如果问2012年最热的流行词，那一定是央视记者调查时的提问“你幸福吗？”小孩子里眼中的幸福又是什么？近日，晨报记者模拟央视式调查问卷，对中华路小学、八铺街小学、钟家村小学、十里铺小学、花桥小学的500名二年级和五年级学生进行了调查，根据学生填写的调查问卷表，三成学生坦言自己不幸福，排名前三的理由是：培优班上到“麻木”、每天玩耍时间不足两小时、父母常常不在自己身边……

If you ask 2012 years the hottest pop word,It must be CCTV reporter survey questions"You happiness??"The children in what is happiness?recently,The morning paper reporter simulation CCTV type questionnaire,Primary school of austral/Eight of the bakers' street primary school/Clock home village elementary school/Li spread elementary school/Flower bridge primary school 500 grade two and grade five students to carry on the investigation,According to the student to fill in this questionnaire survey,Thirty percent of the students said they don't happiness,The top three reason is:The pew class to"numbness"/Every play time less than two hours/Parents often is not in their own side……

　　调查

survey

　　学生心中的“幸福”定义很简单：有很多玩具、交到很多好朋友、得到老师的表扬、考试拿到100分、外出旅行……

Students in the heart"happiness"Definition is very simple:There are many toys/Make a lot of good friends/Get the teacher's praise/Test with 100 points/traveling……

　　“我觉得自己既幸福，又有点不幸福，我好纠结啊。”五年级的涵涵说，每次考试拿到高分都会有“奖励”，要什么东西妈妈都会买；小提琴拉得很棒，经常得到别人的表扬；从三年级开始就是班长，在老师、同学眼中自己是“小模范”……“这些让我感到很幸福，但维持这些荣耀又让我觉得好累，我必须时刻提醒自己，要做到最好。”

"I feel is happiness,And a little unhappy,I good ravel ah."Fifth grade han han said,Every time the exam will have get a high mark"reward",To what mom will buy;Plays the violin very well,Often get other people's praise;From the third grade begins to monitor is,In the teacher/In the eyes of his classmates is"Small model"……"These let me feel very happy,But maintaining these glory and made me feel very tired,I must always remind ourselves,To be the best."

　　从500张幸福问卷的分析结果来看，大部分学生是幸福的，快乐是生活中的主题。但也有142名学生表示并不幸福，其中26名是二年级学生，占两成；升至高年级，随着思想的成熟及学业压力的增大，越来越多的学生感到不幸福。

From 500 zhang happiness questionnaire analysis to see,The majority of students are happy,Happiness is the life of theme.But there are 142 students said is not happy,Which 26 are sophomores,Twenty percent;To senior,With the maturity of the thought and the increase of the pressure of study,More and more students don't feel happy.

　　而不幸福的主要原因，六成孩子表示：因为培优、上各种辅导班，占据了大量玩的时间，每天玩的时间不足两小时；即便不培优，也不知道要玩什么，因为父母没有时间陪伴自己。

And the main reasons for not being happy,Sixty percent said children:Because the pew/All kinds of remedial class,Occupy a lot of playing time,Every time spent playing less than two hours;Even if not the pew,Also don't know to play??????,Because their parents have no time to accompany him.

　　分析

analysis

　　“到了五年级还有什么幸福可言！”10岁的诗诗说，每天都被培优占得满满的，玩耍时间通通被“剥夺”。“早上6点就得起床上学，在学校呆到下午6点，放学后还不能直接回家，得到培优班老师那里写一个半小时的作业。”诗诗坦言，最难熬的是双休日，每周六上午7点半~9点半补习语文，10点半~12点半补习奥数，下午1点半~4点半补习英语；每周日上午8点半~12点练习书法，下午1点半~4点半学习围棋，晚上6点~8点补习奥数，双休被排得满满当当，根本没时间休息和玩耍。

"By the end of fifth grade, what is happiness!"10 years old poems poems said,Every day the pew accounted for full,Play time is all"deprivation"."Six o 'clock in the morning has to get up to go to school,Stay in school until 6 PM,After school is not straight home,Get the pew class teacher there to write one and a half hours of homework."Poem poetry said,The most difficult is double cease day,Every Saturday morning 7:30 to 9:30 supplementary language,Half past ten ~ 12:30 with mathematical olympiad,Afternoon at ~ with English;On every Sunday morning at half past eight to 12 point practice calligraphy,Afternoon at ~ learning the game of go,6 ~ 8 point with mathematical olympiad,Double cease be row full to the brim,No time to relax and play.

　　每天玩耍时间少于2小时

Every play time less than 2 hours

　　“我根本就没有时间玩，每天只能玩半个小时。”8岁的俊俊说，从上幼儿园起，每个周末妈妈都会带自己去学英语。俊俊的妈妈是一名护士，平时工作很忙，但对俊俊的学习从不马虎。二年级的第一次考试，俊俊语文考了95分，数学89分，在班上排名18，这立即引起了妈妈的重视。她特地买了2本数学辅导书、1本语文辅导书，做完家庭作业后，还要额外做她布置的作业。“我很想妈妈能和我玩，陪我下象棋，可她总是说要我好好学习，争取下次考进前10名，再下次考进前3名。”

"I won't have time to play,Everyday can play half an hour."Eight-year-old CSL jun said,Go to the kindergarten up,Every weekend mother will bring yourself to learn English.Pretty pretty mother is a nurse,Work at ordinary times very busy,But the good good study never careless.Second grade first examination,Pretty pretty Chinese took an examination of 95 minutes,Mathematics 89 points,In the class ranking 18,This immediately aroused the attention of the mother.She bought two this mathematical coach book/1 this Chinese coach book,After finish homework,Will additional do her decorate her homework."I really want to mother can play with me,Accompany me to play chess,But she always said to me to study hard,For the next exam in the top 10,Then the next pass into the top three."

　　玩本是孩子的天性，孩子感到不幸福，多半是由于玩的时间被削减。从142名学生的“不幸福”问卷中，83名学生表示玩耍时间少于两小时。俊俊说，“成绩有进步，才能奖励玩半小时的电脑，感觉每天都没时间玩耍。”

Play this is the nature of the child,Children don't feel happy,Mostly because of playing time has been cut.From 142, students"Not happy"questionnaire,83 students said play time less than two hours.CSL jun said,"Result to have the progress,To reward to play half an hour's computer,Feeling every day don't have time to play."

　　父母陪伴时间太少

Parents with too little time

　　“爸爸每天都回来得特别晚，很少有时间陪我玩。”八铺街小学五年级的晓杰说，爸爸在一家摄影楼上班，平时都要忙到深夜才能回家。

"Dad come back late every day special,There is little time to play with me."Eight of the bakers' street primary school grade five of XiaoJie said,Dad in a photography building work,Usually all had to busy late into the night to go home.

　　在142份“不幸福”的调查问卷中，96个孩子选择“父母偶尔陪自己玩几个小时”这一项占七成，“希望父母多陪陪自己”既是每天泡在培优班里孩子的心声，也是“流动花朵”们内心的呼唤。

In 142 a"Not happy"In the questionnaire,96 children choose"With his parents occasionally play a few hours"This a seventy percent,"Hope to spend more time with their parents"Is every bubble in the pew class the child's voice,Is also"Flow flowers"The inner call.

　　观点

view

　　华中师范大学教科院教授范先佐认为，随着年级的增高，学业压力增大，学生的幸福感指数降低，调查结果显示有三成学生感到“不幸福”，符合现今教育的实际情况，这也反映出我国的教育没有完全摆脱应试教育的局面。家长应多与孩子沟通，了解孩子内心的想法，不要一味向他们施加学习压力，培优也要把握“适度”原则，留更多的时间给孩子自主支配。

Central China normal university to teach science college professor FanXianZuo think,Along with the higher grade,Academic pressure increase,Students' well-being index reduce,The results of the survey showed that thirty percent students feel"Not happy",Conform to the actual situation of present education,This also reflects China's education not completely get rid of exam-oriented education situation.Parents should much communication with your children,Children know your thoughts,Don't blindly applied to their study pressure,The pew also want to grasp"moderate"principle,Leave more time for children controlled independently.

　　“幸福是一种源自内心的满足，孩子们的生活没有目标，缺乏自我要求，感到孤独才会依赖外界的陪伴。”十里铺小学三年级语文老师秦瑶说，爱读书的孩子内心也会充实得多，班上有一个孩子，父母都在装修市场工作，但每周末都抽空去送她上舞蹈班和绘画班，在她看来这也是一种幸福，父母“送”她去，这个行为就让她感到很满足。 "Happiness is a from inward satisfaction,The children's living without an aim,Lack of self requirements,Feel loneliness will depend on external company."Li spread the primary school is grade three Chinese teacher QinYao said,Love reading children heart also will enrich much,The class have a child,All the parents in decorating a marketing work,But every weekend on time to send her area for and painting class,In her opinion this is also a kind of happiness,parents"send"She went to,This behavior let her feel very satisfied.
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