今年74岁、来自茂名市茂港区坡心镇的观老太太告诉记者，她老伴去世得早，只有一个女儿，20年前嫁到香港作商人妇，平时往家里寄送的钱物倒不少，只是几年间难得回来几趟。“前些年，女儿请了一个保姆照顾我的生活起居，但我觉得自己身体还行，不用乱花钱，就把保姆辞掉了，去年才搬来茂名市区，和侄子一起住。”

This year 74 - year - old/From maoming alum port town of slope heart view the old lady told reporters,She is his wife died early,Only a daughter,Married for 20 years ago to Hong Kong businessman woman,At ordinary times to send home of many goods fall,Just a few years rare back several times."Before some year,Daughter hired a nurse to take care of my life daily life,But I feel the body still line,Don't waste money,Put the nanny to quit,Last year moved to maoming city,Nephew and live together."

　　观老太太眼带泪光说：“逢年过节，女儿都会特地打电话跟我聊天，嘘寒问暖。但每次通完电话，心里总觉得空落落的。夜里更想念女儿，盼着她能经常回家看看。”

The old lady said with tears eye view:"holiday,Daughter can specially make a phone call with my chat,Be caring and attentive.But every time off the phone,Heart always feel empty of.The night more missing daughter,Looking forward to her to go home often."

　　记者调查发现，茂名当地的“空巢”老人，尽管各自家庭情况不同，面对问题有别，但他们都希望能和自己的儿女多沟通。

Reporter survey found,Maoming local"Empty nest"The old man,Although their family situation is different,In the face of the problem has,But they all hope to be able to communicate, and for your children.

　　曾经在铁路部工作过，如今退休回到老家茂名安享晚年的易大爷对记者说，“儿子是天津某事业单位公务员，一家人在北京生活，女儿在茂名一家外企做翻译，平时多往广州跑业务，也没时间陪我这个老头子。我在无聊的时候，只能约上几个老朋友到公园走走，或是搓搓麻将打发时间，更多时候是自个呆在家看电视。”

Once worked in the ministry of railways,Now retired to their hometown maoming, an old lady's easy big ye says to the reporter,"Son is a business unit of tianjin civil servants,A family living in Beijing,Daughter in maoming a foreign do translation,In peacetime to guangzhou to run the business,Also does not have the time to accompany me to the old man.I was bored,Only about on a few old friends going for a walk in the park,Rub or play mahjong to kill time,More time is from stay home and watch TV."

　　性格豁达的易大爷说很理解儿女们的难处，希望他们都生活得好好的，但“别忘了家里还有养育过他们的人，要常回家看看。”

Character open-minded easy big ye say very understanding of the difficulty of children,Hope they all live well,but"Don't forget to home and raise their people,Want to go home often."

　　“我人老了，现在又中风，觉得活着就是害自己的子女，真是‘好死唔死(该死不死)’。”住在茂名苏上学城中村的黄老奶奶懊恼地告诉记者，“子女‘搵食艰难’，要他们常常陪自己在身边是不可能的，但希望彼此多点沟通交流。就说今年的中秋节吧，儿子和女儿都给我送了月饼，馅料全是蛋黄莲蓉或伍仁的，但我更喜欢的是水果月饼。”

"I am old,Now and stroke,Think to live is against their children,is‘Good die well die(Damn the undead)’."Live in maoming Sue village inside city school of huanglao grandma chagrin to tell reporter,"children‘Difficult to find food’,Will they often accompany himself in the side is not possible,But I hope each other multipoint communication.He said this year's Mid-Autumn festival,Son and daughter have to send me the moon cake,Stuffing is full of lotus seed paste or WuRen egg yolk,But I prefer is fruit cakes."

　　一位在广州天河工作的茂名籍戴姓建筑工程师接受记者连线采访时表示，不少年轻人迫于生活压力，不得不远离父母外出工作，对父母的孝敬显得有点力不从心，一般只能提供最基本的钱物需要。

A work in guangzhou tianhe cadastral maoming DaiXing structural engineer to accept an interview with reporters said attachment,Many young people are under the stress in your life,Have to away from the parents go out to work,Honor your father and your parents seem a bit ability not equal to one's ambition,General can only provide the most basic goods need.

　　戴工程师说，由于工作原因，他很少回家，就算回家，一般也都是陪父母吃顿饭，为他们添几件衣服，陪他们逛逛聊聊是极少的。“孤身在外又何尝不想家人呢？想把父母接到身边来，但自己的经济条件不允许，只能多给他们打电话。”

Wear engineer said,Because working reason,He seldom comes home,Even home,General are also accompany their parents eat meal,Add some clothes for them,Chat with them around is few."Alone and out how don't want to family yet?Want to come from parents,But their economic conditions are not allowed,Only give them a call."

　　社会观察学者认为，因为感觉整天无所事事，心里空荡荡的，大多数“空巢”老人倍感孤独，精神生活乏味。交流时，他们的话语很多，同样一句话，往往会说上好几遍。做子女的，应尽己所能，多回家陪陪年老的父母，用自己的孝心和耐心抚慰他们。(完)

Social observation scholars believe that,Because of a feeling that doing nothing all day long,Heart empty,most"Empty nest"The old man feel more lonely,Spirit life tedious.exchange,Many of their words,The same word,Often said on several times.Made children's,Should do what they can to,Many home with old parents,With their own filial piety and patient comfort them.(finish)