前段时间，武汉理工大学学海心理咨询室老师雷五明在微博上“吐槽”——“今晚又该我值班了，希望不要像上周那样来那么多人。今年，2012，好像来访的人特多。”

Some time ago,Wuhan university of science and technology studies the counseling teachers ray five Ming in micro blog"Vomit tank"--"Tonight again this I watch the,Hope don't like that last week to so many people.This year,2012,As the visitor manufacturer."

大学生们都找雷五明聊些什么？ The students all find ray five Ming talk about?

　　每年都在课堂上“教学生谈恋爱”的麻辣老师雷五明介绍，在前来咨询的学生中，有两成为情所困，与往年相比，今年前来咨询的纯感情的诉求增多，同时，男生感情受挫的比例逐渐增加。

Every year in the classroom"Teach students fall in love"The spicy teacher ray five Ming is introduced,In the students to come to consult,There are two be empathetic,Compared with previous years,This year to come to consult the pure emotional appeal more,At the same time,The boy feeling frustrated proportional increase gradually.

　　雷五明介绍，十年前，因感情困扰前来咨询的学生中，男女比例为1:3，现在则是1:1，“男生比女生更容易受伤”。

Thunder Ming introduces five,Ten years ago,Because of the feelings of the students in trouble to come to consult,The male to female ratio is 1:3,Now is 1:1,"Boys than girls more vulnerable to injury".

　　大四男生小徐来自农村，大三时，同系的一个师妹对他表示好感，于是两人恋爱了。两个月后，师妹突然以不合适为理由要求分手，这让小徐想不通，他找到心理咨询师，倾诉道：明明是她主动追的我，当我要对其负责时，她却提出分手。

Senior boys small xu from the countryside,Big three,With the system of a teacher younger sister told him he is good,Hence two people in love.After two months,Teacher younger sister suddenly to inappropriate for grounds for break up,It makes little xu think impassability,He found a counselor,Pouring way:Clearly is on her own initiative after me,When I want to its charge,She had put a break up.

　　雷五明说，虽然大部分年轻人的性观念里还有传统的保守色彩，但与十年前比已经有了巨大变化，一改过去女生硬性要求男生负责，如今男女平等，反而让想负责的男生不适应了。

Ray five testified,Although most young people's sexual idea and the traditional conservative colour,But ten years ago and is already there have been great changes,Change the past girl rigid requirements is responsible for the boy,Now the equality between men and women,Instead let wants to be in charge of boys don't adapt to the.

　　华中师范大学心理咨询室老师孙启武介绍，在情感咨询的学生中，大部分的诉求是“如何挽回爱情”。“我们只能从心理学角度，帮助梳理他在感情中的心理和行为，只能起到心理疏导作用。但大部分学生过来，是让我们帮忙追回女生。对此，我们无能为力。”

Central China normal university counseling teachers SunQiWu is introduced,In the emotions of the students in consultation,Most of the appeal is"How to restore love"."We can only from the psychology Angle,Help carding his feelings in the psychological and behavior,Can only play a psychological counseling effect.But most of the students come over,Let's help recover the girl.this,There is nothing that we can do."