同住一小区，四户家庭“组团”接送孩子…… Dwell in one district,Four families"group"Shuttle children...

“中国式接送孩子”，触痛了谁的神经 "Chinese shuttle children",Who touched the nerve

　　手里捧着鸡蛋饼、巧克力之类的零食，三五一群拥在学校门口，等到“目标”出现，马上走上前去，零食往孩子手中一塞，书包从孩子背上一摘，说说笑笑走出校门……

Hand holding an egg cake/Such as chocolate snacks,The 351 group hug at the school gate,Wait until"target"appear,Immediately went up to,Snacks to children hand a plug,Bag from child back a pick,Have a pleasant talk together out of the school gate...

　　继“中国式过马路”之后，“中国式接送孩子”又成网络热门话题。

the"Chinese cross the road"after,"Chinese shuttle children"And into network hot topic.

　　每天下午，同样的接孩子场景都会在全国各地的小学门口上演。家长们开着二轮、三轮、四轮等各式交通工具，早早等在校门口，热闹程度堪比农贸市场。

Every afternoon,The same joint children scene will in all parts of the country at the door of the elementary school stage.Parents open two wheel/Three rounds/Four-wheel etc a variety of transport,Early at the school gate, etc,Busy degree could be compared to farmer's market.

　　昨天记者采访了几位家长，对于“中国式接送孩子”现象，不少家长感慨：不是不知道要锻炼孩子的独立性，但与锻炼独立性相比，孩子的安全更重要。

Yesterday, the reporter interviewed several parents,for"Chinese shuttle children"phenomenon,Many parents regrets:Don't know to train children's independence,But compared with exercise independence,The child's safety is more important.

故事 The story

为让女儿多睡会，专门换了越野车 In order to let the daughters sleep,Specialized in the sports cars

　　“现在孩子读初中，基本上不太操心接送的事情了。不过，之前为孩子上学的事情，一家人想了各种办法，最后还换了一辆车。”说起孩子的接送问题，赵先生很有感触。

"Now that the children are reading junior middle school,Basically don't too worry about transfers of things.but,For the children to go to school before things,The family want to all sorts of measures,Finally, in a car."Speaking of the child's transportation problem,Mr. Zhao is a feeling.

　　赵先生家住城西，孩子之前在市区一所民办小学读书。“每天早上送孩子上学都像打仗一样。”赵先生说，从家到学校，开车要一个小时。

Mr. Zhao live in west,Children in the city before a primary school of run by the local people."Every morning to send their children to school like war."Mr Zhao says,From home to school,It's about an hour.

　　最初，赵先生开的是一辆小轿车，老师要求早上7点50分到学校，最晚6点40分就要从家里出发。

first,Mr. Zhao is driving a car,The teacher asked the morning 7 o 'clock 50 assigned to the school,The late 40 points from six to leave home.

　　“我们提前起来烧好饭，收拾好，6点20分叫女儿起床，10分钟洗刷，10分钟吃早饭。”赵先生说，每天早上，女儿都是睡眼惺忪地吃饭，一路上蜷在车上不停打瞌睡。

"We advance up burning a good meal,packed,6 point 20 points that daughter got up,10 minutes wash,10 minutes to eat breakfast."Mr Zhao says,Every morning,Daughter is bleary-eyed to eat,All the way up in the car kept doze off.

　　后来赵先生看到朋友的越野车后想到了一个办法，“把车子后背放倒，不就变成一张床了嘛！这样接送的路上可以让女儿好好再睡一觉！”赵先生跟妻子商量后决定换车。

Later, Mr. Zhao see friends after sport utility vehicle thought of a way to help,"The car put back,Don't become a bed by the scenery!So the way of transportation can let daughter better sleep!"Mr. Zhao to consult with his wife decided to transfer.

　　“换了一辆越野车，我们在车上配了小被子、小枕头。”赵先生说，换车后，女儿每天上学路上在车上补一小时觉，放学后回家路上再补睡一小时，回家做作业时精神明显好多了。

"In exchange for an suv,We in the car with the small quilt/Small pillow."Mr Zhao says,After transfer,Daughter way to school every day for one hour sleep in the car,On the way home after school to fill one hour's sleep,Home do homework spirit obviously better.

　　“现在城市越来越大，车越来越多，人也越来越杂，不接送孩子根本不可能。”赵先生说，孩子小学期间，他一直是每天接送的，让孩子一个人出门，他怎么也不放心。

"Now the city is more and more big,Car more and more,People also more and more complex,Don't shuttle children impossible."Mr Zhao says,Elementary school children during,He has been pick-up every day,Let the child a person to go out,How did he also not be at ease.

住在同一小区，家长“组团”接送 Live in the same area,parents"group"shuttle

　　昨天下午3点半，长江实验小学门口，接孩子的家长们已经陆续赶到。离学校放学还有半小时，家长们聊起了天，话题都是围绕着孩子。

Yesterday afternoon at half past three,The Yangtze river at the door of the experimental primary school,After the child's parents have arrived in succession.From school is still half an hour,Parents are talking about the day,The topic is all around the children.

　　一会儿功夫，陆续有小朋友从学校走出来。

No time,In in succession from the school children come out.

　　记者随机数了20个小朋友，都是家长来接的，有的甚至是爷爷奶奶两个人来接。20个小朋友中，有16人刚出校门就被家长顺手接过了书包，只有4人是自己背着书包的。

Reporter random number 20 more children,Are parents to meet the,Some even grandma and grandpa is two people to meet.Children in 20,16 out of the school gate was parents without extra trouble took the bag,Only four man is his own carry the bag.

　　“我每天早上7点到8点半，下午3点到5点半都会到这里来执勤。”毛师傅是下城区下城交警三中队派驻杭州长江实验小学门口的协警，每天学校上学、放学时段，他都要来这里执勤。

"I every day at 7 a.m. until half past eight,3 PM until half past five will be here to duty."Hair teacher is lower XiaChengOu traffic police three squadron in hangzhou at the entrance of the gate of the Yangtze river experimental primary school of p,Every school/During school,He will come here to duty.

　　“这条路窄，两辆车就要堵牢了。”毛师傅边指挥交通边说，学校是民办的，孩子来自各个地方，最远的在萧山，家长没办法不接送。

"This road is narrow,The two cars will plug were fastened up."Hair teacher edge directing traffic edge said,The school is run by the local people,Children from different places,Farthest in xiaoshan,Parents can't not transfers.

　　不过，有的孩子住得近，就有几个家长联合起来“组团”接送，这样既方便了家长，又能缓解校门口的交通拥堵。

but,Some children live near,There are a few parents together"group"shuttle,So which is convenient for the parents,And can alleviate the school door traffic jams.

　　正说着，一位妈妈领着两个小孩往外走。“我们都住在环城东路，所以一起接了。”王女士说，其实他们这个“团”有四户人家，早上的时候，四户人家轮流来送，下午因为大家的行程不一样，所以分开了，“我们这两个都要去上辅导班，所以下午也是一起的。”

just,A mother led the two children go outside."We all live in the ring road,So took the together."Ms. Wang said,In fact they this"group"There are four families,In the morning,Four families take turns to send,Afternoon because everyone's stroke is not the same,So the separated,"We both want to go to class,So in the afternoon is together."

说法 statement

如何在接与不接间找到平衡点 How to make and do not accept the find a balance between

　　“现在岳家湾校区是4到6年级的孩子，基本上是家长来接的，自己回家的只有少部分。”缪洁是杭州大成实验学校五年级的老师，关于孩子的接送问题，她也很矛盾。

"Now YueGu bay campus is 4 to 6 grade children,Basically is the parents to meet,His home only a few."MiaoJie is hangzhou dacheng experimental school five grade teacher,About the child's transportation problem,She is also very contradiction.

　　缪洁说，锻炼孩子的独立性是好的，但现在的社会环境下，家长真的很难放手。

MiaoJie said,Exercise children's independence is good,But now the social environment,Parents really hard to let go.

　　“我们班上有两三个男孩子是自己回家的。”缪洁说，几个孩子都住在流水苑附近，早上家长送没什么问题，但下午学校4点20分放学，家长就抽不出时间来接了。

"In our class there are two or three boys is his own home."MiaoJie said,Several children live in the water near the garden,Morning parents send no problem,But afternoon school 4 PM school 20 points,Parents can't afford the time to meet the.

　　因为几个男孩住得比较近，缪洁每天都会反复叮嘱他们：一定要结伴回家，不要在路上逗留，不要乱吃路边的东西，过马路要小心等等。

Because some boys live closer,MiaoJie repeatedly told them every day:Must go home together,Don't stay on the road,Don't eat something on the side of the road,Be careful when crossing the road, etc.

　　杭州一所中学校长说，其实不要说小学，哪怕是在中学里，也有家长是每天来接送孩子的。据他统计，跟以前相比，这几年，初中家长来接送的越来越多了。

Hangzhou a middle school principal said,Actually don't say primary school,Even in high school,Also have parents every day is to shuttle the child's.According to his statistics,Than before,Over the past few years,Junior middle school parents to pick-up the more and more.

　　“家长们担心的主要有两点。”这位校长说，一方面是交通确实不安全，另外一方面就是社会上的不安全因素。

"Parents worry about mainly has two points."The headmaster said,On the one hand is traffic don't really safe,On the other hand is social unsafe factors.

　　“家长早晚要放手，但是，也不能一概说放手。”这位校长说，每个孩子的情况不一样，放学时要走的线路不同，孩子的性格不同，所以家长在处理的时候也要动脑子，要想办法在放手与不放之间找到平衡点。

"Parents sooner or later to let go,but,Also can't all said to let go."The headmaster said,Each child's situation is different,When school was over to go different lines,The child's character is different,So parents in the treatment of time also to use one's head,To be able to let go and find a balance between put.

　　这位校长建议，在接送孩子的时候，不要把这个过程看成纯粹的接送，家长可以在途中教孩子许多东西，可以利用接送过程中遇到的各种情况给孩子做“应急演习”。比如，过马路时看到不遵守交通规则的，可以跟孩子讲一下规则意识，比如在公交站，可以教孩子看站牌等。

The President suggested,In the pick-up a child,Don't take this process as a pure transfers,Parents can on the way to teach children a lot of things,Can use shuttle process in the various to children do"Emergency drill".For example,See when crossing the street don't obey traffic rules,Can tell the children about the consciousness of rules,For example in the bus station,Can teach children watch stop etc.

家庭教育中缺乏公民意识的培养 The family education, the lack of the cultivation of citizen consciousness

　　对于舆论将“中国式接孩子”的主要原因归结为应试教育、安全等问题上，中国21世纪教育研究院副院长熊丙奇认为，主因在于当前的家庭教育，缺乏公民教育意识，“父母没有意识到，孩子是未成年的社会公民，作为监护人，目的是把孩子培养为合格的社会公民。因此，不少父母把孩子作为自己的私有财产，决定孩子的一切；同时，只关注孩子的学业成绩，却不关心孩子独立意识、责任心的培养。”

For public opinion will"Chinese joint children"The main reason of the boil down to exam-oriented education/Security issues,China in the 21st century education institute, vice President of the XiongBingJi think,Is the main reason why the current family education,Lack of citizen education consciousness,"Parents didn't realize that,The child is underage citizens of the society,As a guardian,Objective is to cultivate children for qualified citizens of the society.therefore,Many parents send their children as their own private property,Decided to children's everything;At the same time,Only pay attention to children's academic achievement,But don't care about the child independent consciousness/The cultivation of the sense of responsibility."

　　比如面对沉重的书包，我国家长们的态度是：一边帮孩子背，一边抱怨现在书包太沉重，孩子们则无一例外地空着手。而在日本却很少有这种情况，父母不会帮孩子背书包，在孩子很吃力时，只是给孩子“加油”。这就是在对孩子进行责任心和吃苦精神的培养。

For example in the face of the heavy bag,Our country parents attitude is:Side to help the child back,Now while complaining about bag is too heavy,The children are no exception to air defense.And in Japan there is little this kind of situation,Parents won't help the child back schoolbag,When the child was very difficult,Just give the child"refueling".This is the children of sense of responsibility and the spirit of hard training.

　　“中国式接送孩子”，根本问题不在于应试教育，而在于知识教育之外，公民教育、生活教育等影响孩子人格、身心成长的教育，严重缺失。这导致教育缺乏人性，在这种环境中成长的学生，独立性、自信心、责任心、关爱心，都经不起考验。(记者 张丽红 吴煌/摄)

"Chinese shuttle children",The fundamental problem is not examination-oriented education,But in the knowledge education outside,Citizen education/Life education and influence the child personality/Physical and mental growth of education,Serious lack.This has led to the lack of humanity education,In this kind of environment where there are many students,independence/self-confidence/responsibility/Shut love,All can not stand test.(Reporter ZhangLiGong WuHuang/taken)