大学生情侣在职场也要“比翼双飞” 甚至拒绝单独工作的机会 对此各方看法不一 College students' couples in the workplace will"Fly wing to wing" Even refused to work alone the chance to parties opinions differ

　　

该不该挑战职场“恋情”这条线 This shouldn't challenge the workplace"relationship"This line

　　“非诚勿扰”、“百里挑一”、“我们约会吧”等婚恋节目不断向大众映射现在找老公、讨老婆的不易，今年，这股“婚恋风”已刮进求职场，不少大学生在求职过程中都与情侣结伴而行，并为保持步履一致，追求能在同城、同一公司工作。

"If you are the one"/"Cream of the crop"/"Let our date"And marriage program continuously to the mapping is now looking for a husband/A wife is not easy,This year,the"Marriage wind"Already scraping into application field,Many college students in the job search process with the couple went along with,And to maintain consistent steps,The pursuit of can in the city/The same company.

　　同时，不少大学生也毅然放弃了大好的“单飞机会”，对此，社会各界看法不一，情侣们也有自己的一套说辞。

At the same time,Many college students also resolutely gave up the great"Solo career opportunity",this,The social from all walks of life opinions differ,The lovers have their own a set of rhetoric.

　　

案例 大学生情侣找工作要“比翼双飞” Case college students to find work to lovers"Fly wing to wing"

　　小刘和小杜在大学时代已是班里的模范情侣，模范不仅在于两个人学习成绩都不错，关键是两个人几乎每天形影不离，吃饭、上课、活动……堪比当年那幕“你是风儿我是沙，缠缠绵绵到天涯”。

Xiao liu and XiaoDu in college is class model couple,The model is not only two personal learning results are good,The key is two people almost every day was like peas and carrots,eat/class/activities……That compares the curtain"You are the wind I am sand,Smell to the".

　　大四转眼而来，两个人也轰轰烈烈了三年多，但是走到了人生的又一个转折点，校园中“毕业就分手”的现实可是拆散了不少“鸳鸯”。

Senior to turn,Two people also dynamic for three years,But came to life and a turning point,campus"Graduation will break up"Reality but break up a lot"Mandarin duck".

　　这两位已经决定要一起找工作，到同一家公司，共同努力，创造以后的美好生活，誓要将这股“风沙”刮进职场。

The two have decided to find work together,To the same company,Joint efforts,After the creation of a better life,Oath will the"sandstorm"Scraping into the workplace.

　　由于两个人学的都是经济类专业，在最初有共同找工作的想法时，两个人认为难度不会大，不受专业限制，肯定能找到同一家公司。

Since the two human is professional economic,In the first job of a common idea,Two people think difficulty not big,From professional limitation,Sure you can find the same company.

　　于是，在接下来的日子里，两个人一起制作简历，一起在网上找公司，投简历，一起来回奔波于各种招聘会，但一个月下来，“收成”却并不好。而在上个月，小杜收到了某证券公司的面试通知，但小刘却并未收到，当时小杜就决定不去参加面试，陪另一半继续寻找，小刘劝他，好不容易有机会，去试试吧，也好见识见识是怎么面试的。

so,In the following days,Two people together making resume,The Internet to find the company together,resume,Rides together in all kinds of recruitment,But a month down,"harvest"Is not good.And in the last month,XiaoDu received a securities company interview notification,But xiao liu has not received,At that time XiaoDu is decided not to go for an interview,With the other half continue to look for,Xiao liu advised him,Very not easy to have a chance,To try,Or knowledge knowledge is how to interview.

　　经过一番准备，面试后，结果相当理想，小杜成功被录取了。但得知消息后，他想也没想就拒绝了，理由很简单，为了和小刘在一起。

After some preparation,After the interview,The results are pretty ideal,XiaoDu success was admitted.But after the news,Unthinking, he refused,Reason is simple,In order to and xiao liu together.

　　这一举动让小刘愧疚又感动，同时也坚定了他们要一起找工作的决心。

The move let xiao liu guilty and moved,At the same time also strengthened they want to work together for the determination.

　　可谓是一波未平一波又起，没过两天，两个人就同时接到了南京一家公司的面试通知，这次两个人的精神头一下就起来了，誓要一举拿下这个公司。

It may be said is a wave surging after another,Not after two days,At the same time two people received a company in nanjing interview notification,The two men's spirits once up,Every oath to win this company.

　　最终结果依旧不如人意，小刘也坦然地拒绝了这个工作机会。“各欠一次，扯平了。”两个人依旧坚持要在一起。

The final result is still not satisfied,Xiao liu also have to refuse the job opportunities."Each owe a,even."Two people still insist on together.

　　至今，两个人也一直坚守这个信念，还在寻找工作的途中，同时，班里的不少情侣，得知他俩的想法后，都决定在找工作的路上试着找一起的。

So far,Two men have been hold this belief,Are still looking for the way to work,At the same time,A lot of couples in the class,They learned that idea after,All decision in looking for a job with try to find the way.

　　

讨论 discuss

　　尽管办公室恋情一直是职场上一条隐形的“红线”，但这对情侣仍对职场上“比翼双飞”的理想坚定不移，大众对此的看法也是褒贬不一。

Although office romances has been workplace a invisible"Red line",But the couple is still on the workplace"Fly wing to wing"The ideal firm,This public opinion is mixed.

　　

周围同学谁说面包是爱情的克星 Around the students who said bread is love destroy

　　小刘周围不少同学都赞成两个人的做法，他们认为，毕业后，两个人之间的变数本就比在学校的时候大，分开工作极有可能会拉大两个人之间的距离，而且能找到“对的人”是件不容易的事。

Xiao liu around a lot of students are in favor of the practice of two people,They think,After graduation,Between the two variables this than in the school big,Separate work most likely widening the distance between two people,And can find"The right person"It is not easy to do.

　　其中，小沈同学就代表了很多人的观点，他表示，“婚恋节目不也常演，现在多少人谈恋爱都要摆条件，要房、要车、要工作，我女朋友可是什么都没跟我要过。这样单纯的爱情毕业了上哪儿找？”

the,Hereby students represents a lot of people's point of view,He said,"Marriage programs are not often play,Now many people fall in love all want to set conditions,To room/Want a car/To work,My girlfriend but nothing and I want to live.This simple love graduate where to look?"

　　工作有很多，机会也会再有，但“老婆”可是只有一个，而且两个人感情好，一起工作反而能互相鼓励，以前不是有话说过，“男女搭配，干活不累”。

Work has a lot of,Opportunities will also have,but"The wife"But only one,And two people feeling good,Working together can instead encourage each other,Are there not to say before,"Collocation of men and women,Work not tired".

　　

家长们孩子的发展才是重点 Parents the child's development is the key

　　对于情侣结伴找工作的情况，记者采访了十多位孩子即将毕业的家长，其中近七成家长不反对这种情况，另一部分家长则认为，孩子还太小，如果因为谈恋爱而耽误找工作，误了前程的话，会进行阻止。

For couples together looking for work situation,The reporter interviewed more than ten children to graduate from parents,Nearly seventy percent of parents are not against this kind of situation,The other part is that parents,The child is too young,If fall in love because of the delay to find a job,Miss the future words,Will stop.

　　孩子即将毕业于南京大学的葛妈妈对此情况并没有明确表示反对，但她认为，孩子们因为谈恋爱而放弃工作机会确实太草率了，毕竟现在工作不好找，“我们这代多少人不都是不在一个地方工作，家庭、生活也都好好的。”

Children will be graduated from nanjing university ge mother circumstances and no clear opposition,But she thinks,The children because fall in love and give up work opportunity really are too hasty,After all now work not seek,"This generation how many of them are not not in a place to work,family/Life is good."

　　同样，孩子已经毕业一年的佟爸爸也认为，在两个孩子一起找工作的情况下，应该重点考虑未来的发展。

The same,Children have graduated a year of tong dad also think,In the two children to look for jobs,Should consider the development of the future.

　　在家长看来，他们未来的生活还充满着变数，会遇到各种不同的人，也会有更多的选择，不必过早下定论。

In parents' it seems,Their future life is full of variables,Will encounter all sorts of different people,Will also have more choices,Should not prematurely conclusions.

　　

公司最好避免办公室恋情 The company had better avoid office romances

　　某投资公司的周经理对此现象不予认同，他表示，在公司最好避免办公室恋情。在同一公司工作的情侣可能在工作中配合默契高，并可以相互勉励，但时间长了就会有许多弊端，比如一方表现特别出色，另一方略逊，得到不同的任务分配或领导看待时，则会引起许多不必要的矛盾。

A investment company ZhouJingLi not Shared in this phenomenon,He said,In the company had better avoid office romances.In the same company of lovers may work in tacit cooperation high,And can encourage each other,But a long time will have many disadvantages,Such as a party played particularly well,Another strategy amazonian,Get a different task allocation or leadership in view,It will cause a lot of unnecessary conflict.

　　“办公室恋情”这种事已经是许多职场人眼中一条隐形的“红线”了，能不碰，最好不碰。

"Office romances"This is a lot of work in the human eye the invisible"Red line"the,Can not touch,It is best not to touch.

　　

职场专家成熟地看待爱情和工作 Workplace experts mature at love and work

　　英才网联就业指导老师郭瑞表示，目前，随着高校逐年扩招，就业压力成为所有大学生公认的痛处。不要盲目地追求可以和伴侣在同一个公司或同一城市工作，从而放弃大好的就业机会。

Elite WangLian employment guidance teacher GuoRui said,At present,With the enrollment year by year,The employment pressure become recognized all college students home.Don't blindly pursue can and partner in the same company or the same city work,Thus give up big good employment opportunity.

　　其实，情侣间距离越近，工作效率越低，同时也会因为两个人的喜怒哀乐而影响到工作的顺利进行，所以有很多大企业都在员工手册中明确地说明，严禁内部员工之间谈恋爱，这也是有一定道理的，毕竟就业机会只留给那些做好一切准备的职场人。

In fact,The closer the distance between the lovers,Work efficiency is lower,At the same time also can because two people's laughter, anger, sorrow and happiness and affect the work smoothly,So there are many large enterprises are in the employee handbook clearly explain,It is strictly prohibited to internal staff relationships,This is also a reason,After all, employment opportunity only for those who get everything ready workplace people.

　　对于捆绑式面试的应届生，更应该认真思考以后的职业发展，不要因为一时的儿女私情而丢失宝贵的锻炼机会，更不要抱着双方都能留在一个公司的心态去求职，其实远距离的爱恋也并非坏事，从另一方面来说也可以增进双方的感情。

Combined the interview for fresh birth,More should be carefully think about future career development,Don't because the children lost to be overruled by the precious opportunity to exercise,More don't embrace both sides can stay in a company's attitude to job,In fact long distance love is not bad,On the other hand can also improve the feelings.