12月13日上午，40岁的“儿子”王庆在电话中告诉记者，“什么养育之恩？都是小市民思想！想要钱！你也转告他们(父母)，我和他们今后没有任何关系，以后不要再和我胡搅蛮缠！”

On December 13 morning,At the age of 40"son"WangQing on the phone told reporters,"What brought up?Are urban petty bourgeois ideas!Want money!You also tell them(parents),I don't have any relationship with them in the future,Later don't again and I importune!"

满足：一辈子养了5个孩子，3个上了大学 meet:Lifetime have five children,Three on the university

　　王宣大爷今年已72岁了，是平煤集团的离休工人。他和老伴李素兰从1958年来到这里生活。老两口这辈子最满足的事，莫过于养了5个孩子，3个都考上了大学。二儿子王庆，是家中第一个考上大学的孩子，并且在那个年代，一口气读到了硕士研究生，家人甭提多自豪了。

WangXuan big ye this year already 72 years old,Is leveling group workers retire.He and his wife LiSuLan from 1958 came to life here.The old couple in this life the most satisfy things,To have five children,Three are admitted to the university.The second son WangQing,Home is the first college kids,And in that age,Read the master graduate student,The deal will be more family proud.

　　李素兰回忆起那段往事说，那会儿生活困难，她没有工作，就在矿上干临时工，什么做水泥、做砖，再苦再累的活都干过，就为孩子们能好好学习！高兴的是，孩子都很争气。1982年，19岁的王庆考上了天津大学，家里头一回出了大学生，家人高兴啊，还专门为这事请了客。开学时，父亲为孩子准备好学费和生活用品，亲自背着行李，把他送到天津。1986年，当听到他考上研究生的消息后，他父亲高兴地说，只要好好上，哪怕上到博士，家里就是砸锅卖铁也支持他上学！

LiSuLan recall that the past said,That moment life difficult,She didn't work,In field dry temporary workers,What do cement/Do brick,Again painstakingly again tired of live are done,For children can study well!Happy is,Children are very try to make a good showing.In 1982,,At the age of 19 WangQing admitted to the tianjin university,Home for the first time out of the college students,Family happy,Also designed for this matter please the guest.begins,Father children ready for tuition fees and living goods,Personally carry baggage,Sent him to tianjin.In 1986,,When heard he admitted to graduate student's news,His father said happily,As long as a good on,Even up to doctor,Home is to surrender one's last resource also support him to go to school!

失望：二儿子两年多不看望病中老父 disappointed:The second son more than two years don't see disease father

　　王宣老人年纪大了，病也多了。因为糖尿病引起的脑血栓、高血压、冠心病需要时常住院，有4年多了。

WangXuan old man in old age,Disease also much.Because diabetes cause cerebral thrombosis/hypertension/Coronary heart disease (CHD) needs to be constantly in hospital,Four years.

　　“后来两年多的时间，王庆都没有回来看过住院的父亲。”李素兰老人说，“有一次，我打电话给他，说你再忙也有礼拜天吧，抽空回来看看你父亲行不行？”可还是没有看到儿子的身影。2003年1月31日，快过年了，王庆才回到父母家。

"Later, more than two years of time,WangQing do not return seen the father of the hospital."LiSuLan the old man said,"once,I call him,Say you again busy also have it on Sunday,Time back to see your father all right?"But did not see the figure of the son.On January 31, 2003,Fast the New Year,Marder vj returned to their parents home.

　　他的大哥拿给记者看一张借条，说当时问他，“为什么不回来看父母？”王庆回答说他不管，以后家里的钱，他也不要。

His eldest brother to reporters see a I owe you,Said when asked him,"Why don't you come back to see their parents?"WangQing replied that he no matter,After the money at home,He also don't.

　　一听他说这话，老大感觉太不近人情，就让他把原来借自己的钱还了。王庆补了个借条，生气地站起来就走了，再没有回来看过父母。

A listen to he said,The boss feel too unkindness,Let him put the original borrow their money back.WangQing fill a I owe you,Angry to stand up and went away,There is no back seen parents.

　　老人告诉记者，一家人现在连王庆的住址、手机、住宅电话都不知道。就知道买房借钱时说过是在一个小区的五楼。当问他为啥买恁高的楼层父母怎么上时，儿子回答买的楼层低的话老的都跟着他咋办。问他要电话号，他也不说，说是怕家人打扰他。虽然一个城市里住着，可比见一个陌生人还难。

The old man told reporters,The family now even the WangQing address/Mobile phone/Home phone all don't know.Will know that buy a house to borrow money is said in a district of the fifth floor.When asked why he buy our high floor parents on how,The son replied buy low floor if old followed him change.Ask him to telephone,He also don't say,Say fear of family disturb him.Although a lived in the city,Comparable to see a stranger is difficult.

心酸：二儿子指着鼻子让“滚” Feel sad:The second son by nose let"roll"

　　今年的8月18日、19日，让李素兰老人一家最痛心。

This year's August 18,/19,Let LiSuLan old man a most harrowing.

　　李素兰说，看着王庆总不回来，老伴又准备到郑州看病，缺钱了，想着看他能不能凑点，可又不知道他家住哪里，联系电话也没有一个。

LiSuLan said,Look at WangQing will not come back,His wife and going to see a doctor of zhengzhou,Are short of money,Thinking about if he can gather together point,But don't know where he lives,Contact phone number also have no a.

　　8月18日，她和小女儿王娟无奈去王庆单位找，在门卫那里才查到了他的办公室电话和手机号。门卫给他打电话，谁知他不出来，打手机，关机。没有办法，她们央求门卫给领导打电话，叫他出来。“谁知他出来指着我的鼻子说，你们不要胡搅蛮缠，你给我滚！”

August 18,,She and her little daughter wang Juan helpless to find WangQing unit,In the guard there to check into his office telephone and mobile phone number.Janny give him a call,But he does not come out,Cell phone,shutdown.There is no way,They begged the leadership to make a phone call,Call him out."Who knows him out by my nose said,You don't importune,You roll to me!"

　　王娟给记者拿出了几张照片，说当时看见他骂母亲，还要伸手推母亲走，她上去拦在前面，气得骂了他，他一巴掌打过来，把她眼镜打在地上，左眼乌青，脸上也青一块紫一块的。说着说着，她的泪就掉了下来。

Wang Juan to reporters took out a few photos,Said had seen him scold mother,Will stretch out his hand push the mother went,She went up in front of elam,Gas to scold him,Call him a slap in the face,Her glasses to play on the ground,Black eye,Face is the black and blue.spoke,Her tears fell down.

　　第二天，王庆夫妇来到父母住处，在胡同里当着许多邻居的面，指责父母小时候亏待他，让他6年穿一件棉袄，还总是让穿他哥的旧衣服。

The next day,WangQing couple dwelling at my parents,In the alley in the presence of many neighbor's surface,Blame parents maltreat he when I was a child,Let him six years to wear a quilted jacket,Also always let wear his brother's old clothes.

　　为缓和关系，父母找人调解，遭到了儿子的拒绝。看到儿子这样，无奈的父母只好诉诸法律，想要回儿子原来买房炒股时借走的钱，好去看病。

To alleviate the relationship,Parents get someone to mediation,By the son's refused.See this son,But the parents had to resort to law,Want to buy a house when the son back to the original fry borrowed money,Good to go to a doctor.

丢人：邻居评价儿子所为 a:Neighbors evaluation for son

　　12月13日中午，记者在采访中，几位老邻居指着胡同里的一块地方说：就在这儿，那家老二和他妻子那天哭着喊着点着他们父母的脸，说穿旧衣服亏待他们了，当时把他父亲气得直哆嗦。

At noon on December 13,,Reporter in the interview,Several old neighbor hutongs by a piece of place:Right here,The second day, and his wife, crying cried out, lit their parents face,Reveal old clothes maltreat them,When his father gas shaking.

　　“丢人，真丢人！”年近八十的田老太提起这事就气愤，“当时我就气得在一旁拍手叫"好！好！读那么多年书咋啦，尊老爱幼的美德学哪去了？挣那么多钱，搭了！"丢人哪！”她说，那个年代，谁家的孩子不是穿旧衣服过来的，父母辛辛苦苦养育几个孩子成人，上了大学，已经够不容易了。“他难道不想想，人都会老啊。”

"a,It's a shame!"Nearly eighty years old field bring this thing is angry,"At that time, I was I would be angry at a side that clap your hands"good!good!Read so many years book zha la,The virtue of the elderly and care for the young to learn which go to?Earn so much money,Take the!"A disgrace which!"She said,That s,Whose child is not wear old clothes come over,Our parents have worked so hard to raise a few children adult,Went to college,Is not easy."He don't want to,People will old ah."

　　“不通情达理，哪儿兴这呀，指着老的脸骂。也不想想，上那么多年学，家里难道没有出力。”

"Not reasonable,Where xing this ah,Pointing to the old face scold.Also don't want to want to,So many years on learning,Home is not the output."

　　“上了20多年学，还不剩不上哩！”邻居们议论纷纷。

"In the 20 years to learn,Don't left the miles!"The neighbors comment in succession.

心寒：儿子说出绝情话 chilling:Son say words to contact them

　　12月13日上午，记者来到王庆的工作单位。在大门口，门卫拨通了他的电话。当记者说明来意时，他以工作时间不能会客为由拒绝了当面采访。

On December 13 morning,The reporter comes to WangQing work unit.At the gate,Janny dialed his number.When the reporter that when the queen,In his working time can't refuse to receive a visitor the personal interview.

　　电话中，王庆对记者说，“没有什么好谈的，法院自有公断。他们不就是想着我调到合资公司，想着我的钱吗？”

phone,WangQing told reporters,"Without what good talk,The court has arbitration.They do not just think of I tuned in to the joint venture company,Thinking of my money?"

　　记者问他，“难道一点亲情都没有了吗？父母这么多年的养育之恩，”话还没说完，他立即打断了记者，说“什么亲情？什么养育之恩？都是小市民思想，想要钱。”

The reporter asked him,"Don't a little family all have no?Parents support for so many years,"Words haven't say that finish,He immediately interrupted reporter,said"What affection?What brought up?Are urban petty bourgeois ideas,Want money."

　　“既然你们来了，我告诉你们，任何调解我都不会接受，法庭上见。这场官司我相信我一定能赢。你也转告他们，我和他们今后没有任何关系，他们以后不要再和我胡搅蛮缠，我有事也绝不会找他们去。”

"Since you came,I tell you,I wouldn't accept any mediation,See you in court.This case I believe that I can win.You also tell them,I don't have any relationship with them in the future,They don't and I importune,I have also never find them to."

　　12月13日中午，当记者把王庆的话告诉他的父母时，李素兰老人伤心地说，“恐怕到死也再难看到他来了。”

At noon on December 13,,When a reporter WangQing to tell his parents,LiSuLan old man said sadly,"I'm afraid to die again hard to see him come."

　　王宣老人歪在靠椅里，手里扶着拐杖，低着头，不时地有些抽泣。

WangXuan old man in the cocked rely on chair,Hand to hold the crutches,Low head,Every now and then some SOB.

律师：血缘关系断不了，赡养老人义不容辞 lawyer:Blood relationship can't break,Supporting the old obligatory

　　10月8日，两位老人向卫东区法院起诉，要求王庆归还借款29000元，法院立案。后因被告住址问题，该案被转至新华区法院，具体开庭日期未定。

October 8,The two old people to WeiDongOu court,WangQing repay the loan for 29000 yuan,The court put on record.Because of the defendant after address problems,The case is transferred to XinHuaOu court,The date of the hearing pending.

　　河南元瑞律师事务所刘艳军律师认为，不管父母怎么想怎么做都是自己的父母，血缘关系谁也无法割断。父母养育孩子是无条件的，子女赡养老人也是无条件的。赡养老人是不可推卸的责任和义务，孝敬老人也是基本的社会道义，我们每一个人都不能以任何理由推脱。东方今报 (来源：中国经济网)

Henan yuan red LiuYanJun law firm lawyers think,No matter what do parents want to do is their parents,Blood relationship who also can't cut off.Parents raising children is unconditional,Children supporting the old is unconditional.Supporting the old is an unshirkable responsibility and obligation,Honor your father and your old man is also the basic social and moral,Each one of us can't for any reason to push to take off.Oriental today newspaper (source:China JingJiWang)