遭遇恋人劈腿，你会怎么办？ Encounter lovers split legs,What would you do?

　　有人会振作，也有人会沉沦，比如文中的这位女大学生，疯狂向别的男人报复。然而，最终伤害的却是自己。何不庆幸呢？幸亏及早发现，幸亏没有跟错人。

Someone will get,Also someone will drown,For example this paper of the female university students,Crazy to another man revenge.however,Final damage is yourself.Why don't you glad??Thanks to the early detection,Fortunately, not with the wrong person.

　　别人不爱你不是你的错,但你一定要爱自己。

Someone does not love you isn't you of wrong,But you must love yourself.

　　“甩了8个男的，我觉得我胜利了。”面容枯槁、表情有些呆滞的小薇吐出这句话后，情绪一瞬间爆发，趴在桌上“哇”地一声哭了起来。她喘着粗气说，这种“胜利”的喜悦源自骨子里，没法形容，但同时也让人异常难受。

"Dumped 8 male,I think I won."Face withered/Expression some fishy wei spit out this sentence after,Emotional moment broke out,Lie prone on the table"wow"Sound began to cry.Her gasping for breath said,this"victory"Joy derived from the skin,Can't describe,But at the same time, also let a person anomaly uncomfortable.

　　小薇原本是个活泼开朗的女孩，在大二上学期突然性情大变，开始以“富家女”形象交异性朋友。一旦确定男子爱上了她，就会立马变脸甩人。昨日，在与第八个男友说分手后，她走进了心理咨询所。

Wei originally was a lively and cheerful girl,In the big big change suddenly temperament last term,Began to"Rich girl"Image pay heterosexual friends.When you determine man fell in love with her,Immediately left people face.yesterday,And in the eighth boyfriend said after break up,She walked into the psychological consultation.

　　

恋爱了 In love

　　

男友是个大帅哥 Her boyfriend is a big handsome boy

　　小薇，1991年出生，正在我市一高校念大三，管理专业。虽然老家在四川农村，但看起来乖巧。刚读大一时，小薇有些腼腆，但成绩很好，选修课也听得十分认真。或许是某次上大课时，回答问题很精彩的缘故，半学期后，就有好几个男生关注她，向同学打听她的电话。其中有个男孩长得挺英俊的，戴个眼镜，看上去斯斯文文的。他就是何文鑫。

wei,Born in 1991,The university is a read junior,Management professional.Although their hometown in sichuan rural,But looks clever.Just read a big,Wei some shy,But the result is very good,Elective course also listen very carefully.Perhaps is a big class,Answer this question good sake,After the half of the semester,There is several boys pay attention to her,To the students about her phone.One of the boys grow quite handsome,Wear a glasses,Looks dangerous.He is HeWenXin.

　　何文鑫，1990年生，与小薇同一个系。他身高1米78，偏瘦，家在渝北区。知道小薇的手机号码以后，何文鑫几乎每天早上起床时，都要发一条问候短信；中午吃饭时，发条提醒短信；晚上睡觉前，再飞过来一爱心信息。很快，小薇被他的耐心和诚意打动，开始偶尔回回信息。

HeWenXin,Born in 1990,And wei the same system.His height 1 meter 78,Slants thin,Home in YuBeiOu.Know wei cell phone number later,HeWenXin almost every day when getting up in the morning,All want to send a greeting SMS;When having a meal at noon,Clockwork remind message;Before he goes to bed at night,To fly over a love information.soon,Wei was his patience and sincerity to impress,Began to occasionally and from information.

　　两个星期后，何文鑫提出请小薇吃饭，小薇答应了。就这样一来二去，两人从陌生人变成了好朋友。小薇发现何文鑫不但心思细腻，还很会关心人。下半学期气温偏低时，何文鑫特地带上电热水袋，陪小薇一起上自习。此外，在小薇过生时，还会在寝室楼下捧花等候。就这样，两人谈起了恋爱。

Two weeks later,HeWenXin puts forward please wei to eat,Wei promised.So in the long run,Two people from a stranger into a friend.Wei found HeWenXin not only idea is exquisite,Also very concerned about people.The second half semester when the temperature is low,HeWenXin specially take electric hot water bag,With wei together self-study.In addition,In wei after birth,Will be in the bedroom downstairs waiting bouquet.so,Two people talked about love.

　　

变心了 changed

　　

男友爱上小师妹 Her boyfriend fell in love with the little teacher younger sister

　　“他对我真的很好，东西太烫不让我吃，太冷也不让尝，升温、降温都要提醒，比天气预报还准时。”大一下学期，两人爱得如胶似漆，出入学校、自习室都是一对，让同学们羡慕不已。

"He told me is really good,Thing is too hot not let me eat,Too cold, and not let taste,warming/Cooling will remind,Than the weather forecast is on time."Next semester freshman,Two people love inseparable,In and out of school/Study room is a pair of,Let the classmates envy.

　　然而，这样的甜蜜只维持了一学期。大二开学不久，小薇就发现何文鑫短信变少了，话也少了很多。问他怎么回事，他只是冷冷地说：“学习任务重，不想说话。”

however,Such sweet only lasted for a semester.Big opening soon,Wei he found HeWenXin SMS is getting smaller,Words are much less.Q: what's wrong with him,He just said coldly:"Learning task,Do not want to speak."

　　可是，就在这不久之后的某个星期五下午，小薇路过足球场附近时，意外看到男友和另外一个女生在散步，而且表现得很亲昵，顿时傻眼。她赶紧拿出手机打过去，没想到男友拿出电话后挂掉了。

but,In this shortly after a Friday afternoon,Wei passing near the football field,Accident see her boyfriend and another girl walk in,And did very intimate,Immediately dumbfounded.She quickly take phone call back,Didn't expect her boyfriend after take out a telephone hang off.

　　小薇没有勇气上前痛骂男友，而是回到寝室大哭一场。当晚，她假装心平气和地问男友那段时间到哪里去了，不料对方表示自己在上自习。在她一再追问之后，何文鑫终于承认，他爱上别人了。那人是他们的小师妹，来自北方，刚上大一。小薇瞬间崩溃。

Wei didn't have the courage to bawl out her boyfriend,But to return to bedroom cry a.That night,She pretended to calmly asked her boyfriend that time to where go to,But the other said he in the self-study.In her again and again after the questions,HeWenXin finally admitted,He falls in love with someone else.The man is their little teacher younger sister,From the north,In just one.Wei instant collapse.

　　

人变了 People changed

　　

一心要报复别的男人 Another man determined to revenge

　　小薇了解到，男友爱上的小师妹叫吴婷，亭亭玉立，身高有170cm，唱歌还无限接近张惠妹，家庭条件也不一般。

Wei to know,Her boyfriend fell in love with the little teacher younger sister called WuTing,Slim and graceful,Height is 170 cm,Singing is infinite close to zhang huimei,Not the general family condition.

　　相比之后，小薇觉得自己没有竞争力，见男友死了心要劈腿，就没再挽留。

After compared,Wei feel are not competitive,See her boyfriend dead heart needs to be split legs,It didn't keep.

　　过了那个周末后，小薇好像突然明白了什么。她带着银行卡来到商业街，疯狂选衣服。那天她花1000多元钱买了三件衣服，都是以前不敢穿的，将银行卡刷了个精光，这才回到学校。回到寝室，她立马换上了新衣服，一骨碌又跑了出去。她要找个人多的地方，“不然会感到寂寞。”

Over the weekend after,Wei like suddenly understand??????.She took the bank card came to commercial street,Crazy choose clothes.That day she spent 1000 multivariate money bought three clothes,Are all didn't dare wear,The bank card brush a shirt,This just back to school.To return to bedroom,She quickly put on the new clothes,Skid and ran out.She wants to find personal many of the place,"Or you will feel lonely."

　　“我要另外找一个男朋友，再把他甩掉。”本来挺善良的小薇突然性情大变，她决定要报复。前男友已经追不回来了，她决定报复别人的男友。

"I'll need to find another a boyfriend,Then dumped him."Originally a kind wei suddenly temper big change,She decided to revenge.Former boyfriend has been chasing don't come back,She decided to retaliate others boyfriend.

　　

崩溃了 collapse

　　

接连抛弃8个男友 After eight boyfriend away

　　男友为什么要劈腿？小薇思索再三，总结的原因是：自己身材不够好，打扮不时尚，家庭条件也一般。于是，她努力改变形象，每天将自己打扮得花枝招展。为了让人误以为自己条件不错，故意穿一身名牌。

Her boyfriend why want to split legs?Wei thinking over and over again,The reason is summarized:His figure is not good enough,Not fashionable dress,Family conditions and general.so,She tried to change the image,Every day will be their doll up.In order to let people make the mistake of thinking oneself condition is good,Deliberately dressed in a famous brand.

　　“没钱买就向同学、亲戚借钱，有时候买网上的A货。”自那以后，小薇经常出入各种场所，自习室早已被遗忘。有时候，她还会故意去男生较多的其他高校转一转。很快，她发现自己的这一套很受用，不少男生会主动上前问她的电话号码。要在以前，她肯定不会轻易说。但现在，她恨不得把电话号码贴在自己背上，让所有人一目了然。

"Does not have the money to buy to students/Borrow from relatives,Sometimes buy online A cargo."Since then,Wei often access various places,Study room have been forgotten.sometimes,She also would deliberately to boys more other college take a turn.soon,She found his own this a very useful,Many boys will be active to ask her telephone number.To in the past,She must not easily said.But now,She can't wait to leave the telephone number posted on their back,Let all be clear at a glance.

　　“第一个男的是在电玩城认识的，当时他大四，不是我们学校的。”小薇很大方地接受了对方的邀请，与其一同打游戏。多次接触之后，男的给她买了一条手链，并表达了自己的爱意。小薇确信对方爱上自己后，立马就不再理会他。现在，她连对方的名字和模样都记不清了。

"The first man is in the video games city know,He was senior,Not our school."Wei great party to accept his invitation,Instead of playing games together.Many times after contact,Man bought her a bracelet,And expressed his love.Wei sure each other fall in love with them,Immediately will no longer pay attention to him.now,She even each other's name and shape are can't remember.

　　就这样，小薇不断地与不同男子交往，然后在对方爱上自己之后，再无情地将其抛弃，“还有一个是博士生。”起初，小薇觉得这样让她感到很快乐,但渐渐地，她越来越困惑，感到迷失了自己。很快，她的家人、同学也发现了异常，开始有意无意地问这问那。“我觉得自己有些扭曲了。”昨日，在跟第八个男友说分手之后，小薇几乎崩溃,在朋友的陪同下走进了心理咨询所。（文中人物系化名）

so,Wei constantly and different man contacts,And then in the other party after falls in love with oneself,Again the abandoned heartlessly,"And still another is doctoral student."At first,Wei think it make her feel very happy,But gradually,She is becoming more and more confused,Feel lost themselves.soon,Her family/Students also found that the anomaly,Intentionally or unintentionally began to ask this ask that."I feel some distorted."yesterday,In the eighth with boyfriend said after breaking up,Wei almost collapse,Accompanied by our friends, which came into the psychological consultation.(This paper figures system alias)