你可能不知道除了被称为光棍节的11月11日，还有一个小光棍节，时间就是明天11月1日。无论是“小光棍节”还是“光棍节”，总有一些男男女女会在这些特别的日子里动起表白的心思。

You may not know that in addition to known as single day of November 11th,There is a little single day,Time is tomorrow on November 1.whether"Small single day"or"Single day",There is always some men and women will be in these special day moving up the mind of the profession.

　　昨天，微博上一则《集美大学诚毅学院机械工程系爱情表白条例》传得沸沸扬扬。表白你可能见过很多种，但你听说过表白条例吗？

yesterday,Micro bo on a[Jimei university yi-door college department of mechanical engineering love profession regulations]The news.Vindicate you may have seen many,But you heard of profession regulations?

表白条例出炉 Vindicate regulations are

　　这则《集美大学诚毅学院机械工程系爱情表白条例》共有10条，条例里对表白形式、表白时间、表白过程等都进行了明确的说明。在表白形式上，条例第1条规定，严禁使用烟花爆竹等易燃易爆物品进行表白，以免造成消防隐患。若想给心仪的对象来场大型表白仪式，还得提前1周提交表白策划，经学校批准后才能实施。

This is[Jimei university yi-door college department of mechanical engineering love profession regulations]Article there are 10,The regulation of expression form/Profession time/Vindicate process etc were clear illustration.In the expression form,Regulations of the provisions of article 1,It is strictly prohibited to use such as fireworks and firecrackers inflammable and explosive objects in profession,So as to avoid the fire hidden danger.If want to give the right object to field large profession ceremony,Still have to advance 1 weeks profession plan,After the approval by the school to implement.

　　表白失败怎么办？该条例的第9条倡导学生表白失败后不得采取极端行为，珍惜自己和他人生命，还提供了1名心理老师的咨询电话，条例中称咨询完全免费。

Vindicate failure?The regulations in article 9 to encourage students to vindicate after failure may not take extreme behavior,Cherish your life and others,Also provides a psychology teacher's hotline,Regulations said in a completely free consultation.

　　条例总论称，学校对于表白门这样的文化并不反对，制定条例是为了防止同学们在活动中乐极生悲。记者发现，整个条例多处使用调侃用词，第十条甚至有“买卖不成仁义在，禁止霸王硬上弓”的内容。

Regulations topic says,Schools to vindicate the door this culture are not against,Formulate regulations is to prevent the classmates in activities in sorrow.Reporter discovery,The regulations in ridicule use words,Article 10 there is even"No business in righteousness,Prohibit the overlord is hard up the bow"content.

表白条例遭调侃 Vindicate ordinance was fun

　　该条例一出现在网络上，就引起热议，被转发近千次。对于条例中的细则，大部分读者表示如今的大学越来越以人为本。一些读者表示，表白不应出现极端行为，条例倡导大学生文明表白，有一定引导作用。

The regulations appeared on the Internet,Will cause of hot debate,Be forwarding nearly one thousand times.The rules for regulation,Most of the readers of university says that today more and more people-oriented.Some readers said,Profession should not appear extreme behavior,Regulations advocacy college students do civilization,Have a certain guiding role.

　　去年“光棍节”前，一名集大男生用999朵玫瑰向心仪的女同学表白在校内引起轰动，还引起了究竟是“浪漫还是浪费”的争议。表白条例中表示不建议铺张浪费，一些集大同学认为，去年出现了这样的情况的确应该预防。

Last year"Single day"before,A set of big boy in 999 rose to vindicate the right female classmate in the school make a splash,What caused the"Romantic or waste"dispute.Vindicate regulations that do not recommend extravagance and waste,Some students think big set,Last year happened indeed should prevent.

　　不过，在一些读者眼里，该条例更多的是一种调侃。一名读者表示，条例中还应加上“表白失败，切勿悲伤过度，向亲朋好友乱打电话”的规定，而对于“禁止霸王硬上弓”的规定，大部分读者都称被“亮瞎眼”。

but,In the eyes of some readers,This regulation is more of a ridicule.A reader said,The regulations should also be plus"Vindicate failure,Do not sad excessive,To relatives and friends disorderly make a phone call"regulations,for"Prohibit the overlord is hard up the bow"regulations,Most readers say be"Bright blind".

条例并非校方发布 Regulation is not released the school

　　有部分读者指出，该条例涉嫌抄袭，条例一开头就表明以《南开大学爱情表白条例》为蓝本制定。记者发现，两者颇为相似，《集美大学诚毅学院机械工程系爱情表白条例》只在一些细节上进行了修改。据了解，所谓的《南开大学爱情表白条例》并非学校出台的官方条例，只是在校园流传已久的1个“草根版”规定，至于出自何处校方并不清楚。

Some readers pointed out,This byelaw alleged plagiarism,Act one begin to show that[Nankai university love profession regulations]Formulated based on.Reporter discovery,Both rather similar,[Jimei university yi-door college department of mechanical engineering love profession regulations]Only in some detail change.It is understood,The so-called[Nankai university love profession regulations]Is not the school on the introduction of the official regulations,Just in the campus spread already a long time of 1"Grassroots edition"provisions,As for the school do not know from where.

　　记者发现，该条例最初由微博名“黄鸣0613”发布，据悉，该校并没有出台这个规定，可能是学生或老师在微博上开玩笑。

Reporter discovery,The ordinance by the micro bo name first"HuangMing 0613"release,It is reported,The school did not come this regulation,May is a student or teacher in micro blog kidding.

表白失败可找朋友倾诉 Vindicate failure can find friend pour out

　　近年来，因表白失败而引发的案件屡有发生，厦门美丽心灵心理咨询师戴仕梅认为，无论是男生还是女生在表白前都要对表白的结果有一个充分的估计，成功了固然好，但也要考虑到可能失败。“表白是自己的权利，但对方也有接受与否的权利，不能强迫。”戴仕梅说，一旦表白失败，可以找信任的朋友倾诉心情，或是写写文章表达被拒时的难过，一定不要将情绪郁积在心中，更不可做出过激行为。

In recent years,Because of the profession failure as a result of the case to sometimes occur,Xiamen, a beautiful mind psychological consultants DaiShiMei think,Whether it is a boy or a girl in the profession to vindicate results have a full estimation,Success is good,But also want to consider to may fail."Profession is their rights,But the other party has the right to accept or not,Can't force."DaiShiMei said,Once the profession failure,Can look for trust friend pour out the mood,Write articles or express rejected the sad when,Must not will be emotional stasis in the heart,Do not make more aggressive behavior.

　　“大学生从法律上来说已经成年，一定要对表白结果有一个预见性，提前做好各种准备。”戴仕梅说。

"College students from law for adult,Must to vindicate the results have a foresight,Ahead of all kinds of preparation."DaiShiMei said.

因表白引发的案件： Because of the profession cause case:

　　1.男子周某在表白被拒绝后，多次盗取女性内衣焚烧泄恨。2012年3月底，周某焚烧女性内衣时引发温州苍南县一民房着火，最终被刑事拘留。

1. Man zhou in the profession after the rejection,Many steal female underwear incineration of spite.By the end of March 2012,Burn some female underwear by wenzhou cangnan when a row house on fire,Was eventually criminal detention.

　　2. 2012年5月，嘉兴男子于某因追求被拒，将一些侮辱诽谤女方的话用蓝色水性笔写在黏性胶纸上，贴到女方工作地点附近，最终因诽谤被行政拘留。

2. May 2012,Jiaxing in a man for the pursuit of being rejected,Will some insulting slander her words with blue water pen to write in the sticky tape,Stick the woman working place nearby,The slander is administrative detention.

　　2. 2012年10月27日，在郑州市一所高中，一名男生因向女生表白失败砍伤对方耳朵，包括行凶者在内，共有4人受伤。(黑西晨报 记者 刘平)

2. On October 27, 2012,A high school in zhengzhou city,A boy to girl because vindicate failure cut hurt each other ears,, including the assailant,Has four people were injured.(Black west liu ping, morning paper reporter)