捡石头做玩偶、废旧物品制作服装、搜集树叶拼图 Picking up stones do dolls/Waste items make clothing/Collecting leaves puzzle

　　沈女士的儿子小辉和刘女士的女儿娜娜都在读小学一年级，两位妈妈聚在一起交流，很快产生“共鸣”：为给儿子打印小报，沈女士和先生三更半夜找遍了附近的打印店。刘女士则为帮女儿出一份读书小报，前后忙了3天。“如今，孩子的家庭作业怎么这么麻烦？”记者了解到，新学期开学以来，一些学校给低年级学生布置的“特殊”家庭作业，很大一部分需要家长参与、甚至 “代劳”。“这到底是在锻炼孩子，还是在折腾父母？”不少家长感到困惑。

Ms shen, the son of XiaoHui and liu's daughter nana is reading a grade primary school,Two mother together communication,Quickly develop"resonance":For son print tabloid,Shen ladies and gentlemen midnight searched nearby print shop.Liu is for my daughter out a reading tabloids,Busy for three days before and after."now,The child's homework how so trouble?"The reporter understands,Since the beginning of the new term,Some school to junior student layout"special"homework,A big part of need parents to participate in/even "depends"."What is in the train children,Or in the flounder parents?"Many parents feel confused.

　　因为要帮女儿做家庭作业，上周刘女士特意向老板请了假。“作业里有一项内容是制作读书小报。老师要求做一张A4纸大小的小报，内容包括一本书的读后感，要写出人物性格，版面要做得精致漂亮。”刘女士说，娜娜读的是《小红帽》，而她字都没识几个，哪懂得什么人物性格分析，这项任务自然落在了她身上。她先上网搜了别人写过的读后感，改了一下抄在小报上。“文字还好，可插图难倒我了，我多少年没画过画了。”刘女士只得上网搜索图片，最后选择了比较卡通的形象“依葫芦画瓢”。

Because want to help daughter do homework,Last week liu specially to the boss asked for leave."Work has a content is making reading tabloids.The teacher asked to do a piece of A4 size paper,Content includes the feeling after reading a book,To write the character,Layout should be done is delicate and beautiful."Liu said,Nana read is[Little red riding hood],And she didn't know a few words,Which know what character analysis,The task of natural fell upon her body.She first online search others wrote the feeling after reading,Changed the copy in the tabloids."Text also good,But illustrations beats me,I how many years do not have a picture to painting."Liu had to surf the Internet search pictures,Finally chose to compare the cartoon image"Follow suit".

　　请假帮孩子做作业，这在沈女士看来一点儿也不夸张。“十一”黄金周前，老师要求孩子节后交一张假期生活小报，“老师的本意是好的，让孩子们分享彼此的假期生活。可对家长来说，却是一种负担。”为了这张小报，沈女士每天督促儿子把当天的活动记下来，然后和孩子一起整理日记，讨论采用什么样的版式；还专门抽出时间带孩子上街买彩笔、彩纸。后来，沈女士了解到老师要求的是“打印版”，于是，再拉上孩子爸爸一起打字、排版，再到处找打印店，折腾了大半夜。

Ask for leave help my child to do my homework,This in shen women seem don't exaggerate."eleven"Before the golden week,The teacher asked the children into a festival holiday life tabloid,"The teacher's intentions were good,Let the children share each other's holiday life.It can be for parents,It is a kind of burden."In order to this piece of paper,Ms shen daily supervise the son of the day down activities,Then together with your child finish diary,Discuss what kind of format;Also specially take time with children the streets to buy pastels/paper.later,Ms shen to know the teacher asked is"Print edition",so,To draw the children with dad typing/layout,Then looked everywhere for print shop,About the big.

　　除了办一张小报，不少家长还帮孩子做过其他更“特殊”的作业：比如，到公园捡石头做玩偶、用废旧物品制作小服装、搜集树叶拼图等。家长们还建起QQ群，或叹苦经、或交流经验。肖先生说，他女儿的作业，不少都没法独立完成，他只能模仿着女儿的思维，一手“操刀”完成。有位林小姐吐苦水，她的上司因为没时间给孩子出小报，就把办报的任务交给她，“做一份小报，比上一天班累多了”。周女士则觉得，老师布置的一些作业实在有点超前，一年级孩子很难单独完成。更让她忧虑的是，孩子会不会养成对家长的依赖症，从而失去独立完成作业的能力？

In addition to do a piece of paper,A lot of parents is to help children doing other more"special"homework:For example,To pick up the stone park do dolls/Use waste items making small clothing/Collect leaves puzzles, etc.Parents also built QQ group,Or sigh the bitter/Or exchange experience.Mr. Shaw said,His daughter's homework,Many all can not independently,He can imitate the daughter's thinking,skill"fencing"complete.A miss Lin beefing,Her boss because no time to give the child a tabloid,Put the task of running to her,"Do a tabloid,More than one day more tired".Weeks women feel,Some of the teacher assigned homework is a little advance,A grade child is quite alone.More let she is concerned,The child will not form a parent's dependence,And lose the ability to work independently?

　　不少家长也感到困惑，“我们小时候，可从来没有这方面的作业。”“家长工作、家务都很忙，再加上帮孩子做作业，真是苦不堪言。”可抱怨归抱怨，在QQ群里，这些家长都很着急，着急着怎样才能把作业又好又快地完成。他们也都很无奈，要是不认真帮孩子完成作业，孩子到校后就会被“比”下去。

Many parents also feel puzzled,"When we were children we used to,But never have this aspect of work.""Parents work/Chores are very busy,Plus help my child to do my homework,'s a pain in the neck."Can complain to complain,In the QQ group in,These parents are worried,Try so hard to how to bring your homework quickly and well to complete.They are also very helpless,If not seriously help my child to finish the homework,After school the children will be"than"down.

　　“布置这些作业并非是为难家长，而是希望家长能‘享受’和孩子一起成长的过程。”长宁区实验小学一位班主任老师这样解释,比如做节日小报，既可以让小朋友对节日有更深刻的感受并能与同学相互分享，也能让家长更好地承担起教育孩子的责任，同时享受和孩子一起完成一项任务的过程。“关键是家长要转变心态，不要将此作为负担，或过于急功近利。”

"Decorate the homework is not difficult parents,But hope that parents can‘enjoy’Grow together with the child process."Changning district experimental primary school a teacher in charge teacher so explained,Such as do festival tabloid,Can let the kids to holiday has a more profound feelings and can with my classmates to share each other,Also can let parents better assume the responsibility of children education,At the same timeenjoy和孩子一起complete一项任务的过程."The key is the parents should change state of mind,Don't take this as a burden,Or too get rich quick."

　　教育专家同时指出，老师给低年级学生布置作业也应考虑学生的实际能力和家长的合理参与度。家长对于孩子的作业也要正确理解，在辅导孩子做作业时，不要“剥夺”了孩子动脑、动手的积极性，而是要与孩子一起学习、探索。 （记者 王海燕）

教育专家At the same time指出,The teacher gave a junior student homework should also consider student's practical ability, the parents and the reasonable participation.The parents for the child's work will correct understanding,In counseling children doing my homework,Don't"deprivation"The child's/Begin the enthusiasm of,But to study together with their children/exploration. (Reporter only)

　　(来源:解放日报)

(Sources: liberation daily)