."

　　李女士算了笔账，从去年秋天到现在，露露已从家里拿了1000多元钱了。

Ms. Li calculate bill,Since last autumn now,Lulu already from home and took 1000 multivariate money.

气愤 angry

孩子拿钱买了游戏卡 The child take money to buy the game card

　　李女士说：“孩子要钱，我们基本都会给，平常也会给孩子零花钱。”

Ms. Li said:"Children want money,Our basic will give,Common will to give children pocket money."

　　10月19日晚，王先生回家将衣服放在卧室旁边的凳子上，第二天早上穿衣服时却发现口袋里少了100块钱。20日早上，露露出门后，李女士去帮露露叠被子，结果发现被子上放着5张游戏点卡，每张价值30元，同样的点卡在露露房间里还找到了10多张。

On October 19 late,Mr. Wang home clothes on the bedroom next to the bench,The second day morning to wear clothes but found less 100 dollars in his pocket.20, in the morning,Lulu after go out,Ms. Li to help lulu fold the quilt,The results showed that the quilt on the 5 tickets to the game point card,Each value 30 yuan,The same point card in lulu room also found more than 10 zhang.

　　李女士想起来露露经常玩一款名叫“QQ炫舞”的游戏，了解后得知，这款游戏在玩到一定等级后就需要购买点卡充值。她说：“我原本以为玩那游戏就是放松放松，没想到会发展成这样。”

Ms. Li want to up lulu often play a new name"QQ dazzle dance"game,After understanding that,The game play to a certain level after the need to purchase a point card replenishing.She said:"I thought playing the game is to relax,I didn't know I would develop into this."

　　家里连续丢钱，可是又不能不放钱，王先生夫妇便给家里买了个保险柜。

Home continuous lost money,But have to put money,Mr. Wang couple gave home and bought a safe.

应对 Deal with

“买了保险柜防女儿” "Buy the safe daughter prevention"

　　“没想到买保险柜，居然是为防女儿。”王先生也觉得荒唐但是很无奈，“孩子还直接从我们口袋里把钱拿了。”李女士说：“我们现在洗澡都会把钱放进衬衣口袋，拿进浴室里，晚上睡觉还需要先把钱藏好。”

"Didn't expect to buy safe,Actually is to prevent daughter."Mr. Wang also feel absurd but very helpless,"Children also directly from our pocket money took."Ms. Li said:"We now take a shower will put the money in his shirt pocket,Take into the bathroom,Evening sleeping also need to hide the money well."

　　22日中午，在王先生的带领下，记者来到了露露的卧室。除了露露的画，墙上还贴着各种奖状和喜报共六张，但时间却都是2010年以前。说完墙上的奖状，王先生又从保险柜里拿出几张证书和两枚金牌。“都是露露参加全国或者市上的比赛时得到的。”

22 at noon,In Mr. Wang led,Reporters came to lulu's bedroom.In addition to lulu painting,The wall also put all kinds of certificate of merit and a bulletin of glad tidings were six zhang,But time but is 2010 years ago.Say that finish the wall testimonials,Mr. Wang and from safe took out a few pieces of certificate and two gold MEDALS."Is lulu take part in the national or the game on city get."

　　记者了解到，露露曾经获得许多全国性美术比赛的金奖。“原来不仅学习画画，文化课成绩在班里也排在中等偏上的位置。”王先生说，“如今钱不丢了，但孩子现在画画不好好学了，成绩也退步到班里的倒数几名了，真不知该咋办呀?”

The reporter understands,Lulu won many national art games gold medal."Originally not only learn to draw,Scores of literacy class in the class also row in the position of the above the average."Mr. Wang said,"Now don't lost money,But now the child draw for not learning,Results also setback to class the reciprocal several,I don't know which way to turn when ah?"

调查 survey

校旁文具店卖游戏点卡 The school side stationery shop sells game point card

　　21日中午，李女士和露露再次聊到了点卡的事情。李女士问露露是不是用爸爸口袋里的钱买了点卡?露露称自己绝对没有，并说“小金桔”的阿姨可以给她作证。在李女士的再三追问下，露露承认自己以前都是在她们学校对面的“小金桔礼品文具店”买的点卡，“小金桔”的阿姨对她非常好，好多同学都在那里买点卡。

At noon on the 21st,Ms. Li and lulu chat again to point card things.Ms. Li ask lulu is with father's pocket money to buy a point card?Lulu said they absolutely not,And said"Small kumquat"Aunt can give her testimony.In li asked over and over again next,Lulu admitted that he was in their school opposite"Small kumquat gift stationery shop"Buy point card,"Small kumquat"Aunt was very kind to her,A lot of students are there some card.

　　22日，记者来到露露就读的咸阳道北中小学门口，在学校对面找到了这家名为“小金桔”的文具店。走进这家店，各种文具、礼品琳琅满目，几个学生在店里挑选着圆珠笔。在靠窗户的柜台上贴着一张白颜色的纸条，纸条上写着“售：Q币、点卡”。记者询问，文具店里怎么还卖点卡?老板没有说话，转身离开。在“小金桔”文具店旁边，一家名为“欧克”的文具店，也是在店门上贴着“售各种游戏点卡”的纸条。随后记者又随机走访了育才中学和天王中学门口没发现类似情况。

22,The reporter comes to lulu in xianyang road north at the door of the primary and secondary schools,It's opposite the school to find the name"Small kumquat"Stationery shop.Walked into the store,All kinds of stationery/Gift full of beautiful things in eyes,A few students are in the store pick the ball pen.In the window on the counter a white color of the note,Note top write"sale:Qq COINS/Point card".Reporters asked about the,The stationery store how still selling point card?The boss didn't speak,Turned to leave.in"Small kumquat"Stationery shop next to,A name"The g"Stationery shop,Is in on the door"Sell all kinds of game point card"note.Then the reporter also random visited yucai middle school and high school at the door of the king didn't find the similar situation.

专家 experts

勿为赚钱忽视与孩子交流 Don't to earn enough money to ignore and children exchange

　　在露露房门后面，有用黑色笔写的一段话。“不喜欢现在的自己，从来都没有做真正的自己，以后什么数学，什么英语全部给丢进大海里。”22日下午，咸阳市心理学会心理咨询师康北莉分析说，露露沉迷网络主要责任在家长，父母为了让孩子生活得更好而努力工作，大家都能理解，可是也不能因此忽视了与孩子的交流。露露是独生女，青春期的孩子对生活有太多的疑问，可又不愿询问他人。如果父母忙于工作，没时间或者没有采取好的方式和她交流，她便很容易误入歧途。露露沉迷于网络游戏，一定是在游戏中找到了现实中缺少的东西。要改变孩子的现状，家长必须更多地和孩子交流，获得孩子的信任。

In lulu behind the door,Useful black pen to write a passage."Don't like yourself right now,Never do the true self,What mathematics after,What all English to throw into the sea."22 afternoon,XianYangShi psychological society psychological counseling ShiKang north lisa analysis said,Lulu addict network main responsibility in the parents,Parents in order to let the children live better and hard work,Everyone can understand,But also can't so ignored and children exchange.Lulu is only daughter,Adolescence children to life there are too many questions,But they don't want to ask others.If the parents are busy working,Don't have the time or not taken good way and she exchanges,She was very easy to go astray.Lulu addicted to online game,Must be in the game found the lack of real things.To change the present situation of the children,Parents must be more and children exchange,Get the child's confidence.

　　(为保护未成年人隐私，文中人物均系化名) 本报记者车阳阳

(For the protection of minors' privacy,This paper figures are alias) Our reporter CheYangYang