骑车不小心撞到别人的车，车主不在，你是选择逃避还是面对？江苏扬州大学附中17岁的学生徐砺寒近日无意间剐坏了一辆宝马车的后视镜，他没有溜走，而是选择在原地等待车主。因为赶着上课，只好留下“联系纸条”准备赔偿。这件事被网友发到微博上，引来无数人转发并赞扬，大家都表示，“诚信学生”的行为温暖人心。

Cycling bumps into someone else's car,Owner is not,You are the choice of escape or face?Jiangsu yangzhou university affiliated 17 year old student xu ahead of cold recently inadvertently cut out a BMW the rearview mirror,He didn't slip away,But the choice in situ wait for owner.Because drive the class,Had to leave"Contact note"Are prepared to meet your claim for.It is net friend to micro blog,Draws countless people forward and praise,Everyone said,"Honest students"Behavior warm the heart.

事情还原 Things reduction

剐蹭私家车 Cut ceng private cars

等候车主留言致歉 Wait for owner message apology

　　11月2日，徐砺寒骑着自行车途经瘦西湖新天地路段时，不小心剐蹭了路旁停着的一辆宝马车的后视镜，“当时我完全懵了！”徐砺寒坦言，尽管如此，他仍然选择等待车主，“当时根本没考虑是宝马车，自己赔不起，只是想我撞坏了别人的东西，就必须要承担责任。”徐砺寒说，“我想当面向车主道歉。”

On November 2,,Xu ahead of cold ride bicycle through new when lake road,Accidentally cut over the roadside parked a car BMW rearview mirror,"I was completely into a cocked hat!"Xu ahead of cold said,Even so,He still choose wait for owner,"At that time didn't consider is BMW,Himself can't afford to lose,Just think I crashed other people's things,You must bear the responsibility."Xu said ahead of cold,"I want to be the owner to apologize."

　　在原地等了20分钟,车主还没出现。眼看快到上课的时间了，徐砺寒只好到附近的书报亭借了一支笔，在纸条上写下：“尊敬的车主：我是扬大附中的一名学生，在今天中午的放学途中不小心弄坏了您的车。主要是一划痕及左后视镜，我无法及时赔偿，对不起!”随后还留下了联系电话。“就在我写完纸条后，车主过来了，我和他说明情况后，他笑着向我挥挥手不要我赔偿，让我赶紧去上学。”徐砺寒说，那一刻，他才终于如释重负。

In situ, etc for 20 minutes,The owner has not appeared yet.See it's nearly time for class,Xu ahead of cold have to to nearby news-stand borrowed a pen,Write down in note:"Respected owners:I am in a big lift with students,In the afternoon on school accidentally broke your car.Main is a scratch and left rear view mirror,I can't timely compensation,I'm sorry!"Then also left contact phone number."When I finished after the note,Owners come over,After he and I explained the situation,With a smile, he waved his hand to me don't I compensation,Let me go to school."Xu said ahead of cold,At that moment,He finally relieved.

讲求诚信 Stress integrity

“自己做错了事 "He had done wrong

就应该负责” Should be responsible for"

　　根据留下纸条的学生所提供的信息，经过一番辗转找寻后，扬大附中党委办公室的程老师告诉记者，“留言的孩子是高一(2)班的副班长徐砺寒。”因为撞了私家车后等待车主，徐砺寒在下午第一节化学课迟到了。

According to leave note the information provided by the students,After a toss after looking for,Yang the affiliated party committee office of the path the teacher told reporters,"Message child is higher(2)Vice-monitor xu ahead of cold."Because hit after private cars waiting for the owner,Xu ahead of cold in the afternoon the first quarter was late for chemistry class.

　　4日傍晚，记者见到了这位“诚信中学生”徐砺寒。今年17岁的他高高瘦瘦的，戴着一副眼镜，看起来很斯文。面对记者，他显得有点羞涩，“这没有什么，本来就是我应该做的事情，自己做错了事，就应该负责。”

4 in the evening,Reporters saw the"Integrity middle school students"Xu ahead of cold.This year at the age of 17 he is tall and thin,Wearing a pair of glasses,Look very gentle.In the face of the reporter,He was a little shy,"This is,It is I should do,He had done wrong,Should be responsible for."

车主感动 Owners moved

孩子的品质 The quality of the children

比修车费更可贵 More valuable than repair fee

　　记者也辗转找到了被撞宝马车的车主凌先生。“发生在身边的这件小事，让我着实感动了好久。”凌先生说，当时，他正跟几个朋友吃饭，得知自己的车被撞后第一反应有点生气，出来后“看到那个孩子这么诚实地站在那里等我，我真的感到了震惊，随后就是深深的感动。”他不知道说什么好，就拍了拍孩子的肩，催他赶紧去上学。

Reporters also toss found the bump BMW owner Mr Ling."Happen around this little thing,Let me really moved for a long time."Said Mr Ling,At that time,He is with a few friends to dinner,That his car was hit the first reaction after a little angry,After coming out"To see the child so honestly stood there waiting for me,I really feel shocked,Then is deeply touched."He didn't know what to say,Is patted the child's shoulder,Push him to go to school.

　　随后，凌先生在网上发帖称：“孩子，谢谢你，你让我们这些被尘俗污染太久的大人的心灵被好好清洁了一回，让我获得了久违的感动。”凌先生认为，徐砺寒的举动应该得到弘扬。

then,Mr Ling on the net post said:"children,Thank you,You let us these mundanity pollution too long adult heart is a good clean once,Let me get the long-lost touched."Approach gentleman think,Xu ahead of cold behaviour should be developed.

　　对于车辆的损伤，车主表示并不在意：“我不再追究这个孩子的责任，他的品质比修理的费用更加可贵。”近日，扬州一家进口汽车修理厂表示，将为车主免费维修车辆。

For the vehicle's injury,The owner said does not care about:"I no longer pursue the child's responsibility,His quality than the cost of repair is more."recently,Yangzhou an import car repair shop said,For car owners will be free maintenance vehicle.

专家评说 Experts should

小纸条 Small pieces of

体现文明程度 Reflect the degree of civilization

　　扬州大学马克思主义学院的吴林斌副教授听说此事后，十分感慨。他表示，徐砺寒的诚信意识和责任感让人敬佩，也让他十分感动。而车主的大度也让他由衷地感慨。

Yangzhou university institute of marxism WuLinBin associate professor after heard about it,Very regrets.He said,Xu ahead of the integrity of the consciousness and the sense of responsibility let a person admire,Also let him very touched.And the owner's magnanimous also let his heartfelt feeling.

　　吴林斌说，徐砺寒能在撞车后苦等车主并留下纸条，是一种高度的责任感和诚信意识的体现，相信他在平时一定受到了来自学校、家庭、社会的正面影响。而他的这种诚信意识，也将影响他身边的人。

WuLinBin said,Xu ahead of cold can be in after a bitter owners and leave note,Is a high sense of responsibility and integrity awareness reflect,Believe in his usual must be received from the school/family/Social positive influence.And his this kind of good faith consciousness,Will also affect the people around him.

　　而那位车主的大度，更让吴林斌看到了人与人之间的谅解。车被蹭了，车主生气无可厚非，让孩子赔偿也在情理之中。但车主并没有这样做。在看见纸条后，这位“性情中人”不要求赔偿的做法也值得人们尊敬。

And the owner of the magnanimous,More let WuLinBin saw the understanding between people.Ceng the car was,The owner angry understandable,Let the child compensation are also in the reason.But the owner has not done so.In saw after the note,the"Temperament middleman"Don't claim compensation approach is worth people respect.

　　“一张小小的纸条化解了怨气，体现了一个城市的文明。”吴林斌说，一个城市如果有这样越来越多的诚信事和诚信人，文明程度就一定会提高，人与人之间也会更加和谐。J070

"A small note dissolved the complaint,Reflected a civilization of a city."WuLinBin said,A city if there is more and more integrity and honesty person,The degree of civilization will improve,Will be a more harmonious between people.J070

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